Nick I miss you so much. I love you and want you to know I talk about you with my kids so they know who you are to me. I can't believe it's been 10 years and I wonder what you would look like or who you would have become. So many unanswered questions.

I am thinking of you and hugging my kids more tonight. 

-Cô Karen

Dear Nicholas,

I hope you’re doing well. I’m sorry we never got the chance to hangout one last time, maybe geek over some old school games or something. One of my biggest regrets is that we grew apart as we got older but I guess that’s life right? Regardless, I never stopped thinking about our memories when we were just kids. We used to have so much fun playing games, when I would come over, while our families were on vacation, and even locked in the trunk of your moms car while our moms were shopping. I can still hear your contagious laugh that could fill an entire room in a second. I hope one day we’ll be able to hangout, play games, and that I can hear that laugh again. Just know that I’m thinking about you.

To my childhood best friend, I miss you, until we meet again. Much love brother.

Calvin

Uncle Jimmy and I miss you so much Nick. I wonder what you would look like, how you would sound and where you would be right now. I miss touching your fuzzy hair and seeing your crooked teeth. I miss hearing your silly comments and your sigh/eye rolling when you thought I wasn't cool. I remember you being overwhelmed when you ordered a bento box for the first time and how much you love orange juice. 
I hope you see my kids because they see you in the picture frame every day.
We love you, miss you and you are always in our hearts and minds.

Co Karen


No words can ever describe
How sad and empty I feel inside
The day God took you home
My heart hurts all the time
It has never felt whole since you're gone
My sweet Nicholas
I miss you so much
I can't stop crying day and night
I can't seem to breathe without you
Even when the sun shines
All I see is rain and cloud
For my heart is forever broken 
The day you went away

My dear Nicholas
I used to think I gave you life
The truth is that you had given me life
I died that day when you went away
Now I long to see your face and hear your voice
Oh how I wish you didn't go away
And how I dream life would go back 
The way it used to be when you were here
So that all the blues would just go away

Love forever, Mom

My dearest nephew Nick, 

I miss you dearly and want you to know I think about you everyday. It hurts still especially today. I can't believe it has been a year today. 
I'm sending you hugs and kisses. Wishing you were still here with us. Love you forever. 

Auntie Karen

You're in a much better place now, rest in peace Nick. My prayers are forever with you and your family

Dear Mary and family. I am so so sorry for your lost. I pray to God for Nicholas and for you and you family. I close my eyes and see Nick and my son playing together in my house. He was like my own son. Love you all and you all will be in my prayers.

Dear Mary and family,

I am so sadden by your loss.  My prayers are with you.

Sincerely,
Christine Grimaldi

Dear Nicholas, we're missing you at Ridgefield High.  Advisory class hasn't been the same without you.
You will always be in my heart, and will truly be missed.

My heart goes out to your family. Rest in peace...

Whenever I think of Nicholas, it will be with the fondest of memories and a smile.  Whether shopping, going on a road trip, or attending a bar-b-cue with friends, Nicholas took the opportunities to make life fun and enjoyable.  Through the years, it has been a pleasure to see Nicholas grow into a confident, thoughtful, and respectful man full of joy and wonder.    Mary, Lee, Christine, and extended family, please know that you are in my prayers during this difficult time.

Nicholas, angels would rather we love you. We pray you out go peacefully

Nick, I'm so honored that I got to know you for the time I did. I'll miss our crazy, competitive classes and the interactions we got to have. I'll miss you. Rest in peace.

Nick...Maybe you would just think me silly if you saw the fuss I am making over your death, but I want you to know, wherever you are, that you meant more to me than you had probably ever thought. No matter what the future brings, I know that I will never ever forget our friendship.

Nick,

You were always a really funny and genuine person to be around and made english class last year all the better. You will truly be missed and I wish my deepest condolences upon your family in these trying times and I know you're watching down on them as well as all of us who miss you

Nick (Potato) was a truly good friend. Although he had a short temper, he was always someone you could go to for a nice conversation or rant about your troubles. His passion for gaming and anime only made him that much more interesting. He was an honest man and will be remembered as such. You will be missed dearly, Nick.

Nick, you were one of my close friends while you lived in CT. We used to have this little jingle where I would sing your name out on the hallway and you would sing mine back in response. It was a small thing but it never failed to make me smile. You were loud and bubbly and I could always count on you to get into a debate with someone at our lunch table. I miss you terribly and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stay strong.

Dear Mary, I am so sorry... My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Nick/Potato (A nickname my friends and I had for him) Was a friend you could always go to for a good laugh. His jokes would brighten peoples day and he always had a smile on his face. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Rest in Peace Nick.

RIP Nick. He was such a good person, liked by so many. He will always be remembered for how nice, funny, and smart he was.

Dear Mary, Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of deep sorrow.

Nick will always be remembered as a great friend and a kind soul, the prayers of his friends and fellow students are with you.

Dear Mary,
I was so sorry to hear of Nick's passing.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time.

Thinking of you and sending a hug in this very sad time.

Nicholas was an amazing addition to our English class. He was so smart and he was nice to everyone he talked to. Our whole class is shocked that he is gone, but we will always remember him. Our prayers go out to him and his family.
-Stephanie, St. Joan of Arc

Mary and Lee and family-
My heart goes out to you and your family and you are all in our prayers during this difficult time.  Remember that your sweet Nicholas is with God now and will always be with you.

No words can express my sorrow right now.. Huan, Hoa, and Christine, I am so sorry that you have to go through this pain.. Please always remember his smiling face and his kind words. Just know that he is with God now, and will be looking down on us, and protecting us always. Rest in Paradise, sweet Nicholas. 

- Cuong, Eva, Cecilia and Calvin

Mary, Lee, Christine and family,

Annette, Sydney and I send our heartfelt condolences on the passing of your Nicholas. May the memories of the bright young man Nicholas had become sustain you. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family. Draw strength from your faith and family during this time of sorrow.

                                                Annette, Sydney and Tom Purdue

Nicholas, I am grateful that I was able to be part of your lif. I have many fond memories of you that I will forever cherish. I will miss the days when we would play games or sit around a fire and share stories. I will always think of you. Rest in peace.

Dear Nick, 

It seems like only yesterday when you were a little monkey and then grown into a bright young man. You're a good kid. Your innocence and happiness will forever shine in my heart. Love you Nick.

I only got to meet you once, Nicholas, but I'm still very lucky to have gotten that opportunity. Just from our first meeting I could tell you were a very kind and funny guy. I wish we could've had more time to build more memories, but I know you are in the capable hands of God now and will be watching over your wonderful family and friends in Heaven now.

MY DEAR NICHOLAS, 

I will miss our laughs and talks about the future. I lost my nephew but especially my friend. My heart is broken but in time it will heal as I know you are with us sharing the good times.

"It broke my heart to lose you but you didn't go alone, a part of me went with you the day that God took you home." 

you will be an eternal memory that I carry in my heart until the day that we will meet again. I love you forever Nick, and I'll be missing you always.

Mary and family,
Sending my deepest condolences during this most difficult time. May your memories and the love that you shared bring you peace.
With Love

"Those we love remain with us for love itself lives on, and cherished memories never fade because a loved one's gone. Those we love can never be more than a thought a apart. For as long there is a memory, they'll live on in our hearts." Nicholas, words cannot begin to describe how much I miss you but I know God needed another angel by his side. I love you Nicholas. You will forever be in my heart. May you rest in paradise.

Dear Mary, my thoughts are with you and your family during this time.

May your precious memories and the love of family and friends carry you through this most difficult time.

I am so sorry to hear about your loss, Mary. My thoughts are with you and your family during these difficult times.

Dear Mary,
Please accept my condolences in this time of sorrow. May your love for you son and the caring of friends comfort you in this difficult time.

Nicholas, you and I have created a lot of amazing memories over the years. I wish that we could make many more. I will always cherish the memories that we had close to my heart and look forward to making many more when I see you in heaven.I love you Nicholas. May you rest in peace.

"God saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be. So he put his arms around you and whispered, "Come to me." A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us he only takes the best". I love you Nicholas and miss you deeply - until we meet again.

No farewell words were spoken,
No time to say goodbye,
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God can tell us why.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Dear Mary, Lee, and Christina - 
My heart breaks for you.  Please know that I am praying for you and all of Nicholas' extended family.  I truely believe that Nicholas is safe in the arms of Jesus, and hope this will give you comfort.  
Paula Picton

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Nicholas Pham

August 8, 1997 – November 21, 2014

Delmoro Funeral Home

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