William E. O'Brien Jr.

William Edward O’Brien Jr. passed peacefully on March 16th, 2024, leaving behind a legacy that resonates with joy, humor, and a profound sense of purpose. As a retired teacher, O’Brien's passion for life infused everything he touched with wonder and meaning. Born in Flushing to a World War II veteran and a nurturing mother, Bill was one of seven siblings whose upbringing instilled in him values of resilience and compassion. In the early 1960s, the O’Brien family relocated to Great Kills, where Bill's journey of discovery and love unfolded.

Bill's musical journey began when he traded his accordion for an electric guitar after witnessing the Beatles' iconic performance on The Ed Sullivan Show. His years at Monsignor Farrell High School were marked by active participation in clubs and his role in the school's inaugural band program, where he even performed for President Lyndon B. Johnson during the Verrezzano Narrows Bridge opening. Embracing his musical talents, Bill played guitar and piano in local bands, navigating from one gig to another in his VW bug.

During his teenage years, Bill met Mary Ann Hennessy, his beloved wife, with whom he shared five years of courtship before their marriage in 1974. Settling in New Dorp, they raised two children, Chris and Katie, until Mary Ann's passing from Multiple Myeloma in 2016.

In the 1980s, Bill's entrepreneurial spirit led him to establish the successful placement agency, O’Brien Ross Management Group. However, his true vocation revealed itself when he transitioned to become an English teacher at Fort Hamilton High School. Immersing himself in literature, music, and the art of teaching, Bill flourished, garnering numerous awards, fellowships, and grants for his dedication to mastering the craft of education. His impact extended beyond the classroom as he also served as a UFT delegate and an adjunct at CSI, infusing his classes with boundless enthusiasm and compassion.

Retiring in 2014, Bill devoted himself to caring for his wife and embracing his role as "POP-O" to his five grandchildren: Maya, Riley, Liam, Logan, and Lily. His love for jazz guitar blossomed as he continued to pursue learning and growth, culminating in the formation of "The Carol Griffin Trio" with close friends Carol Griffin and Dave Dragos. Their performances became a cherished part of several local eateries' ambiance, reflecting Bill's adventurous spirit and unwavering passion.

Bill lived each day with a resilient sense of humor, believing that laughter could illuminate both joyous moments and difficult times. His mantra, "You catch more bees with honey than you do with vinegar," epitomizes his belief in kindness and fairness toward all.

A celebration of Bill's remarkable life is planned for later this spring. In honor of his memory, contributions can be made to the Multiple Myeloma Foundation.