Charles Marshall Friedman

Charles Marshall Friedman ("Marshall"), a renowned trial attorney, community leader, and devoted family man, passed away peacefully on September 30, 2024, at the age of 84, after a long battle with Alzheimer's. Marshall was known for his tireless legal advocacy, integrity, energy and warmth. He left an indelible mark on both the St. Louis legal community and Jewish community.

Born in 1940 in St. Louis, Missouri, Marshall was the youngest of three first-generation children (older brothers Irvin and Arthur). After serving on active duty with the United States Coast Guard, he attended Washington University in St. Louis, where he earned both his undergraduate degree and his law degree (J.D. 1965). His commitment to zealous advocacy of the injured and downtrodden laid the foundation for a legal career spanning over five decades, during which he became one of the most respected trial attorneys in the Midwest. One particular area of specialty and love was railroad labor law where Marshall was actively engaged in the railway labor movement and in the representation of injured railway employees for over 40 years.

Throughout his career, Marshall was a fierce advocate for his clients, and his legal acumen earned him widespread respect among colleagues and peers. His meticulous preparation, legendary oratory skills, combined with his genuine care for those he represented, led to many notable and sizeable jury verdicts.

His dedication to justice extended beyond his legal practice. Legal education was always near to his heart. He served as an adjunct Professor at Washington University in St. Louis School of Law sharing his Trial Practice/Procedure craft to law students for over 30 years.

Marshall was not only recognized for his professional achievements but also for the kindness and empathy he showed to all. His clients frequently spoke of his compassionate nature, recounting how he treated them with dignity, listened with patience, and fought tirelessly for their rights. The law was not just a profession to Marshall -- it was a calling to help others. Many former clients regularly sent holiday letters to Marshall, even continuing for decades, thanking him for helping them lead successful lives despite suffering catastrophic on-the-job injuries. Two of Marshall's sons treasured the opportunity to work with Marshall in private law practice for several years.

But above all, Marshall's love was for his family. He is survived by his five children -- Scott (Simi), Mark (Tammy), Michael (Deborah), Lisa and Rob (Kate) -- and his 20 grandchildren, the apple of his eye. A cherished "Zaida," he was a source of wisdom, love, and support, with the uncanny ability to make each of his grandchildren feel uniquely valued. He also cherished the memory of his late wife Carol (Ross) Friedman, of blessed memory, as well as wonderful memories with Bonnie.

Marshall was legendary for his ability to tell stories and jokes. His firm handshake or hug, warm smile and ability to give compliments is remembered by all who knew him. He loved music and sang at every opportunity, especially on Shabbat -- which he held so dearly. He made each person he interacted with feel as if they were the most important person in the room. He demonstrated what it meant to live a life of joy, charity and commitment to the Jewish faith.

In Marshall's memory, his children encourage you to make a point to say something nice to someone you love today -- and to also make it a point to say something nice today to someone you don’t even know (and then repeat this again tomorrow!).

A graveside service was held on Tuesday, October 1st at Chesed Shel Emeth Cemetery-7500 Olive Blvd.