Terry McDonald

Born in Oakland, CA, to Olen Albon & Vireda McDonald, Terry grew up with strong values that guided him throughout his life. In 1964, he attended Boy’s State. He graduated from Sikeston High School in Sikeston, MO, before earning degrees from the University of Missouri, Columbia, and Washington University in St. Louis.

Terry dedicated 34 years of his professional life as a bank examiner for the FDIC, where his integrity and diligence left a lasting impact. He also proudly served his country in the United States Army and Army Reserves from 1969 to 1996, achieving the rank of Command Sergeant Major.

Terry was preceded in death by his parents and his beloved wife, Barbara McDonald. He leaves behind a loving family: his son, Shawn McDonald of Seattle, WA; his daughter, Shannon Smith of San Antonio, TX, and her husband, Aaron; his cherished grandchildren, Colin, Atticus, and Madison; his brother, Gary McDonald (Carol); sister-in-law, Laurie Goodfellow (Lafe); and a wide circle of extended family and friends who will deeply feel his absence.

Beyond his career and military service, Terry was an active member of his community. He served as a trustee for his subdivision in University City, MO, contributed to the University of Missouri Alumni Association in Columbia, and found joy in his local word-lovers’ group, the Logophiles. He also held leadership roles in the American Legion and the 40 and 8 veterans' organizations, dedicating years to supporting fellow servicemembers.

Terry was a man of quiet strength, sharp wit, and boundless kindness. He valued honesty, hard work, and thoughtful planning, serving as a steadfast role model to his children and countless others he mentored. His humor was dry, his loyalty deep, and his integrity unwavering. He found happiness in simple pleasures-good conversation, live music, the beauty of a sunset-and believed in creating meaningful memories with those he loved.

In honoring Terry's life, he would encourage you to pause for a sunset, laugh with friends, enjoy live music or theatre, and most importantly, make time for those who matter most. Let his legacy be a reminder to live fully, love deeply, and always choose the honorable path.

He will be profoundly missed.

Visitation will be 3/10/25 10-11am, service at 11am at Nunnelee (205 N Stoddard St, Sikeston, MO); at 2pm Terry will be inurned w/wife Barbara at Forest Hills Memorial Gardens.

On 3/12/25, 3-6pm a celebration of life will be at the American Legion 3669 Legion Ln, Columbia, MO.

A couple organizations that were close to Terry’s heart were the American Legion and Boy’s State. Beyond his leadership roles at the American Legion, he also spent time in service and donation. Through Terry’s donations 17 young men have been able to attend Boy’s State. Though not necessary, if you truly feel called, in lieu of flowers, send donations to: American Legion Post 202, 3669 Legion Lane, Columbia, MO 65201 or Boy’s State either by mail: The American Legion Boys State of Missouri, Inc., PO Box 667, Warrensburg, MO 64093 or online at moboysstate.org/donate

Online Extended Obit: https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/12259512

For more information: www.nunneleefuneralchapel.com