family, friends and colleagues, the news of his peaceful passing on October 30, 2020
will stir fond memories of a man who lived life passionately, in so many ways.
Central to Gene’s approach to life was his ability to “think outside the box”. This was
seen early in his life when he applied to and attended Brooklyn Technical High School.
This required him to break away from the norm of going to the local neighborhood
school and instead he commuted by subway to school to receive an expanded
education. Doing so worked out for Gene as it marked the beginning of a long love affair
with engineering. After high school, Gene served two years in the Marines which
provided him with college tuition benefits through the GI Bill. He earned a B.S. from
Polytechnic Institute of Brooklyn and a M.S. from the University of Illinois. Then, through
lucky happenstance, he applied for a civil engineer position with the Port Authority of
New York and New Jersey. He was hired as an entry level engineer. As the years
passed, he earned a reputation for being a creative visionary who excelled at clearly
defining a goal and determining the most efficient path to its accomplishment.
Eventually, this led to his appointment as Chief Engineer and Director of Engineering for
the Port Authority. Gene felt passionate about engineers being an integral part to the
successful execution of every phase of a construction project. After he retired from the
Port Authority, in addition serving as a consultant to construction projects, he worked to
promote the role of the engineer through speaking engagements and by working in
education as a professor. Throughout his career, Gene received recognition from many
organizations for his contributions to construction projects, as well as to the field of civil
engineering.
His life experiences - from the ordinary to the truly extraordinary - became the material
for Gene’s engaging, and often funny, stories. He was a prolific storyteller and would
happily spin a tale from one of his experiences to share with a willing audience, of any
size. Gene deemed even everyday experiences to be worthy of a story, which reflected
his appreciation for the “little things” in life. He often provided an enthusiastic report to
family or friends about what he ate for lunch, the score of his latest tennis match, or how
many runs he made at the ski slope recently. Gene spoke fondly about the pleasures of
growing up in a time when life was more simple. He shared memories of playing games
in the streets with friends, eating fresh pasta made by his mother, watching his father
make wine in their home cellar, and being surrounded by immediate and extended
family at all times in Brooklyn.
Gene was also willing to tell stories about the extraordinary events of his life, even those
of a harrowing nature . The story heard by the greatest number of people, resulting in
his “15 minutes of fame”, was that about his experience of the 1993 bombing of the
World Trade Center. Not only did he survive being trapped - along with several others -
in a smoke filled elevator, but after doing so he immediately went to work to assess the
safety of the building and direct the efficient stabilization, recovery and restoration of it.
Many organizations - from local radio stations, to engineering organizations, to the Wall
Street Journal - asked Gene to share the story of his unique experience of this event.
Beyond sharing stories, Gene found great pleasure in sitting at a table with family and
friends and simply talking, and sometimes debating, about a wide range of subjects.
His curious, philosophical mind was evident through the questions he asked of friends
or family members about their life experiences as well as the probing thoughts he had
about the nature of being human.
When he wasn’t at work, Gene could be found participating in his favorite activities. In
his thirties, a passion for playing tennis factored into the purchase of a home in
Ridgewood, NJ. Living in Ridgewood provided the opportunity to play tennis on a
regular basis at two local tennis clubs after arriving home by train from the city. He
relished playing tennis with family and friends for over five decades. The game of tennis
was so near and dear to Gene’s heart that his wife, Maxine, arranged for his racket to
be laid to rest with him! Gene could be quite adventurous as seen when he hitchhiked
from New York to Mexico and when he carried a “how to ski” book out to the slopes and
followed its step-by-step instructions to try out the sport. He loved to travel to other parts
of the world or the U.S. with Maxine, especially to spend time with their blended family
of children and grandchildren. Perhaps lesser known about Gene is that he loved to
play piano on a regular basis and partner dance at special events. Yes, Gene was a
renaissance man!
Gene is survived by his wife, Maxine Hyrkas; his sister, Marie Zodda; his brother,
Vincent Fasullo; his sons, Greg (Ashley) Fasullo, John (Lisa) Fasullo, and Todd
(Andrea) Fasullo; his step-daughters, Dawn (John) Woo and Lori (Bill) Christiano; his
grandchildren, Carter, Samantha, Willie, Emma, Harley, Rachel, Lia, Owen and Jolie;
and numerous nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by his parents, Joseph and
Frances Fasullo and his brother, Tom Fasullo.
To protect the health of friends and family members during the current pandemic, no
services will be held. You are warmly welcomed to leave a comment to honor the
memory of Gene at:
https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/suffern-ny/eugene-fasullo-9874243
In lieu of flowers, please donate to The Moles Charitable Fund. Gene was a proud
member of this organization which established a fund to promote engineering of heavy
construction projects as a career path . Donations can be sent to: The Moles Charitable
Fund, 50 Chestnut Ridge Road, Suite 102, Montvale, NJ 07645.
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