Ruby Joyce Bender nee Kaplan, 93, beloved wife of the late Harvey; survived by her children, John Bender and Helen Rubenstein (Marc), grandchildren Courtney Chan (Michael), Thomas Bender, Alex Bender, Amy Rubenstein, Stacy Raviv (Joseph), Joshua Rubenstein (Brittany), Jamie Gliksberg, and 11 great grandchildren. Services are private.
