Aunt Elda, I miss you so much! I can't believe it has been so long since I got to see your shining smile and hear your contagious laugh. You were so strong and such an inspiration to all of us - to everyone you ever met. You brought together "your girls" and created a bond that will last a lifetime. And you taught us all to love and be loved, to have strength in even the hardest situations, to find comfort and joy in everyday life, and to believe in ourselves and create our own happiness - things I will forever be grateful for. I know I missed so much being so far away these past few years, and I should have called more and I so selfishly wish I could bring you back, but I know you are in a better place now and I am so happy for that. I know I can still talk to you, and I do. And you still come to me in my dreams. The many, many memories will never fade. Thank you so much for being so many great things for all of us. Forever loving and missing you.

My Dear love 38 years ago my life was upside down with no direction and than I meet the most lovely lady god ever created way was I the lucky one,You changed my life instilled greatnest in me.you gave me 38 years of your life that no one can change or take.My heart is full of you some hurt and saddnest while you move on with the lord I know you will be there waiting with open arms when god sees it fit Iam so proud of you and thank you for your greatnest and love you made a big difference here on earth to many to carry on in there lives.I enjoy being with you every sunday morning and sharing my life with you I see your smile and feel your love and always will untell you open your arms to eccept me when the lord sees fit and we are together for ever.We still have aunt Eldas monday night dinners and movies,and the kids are all growing up and great they keep me going when I am down. Forever Thankfull with all my love happy birthday my dear Your forever husband Joe Ps I hope you seen the fire works we set off for you on monday night.

Aunt Elda... Happy Birthday!! While we are all loving and missing you so so much im sure youre up there having a party and probably singing kareoke! After 13 long years I really never thought the fight would come to this but I couldnt be more proud of how tough you were and of the fight you put up! I miss so much calling and the first thing I hear being "Hi my love!" I appreciate everything you ever did  for me throughout my life! I cant even begin to explain how much it means to me that you got to meet my daughter! One day she will know ALL about you! The bond that you created for 'your girls' is unbreakable and something we will cherish for the rest of our lives!! I love you more than life itself Aunt Elda!! ?

Happy Birthday Aunt Elda, my guardian angel. I can't believe it's been over a year since I last saw your happy, bright smiling face. You taught me how to be positive in every situation, regardless of how hard it is to deal with. You taught me how to overcome my fears and how to fight for my dreams. I will forever be thankful for your influence on my life, and those around me. Thanks to you, I have four of the best friends anyone could ask for, and we will forever be 'your girls.' More than anything, I am glad you are no longer suffering and you are now in heaven enjoying peace, love and happiness. Keep watching over my Uncle Joe, your sister Ida, and the rest of the us. I love you, to the moon and back.

My dearest Aunt Elda,
 It's been a year since you were taken from us. One of the hardest years of my life. They say losing someone gets easier with time, but I don't believe this is the case. Not with you, anyway. There's not a day that goes by I don't think of you. So many things still remind me of you. Ryan and I have continued our Monday movie night tradition with Uncle Joe. Every time we cook dinner and the oven buzzer goes off, I still say "Aunt Eldas cooking again!" to myself. While we watch movies and a scary part comes on, I can still picture you covering your head but still wanting to listen. These are the memories I cherish. It saddens me thinking about my children growing up without you in their lives like I had you. You taught me so many things. Not just how to write my name and sing my ABCs, but important life lessons, too. Although my children well never get to meet you, they will still learn so much from you through what you taught me. And I know they will grow into great adults because of it. You influenced so many children in your life. I hope to become even half the mother and mentor you are. The girls and I have already started some of our traditions with Paityn, like sitting on the blue blanket for snack time. We've even found the famous "Swamp Stomp" on dvd and intend on doing it with her when she's a little older. 
 I still pick up the phone to call you when I've had a rough day, and when we're planning dinner or an outting you're always the first name on my list of people to invite. I don't think I'll ever get used to you not being around. I know you're still looking down at us though, watching us grow, getting into college, getting married, having babies. I miss you every day, but I know I'll see you again. Thank you for everything you have done for me over the past 22 years. I wouldn't be the person I am today without you. I love you forever my Angel.

Dear sweet Elda, I cannot believe it has
been a year since you left us here on earth. You are a true angel with no pain or suffering and that means so much to me. You are always on my mind. I miss your smile, your laugh and inspiration.  God truly has a blessed angel. You will never be forgotten.  I love you with all my heart.  Come visit some time. We could all use a little of your strength. See you soon my dear sister.

Aunt Elda, one year ago you became an angel. I miss you every day but I know your new home has no pain or illness. I love you so much. ?

Elda, tomorrow you will have been gone from our sight for 1 year.  Last night you came to me in a dream.  Sitting on a throne, your hair long and flowing. You looked SO beautiful!  I will always miss you but this dream gave me peace!

 Aunt Elda,  it has been more than 2 months now,  and I have all but  stopped thinking of  you. Today,  while at work,  my  group went to the splash pad.  seeing all of the happy children playing in the water, I  grabbed my phone and  started to take a picture. I  know I was taking the picture to show you.  when it hit me, I  nearly lost my composure. . .  but  then I remembered that I didn't need a picture to show you anymore.  You embedded in so many  of us, a  part of you-- your love is what touched me. I know that you are still with me. Uncle Joe,  Nicki  and I  are continuing our Monday night's.  if you ever see a movie you like  feel free to say hello :) we all love you dearly.   Thank you  my love.

Elda my dear I enjoy our two hour visits on sunday morning,you have been very silent but it is so calm and peacful when I am with you I love you and pray to you every night.things are lonely still waiting for a sign from you my heart is full of your love and wounderful memories we will be together again my angel.with all my love your husband Joe

My Dear BFF:
It is hard to imagine that almost two months have gone by since you left us. There is not a day that goes by that I do not think about you and often pick up the phone to talk to you. I miss our “Elda Wednesday” outings, lunches, talks and laughter.  I miss your smile and your positive outlook on life no matter what was happening. I hope you are doing okay and know that I love you and miss you very much!  I am so thankful for the times that we did have together and will cherish those memories forever!

Born August 18th 1957 The load sent one of his angels to spread love and joy to everyone she met and touched,but little did I know that this sweet lady with a very large heart would become my life,my love, my best friend.I have had the pleasure to be married to the most inspiring sweet and kind-hearted women I have ever met for 38 years,and in this time we grew to become one.That cancer couldn't separate nor destroy our love,but made our love unbreakable.This lady had the strongest will and determination.Was in pain,but did so without a whimper or complaint.This women lived for others and happily spread love and kindness to the world around her.She helped raise around 38 children with the same love and kindness to prepare them for the world.One of Elda's happest moments was a Sunday mprning listening to music,when our wedding song came on.I held her and supported her leg so we could dance to the song"May I have this dance the rest of my life."She cried of happiness and thanked me for days.These are the kind of moments my wife and I shared together, these are the kind of moments that grew our love and friendship.I want to thank Gloria and Joaquin Martinez for giving me a lady that made my life whole and complete.I also want to share my final moments with my wife. I whispered in her ear our entire life together and how much I loved her,telling her that this is not goodbye,But I will see you later.I tell her go to God, be free of pain.She acknowledged me with her last hug.That hug let me know that it was going to be ok and that she heard every word I said.Go in peace my love.      I love you doll my Dear Joe

Elda was as much a part of my family as anyone could be. She has a wonderful spirit that will be carried on forever....

Elda you were a beautiful and inspiring woman.  I admired your strength and beauty.  My deepest condolences to Joe and your family.  Elda is now in heaven pain free.  Love and thoughts

Elda was so much more then an aunt to me. She was a like a second mother to me when I was a child. I have so many good memories of Aunt Elda and I am proud to say I have not one bad one. She has helped mold me into the person I am today. I remember her telling me chocolate makes everything better and as I rode in the car with her during my grandfathers funeral she fed me Hersheys kisses. She always said daiseys are happy flowers. To this day the daisy is my favorite flower. When I picture Aunt Elda in heaven she is surrounded by Daisies. These memories will always be in my heart. I love you Aunt Elda and Uncle Joe.I am sorry your not together now but know you will find each other again one day.

You were truly an Angel on Earth Elda.  You inspired anyone who came in contact with you in one way or another.  I hope these last few days has made each and every one of us more aware of how we treat one another, and that we all take something from the very special person that you are and carry it with us forever.  What you and Joe have is beautiful, a Love so true and real.  Joe, Elda Loved You So Much....let that be your strength to get you through this tough time, and know that one day you will be reunited.  You will be missed more than you will ever know Elda.  I Love You Both.
Mary McInnes

You will now sing with the angels and care for more babies.  Your love Will live on. God bless and keep you.

I am sorry  for your loss,Elda always had a smile on her face,she made everyone else smile when she would walk in the room.Elda, was the best sister in law, sister,mom,niece  aunt, all rolled into one. She always had fun at everything she did. she will be missed. I love you all.

We are so sorry for your loss - our thoughts are with you all.  With deepest sympathy, Jim and Alana McCormick

We love you Elda.  A candle to light your way on your journey home

Elda a truly wonderful and amazing person.  An angel on borrowed time with such a short stay here on earth.  Elda touched so many hearts in her short stay and all that had the pleasure of having her in their lives are truly blessed.  She is no longer suffering and  Although we weep for her loss she has won the battle and the war and can live pain free until we meet again in heaven Elda you will never be forgotten.  You will forever and always be my sister in law...my sister and I am truly thankful you were in my life.   Joe we are so truly sorry for your loss and what you had with Elda was truly amazing.  Our prayers are with you and can only hope that knowing she is no longer suffering will ease your pain.  We love you Elda

You truly were an Angel, one of a kind.  You inspired so many people and touched so many lives, I hope you know how special you are and that you will never be forgotten.  When I hear someone say you were 'robbed' and taken much too soon, I tell them no....she was 'Blessed' for being the person she was, and we were Blessed for having her in our lives.  I Love You Elda!!!

Joe,  I am so sorry for the loss of your wife.  I never met her but she was such an inspiration as she fought so hard. May God give you and your family such peace and many beautiful memories.  Fay Bush/Proation

I am honored to have known such a wonderful soul as Elda. I will always remember the kindness and love she showed me and my children throughout the years. God bless you Elda, and thoughts and prayers to Joe and the rest of the family.

I had the great pleasure of having Elda in my life as a very dear sister-in-law. This woman had so much inspiration for life, we are all truly blessed to of known her.The love she expressed cannot even begin to be put in words.She will never be forgotten but truly missed.Life without Elda just isn't possible. The world needs more of Elda's around. Love shared between her & Joe was truly golden. We could all learn from their love & kindness. I love you Elda, you are no longer in pain or suffering. Until we see each other again, you will never leave this very special place in my heart. The Angel you were on earth has now been lifted to our Saint in Heaven. You are in my prayers. Love you little Princess Angel. God walk with this very special Angel, you know how very gifted she is.

It was a privelege to be your friend for nearly 40 years!  Always a smile, always positive even in the face of illness.  You are an inspiration!!  I love you Elda!   Thank you for loving me!

The Angels gathered near your bed, 
so very close to you.
For they knew the pain and suffering 
that you were going through.
I thought about so many things, 
as I held tightly to your hand.
Oh, how I wished that you were 
strong and happy once again.
But your eyes were looking homeward, ?
to that place beyond the sky.
Where Jesus held His outstretched arms, ?
it was time to say goodbye. 
I struggled with my selfish thoughts,
for I wanted you to stay. 
So we could walk and talk again,
like we did - just yesterday. 
But Jesus knew the answer,
and I knew He loved you so. 
So I gave to you life's greatest gift,
the gift of letting go.

I have truly lost a angel and best friend she made my life whole with a smile of love and kindnest every day of my 38years with her.The hole in my heart is large and hurts but I will not say goodby I will only say I will see you later and I love you more than you can imagine.Thank you dear for a wounderful life. 
              I LOVE YOU your husbahd JOE

I am blessed with the pleasure of having Elda in my life for so long. She is resilient and I will look up to her forever. I love you Aunt Elda.

Our deepest condolences to you and  the family. We are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our prayers. With lots of love. Mr & Mrs Adrian Valles n Family. And also from your brother Mr & Mrs Alberto Colchado n Family.

Joe, Gloria and Joaquin,  We are so sorry for your loss.  How odd that we just saw each other at St. Joseph's hospital and both lost our family member shorthly thereafter.  She was an amazing woman and will missed.  All our family's love to you and all of yours  ....Phyllis Ameigh, Bill and Pam (Ameigh) Duffner

To the Martinez / Paulik Family
Our deepest condolences to you. Our prayers are with you always. Never enough words to express our thoughts. We love you guys very much.

Tia Gloria, Tio Kino &fam,, our deepest condolences. We will keep you and your family in prayer. Love, Roselva & Tony

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Elda Alicia Paulik

August 18, 1957 – July 23, 2013

East Lawn Palms Mortuary & Cemetery

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