To my father in law, or really my other father.  I have so much to say to you, and so many times I wish I could call you for advice.  You always gave me the best advice – especially when it came to the men in my life; my boys, and my husband.  You were right on, and I appreciated your loving wisdom.  I always felt your love for me, and I hope you always felt and knew my deep respect and love for you.  You and Nanas presence in our familie’s life played a tremendous role in making our family life even better.  You loved my children fiercely which was evident in your actions and support no matter the circumstance.  This alone, was the greatest gift I could ever ask for, and you did it freely and so well.  Papa you were there for us.  If I needed help weeding in my rock garden, or needed assistance in getting one child to practice, or when someone needed a sports fan, a pick up talk, advice, a history lesson, or a ride back to Iowa – Papa you were the man.  You were a good, good man.  I know you heard me say that to you daily before you left us, and I know you heard my prayers for you.  Thank you for always doing the right thing, sharing your wisdom with us, and being a powerful, loving influence in my children’s lives.  Thank you for being a good and honest man.  You are truly missed and forever loved, and your goodness is now evident to all.  I love you Tom.
Annette
P.S.  Your great grandson Levi is loving the stories of you, and your memory will never fade.  I promise.
 


Dear Papa,
Thank you for everything.  You and Nana created an amazing family that we are all very proud of.  You were always so joyful and generous and you could make anyone feel welcome.  I will always remember you for your work ethic and wisdom.  You showed our family what it takes to be successful.  Whether you were giving advice or telling us something to do, you were always right.  I’ll never forget the countless hours you spent watching me play sports.  You always gave me after game reports on what I did right and wrong and then we would get something to eat.  Most of the time we would get Wendy’s and just talk about sports.  Those were the best times.  I truly appreciate the time we spent together.  I always felt that it was special because I knew how much you cared for me.  You always put the most important things first.  I will love you forever.
-Jackson Subler


Papa was curious and gentle yet at the same time did what needed to be done.  Twice, I helped him cover his wood tiled roof with a protective coat.  Each time the sun made it too hot to sit on the tiles.  Papa did not care about the heat.  He was up there to get the job done.  He only ever took a break to get lunch and a couple of waters from the refrigerator.  Then Papa was back on the roof painting away.
Papa gave Todd his old Grand Marquis and Todd gave it to me for a while.  This car was an old model of police cars so we called it the Popo.  Papa wanted to help and show me how to properly wash and wax a car and so we did.  We cleaned up the headlights so they would give off more light.  I would drive this car to school and to football practice and I would drive it home after games.  Games that Papa never missed.  It was always a wonderful feeling walking over to the stands after a game and my family and Papa and Nana were all there to tell me I did a good job.  There are countless moments like this that show his work ethic and his dedication to his children and grandchildren.  I know these moments are only highlights to me, and my experiences with my grandfather are far too limited, but in my time with him he has only shown me amazing virtues.  It is very evident in his children and grandchildren that his work ethic has been passed down.  I treasure every moment I spent with him.
He also had a great sense of humor and mystery.  When I was younger we looked for Bigfoot in the woods around Crystal Mountain.  We had his old spotlight on the back porch at night and shined it into the trees looking for the mysterious creature.  We also went on hikes and placed trails of baby carrots to try and lure Bigfoot.  I believe he did this to try and keep a sense of mystery in our lives, also probably for a laugh.  I love you Papa, and I will not forget you.
-Austin


Papa will live on though the lessons he taught us.  Things like:  taking good care of your property, treating everyone with respect, or enjoying the tranquility of a sunny day with your family.  He helped us realize these truths not only by use of word but by example.  Because of this, his mark on the world will be everlasting.  May his soul find peace in eternity.
Ty Wick


I will always remember my Papa through the endless wisdom that he passed down to me and so many others. He taught me dignity, integrity, and most importantly, safety. From showing me how to wash my hands, to giving Ty and I driving advice on our way to baseball games, Papa never failed to make sure that no matter what we were doing, we were doing it the right way. For that, his spirit will live on through the people he met throughout his life. We love you Papa, rest easy.

My Papa instilled many virtues within myself and all the people he knew. Through his examples of unbelievable work ethic, honesty, bravery, and love, we have all learned to be better people. Whether it was chatting up about the Reds, working together in his beautiful yard, or even just having a meal with one another, he consistently showed me what it means to be a good person. I will miss you dearly, and never forget all that you have taught me. I love you!



Dear Tom, 
A salute to a kind successful, smart, honest, industrious, patriotic, eloquent writer, and dedicated family man. Thoughtful, generous, sincere gentleman who has the legacy of the ideals and values the founding fathers tried to protect. May your future generations cherish this legacy you are passing along to them. 

Happy 80th Birthday.

With respect and admiration, 
Your Oregonia phone friend 
Richard Ruth

Dear Nancy, 
My condolences to you and your family.  Those who shared the most with Tom, bear the greatest loss. May you all take comfort as his legacy endures. 

It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.

Nancy and family, condolences from the Phelan family. Tom had a strong work ethic which I admired. We also had great conversations about politics and sports. I will miss him. 

Carolyn Phelan

Fort GreeneVille Chapter Daughters of the American Revolution thanks Thomas for his service to America

Our sympathy to the family. May he rest with the angels.
Carolyn and Don Waymire

My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Versailles will be losing a great man and heaven will be getting an angel. He was a wonderful and kind man to work with at Carl Subler Trucking. Now he will get to finally spend time with his son, Curt in heaven

Many thoughts and prayers for you and your family, Nancy, from the Custenborder family.

Dear Nancy, Marilyn, and Family,

I am sorry to hear of Toms illness, and passing. My daughter, Alex, let me know she was helping to care for him. I am glad that she was there to help in his care.

I want you all to know how very special your whole family was, and is, to me. You all made John and I, and our children, feel like family. Some of my favorite life memories are of time spent with all of you, and the kindness, generosity, and true friendship you have shown to us will always be in my heart. May God bless you, and keep you in his loving care.

My love to all of you, and to Tom.

Lynne Rieser

No matter where I've lived: Utah, Oregon or Mississippi, 1070 Woodland Drive, Versailles,  Ohio is my heartfelt home. And that's because of you Dad. Coming home, down St. Rt. 185 has always been enthralling. I would look for the Poultry Day signs, the signs that said "Versailles" and then the turn onto Woodland Drive.  I would see the place where I learned the love of the land. Where I learned to appreciate space outside of self. The first thing I would always do, is look for you Dad. Because you are the person who created this sacred space. You worked the land, you planted every single living thing on the property. We would pull into the driveway and first I would look for your white T-shirt, always what you wore when you were working in the yard. If I didn't spot the t-shirt I would listen in the dark for the mower, because no matter what time of day, you could be found in your yard. You have passed the love of green onto me and my children and I thank you for that. We will keep making the Earth green, Dad,  always knowing that you showed us the way.

May your soul find freedom and peace for all eternity Tom Subler. You will be missed greatly, but always remembered with fondness and love.

OBITUARY

Mr. Thomas E Subler

February 14, 1936 – August 18, 2018

Bailey Zechar Funeral Home

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