Denise, 
I am thinking of you on this difficult day. I pray you are comforted by all the precious memories you hold in your heart. Sending you love and hugs. 
Kimberli

Years ago when I was living in Tampa, I threw a Halloween pumpkin decorating and game party for my friends kids!  One of the challenges was bobbing for apples where a prize was given to the one getting the most apples!  John was of course adorable and clever as he decided to wear his swim goggles so his eyes wouldn’t hurt while bobbing for all these apples!  Super clever and of course then all the kids followed his lead!  He was so much fun to be around and was quite the competitive kid!  

John will be sorely missed from this world and I know he’s doing amazing work up in heaven!  Thank you John for allowing us to enjoy our times with you as we were the blessed ones!  Love, Jeanine 

John had already come up with the idea of wearing goggles for this challenge and all the kids followed his lead!  He was quite the fish when it came to being in the pool as well as being quite the competitive kid with our yard games too!  I was so blessed to have been able to spend these wonderful times with him and Denise!  Rest in peace dear John.  Love, Jeanine 

John Michael was my nephew’s 1st little friend and later grew to become a great friend to so many more.  In such a short time here on earth, John touched so many lives.  Sweet John, thank you for loving as you did and thank you Denise and family for loving him as you did ❤️ and always will.   You will be greatly missed and until we meet again, rest, you are free, and in peace with Peace 🙏.  Love you.  Tia Stitch

John loved animals so much. This is a picture of him and Brady. Brady is a huge lap dog and John didn’t mind at all. ❤️

Dear Denise,
My heart is breaking  for you.  I am so sorry for your loss. You and John have been in my thoughts and prayers these past few weeks.  I cannot imagine what you are going through and I am at a loss for words.  I know God, in His goodness, has a plan, and John is in His care.  You and your family have such a strong faith and I know that will help sustain and comfort you in these darkened days.  I remember seeing John at Mass, always bright-eyed, happy, and full of life.  I will always remember him that way.  Know that many are grieving with you and love you.  He is now home. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻. 
Love,
Liza Valancius

Please accept our most sincere condolences.  We pray you and your family can find some comfort as you deal with your loss. 💗

Sincerely, 
Rick, Denise and Ajay Vander Werf 

Denise
Please accept my deepest sympathy on the passing of your son John.  Brenda Bueno reached out to me. I cant imagine the pain your are going through right now. My heart goes out to you during this tragic time. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
Nora (Gonzalez) Henry

So sorry for your loss…praying for you & your family. 

The Ellis Family  

My deepest sympathies go out.. Condolences  to family and loved ones. 

Denise and John, my deepest sympathies for your loss. I cannot imagine the depths of your sorrow. Hopefully, knowing that he is at peace with the Lord, and with Marie, will help to ease your pain.

Denise and All the Family,
My sweetest memory of John aka  “Cheeks” will always be seeing him as a baby come into the old Fletcher office with you, holding a raw potato. My heart is broken for you all! I know he’s eating all the caramel brownies he wants now with Marie and in a better place. 
My heart, thoughts and prayers are with you, your amazing father, Michelle and ALL the family!
 Much love! 

What a beautiful tribute to John💕. I remember John as a sweet cub scout who was wise beyond his years. I remember you telling me about a philosophy class you were taking and he was helping you make sense of whatever you were reading. I was blown away by his insight and depth of character. What a beautiful old soul who is now in the arms of Jesus💝

Dear Denise,
I just learned of your son’s passing, I am SO sorry. As a mother, I can only imagine your grief and pain. I pray you are feeling Jesus’ loving arms wrapped tightly around you, and He’s providing you comfort.  Your EMS family is always here for you. 
God be with you.
Kimberli Kirlin 

At some point every July we would have ice cream 🍨 for breakfast!! It was a fun tradition that we both enjoyed. I love you on purpose John Michael 💔😓💔 mom

I went to school with John at MHR and knew him through boy scouts and church. He was always so energetic and fun to be around, he touched the lives of so many people. He always knew how to start up a conversation about everything and anything. I will always remember the camping trips we went on and the adventures we had! I really wanted to get in touch with him again some day and hang out. He will be missed.

Our hearts were broken when we heard of John’s death!  We will be praying for all of you.  We are grateful that you know John is at peace and in the arms of Jesus.  May our Lord comfort you and give you His Peace.  With all our Love,  Gerry and Delores🙏❣️

John and I went to school together back in K-8 and we weren’t super close but he was always so kind and always knew how to make people laugh. Even after we all graduated and all went our separate ways he still reached out to me when he could. My family and I will forever miss him and we’re sending all our love and prayers!!

Denise and family,
You have our deepest condolences in losing your John. None of us should have to bury our children. Please comforted in that he will welcomed with open arms of our friends who are now with him. Bubba will take him under his wings until you are once again united. 
Best memories,
Scott and Ramona Baird

Honestly I don't know what to say right now but ik he's ina better place and is watching over his family he was the best foster brother I had...😟😞😢

Dear Denise and family, 

Our hearts are broken at the loss of your beloved John. He was a force to be reckoned with, even as a little boy, so adorable in his Catholic school uniform.

I know he was welcomed in heaven with a warm embrace by his Nana.

Praying for you and the whole family,

May God bless and keep you always❤️



We are praying for the repose of John Michael's soul and for everyone who loves him.  May God bring you comfort as you process this devastating loss.  Sending you love and hugs.  

The Merimee family

I’m saddened to know John was moving forward with his life.  My condolences to the Blake family, Hailee & Ben, his mom & family!  You will be missed John.  You were always so polite to me!  I greatly appreciate your friendliness!  Fly with the angels John!  You will be missed by so many!  

Gay Cole

I am so sorry to hear that John has died. I do remember him fondly when he attended Most Holy Redeemer Interparochual School.
I will pray for the repose of his soul.
My condolences to the entire family.

My favorite memory of John was about 11 years ago at St. Paul’s. Denise and I were chatting after Mass one Sunday, and John decided to jump in and help the ushers!! He passed out bulletins, held the door for everyone, and wished them well as they went on their way! He worked the room like a pro, and I’ll never ever forget the look on Denise’s face as she gushed with pride and love saying, “Do you see him, he just does things like that!!” John you were loved more than words can say and will be missed terribly by all who knew you.  May Our Lady of Sorrows comfort and console our dear Denise, as only she can! Rest in peace dear John!!  

Denise & family,
   So sorry to hear about John Michael. I can not find the words for loss of a child. I never met John Michael but I do remember while working with Denise every time she spoke of him, her face would just glow with her beautiful smile. Try not to think of it as losing a loved one, think of it as gaining a guardian angel. My thoughts & prayers are with you all…


John was like a younger brother to me..
He helped me overcome a personal addiction, him and his mother blessed me with a place to sleep and get back on my feet, and he was always a great person to talk to and be around. I only knew him for about three years but within those three years I feel like him and I became really close and shared an unbreakable friendship. 
Rest in Paradise little brother ❤️

May the peace of Jesus provide you all with His consolation in this time of great sorrow. We love you all. 

Denise and Family, 
   I have just been trying to wrap my head around this tragic loss you are suffering. My heart is shattered for you Nisey! I know that John Michael is, was, and will always be your whole life! I only wish I had the words to soothe your heart and soul at this time of heartbreak. I know you believe in GOD and Heaven and you will find some comfort knowing he is home and with your mama! Please know near or far I am always here and will pray for you, John and your family 
Love you lots 
Pam, Randy, Dusty and Aly 

One of the earliest memories I have of John Michael was learning about his love of Legos. He was 8 years old with a master's collection. He loved to build, create, and recreate with his brilliant and creative mind. His curiosity of the world was always so alive inside him. So very talented, intelligent, handsome, and loved was he. I miss him and forever will love him like a nephew. He has departed far too soon. May we all find comfort in our warmest memories of our beloved JMB.

There aren’t any words or anything else to ease the pain and suffering.  But, find comfort in knowing John Michael is safely home now with those who have gone before. No more tears, suffering, pain, sorrow, only love and peace. May God blanket you with the comfort He has promised. “God blesses those who mourn, for they will be comforted” MATHEW 5:4. Know you all are loved and have an army of believers praying for you, praying without ceasing. 

I will always remember you John and the memories of you playing Marco Polo with Christopher in your Nana's pool. You danced like a professional dancer. I miss your smile and will always remember how serious you would be on certain topics of discussion. Rest in peace John until we meet again. May your soul be blessed in Glory.
                                           Celestine Richardson 

Sending our deepest sympathy and love at this difficult time. 

With love,
Lisa & Ken Frick

Dear Denise and family,

I've been struggling to find the words to express the depth of my sorrow upon hearing about the tragic loss of John. He was a wonderful young man, and I will always cherish the memories we shared.
Please know that despite the time and distance that may have separated us recently, I care deeply for you and your family. I cannot begin to comprehend the pain you must be going through, but I want you to know that you are not alone.

If there is anything that you need during this difficult time, whether it be a listening ear or help with everyday tasks, please do not hesitate to reach out to me. I'm here for you.

May you find some comfort in the love of those around you and the warm memories of John that you carry in your heart.

With deepest sympathy,
Amanda

Denise,
You are in our prayers. Please accept our love and deepest sympathy on the passing of John Michael.  This is so sad and painful.  We need to get together and share stories about your son. All the Bobaks are kind, caring souls. If there is anything we can do, please call. God bless you always. Love, Mary Anne, Ed, & Megan Malone ♥

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John Michael Bobak

June 25, 2002 – May 1, 2023

Blount & Curry Funeral Home-Carrollwood

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