Dear Libby & family:
We’re so very sorry for your loss. It seems like only yesterday when we had our Diana family reunion in our home in Colts Neck, NJ. We were all so happy to see you all. Tommy lived an extraordinary & abundant life doing what he loved surrounded by the people he loved. Praying the memories you cherish will bring you comfort. You all remain in our thoughts and prayers. 🙏♥️😘💝
Love always, 
Charlie and Janet Alario (Renna)

Libby,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family on the loss of your husband.  Your are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Sharon Stover

Uncle Tom, 

Unfortunately, I never had the opportunity to meet you, although it was on my priority list this year. I’ve heard many great things about you - such as being handsome, very athletic, funny, and an overall great person. I’ve always admired you, being that you’re Grandpa Tommaso & Grandma Theresa’s first born grandson. I, alongside your Son, and grandsons, will continue to carry on the Diana Family name & legacy. May you eternally rest and be in peace. 

To Uncle Tom’s family & friends, my heart goes out to all of you. My thoughts and prayers will be with each and every one of you during the service tomorrow. 

With love and sincerity, 
Denver, your Uncle Joe’s Grandson

I am really going to miss Tom.  As we all know, Tom was very competitive in all sports he played and watched. I remember  several years ago, a Sunday couples tournament that Deb and I were in with Tom and Libby. On the second hole, I made a mistake and walked in front of Deb just as she chipped her ball onto the green and her ball hit my chin and down I went. I was out cold. I woke up and saw everyone hovering over me.  Tom said “GAR, get up!!” We can still birdie this hole! I got up right away and walked over to my ball and sunk my putt!  He was a very motivational teacher!  He taught me a lot about golf and although we didn’t win that day, I’m pretty sure no one had a better time than we did. God bless you my friend, I sure will miss you.

Tom certainly was a unique character whose outer layer wasn't a true  reflection of his inner heart. Please  find comfort in knowing that those of us who knew Tom felt the warmth of his big heart.  May the many memories, photographs, and  friends offer you comfort during this difficult time. 
Sending love and healing light.
Jan and Mark

Prayers for Libby, Tommy, Lisa and the family that loved Tom.  May God grant him eternal peace.  Tom was a friend and neighbor, we loved him for his kindness, outspoken opinions and views on life.  We enjoyed dining out or in, card games and memoriable conversations.  We will miss his presence our life.

Lib, my heart aches for you, I have been there. I have a lot of fond memories of you, Tom, Bill and I enjoying our short times together. Last time I saw Tom, it broke my heart, just a shell of himself. He and Bill  both have healthy bodies again and hopefully playing on the heavenly golf course.
So sorry I won’t be able to attend his service, will be out of town.
🙏🏼💔

Libby,
I’m so very sorry to learn of Tom’s passing.  Know that you are in my prayers.  I’m out of town on the 12th, and unable to attend the memorial.
We will all miss playing  Samba with him.

Here’s my favourite memory of Tom and of course Libby, as they were a perfect pair.  Gar and I bought our Forest Glen condo in 2005, we so lucky to meet Tom and Libby at the first board meeting and our friendship just clicked!  That is until Tom suggested we golf together.  I hadn’t golfed in over a decade and was a nervous wreck.  I couldn’t swing a club very well and got very discouraged.  Tom gently coached and gave me steps to follow on my swing on the tee and it started to work! The fairway was another problem area for me.  Luckily, Libby and I seemed to be in the same spot.  Libby is a great golfer and didn’t have a problem. But she said something like… let’s just tee it up Deb!  So we did (against all rules!) and we had a great time, every time.  We did that for a couple of years.  So many special memories on and off the golf course.   Tom has golfed with me every single time I go golfing.  I always remember his wise words. His golden tip was this.  Line yourself up on the tee and when you swing your club  do this… chin to chin and hit the ball and end your swing with your belly button down the course.  Every time I swing a club, I always remember my forever Coach … Tom.   I will never forget you.  I know you are playing on the most amazing courses in Heaven and coaching and helping others with their game. See you again, on a Heavenly course and save me a spot on your foursome. 
 Love you Deb xo

Rest In Peace , Tom . You will be missed . Lots of great memories with you .

Tom-could roar like a lion  - had a heart
as big as his golf swing.  
You will be missed our special friend
Love, Rich & Terry Coppola

OBITUARY

Thomas J. Diana

November 8, 1942 – September 24, 2024

Behm Funeral Homes, Inc.

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