Ashley Gayle Totten

Ashley Gayle Totten, 33, of Stafford, Virginia and her unborn child, Amiya Nevaeh Totten, unexpectedly left this earthly life on Sunday, April 18, 2021, from complications related to Covid19. They have departed from this life to receive their wings among the angels and find a home beside Our Lord Jesus Christ.

She was such a beautiful and caring individual. She obtained her PCA and deeply loved caring for the elderly. She was outgoing, carefree, a genuine soul and free spirit. She was a presence that lit up the entire room. The Belle of the Ball, the Social Butterfly. Ashley had an unconditional love for her daughter Briana and she was happily looking forward to bringing her second child Amiyah, into this world. Ashley was adored by many and loved by all. Her smile was comforting and her laugh was truly contagious. She will be missed deeply and forever have a place in our hearts.

Ashley is survived by her daughter, Briana Rae Totten; her parents, Okey Ray Totten Jr. (Lynn) & Cheryl Lee Stafford (Robert); her step mother, Candice M. Choiniere; and her grandparents, Hazel R. Totten, Okey & Grace Totten Sr., Woodrow & Patty Beach.

She will also be greatly missed by her siblings, Tonya N. Totten, Amber R. Totten, Lindsay F. Stafford, Jessica M. Hicks, Robert G. Stafford III, Matthew W. Stafford, Joshua L. Cornwell and Jocelyn L. Cornwell; and nieces and nephews, Ethan, Kaelyn, Baylee, Haleigh, Brantley, Madelynn, Bryson & Mckenleigh. Ashley also leaves behind numerous Aunts, Uncles, and Cousins to cherish her memory.

John 14:1-3

Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe and trust in God; believe and trust also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.

Ashley’s visitation will be held from 6:00pm-8:00pm on Friday, April 23, 2021 at Mullins and Thompson Funeral Service, Stafford Chapel. Her funeral service will be at 1:00pm on Saturday, April 24, 2021 at the funeral home.