Elaine is survived by her devoted husband Gerald; her children David and his wife Ilyse and Melanie and her husband Christopher; her grandchildren Emily, Hannah, Tyler and Julia. She is predeceased by her mother Helen Marr and father John Marr. Elaine was born on October 24, 1946, in Brooklyn, NY. She received her bachelor’s degree from Queens College and Master of Social Work from New York University. Elaine met the love of her life, Jerry, at a softball game in Queens, NY in 1966. They married on July 14, 1968, beginning what would be 55 years of a shared life together.
Elaine, a social worker and psychotherapist for over 50 years, spent her life helping people in need. She leaves behind a legacy of love and service shown not only to her friends and family, but to all the families that she counseled at her practice, The Help Center in New Windsor, NY. Elaine was a mentor and inspiration to many in her field. She will be remembered for her warmth, compassion and dedication toward others.
In her free time, she enjoyed gardening, cooking, caring for her animals and creating beautiful memories with family. She was adored by her children and grandchildren and will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved her. The family will receive guests at Becker Funeral Home, 219 Kinderkamack Road, Westwood, NJ on Saturday, November 25th from 3-7PM with a Celebration of her life and faith to take place at 6:30PM.
Memorial contributions can be made in Elaine's name to the American Heart Association.
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