From the first time I met Patty I knew we would be friends forever. She was that kind of person. You instantly loved her. Her smile and laugh would light up the room. For thirty three she was one of my very best friends. Her family became my second family and I treasure  the memories we all made over the years. 
You were and always will be an inspiration to me because of your Love of life, your Kindness to Everyone, and your Courage to never give up.
You will be missed and Loved forever, my dear friend. 
May God Bless Charlie and the entire family! Peace be with you.
RIP Patty. 
With Love from all of my family.

Patty was my very special Sister of Life.  I cherish her friendship and the exceptional memories of laughter, love, family, and music.  My heart is missing a piece that can never be filled.  Anyone who crossed paths with this special woman should feel blessed.  I feel especially blessed. Love to all the Dutko and Echols family members - Patty's Sis of Life, Vivian Bielski

To my very strong and loving Aunt Patty..... You will be dearly missed. As your niece...you've touched my life in so many ways. Through the years....Our family has truly enjoyed so many celebrations and holidays with you.  You always made me smile. I love you always!  :)

Prayers to the Dutko and Echols families. My hope is for all families who have sat beside those with cancer never have to feel this pain again. May your strength and love for her be with you always.

Deepest Sympathy to all of Patty's family. She was a friend in grade school at St. Paul's in Salem.

Patty ..was a joy to all of us, I enjoyed the concerts we went to like Muddy Waters up in Youngstown or how about those all nighters at the dinning room table with your Mom and Dad. Hope you're spending some time with them now. You won the race, went out with a smile and peace. Healing prayers for you & your family. Rest in Peace Friend...you're soaring now with the angels.

For the entire Dutko family, we are very sorry for your loss.

Gar and I went to school with Patty graduating in 1972 from Salem High. She was very sweet. Such a tragedy. We just went thru the pictures and made us realize that family and friends are the true treasures in life for all of us. Your family is in our prayers. Gar and Viv Saunders

My love to you Charlie, and to the Dutko family. Patty was such a strong, amazing, loving person who felt like my sister from the day I met her. She will be missed, but will always be in our hearts.
                                                                   Deborah Echols (Bryn Athyn, Pa.)

Dear Family, 
I am so very sorry for your loss.  I will always remember Patty's positive attitude, her smile - the happiness and "light" in her eyes as family members joined her in church each Sunday - She greeted everyone with a sincere smile and hug - I will truly miss her.  Many prayers to Charlie and the entire Dutko family.   Kim and Vince Bogan

What a valiant fighter and lovely person.  Deepest sympathies to  Charlie and the Dutko family; she will be in our prayers as she now rests in a better place and her pain is over.  Pax, Bill & Lyn

Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you.

Charlie, I am so sorry about the loss of Patty. Everyone at the Coastal Cafe looked forward to seeing you and Patty on Thursdays. I will never forget all the wonderful conversations we have had over the years.  I will truly miss her.  G-d bless you.

Patty, Your smile and the happiness you brought to others is your legacy! This is how I will remember you.  I will miss seeing you at Lorrie's and your joking around.  RIP beautiful kind woman.  You will be missed dearly...

May God Bless You & Your Family. Praying for All The Family That God Will give you peace through this difficult time of sorrow. R.I.P. PATRICIA DUTKO ECHOLS.

Patty was always kind, loving and there for family & friends. Patty could certainly be funny without even knowing it. I can still hear her saying yeah yeah. She will be missed by many. May all the good thoughts of Patty help her family get through this most difficult time

 Patty you will always be remembered by all. Your smile was one of a Angel. You were and are a good friend. RIP my friend till we meet again.

Patty has always been like a sister to me and I will miss her so much!  I can think of so many funny times we have had over the years - she could always make me laugh! She was a kind and caring person and never complained. She fought the hard battle!         Our heart goes out to you Charlie and to all the Dutko's. I love you Patty - my sweet cousin and friend!

 We will miss the Joy and Happiness that  Patty brought to every occasion. Her presence at a family gathering was always fun. I will always remember her wonderful smile and hearty laugh. We who have put are Faith in God have a sure Hope of once again being at a Family gathering with Patty and all of our love ones. I thank God that He has made a way for Patty to be there ahead of us, to get the Party started.

We pray for understanding and strength and revel in her memory because we loved her.
With sadness in my heart and tears in my eyes, and I never thought I would say this; I will miss getting bonked on the head.

Patty was my 1st friend when I moved from San Fran...for 23 years I've had the privilege of knowing this sweet person.
I will miss her greatly, as will everyone who knew her.  God speed.

Charlie, my heart goes out to you at this very difficult time.  Patty is going to be so missed, we all loved her so much.  I also want to extend my condolences to her sisters and brothers, they are all such a close family and I know this loss hurts them deeply.  We love you all and are here for you in anyway that we can be...With Deepest Sympathy, Danielle and Charlie Hilton

Charlie, Sorry to hear of your wife's passing. Our staff has you in our thoughts and prayers.

To all of Patty's family, we send our sincere sympathy and prayers that God's peace will surround each of you.  Patty was such a dear, kind person.  I loved getting to know her at the Welcome Desk at Star of the Sea where she warmly greeted people with her friendly smile.  May she rest in peace.

Charlie, I can't begin to find the words to truly convey my sadness over the loss of Patty. She was such a wonderful and loving person and she will be missed by many. I have many happy memories of times with Patty that I will cherish forever. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. Love you.

Charlie;  We are saddened to hear of that your wife passed away and our love and condolences to you and to Pattys family. 
We love you
Uncle Roger and Aunt Corinne

Sorry for your loss. Didn't know her well but I know you guys really had a special bond.
Bob Boyd  [Kill Devil Hills,NC]

Patty was such a wonderful person and such a sweet soul. My prayers are with Patty's family and her many friends. Angela and Jim Gibson (Roanoke, VA)

We were so sorry to hear of your loss.  The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

OBITUARY

Patricia Sue Echols

October 16, 1953 – October 14, 2014

Smith & Williams Funeral Home/Kempsville

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