I just found out tonight that Nancy was my biological Aunt. She was my dad's sister. I would love to visit with one of her daughters. Please reach out to me through my email or Facebook. I guess we are cousins?

I'm so sorry for your loss, She looks like an amazing woman.

Sincerely,
Cheryl Jarboe

Nancy was a great woman and will always live in our hearts.Thank you for sharing with us your pain a hug to you.

Oh I’m so so sorry! We will be keeping you both in our prayers as we know your hearts are broken.
Kathy

@Cathy and Dale, you remain on our minds and in our hearts.  Remember to take time to breathe.  #Family

I’m so very sorry.  There’s been so much loss.  I hope she crossed over without pain and in peace.  My heart breaks for you.  
Justin

I'm so sorry, Cathy. When my dad died at the beginning of 2004, my mind was dominated by the then-recent memories of his illness and decline. If that is what you are feeling now, I want to promise you that those memories that are now in the forefront of your mind...all the bad stuff associated with your mom's struggle and her cognitive (and physical) decline...those memories will fade quickly away. And you'll be left with only the best and happiest in their wake.  Love you.

I saw the message from you. It won’t change Nancy is my American grandma and she’ll be in my heart forever. We are all welcome to have you guys.

The one thing I’m really sad is I can’t go there and say goodbye. Please say goodbye for us with a lot of love.

Nancy is a wonderful woman.  She is the happiest person because she has such a great family.  
I worry about Mike.  They were always together and they will be together forever.

I love her so much...
I can’t to fly to see Nancy because of COVID-19.
But my thoughts are with her.
She made me happy every time.  She is always in my heart.


Cathy & Dale, So sorry to hear of Cathy’s mom’s passing.  That is an incredible loss for your family.  We have no magic healing words.  Just know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

John, Robin, Sophia & Lulu

Michael & Family, I will miss Nancy so much at book club! She was such an interesting, kind and joyful person! I remember fondly also, helping in her classroom the year she taught my daughter, Erin, 2nd grade at St. Joe. She had the Japanese exchange student then, Namisan - a wonderful experience for the kids!

You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Mike,
So sorry to hear about Nancy. She was such a sweet person the few times that I did get to be around her. I understand how things are with cancer.  May you and your family be blessed during your time of grief.

Mike & family
George & I want to express our deepest sympathy for the loss of Nancy.  She will be truly missed by her family & friends.  We are thankful for her to be a great mother-in-law to our son
Arleta Green

Mike
I heard about Nancy and I was in shock and in tears hearing about this very sad news. 
I remember back when I was still single, whenever I had the time off from work I used to visit Kansas and she took me to different places, and also went with me when I had my ears pierced. I also remember when Cathy and Dale came to  visit Osaka and after, Regan also came to visit us. We rode a ferry and went sight seeing. I could still remember and hear her laugh. She always made sure to use understandable English so I could understand what she was saying, and remembering her kindness makes me feel sad again. 
During these sad and hard times for everyone, our hearts are glad that she was with everyone before her departure to be with our heavenly Father. 
While we talk about our memories that we have with Nancy, there will be times when we shed our tears and smile when we remember all those good old days. 
It may be difficult during these days, but let us be strong for Nancy and for our loved ones around us. 
Our hearts are with you during these difficult times. 

It is with tears I read your post. I knew your mom and she was just as you shared. We lost a good one and for you and your family I pray that God's peace be with you and yours. Please express my sympathy to your dad.     Karen Fitzmier

I'm so sorry. I'm thinking of you in this difficult time. I remember your mom as someone with a lot of moxie!    Bev Crowe

Sincerest condolences to you and your family.  I only met your Mom a handful of times but she was always so kind and thoughtful.  💕. Vicki Vernon

Deb, thinking of you and Cathy at this time. There’s nothing like losing your mama. Nothing. Let me know what I can do.   Lynette Murphy

My heart is broken for you.  Such a heavy loss and such a great lady!   Prayers for peace and comfort!   Dianne (Ford) Durley 

Hugs to you, the girls and your family!! So thankful I was able to meet your mom. I know what a vital role she played in everyone’s lives she touched. She will be missed!  Lorie Becker

I am so sorry Deb. She was a great mom. She always made me feel welcomed when I would come over for sleepovers at your house when we were younger.    Susan Christmas 

Your mom was a wonderful person & a great friend!  Mary & I will miss her for the rest of our lives!    Dave Kirkbride 

Hi Deb, I'm sorry to hear about Nancy. I really enjoyed my time with her and Mike over the summer.  Alyssa Pappan

So sorry to hear about your mom. I have such awesome memories of her. Jodi Waldron

Hi Cathy,
 
I saw your mom’s obituary on Facebook this morning and the tears just kept coming.  I am so deeply sorry for your loss.  From the little time I spent with your mom at the Moms Demand Action events and lobby days, she was just such a genuine and caring person.  I loved her energy and I’m so sorry to hear of her passing.  Please let me know if there’s anything you need in the days and weeks ahead—I miss seeing your face but I know it’s been a hard year all around.  I hope we can catch up soon.  And in the meantime, please know that you and your family are in my thoughts.
 
Take care,
 
Katy
 

I’m so sad to hear this news. She was a fighter. My thoughts and prayers are with you Cathy, your Dad, and the rest of your family. The book club cared so much about Nancy and her avid interest in books. May she rest in peace.
 
Deana Fitzsimmons

The day I arrived at Wichita airport, Nancy welcomed me with a big sign that said “Nami” and a big smile on her face. From that moment, I felt safe and comfortable. In 1993, I was an intern from Japan to teach Japanese and Japanese culture at St. Joe elementary school, where she was also teaching. She was also my host mother, together with Mike, her husband, they welcomed me into their home and their hearts with open arms. They made my time abroad an experience I will carry with me forever. She was so kind and open-minded and a wonderful lady. She took me many places and I had so many new experiences that I would never be able to do in Japan. She was thoughtful, caring, loving and treated me like a family member. I still remember the Christmas time she gave me a stocking with my name on it. That meant so much to me. I will never forget those precious days we had together, and she will always in my heart. 

Nami Nakayama


It is with a heavy heart I post today. I lost my mom last night after a long and hard fought struggle with cancer. My mom was the best....not at making cup cakes or flashing a genuine smile for a camera.....those things she couldn’t do.....but at being a kind person and putting others first she was absolutely top notch. She wasn’t just my mom but my friend and, together with dad, she helped me raise my daughters and I will be forever grateful. Mom was truly a special person and I was a lucky girl to get to claim her as mine. When we were growing up I know she went without fancy clothes and expensive trips to give my sister and I everything we needed and much of what we wanted. She always put us first. And in keeping with the spirit of putting us first she passed away last night, the day before school conferences giving me a good reason to play hookey.....and for that I say ‘Well played Mom, well played’.

Dear Grandma,
Thank you for being the best Grandma anyone could ask for. Thank you for being my best friend. Thanks for always being there for me when I needed you. You always put everyone first. Even on days when I was in a bad mood, you always were by my side. Thanks for being the person who I could always call when I needed to hear a friendly voice. I’ll always remember our really good dinners we had, the days I stayed the night at your house and we woke up and had a really good breakfast, when we read books together, the vacation to Turks and Caicos. I will cherish all the memories we had forever. People admired you for everything you did. You were such an inspiring person. You inspired me in so many ways. I can’t wait to continue your legacy down here for the whole world to see. I’ll remember you forever. You will always be with me in my heart for as long as I live. I can’t believe this happened so soon. I’m gonna miss you more then anything. I’ll love you forever. I can’t wait to see you again one day. Rest easy up there! ❤️10/14/20❤️  Lanie

We will lit up a candle for you today,you was and are part of our family..we will have never ending memories of all the time spent togheter and the love you gave us.Chiara,Tina Emilia,Alessandro,Franco

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Nancy Sue Burks

May 21, 1943 – October 14, 2020

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