When the CP-Air flight from Amsterdam descended into Malton Airport (now Toronto Pearson Int'l), on Friday afternoon before the long weekend in May '69, Barbara didn't know she was going to have a houseguest, who would occupy her couch in their one-bedroom apartment in the Trillium on Woodbine at O'Connor, that night and for four weeks thereafter.

Thank you Barb, for not hanging up on me when I called, even though I couldn't speak English and just said that 'I was here'  in German.   I wouldn't have known where to go or what to do; I had no plan B.  Likely would have spent my first night in Canada on a bench at the airport or in a homeless shelter, for that's what I was on that faitful day, homeless.  

Instead you sent Ted to pick me up, in a brand-new white 1969 Mustang.  I thought I ended up in a Hollywood movie.   Got to spend 'Victoria Day' weekend in Algonquin Park, you and Ted and another couple, and me in between,  in a hot and humid tent, too small for five people.  Learned that spring is very short in Canada, perhaps a week?  Went fishing with Ted in the rain.  Just as well I didn't catch any, for I wouldn't have known what to do with it.  The mosquitoes and blackflies must have had a good time though.  You could have heard them laughing all the way across the lake.  They had a feast.

The next few weeks went by in a whirlwind.  Exploring Toronto, in particular Yonge Street from top to bottom with Ted were exhausting but a lot of fun.  Many first's  never been in a pool hall before, let alone a steam bath or having a rare steak in a downtown restaurant at midnight, but you knew you couldn't let this go on for too long.  

After about two weeks you put your foot down, 'Enough with that nonsense', and I can hear your voice to this day.  You had decided that it was high time for me to learn English, so I could get a job (and, needless to say, get out of your house).   So, I did, start English lessons, while washing dishes, with you:  This is a knife, a fork, as spoon, a plate, a table, a chair, a house, a mouse, etc, etc.  Eventually I learned whole sentences, like, "Let's have some tea.  Why don't you put the kettle on, Paukie".   

You were an excellent teacher and I present myself as proof, for I never had or needed another English lesson for the rest of my life; and I spent 30 years as a college teacher.   You were just five years older than I but you were like a mother to me.  Can't thank you enough.  You were my GUARDIAN ANGEL, when I needed one, and I NEEDED ONE that day, 48 years ago this week.

God bless you and keep you close, so you can watch over your family and perhaps (if you have time), keep an eye out for any ignorant young immigrants, who are more bold and adventureous (or should I say careless) then they have common sense. I will never forget you, and BTW, if you read this, any mistakes I made in spelling or grammar are, of course, entirely my own fault  hahahaa..haa...aaa.


P. S.  A great big thanks to Teddy for keeping this page open.  I may have never 'found' your mom, although I wish I hadn't, not this way.  I could have gone on thinking she's out there, somewhere.  But then again, perhaps she is  in spirit.  In fact I'm sure of it.

Our deepest sympathy to Mark, Stephanie, Teddy, Paulina & Kim on the tragic loss of your Mom.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at this difficult time!  Barb was a fun loving person who lived life to the fullest!   She left us way too soon.   I still can't believe she won't be here to share Nanny duties with me! 
Rest in peace Barb!

Maggie & Al

Thinking of you Kimmie, and all of your family at this most difficult time of year.  I know you will be the best Auntie ever, to baby Jack, and your Mom will be
very proud of you. Your Mom will never be forgotten.
Deepest sympathies to all of you.

Lorna Ware  SC&CC

We are so saddened by the tragic loss of Barb. She had such compassion and love for her family and friends. Her memories will live on.

We were stunned to hear the news and upset to think that Barbara would not be there if we ever managed another trip to Canada.   Keep hold of all your memories.  Sending all our love.  Josie, Jack and family

Dear Kim, Mark & Teddy, I was heart broken to hear of the passing of your mom. I am so sorry for your loss. My parents were just telling me the other day how they were suppose to get together with your mom for drinks. It just shows how short life is and to cherish every moment. She was truly a beautiful woman. Be strong for one another and let your loved ones help you through this tragic time.

Dear Kim, Ted and Mark
I was devastated to hear of Barb's tragic passing .She  was a larger than life personality that one bonded to immediately .Her  energy inspired you to be a better person.
My hope is that the example of her life and all the wonderful memories will sustain  and comfort you in the difficult days ahead .

Mark and Stephanie,

We were so sorry to hear about Barb.  May your love and memories sustain you.  Our sincere sympathy to the family.

Ron and Jane Wilson

My sincere condolences to this Beautiful Lady's family. 
Since our first meeting, Barb stole a piece of my heart by being the Amazing, Spirited & Fun-Loving Lady that she was. Always made my day when a knock came on the classroom door at IHMS to let her "Newfie Friend", as she called me,know she was in our school for the day because I knew we would share some great laughs and stories throughout the day. She will ALWAYS hold that Special place in my heart.
God Bless all of you & give you the strength to go on without her presence but find comfort in her Beautiful memory.
Rest in Peace & fly high with the Angels Barbie.

We are thinking of you all and hope that a lifetime of happy memories will help you at this time and always,

Dave & Heather Hall & family

Teddy, Mark and Kim,
I loved your mom very much. She always made me feel welcome in your family and was there for a laugh or a shoulder to cry on, whatever was needed.  She was a force of nature and her strength and positive attitude touched so many. I consider myself lucky to have known her. My thoughts and love are with you all.
Tara Meulendijks (Buchholz)

Barb was such a wonderful soul who will be greatly missed. May you find comfort in your loving memories.

On behalf of the Board, members, management & staff of Scarboro Golf & Country Club, we extend our sincere condolences to all of Barb's family and many friends. Our thoughts are with you all during this difficult time.

Barb was such a positive gal and a true lover of life. She was curling on my team when we won our "8 Ender". She always had an interesting story followed by a contagious laugh. 
I am truly saddened by your loss and hope your grief passes soon. She will be remembered!

Kim we are deeply saddened for your loss and although we didn't know Barb as well I was always struck by how she carried herself with such class and kindness.  Please know we are always there for you and love you very much.

John and Julie

Barb was certainly larger than life and always a joy to be around.  She lived and loved life to its fullest and I will miss her greatly.  My deepest condolences to the family.

You were always so involved in our lives. Encouraging us all to do our best and reach for the stars!  We shared so many difficult and happy times together. Am so thankful for all the memories. I hope to be as great an "auntie Barbie" to baby jack jack as you have been to me. Will miss you. Love fom little barbara

I can only imagine your disbelief and deep sadness in the sudden loss of your very special Mom.  I met Barb many years ago at SGCC and always enjoyed visiting with her.  She was the kind of person that instantly touched your heart with her laughter, sincerity, and friendship.  I can only hope that time quickly eases your heartache and brings back a smile of times shared and treasured memories made.  She will be missed by many and forever in our hearts.  With deepest sympathy.

Dear Kim, Mark & Teddy,
Your mom was such an important part of my teenage years.   She was like a second mom and constantly encouraged me to "get out there" and not be so shy.  I have such fond memories of her (and your dad) spontaneously dancing in the basement, belting out karaoke and always being one step ahead of your mastermind plans.  I credit her reference with getting my first teaching position, and have always been grateful for her support.  She believed that "You teach who you are", which explains why she touched so many young lives in such a positive way.  She was such a vibrant person who lit up the room.   My heart is broken for your family as I know what special relationships she had with each of you.  You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

My Dearest Kim and family, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Barb. My deepest sympathies

Elaine Williamson *Kim's Bowling Coach)

My deepest sympathiy to the family of  your beloved beautiful 
Mom! Barb was a joy and comfort to all people she met. Her love and her heart  was beautiful and pure.

My deepest sympathy to the entire Weber family. To Barbara: You touched the lives of everyone you met and as we always said: Being someone's first love may be great, But to be their last is beyond perfect. You will always live in my heart.
Bruce

To Barbara's family,
Our most sincere condolences to the family members on the loss of a wonderful and vibrant person.  I had the honour of working with Barb at Cardinal Leger and she was also a terrific teacher.  Our prayers are with the family at this difficult time.

We are so sorry for the loss of such a vibrant person. Kim, we are here for you any time or for anything you need.
Colin, Dale and Ryan Reid.

Sorry to hear of Barb's sudden passing.  It has been a sad 2015 with so many friends of Glamor Lake leaving us this year.  I am sure they will all be looking down on us with love and a smile...

The Saville Family

So sorry to hear about your loss Ted. My sincerest sympathy.

Barb you touched everyone you she met in such a special way, it's impossible to describe what you brought to this world. Thank you for bringing love and laughter wherever you went. You will be remembered by many for your kindness and generosity.

Barb lived life to the fullest. We will always remember how she welcomed us into her home and gave the best parties. Our hearts go out to Mark, Teddy and Kim at this difficult time. Through our memories Barb will continue to live on in our hearts.

Barb lived her life to the fullest. We will always remember how she welcomed everyone into her home and gave such wonderful parties. This warm and vibrant lady will truly be missed. Barb will continue to live through our fond memories of her. Our hearts go out to Mark, Teddy and Kim at this difficult time.

Mark, Teddy and Kim,
I was so deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your mom.  Mrs. Weber was a wonderful person.  She was always so supportive and encouraging.  I love how she called me "Steiner". She always put up with all our antics back in the beach days.  You are all in my thoughts.

Mark,Teddy and Kiimmie,
My deepest sympathy on your mom's untimely and tragic death. May you all find strength and comfort in the loving memories of Barb's very special and influential life and in the knowledge that she has been reunited with her Ted and now lives a new life in sunlight of Jesus.
Barb enjoyed and lived her life, on earth, with zest and determination in a meaningful and complete way. May she now rest in perfect peace in the enjoyment of her new life in Heaven.

Mark, Ted and Kim our sympathy goes out to you all.  Barb will greatly be missed on Glamor Lake.  Will think of you all in the coming days.

We shared happy and challenging times teaching at the same school,  may you now rest in peace and may your family remember the laughter and happiness you 
  brought to their life. My prayers are with you and your family.

To Barbara's Family,
I only met Barbara once at my daughter's graduation from film school. She was there with Ashley's father Bruce Ballentine. She was warm and welcoming, just a lovely lady. My husband and I are so very sorry for your tragic loss. 
Rochelle and Larry Volchoff

Great times, great friend, great lady...thanks for the memories Barb.  You are going to be dearly missed.

Gail
xxo

Kimmie, Mark & Teddy,
We are deeply saddened to learn of your dear mom's sudden passing.  Our sincere sympathy and condolences go out to all of you.  Please know that you and your families are in our hearts, thoughts and prayers at this time.  Your mom will definitely be missed at the cottage.

My heart is sad for a friend who left us too soon.  Barb and I saw each other occasionally and it was always welcomed.  She asked me one time if I could arrange a doubles tennis match.  I got a couple of my friends to play and asked them to be kind as she was not an avid player. Well, she was way better than I thought and I admired her atheletic skills. Barb was spirited and interesting to talk to.  My sympathies to her family as it is a huge loss.

Barb's joie de vivre and unwavering sunny outlook were, and will continue to be, an inspiration to me.  People say that it's always good to be around a happy person.  We all know that life throws us hard knocks, but Barb always seemed to make the choice to be happy anyway.  I can only guess and hope that this wonderful legacy will live on in her loved ones, even though I'm sure she will be sorely missed.  Love you, Barb.

Barb was an inspiration to me as both a teacher and as a coach. She helped me in my first year as a grade 3 teacher, when I didn't really know what I was doing. I have never seen such enthusiasm in her coaching of volleyball and track and field. My condolences to the Weber family.........Ken Perkin

MANY HAPPY MEMORIES SHARED WITH THIS GREAT LADY. REST IN PEACE DENNIS L.

Beautiful photos of a wonderful lady who taught and touched so many lives. I have fond memories of Mrs Weber as a teacher and as a great friends mom. RIP Mrs Weber yoi're beautiful spirit lives on. Deepest sympathy and much love to your family especially baby Jack. Mary Upson (Poehlmann) xo

Barbara thank you for being like a mother and a good friend to me. For welcoming me into your home, accepting me, teaching me recipes from meatloaf to goulash. For sharing warming stories and good laughs with me over a cold drink on a warm summers day or a cold evening at your house by the fire. 
You have touched in my life in many ways and will forever be missed by myself, my family, friends and many others. 
Thank you.

It's really hard losing someone you loved so much
Barb was such a wonderful, caring and beautiful person.  She will be missed by all her family and friends but it's a consolation to know that she is in God,s hands.

Connie Gelber

Please accept my sincere sympathy in the passing of Barbara. My prayers go out to her children and grandchild. May she and her family be at peace.
Eva Henn

Barbara was the first welcoming neighbour I met when I moved to Corduroy Trail last fall. She and Kim always had a wave and a smile. Much appreciated. I know her loss will be deeply felt. Sincere condolences to her family.

Thank you for sharing these wonderful pictures that project so much love and caring. I am sorry for your loss....

We met through Gail McIntosh a few years ago - shared loads of laughter made many memories at the cottage, at the club and by the pool. Barbara's "always vibrant and positive" personality will be sorely missed by the breakfast group and coffee club. Deepest sympathies to Barb's family. She lives through you.

Barb was awonderful, loving and vibrant woman who loved her family with all her being.  she raised three beautiful children who she was so proud of, and has been blessed with the most beautiful daughter in laws who were always there for her.  This tragic loss will affect so many lives but her strength will live on and her memory will be cherished forever.  RIP Barb... Judy, Morgan and Darren

Mrs Weber taught me grade 3 at St Barbara's. She was a great teacher and one of my favorites! My thoughts and prayers are with the Weber family. God Bless.

It has been wonderful looking at the pictures of Barb and how full of life she was.  That is truly how she will be remembered.  Sorry for your loss.

So sorry for the tragic loss of your Mom. Barb was such a bubbly woman who was always such fun to be with. She had such a  zest for life and will be greatly missed. I shall treasure the memories of time spent with her at Scarboro Golf & Country club.

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Barbara Josephine Weber

June 4, 1943 – October 20, 2015

Giffen-Mack Funeral Home & Cremation Centre

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