Ginny and Mark,
Just heard of Greg's passing... Thinking of you... Words are so inadequate at time like this.  Ryan and Greg shared some happy, goofy times together at pre-school and at Tennyson. I still remember Greg's fabulous smile and infectious energy. Sending deepest condolences and wishing you strength,... and the comfort of family and friends who knew him well.  Sincerely, Jo Ann Turner

The whole Moorehead family was so upset to hear about Greg’s passing . We remember Greg working with us at Longliner Seafoods in the Granville Island Market while still apprenticing as a Chef . He was such a bright light and a pleasure to work with .  We looked forward to hearing about the progress of his career in the restaurant industry whenever he stopped by to shop or say hello . Greg holds a fond memory in all our hearts and our thought are with his family 

Dear Gini and Mark, and families and friends-
We will be thinking of you as you gather together soon to hold Greg in your hearts and to let him go.
Wishing you peace as time passes.
And soft healing.
Much love
Jan and Mike 
-childhood cousins and always friends

 Gini Mark Beth  Sean and kids: 
My heart  simply aches for you.  Words don’t come easily - tears  seem to  prevent  their expression. 
Greg’s smile - that huge “ ear to ear couldn’t be happier to see you”  welcome will forever remain embedded in my mind.  And in many ways I was  a non-entity in his life - just  Celeste’s Mom! Those he knew well would have been knocked over by his warmth!
 A pathway to healing lies elusively  between loving  dearly those  that had to go  and  holding  tightly  those that remain. RIP Greg
Sharon and Celeste💕

Marc and Ginny
As you are approaching the day where you will celebrate Greg’s life with family, friends, as well as the larger Community that knew him my thoughts are with you.  You have a lot to celebrate.   This is probably difficult to see right now with the magnitude of your loss. I can’t imagine.  I hope as  time passes you will be able to hold those sweet memories that he left close to your hearts.  Shelley says , that I did meet him as a child in Maple Ridge at the  annual August  BQ.  So many children and good times at those events The Hilton’s hosted over the years.  The making of an Adult  that is Caring and Compassionate is work.  Reading all the comments——you both did a wonderful job ❤️❤️ My Heart goes out to you all at this difficult time.  My thoughts and concern for you is ongoing since I first heard the news immediately after his death.   I hope this celebration will be comforting for you both .     I did not have your address.  Hope to see you in person September/October in Maple Ridge.  Until then, heartfelt condolences ❤️ Kay from Alberta 

Dear Mark, Gini, Beth and all the family,
I am so shocked and saddened to hear this news. All the years of working and travelling with Mark - I heard so many stories of what Greg was up to, and how well he was doing - and I know that Mark was so proud of all Greg accomplished.
You are all in my thoughts at this terrible time - and pray that you are comforted by the love and the memories you shared.

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult and sad time. I had heard so many stories of Greg ever since my son Nolan moved to Vancouver 9 years ago. So when I finally met him last summer at the restaurant, I felt that I new him well. I want to thank Greg for taking Nolan under his wing and being a good friend. As a mom that feels good. They have shared many good times and those memories I know Nolan will cherish. My heart is broken for all of Greg’s family and friends and co workers. He has touched many.  Take good care.

Kim Bayliss

Dear Gini...and Mark and Beth and her kiddos
Charlotte just shared this news with me.  He grew up from being that little toddling brother of Beth's...tagging along at pre-school...to a handsome fella who obviously had found his way in the world.   How very very heartbreakingly sad to have to say good-bye, way too soon, to your son, brother and uncle.  Thinking of you all and big hugs.  
Diana

Greg ❤️ so many memories of you being a part of my families’  life that I will have a non - stop slide show in my imagination for the rest of my own life .  Thank you for that . 
Your’ hilarious reactions ( as a child or an adult ) to so many things .. will never leave me - and they will continue inspiring me to tell stories and share them with all of us that love you so much for years to come .
Thank you for living your’ passion as thoroughly as you did . Few in this world are able to do that .   
And of course  -      I cherish every single one  of those big generous hugs I was lucky enough to receive from you . 
Love you Greg . 


It is so had to write this for such a vital, wonderful person.  

My love and condolences to Mark, Gini and Beth and all the others Greg was close to.

The memory that comes to mind is this wonderful energetic, mischievous, charming kid who we met almost immediately after moving into False Creek Co-op.  The lives of our families became intertwined and 'Greggy' was in the middle of all these delightful times.  In the back seat of the car, driving Greg, Nick and others to school he would hold forth and entertain the whole car.

He grew to be a wonderful, talented adult.  So sad he is gone.

Dear Marc, Gini and family - I am so saddened to hear this terrible news. My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for your loss. My connection with Greg was brief and a long time ago but still meaningful to me. About 30 years ago, I was one of the drivers of the car pool from the co-op to Tennyson Elementary. My son Dan was in kindergarten then, along with Steve and Leah, and I used to take turns driving the kindergarteners and the big kids (Greg, Jesse and Andre) to school. Those rides were hilarious: the big kids carrying on boisterously and the little kids wide eyed soaking it all in! Lots of education for the kindergarteners! Even then I was impressed by Greg - he had a calm way and kindness with the little kids, but he was also lively and very funny. The car pool only lasted that first year, and my connection ended as Greg and the others went on to high school and beyond, but I was always happy to hear news of Greg’s successes and to think to myself that “I knew him when”! Reading all these beautiful memories from Greg’s friends and family now at this horrible time, I am heartened to know that the bright, lively, kind and funny 6th grade boy remained an essential part of the lovely young man who was Greg.

Dear Gini 
It is with great sadness to hear of Greg’s passing.
I remember you sitting beside the bed as Sheila was labouring with Patrick and the next day welcoming your darling little fellow. 
Please know that you and Marc are very much in our thoughts.
Sincerely
Maureen McMorrow

In the communal space, Greg and Travis side by side since kids!

We were buds growing up in the co-op, played soccer on Gord’s team, and graduated high school together. This was a pic from my 6th birthday and it was a backwards/inside out shirt party. 

To know that you’re not on this earth anymore is heartbreaking and I’m devastated for your family and loved ones. Giving you a big hug pal and thank you for an incredible night on my birthday with Alanna. Best meal of my life hands down. Creekside for life! 

Mark , Gini and Family ,  
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Greg was a great kid and I can see he grew into an amazing man, loved by so many. 
Gord Broughton and Deb Monkman  

Our deepest sympaty to Marc, Gini, Beth and her children as well as Greg's grandmother and the whole Oca family. Gone way too soon but leaving behind fantastic memories that will lived in the heart of everyone who knew and spent time with Greg.

Greg I was so sad to hear you’d gone on ahead. Thank you for creating such a warm welcoming kitchen that pulled us all in and wowed us with your drive to feed us the very best.  My condolences to your family and the Oca team. You’ll be missed. 

Greg was part of our extended family here in the co-op, and his explorations and successes in adulthood have been a shared joy.  Your dedication to your path, your pleasure in it, and the welcoming celebration you made in your restaurant have been wonderful to witness, and will continue to be an inspiration, even in the grief of losing you too soon.    

Greg. I will always hold on tight to the memories. Thank you for your friendship, support and laughter, and for the years we spent trying to figure out this world. Your smile, kindness, generosity, depth, and passion will be eternally missed by all who love you and were loved by you. 

To Gini, Mark, Beth (Abby and Ali) and Lindsay - I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved son, brother, zio, and partner. My heart breaks for you and cannot fathom the pain you are going through. To Antoine and the Oca team, Travis and the Creek Boys, and to all of his friends he held so dear. Please accept my deepest condolences in this most difficult and unbearable time. 

...“The pain of missing you is the beautiful reminder of the joy of loving you” 

Deeply deeply sorry for your loss Gini.  

Bunny

Patrick and I send our heartfelt condolences to Greg’s entire family, huge network of friends, Antoine and the Oca Family. 

Greg’s smile lit up the restaurant. That is how we knew Greg and will always remember him - smiling . I loved watching his skill and always took the seat so I was facing him to see what he was up to.   Once our plates arrived, we would look up to see him watch for our double thumbs up 10/10 approval - and it was always received with that huge grin. 

I didn’t know Greg well, only through visiting the restaurant. But it was clear he was kind, passionate and the hardest worker.   Oca is hands down my favourite restaurant- not only for the food but the magic Greg, Antoine and the entire team created. 

It’s been hard to grasp that Greg is no longer  here.  Our hearts are heavy.  But the memories  he created will last forever.  

Hearing the profoundly sad news about Greg brought back memories of a French Camp many years ago, where we found ourselves camped out beside the Dilabio’s.  We remember Greg as a lively, lean young man who (after a bit of arm twisting) showed off his extraordinary reverse “belly rolling” talents. Clearly his talents took him far beyond “camp cooking” and onto his incredible culinary journey.   We were thrilled to hear the rave reviews Greg received for now “filling the bellies” of eager diners at Oca.  Quite a journey…. 
Mark, Gini, Beth and all the family - our hearts are full of sorrow for you. Sending our love and caring thoughts 
Janice and Dirk Duivestein 


I will miss my friend  and hearing the stories of his passion and accomplishments.   Only knew him a short time, but felt like a lifetime.  rest in peace my friend  .    JR   

I had the privilege of knowing this gentle soul since he was a child. As an adult we had the pleasure of having him as a guest in our home in Italy one summer,  as he embarked on his journey to become the gifted chef that he was. . 
Giuseppe (my late husband) and Greg were always discussing food …. they both had such a strong passion for it. Greg honed that passion and his skills to become a master. 
I like to think that they’ve picked up where they had left off..,,,having their passionate discussions about “cibo” up there somewhere. 
He will be terribly missed by all of us. 
Ciao Greg

Far too broken to say more than I love you with all of my being - miss you more than I thought possible, my Cutie , my Hero ❤️

So so sad to hear this news.  He was such a bright and creative and caring light.  I remember him as a pre- schooler- such a vibrant being. And watching from down the way in the co-op as he played and as he grew…
He stayed in our family’s awareness - myself John Matt and Anna -after we left the co-op and so enjoyed hearing about his ongoing journey in the culinary world.  And loved how he greeted us when we visited Oca:  the atmosphere there seemed to reflect his inclusiveness , openness and generosity as well as his marvellous skills.
Such a loss…sending all of the family love and care.  You will be in our thoughts and in our hearts…💕

One of my co op big brothers, and a pivotal member of what Steve and I called “The Big Kids”, Greg was one of the many community hands that raised me. Always inclusive, generous, and never afraid to absolutely demolish me in Super Mario Kart or Smash Bros (valuable life lessons). 

I rarely saw him in adult life, but I feel grateful for the handful of brief connections I had with him over the last few years. Whether it was a big smile and wave through the door at Oca, a quick hug between platings, or the profound gift of a home cooked family meal, I count myself lucky to have ever been in his orbit and experience his love, passion, and generosity ❤️

Dear Mark and Gini (Beth and family too),
My heart is broken for you. It does not make sense to loose your beautiful, talented son.  I always admired you, Mark, for you passion parenting both your children and how much joy they gave you. Your pride in Greg's interest in food and Italy and eventfully opening the restaurant oozed from you! No doubt Greg thrived from your support, encouragement, practical help! and most importantly your love. I know you all will hold that love forever tightly in your hearts. It's precious.  In this emotional turmoil and grief, please know I'm thinking of you, sending strength, compassion and peace. 
Sonja Magnuson


Greg has always been like a brother to me, having grown up in the co-op with him. My older brother Jesse and Greg were best friends and Greg was always there as one of my many co-op brethren. I have many fond memories of us traveling the coast as kids and young teenagers. So many great memories...

I am so happy I went to Oca for my 33rd birthday this year with my wife to celebrate and enjoy the best food I've ever had. A chance for my wife Kylie to meet this wonderful man and experience the gift of food he crafted so masterfully. To watch him work was a gift in itself, a smile from ear to ear and laser focused on creating incredible dishes. 

I have cried many tears the last few weeks mourning his loss. Shared many memories with our co-op family of all the wonderful times we had growing up together. As with my sister we will continue to celebrate the Dilabios with your incredible recipes, food, and love. Cannot express enough how much you all mean to us, and we will forever be there for you through these tough times. Too soon to lose you my brother, Love always. 
Steve. 

Sitting at Saturna island reading this for the first time now. A rare quiet moment allows my tears to fall. To feel him all around. That playful happy boy playing here. The crazy gang of wild boys racing their go carts here. My kid brothers best friend. The second home next door with them all. All those years. All those sweet and perfect summers. That quiet but cheekily smiling young man at the Jericho sailing club, getting to see him in the kitchen, I think he got me that job?  I see that smile. The last time I saw him, loving the passion for wild foods, dreaming of mushroom picking together on Haida Gwaii. He will always be a coop brother to me. I will remember him and love him always. I will cook the Dilabio foods in honour of him. So much love to all the Dilabio’s. 💗💗💗

I took this photo of Greg right after we found out Kissa Tanto had won the best new restaurant in Canada. We only had the pleasure of working together for a year but I met Greg many moons ago with Kaela. He was so supportive of her when her Mom passed and again years later when her Dad did too. He was always so funny, and genuine. He made me laugh so much that year at KT. My heartfelt and deepest condolences to his family, friends, partner, his Oca famiglia  and all who loved him. May  you find peace in these terrible times. I will forever celebrate your life on my birthday as I see it was the day that you passed. Thank you for the fond memories Old Greggy. xxoo

OBITUARY

Gregory Alexander Dilabio

March 19, 1985 – July 8, 2023

Glenhaven Memorial Chapel

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