Name: Resthaven Mortuary & Gardens of Memory
Address: Wichita, KS

Mom,

I miss you so much. I'm sorry you had so much pain, and agony on this earth. I wish I could of helped you mom. I love you and think about you all the time. ♡

Mom I'm another year older 23 in about 15 minutes and I just want to say I love you and thank you for being the mother you were for me despite our worst downfalls we will rise together. I love you thank you for my life it's our birthday my other half Happy Birthday to us. Mom. 

I miss you so much mom! I will never forget you!♡

I love you and Miss you, 
Love Always Victory Zay and Mommy.

Jina had her baby yesterday. I have your anger, your attitude and your force I swear. I miss you so much. Noone will ever take the place of my Queen. Thank you for being a Queen Mom. Wish you were there to meet her but we love you. Always and forever.

Thank you for teaching me to always work hard Mom and accepting my flaws whenever it came falling down. I love you

❤ Happy Mothers Day Beautiful ❤

Momma we miss you so much and think about you more than you know! You will always be in our hearts! I love you mom ❤

Its coming up on the four year mark that you left us.. You are still missed and always will be . when I hear prince I smile knowing your near spring and summer are upon us and its your favorite time of year miss you always and forever...till we meet again

Tomorrow is Mothers Day. 
The Lord says ask for help and it shall be received' Your Guest Book was closed and I posted on face book asking for donations and one of my friends reopened it. 
Me and Jina are now Mothers this mothers day and although you aren't here to meet our angels ' we will teach our children everything we learned from you. 
I salute you mom you always did your best to raise us as a single parent. You had your arguments with everyone but at the end of it all we all love and miss you. 

I can't wait to see you again. 
You were my real friend ~

Your Baby Girl

You are ALWAYS in our hearts and prayers.  You have soooooooooo many people that love and miss you, Debra.  ALWAYS know how much you are loved and missed.

The one year mark has came and gone Jess, Mike, and I came to see you i hope you like your flowers. Miss and love you so very much.. you are on my mind constantly and in my heart always..

I was just thinking about you Aunt Debbie and wanted to tell you I love and miss you.

It has been a year since you have been gone. I miss you so much. I went to the Riverfestival fireworks last night and the grand finale song was "Let's Go Crazy" by Prince. I just couldn't believe it. We waited all those years for them to play a Prince song at the fireworks, and they finally did after you were gone. It was just so heartbreaking for me. It made me hurt inside so much. I love you sis and miss you more than you will ever know. I ask myself if maybe the reason they finally played the song was because you were there to make it happen. I would like to believe so. I know you were there with me in my heart and you will be forever. I love you.

Visited with you on Mothers Day....Miss you terribly....you constantly on my mind!! Love you girl!  I will keep visiting till I see you again my love!!

Debbie i miss you so much its getting closer and closer to being a year yet it seems like yesterday i just saw and talked with you i really wish you was here! I think of you all day everyday every minute of the day. I love you Debbie so very much!!

Well i went and seen you a couple days ago.., and i really cant explain how much we all miss you and love you, and i cant wait for that day we can hug and kiss again.
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I miss you more and more every day its hard not to miss you when your oldest daughter Jina Olds is my best friend she is alot like you i didnt notice it until you went away. I miss all the laughs and things we three had together its memories like those that i will cherish for a life time. I love you and think of you always. Cant wait to see you again one day to have many more laughs love you very much debbie :)

Happy Birthday Debbie   u no me i got to be fashionable late for ur party ill see u there when i get there. CHEERS and no TEARS    love you!

MOMMY, 
I miss you so much and I can't begin to explain how hard it is on me every day to look at myself in the mirror and see YOU! I know your very proud of me for starting college and I know your with me, helping me stay strong. I will make it Mom and I will make you very proud! I love you so much and can't wait to see,hug,kiss and talk to you again. ~ I LOVE YOU MOTHER ~

Debbie, i love and miss you so much it still seems like a bad dream that you really are gone from us here on earth hope you had a wonderful birthday..

Still n our hearts each n everyday. We luv n miss you.

Debbie...I love you...took flowers to your grave and sure hope you enjoy them...reminded me of butterfies!  Just like you...I sure hope you visit me with butterflies this spring/summer time.  I need the beautiful memories back!!!

Deb, I cried myself to sleep last night thinking of you. It took me 2 days to figure out why you were so strong in my thoughts, and then it was like a lightbulb- it was your birthday! No wonder you came to me, oh how I wish I could give you a big hug and tell you how much I LOVE YOU <3 Keep shining your love down on us babe

Hi Debra...........Just wanted you to know we were all thinking about you on your birthday.  You will NEVER be forgotten, we love and miss you so much.  It is getting really hard on your family, please help us find a way to comfort them.  I miss you terribly.

Love Always,

Carol

hey Deb you and Homie must be talkin to the big guy and sending us this nice weather thanks and hope y'all are doing great there

Hello Debbie,you awakened me in my sleep again.  Thats funny because  when your awake no one else can sleep uh?   lol  Just want to tell  you i miss you and I love you   I miss your laugh of happiness.  Ever tear i drop from my eyes............... Sorry I miss you and always will love you Deb

Debbie, I love and miss you so much.. you being gone seems so unreal i miss your laugh, your smile, your jokes  I even miss trying to help you find your shoes when you would kick them off some where... When the sun is shining i feel your love and smiles from above... I love you!

I miss you sis! Today and everyday! I miss your smile and your laugh. I miss hearing your voice on the phone. Most of all, I miss your hugs and kisses. You were so beautiful and touched so many lives. Everyone misses you so much and feels so empty without you in their life. Especially your children and your family. I light the candles you gave me every night, just like you said. I remember you and the memories evertime I light them. I will never forget. I love you sis, forever and always.

Mom todays just another day im missing you , i swear it never ends . I miss your laugh , your smile imissYOU . iwish u could cum back i'd do anything . i talk to you everyday ijust hope you can hear me .

Debbie I just stopped in to say hello. How r u? So hows the BBQ up there? Been listening to some nickelback songs. You were the first person I thought of. Cold beer and fishing in the great blue sky of Paradice? I miss u!!! I will always. Do me a favor, send me one of those charming laughs that u do. I love you.

Debra was such a beautiful soul and had the prettiest smile! God bless you and your family.

Debbie the candle has not burned out, it never will miss you

Debbie, been thinking alot about your smile and laugh.. Life just isn't the same without you ... I love and miss you so very much.

Hey Beautiful...just want you to know I am thinking of you.  Love you

Deb, even though I didnt see you much, when I did you were always the same person and always had a beautiful smile. I hope in the days, months and years ahead your family and friends will always remember this about you. I know I will. You will be missed. Rest in peace.

Hey there Deb, I just want you to know I am thinking about you.  Love ya Sis

I sure do miss you Debra! I see someone who resembles you and i wanna run up and hug you and say HI, and then i remember it can't be you. so i go to my computer and pull up your pictures, wish i had more of them. there will never be another you sweetheart! Love you so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope you have all the love you ever needed surrounding you now like holy water....until we meet again my friend

Sure am missing you Deb. I hear your voice in my head and your laugh.  I think about that beautiful smile and remember all the good times.  I have to admit I have been a little blue without you around to give me a hard time.  Love you so much can't wait to see you again and give you a big 'ol bear hug.  Love ya

Deb, Just another one of those rough days without you, I miss you so much. Going to the lake and hanging out, is so empty without you. I know you loved summer so much. Missing your smile. I love and miss you and always will!!

Debbie, it's so hard to not have your contagious laughter around any more or your bright happy smile. I never thought you would be gone from us.. I love you and always will i can hardly wait to see and hug you again...

MOTHER With you gone i have been so lost within myself. I was so close to you , we were always doing something. Its hard for me to accept the fact that i lost you but i know its just for a short time. Ive always loved you & always will no matter what. I hope & pray you found that happiness you have always wanted because you deserve it Mom. Im trying my best to be happy but sometimes its just so hard. I miss you imensly & i cant wait to hug you and talk to you again. 
YOUR DAUGHTER JINA

I love & miss you so much. I drive by your house often, park my car & cry. You were always able to make me laugh when I was broken hearted. I will see you again someday~Angie

Even as the years have slipped by since we last seen each other, I am sorry to see you go. It seems you have made quite an impression in this life. May God keep you well and watch over your family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you!

Debra, allthough you are gone from our sight and touch, you will live on forever in the memories of those who knew you and loved you so much. I am sending prayers for you and for your family, especially the children. Love You always & forever

Debra was so friendly...she never looked down at no one...she was there for those she loved to the fullest...she will truly be missed...my prayers go out to her family.

I miss you so much, my Sister. Hurts me so bad inside. I love you with all my heart! Your Brother, James Lee

R.I.P. Mom i love you & miss you Dearly . i appriciate being included in everyones thoughts and prayers .

 - Debbie Was A Good Person . And Was A Beautiful Lady . May The Lord Above Us Be With You Now & Your Family . You Will Be Missed And Loved In Our Hearts . May You Rest In Peace .

Dear Debra, 
I always had so much fun hanging out with you and your kids, you were always so nice to me! I'll miss you so much! RIP Debra.

To Debra's family and friends I send my heartfelt condolences.  I did not know her well, but had worked at the REC for years with her, and the one thing that always stood out was that great big beautiful smile of hers. You'll forever miss her, but I pray that in time you'll be able to find peace and that you will know how blessed you are to have had her in your lives.  God bless you all and rest in peace sweet Debra.

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends in this time of deep sorrow. We love you, Deb, and will not forget you.

I love you sister. I always have and I always will. I miss you everyday and wish you were here. Everytime I see the kids I think of you. I see so much of you in them. Especially Treyton, he has you eyes. When I look in his eyes I see you. I hug him and the girls and know I am holding a part of you. I thank God everyday for that. I love you forever.

I did not now Deb well but she always had a smile as she passed by and she seemed to light up the room she was in. My thoughts go out to all her family and friends.

Angie,James,Jina, Kimmie, and Treyton our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. Debbie, we hope that you have found the peace that eluded you here on earth. We will never forget all the fun times together. Jodi,Mark, Riannon Moss

Deb was such a beautiful, fun person to work with.  She had a wonderful infectious laugh and that is what I will always remember about her.  It was a privilege getting to know her and I will remember her always.  Rest in Peace, Deb.

Debbie - I just have to tell you...everywhere I go, everything I look at, everything I think of and talk about...I am remembering all the good times with you.  Some make me laugh and some make me cry, but one thing I know is that you always had this way about you to cheer others up.  Your precious kids will be looked after by many!  Still feel like this is a dream and I am going to wake up and everything will be Again.  I love you forever and always!!

I worked with Deb many years ago at Boeing (now Spirit). I was shocked to see the obituary, she was always so happy and smiling, joking around. It was my pleasure to have made friends with her back then. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of her family and friends at this time of sorrow. RIP Deb!

I will always remerber your smile


I love you aunt Deb

Dear, Aunt Deb i will always look at the sky knowing you are looking down on all of us.And every time it rains i know your crying. Are every time the sun shines I know your smiling. You are with God now so there are know worry's Aunt Deb.                                           I LOVE YOU AND ALWAYS WILL LOVE YOU I HOPE YOU ARE HAPPY LOVE ALWAYS ASHLI

Deb,
I will miss you and your smile. You are the one always smiling and so upbeat and happy all the time. There are so many many Happy and Fun Memories that will never be forgotten.
I know that when the sun is shining Mrs. Deb is smiling down upon us all.
I am praying for you and your family everyday. Rest in peace Debbie. Love you always.

I love you Deb's :) & im gonna miss you sooooo much ...... Fly in the heaven's with god & his heavenly angel's. You will always be in our mind's & heart's now till forever <3 <3 Love you & will miss you <3 <3

Deb, you dear angel will be missed by so many who loved you.  If only you knew how much you were adored.  I will miss you.  You are a rose in the garden of eternity.  The post office and the world will not be the same without you.   Deb Hayes (Wichita, KS)

Debbie Debbie Debbie  quit making me laugh.  You were so fun to be with. We had a lot of fun thru the years together. We've been good friends a long time.There you go again making me laugh. I will miss you very much! You were my sunshine on a rainy day and you will never begotten.    My heart goes out to the family and friends. Love you Debbie (then, now, and forever)

Debbie - You will and always will be one of the best friends I have ever had.  Your memories will live on and you will never be forgotten.  I love you more than words can explain.  I am praying for you, your family and your friends.  May peace be with you Love!

Debbie, You are such a beautiful loving person! You will be missed by so many! I pray that the lord gives your family strength and peace to know you are home and at peace with are good lord above! Love and miss you!!!

To Deb's loved ones ~ You're in my prayers & on my mind.

Came across the obit and couldn't believe what I was reading. Can't believe the world lost such a good, sweet person. Its been years since we worked at the post office together but I will never forget the fun times we had and what a good person you were. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family in hopes they find comfort.

Cuz, I'm going to miss you.  I'm going to miss being called cuz by my cuz.  Be at peace cousin Debbie.  My prayers for you and your family.

Deb will always be loved, missed, but NEVER forgotten.  She was a beautiful person inside and out.  Regardless of what she was going through, she was always pleasant to be around.  LOVE AND MISS HER DEARLY.

I loved u more than u will ever no we had alot of great times i will miss your laugh and the blessed times we had living next door together each other We had our fights but never let it come between each others friendship. I LOVE U SO SO MUCH!!!

one in a million could not come close to how specail you are to me i will always remember the fun we had and damn it was a lot. I love you and i will see you on the other side. Dennis Saindon

Deb was the life of the party, and will be greatly missed by all who had the pleasure of having her in our lives rest in peace God bless.

I hope you find the peace you could never find in life.  I will miss you terriblly for the rest of my life!  My heart goes out to your family, I know my grief is only a drop in the ocean compared to what they feel.  I love you so very much!

Deb was a dear friend to me, as well as many people. I hope you are now at peace, I love you and will miss you! My thoughts are with the 3 children I also dearly love.

To my Sister Deb, This world will never be the same with out you! love always

Deb was an amazing woman, her laugh and smile were so contagious, she will be forever missed. My heart and prayers go out to her family.

To know her was to love her madly. To see her smile and the mischief glittering in her eyes like diamonds in whiskey was magic and the sound of her raucous laughter was sunlight to the souls of all who heard it. She was a beautiful, enigmatic spirit who brought immeasurable joy to my life and it was   a great privilege to know her and laugh with her and love her. My heart goes out to her beautiful children and loved ones, her memory will shine on until we are reunited with her in the light of eternity.

My heart goes out to the family and I send my condolences! Theres been hard times n good times and through it all I still love her & the family!

You were always like an Aunt to me and I never considered you to be less then my Aunt. I love you very much and will miss you a lot. You'll always be beautiful inside and out.

To Deb's family and friends, I am so sorry for your loss. Deb had such a presence about her! Just a gorgeous, fun lady to be around. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all, and I hope you can find some peace.

Words can not replace what is felt in the heart.  My condolenses to the children, sibblings and her dad, Robert.  Wanda Gison Gudd

I've you and your family in my prayers, "Aunt" Deb. May you find peace now.

I pray you all have comfort knowing she is with The Lord and you will be with her again, all in due time:)

I will miss you so much!!  I love you very much!!! love Brenda hendrickson

Our sweet, darling Debra.  Oh, I miss you terribly.  I will always treasure and cherish the times we had together.  God Bless All of Your Family and Friends.

Debbie is a mother, a sister, a daughter and a friend to many will truley be missed by all. We will remember  the times we shared w/ her. Her spirit carries on through her children as they carry on in life! Through the Ups & Downs and through the Thick & Thins she was a loving person and we will continue to love her! May the Lord be with you & your family through this very sad time!

I will never forget all the great talks we had & time we spent together just hangin' out. You have been one the best friend's I ever could have hoped to have! With all my heart I Love You! Prayer's for you now & Forever!

u will b missed truely ! love an prayers go out 2 the family . In my heart an memories forever

Debbie was a wonderful fun loving friend she will be missed and loved by me and my family forever and always.. praying for you all...

OBITUARY

Debra R. Blundell

January 12, 1973 – June 8, 2011

Resthaven Mortuary & Gardens of Memory

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