Betty Jo Kieffer

Kieffer, Betty Jo (nee Jurgesmeyer) on Saturday, July 22, 2023. Beloved wife of the late Kenneth C. Kieffer and John E. Gilliam; dearest mother of John Gilliam and Beverly Gilliam Taki; dear grandmother of Adam (Natalie) Taki; dear great grandmother of Gemma Dove Taki; our dear aunt, great aunt, and friend to many.

The Life of Betty Jo Kieffer: Today, we gather to celebrate the life of Betty Jo Kieffer, a remarkable woman who touched the lives of many and left an indelible mark on our hearts. Betty Jo will forever be remembered as a kind, caring, and loving woman, full of spirit and generosity. She was a dedicated volunteer and an extraordinary friend and bridge player to all who had the pleasure of knowing her. Her devotion to her family and friends knew no bounds, and her unwavering faith in God shone through in every aspect of her life. Born in St. Louis to Pearl and Clarence Jurgesmeyer, Betty Jo's journey began in University City, where she found lifelong companions in her first cousins, John, and Mildred (Millie) Owings, as well as the vibrant community from the 13 brothers and sisters from her mother's side, the Morris family.

Growing up during the challenging years of the Great Depression, Betty Jo learned invaluable life skills that shaped her into the compassionate and conservative person we all cherished. From her early years, she embraced her Christian faith, actively participating in church Bible School and youth groups. It was at University City Methodist Church where she met her first husband,John E. Gilliam, and father to her children, John D. and Beverly Jo.

Betty Jo's love for the American Legion evolved as she actively participated in numerous activities and led various committees. She cherished her time working at American Legion Post 397, particularly during their Friday Fish Frys, where she delighted in contributing to the Post's success. She found immense joy in projects like Girls' State and the Oratorical Contest, leaving a positive impact on the lives of countless young individuals.

For over 40 years, Betty Jo dedicated herself to the auxiliary and volunteered her time for the betterment of the Legion and the countless veterans they supported. Her commitment led her to serve as the 10th District Auxiliary President and later as the Department of Missouri Auxiliary President, taking her across the state to connect with various Posts and auxiliary groups. She also served as the Hospital Representative at Jefferson Barracks Veterans Hospital for 39 years. Additionally, she was a Chapeau for the St. Louis County Salon 16.

In the midst of her active life, Betty Jo found her soulmate in Kenneth Kieffer. Their love story blossomed at the American Legion Hall in Creve Coeur. On July 10, 1971, they embarked on a journey of 40-plus years of pure joy and happiness together. Betty Jo and Ken shared a passion for travel, exploring the world, and creating cherished memories during their summer trips.

Let us celebrate the beautiful life of Betty Jo Kieffer and find solace in the knowledge that she now rests in the loving arms of eternity. May her soul find eternal peace and her memory bring us comfort in the days to come.

As we bid farewell to our beloved Betty Jo, we take comfort in knowing that she has found eternal peace in the embrace of our Heavenly Father. Her legacy of love, compassion, and faith will continue to inspire us all. Though we will miss her dearly, her memory will forever be etched in our hearts.

To remember Betty Jo, contributions to the American Legion Scholarship or Veteran’s Fund, Post 397 would be appreciated. Donations should be addressed to the American Legion Post 397 Memorial Fund, 936 Rue De La Banque, Creve Coeur, MO 63141. Condolences to www.kriegshausermortuary.com

Services: Visitation on Friday, July 28, at Kriegshauser West, 9450 Olive Blvd., from 9:30 am until 11:00 am. St. Louis County Salon 16 will offer a service at 11:00 am. Funeral Service at 11:15 am. Committal Service at the Bellerive Cemetery Mausoleum. In Lieu of flowers, Memorials to the American Legion Scholarship and Veterans Fund, Post #397 are welcome and appreciated.