Carmella Marie Foti Moore

Carmella Foti was born on August 13, 1923 in Jamestown, New York. Her parents were Sicilian immigrants, Carmelo and Josephine (Guiseppina) Foti, and the family included her oldest brother, Frank, and two older sisters, Josephine and Nicolina. Another brother, Carl, was born after her and died in infancy. The youngest brother, Anthony, was born, completing the family. She related stories about the fire they had in their home and being carried out by her sister, skating with one skate around the porch as the other skate was being used by one of her sisters, having her hair curled for church by her sisters only to have it straight again before she got home, how her youngest brother had to have an ice cream cone every morning before school (he says it was just one time!), and having her beloved father bring home the same candies each week (the ones he loved) for a treat and telling him "Oh, Pa, why those again?"

She was proud of her Italian heritage, speaking Sicilian at home with the family, but learning English as soon as she started Kindergarten. And that proficiency went with her throughout her life, always using a large vocabulary in her work environments and even with her kids and grandchildren.

She loved school and loved the traditions of her church. She told stories of Lent and of teachers who took special care for her.

Her faith started early and she took the Confirmation name of Marie as her middle name when she was confirmed.

She graduated from Jamestown High School in 1941 and worked as a waitress for a short time.

Her sister Jo worked in Washington, DC, and Carmey went to live with her and to work for the War Department, writing notices and preparing telegrams. She saw all the W.A.V.E.S. dressed in their Navy uniforms and decided she wanted to wear a uniform, too. She joined the Navy and became a Yeoman. She traveled to San Diego and Stillwater, Oklahoma. She loved the Navy and told of many adventures. While she was still on active duty, she received word that her father was very sick. He died of pneumonia at an early age before she could get home on leave. By the time she was honorably discharged from the Navy and went home to live, she was very happy to wear civilian clothes again.

She went to work for Hope's Windows, working as a secretary for the vice president of the company. While she was there, a sizable number of cartoons were made of her by a coworker, and she saved every one along with other satirical writings that were generated by the same friendly jokesters.

She stayed in the Naval Reserves and was called upon to escort Desi Arnaz to a premier of Lucy and Desi's movie "Forever Darling" in 1956. She cherished her pictures of herself with Desi and with Lucille Ball. While in the Reserves, she met Alex Willis Cameron. They were married on June 29, 1957 at St. James Roman Catholic Church in Jamestown. Monsignor Caligoia officiated at the wedding ceremony.

After having enjoyed watching the earlier seven of her nieces and nephews grow up, she had her own children: first Linda, then Patricia, then Alex (each to be called "Linda-Patti-Lex" or some other combination until she got to the right one). She was happy to be able to send them all to Parochial school at St. James from Kindergarten onward, and to see all achieve First Holy Communion. While doing this, she was happy to find Vacation Bible Schools at other churches that could also teach her children songs and Bible stories, so she enrolled us in three different ones one summer (including one from an Evangelical Covenant church in Jamestown).

In 1966, she started working at Marlin Rockwell in Jamestown. Her job was to check roller bearings and ball bearings in the factory. She returned home after work with tiny roller bearings in her up-do hairdo, and the largest roller bearings in her purse. This was due to coworkers playing practical jokes on her. So she was careful to check her purse from then on, especially if it seemed heavier than usual.

In 1970, she moved with her husband and three children to Glendale, Arizona. The trip was in a 1969 Dodge Polara towing a U-Haul trailer. (She took her turn driving, but decided to hand over the wheel when it came to backing up.) The car broke down in Texas and so the trip took two weeks, when it should have been a much shorter trip. On the July day that the family arrived in Phoenix, the temperature was 117 and she wanted to move to Alaska instead!

She took a temporary job at Diamonds (which later became Dillards), and then found permanent work at the Arizona Department of Insurance, working as a secretary in the Life and Health division. Later she worked with Property and Casualty as well.

She returned for a short trip to Jamestown in 1971 to see her mother before she passed away.

She divorced her first husband in 1973. She then met Andrew J. Moore in 1975. They were married for a year and then divorced.

In the meantime, she saw all three children confirmed in the Catholic church. She started going to Catholic Charismatic meetings where she gained a lot of spiritual insights, including hearing the parable of the sower and coming to terms with concepts such as our righteousness being as filthy rags to the Lord. She told those in trouble and heartache to "give it to the Lord", never wavering from her compassion for people.

She always said about herself that other people can express their faith, while she feels the same way but just can't put these feelings into words. But Mama was never one not to express herself. She found the words when it really mattered, while retaining admiration for those she saw expressing their faith.

She moved to Phoenix in 1979. At this time, she started taking acting classes and enjoyed these very much. By this time, her sister Nickie's family (except for her brother-in-law, Dave, who passed away in 1976) had all moved to the Phoenix area, so she enjoyed get-togethers with this extended family. Her daughter Linda had joined the Navy in 1976, so she resigned herself to letters and many visits and phone calls. Linda married in 1977, and Marie gained a son-in-law, Paul.

She continued to work for the Arizona Department of Insurance, riding to work by bus every morning with an omelette made that morning for herself for lunch, packed in used reinforced envelopes that were too good to throw away. (Her daughter, Patti, also had one of these omelettes packed for her for lunch in the same reinforced envelopes. No one at work mistook the envelopes for their own lunches, so that was a nice compensation for having to put an envelope in the staff refrigerator.)

She answered the phones at work all day, so she took a rest from the phone when she got home. One time she had to tell us a story about a call she had gotten at work: The man who called was so frustrated about his insurance company that he blurted out, "That Blue Cross Blue Cheese!" So that's why we say something different from most people when having our picture taken. Mom would tell us, "Say, 'Blue Cross Blue Cheese'."

She retired from the Department of Insurance in 1987 or early 1988. She saw her daughter Patti married to Mike in 1988, but lost her sister Jo to cancer that same year. Her first grandson Glenn was born, and then first granddaughter Elena. She moved into her son's house in 1992. She continued to see the younger set of nephews and a niece (Mark, David, Eric and Jennifer), as well as three great nieces (Debbie, Denise and Jenny). She was able to visit nieces Carolyn and Sandy, and kept up with her nephews Ronnie, Bobby and Carl, and nieces JoAnn and Pam and a growing number of great nieces and great nephews that lived in the Valley and back east. She experienced the loss of a friend, her first husband Bill, in 1994.

At last! Her daughter Linda retired from the Navy in 1998 and she had her family back again. She had two more granddaughters and a grandson in 1999 (Mike and Patti's daughter, Jeanetta, and Linda and Paul's twins, Evie and Kenneth). And then granddaughter Renee was born in 2000.

In the meantime, the family experienced the loss of her nephew, Bobby Edens. All were her favorites. This favorite nephew had visited her in Jamestown and couldn't quit commenting on her table. She had it taken out of the basement for a huge family get-together and decided to spray it with Chanel No 5.

Her son Lex moved for his job in 2004 and soon added Colleen, Sean and Kyla to her family and to her heart.

She lost her sister-in-law, Rose, and brother Frank in 2006 and 2007. She stopped taking vacations with one or other of her daughters about this time. Before that, she was always willing to go visiting (as long as she didn't have to fly).

Mom continued with her love of cooking, baking, and sketching. She had started sketching when she held Beeline Fashion shows back in Jamestown, sketching the fashions on small pieces of paper for her use and the use of the company. She made the best bread and some of the best (as the contest was never held) Italian cookies (that we called biscotti). She made Italian chocolate cookies and cookies with hard-boiled eggs baked in them for Easter. Her lemon meringue pie was always requested for Thanksgiving or Christmas get-togethers. Meat balls were made large (because it got them done and out of the way faster) and the sauce was the most delicious ever. She taught all her kids to make raviolis (so she wouldn't have to make them herself so often: they are a lot of work!)

She was never afraid of work, though. She wanted to spend her time taking care of her grandchildren rather than doing all the cooking. That didn't stop her from always being in the kitchen and not sitting down until everyone else had had their meal and had seconds and dessert.

Thanksgiving 2010 was the first family get-together that she missed. This was due to her health.

She passed away quietly in her home in the early morning on Friday, March 25, 2011.

It is important to note that cars she enjoyed in her life included her 1948 Desoto and her 1967 Dodge Monaco. She also liked her two Impalas, her Peugeot and her red Eagle Vision. She often remarked that she became attached to her cars and hated to get rid of them. Marie was never fond of the Dodge Polara that replaced her beloved Monaco.

Some additional anecdotes and comments about the life of Carmella Marie Moore are in the following paragraphs:

My mom's faith in God was just there. She didn't even stop to think that the other person, a person she might be talking to about anything at all, would possibly not believe in God. Faith in Him just seemed to support her thinking, and she could easily mention God and then be on to some other topic without forgetting Him at all.

In her young days, she was afraid to think of how God had always existed. She went on to concentrate on other aspects of God: how He loved her and everyone else, how He showed His care for people every day and in every way, how He was a support, an anchor, a Rock in her life.

She went through all the sacraments and steps of her church (which she also loved), and was willing to supplement its teachings with her own Bible exploration. She went to Charismatic meetings of the Catholic church and listened to people of faith. She became a person who lived and taught a philosophy of "give it to the Lord" and "give thanks for everything".

Her favorite scripture might have been Luke 9:50, "But Jesus said to him, 'Do not forbid him; for he that is not against you is for you.' ", in answer to all the bickering and quarreling about minor points of religion that went on (and even that she was getting from her daughter, Patti).

About 7 years ago, I led her in a prayer to receive Jesus, just to satisfy a nagging feeling that she had that she had not done enough or had somehow missed something that would please the Lord. She had accepted Christ years before and knew Him and walked with Him every day.

During a difficult time for myself about 6 years ago, I asked my mom what would happen when it was her time to go. She said without hesitation that the Lord would make her ready when that time came.

She was always afraid to even talk about dying. But, since her sickness starting this past Thanksgiving, she started talking about death, letting my sister know that she wanted to be buried at the National Cemetery, and later saying that she wished that God would take her (more frequently in the last few weeks, but maybe she started expressing that within the past two months). What seemed to be keeping her still here was that we were not ready to let her go.

She never liked to say her age. Her grandkids wanted to know how old she was, maybe to estimate how many more years they could count on having with her. At some point she relaxed her prohibitions. She even gave "special dispensation" for Karyl and Coleen to know how old she was. She would grudgingly tell her birth date to medical people. But she said one time that everyone knew how old she was or could figure it out, and even the kids could know, but she just didn't want them saying it in front of her, confronting her with the facts!

If she were still with us, she would be more concerned with people who had lost young children, such as you [Pastor Duane] and Sheri, or those who had lost children at any age, such as Mrs. Rulli and Anna. She would say that she couldn't bear to experience that. She felt each loss deeply. I don't think she could have stood the heartache of losing her remaining sister or brother.

She would also be concerned with the sicknesses and accidents of her family and friends. She was so sad to hear that her niece Sandy's husband Larry had been in the hospital and was still very sick. Her son-in-law Paul was also a topic of concern when he went to the hospital (and we later found out and told her that his problems stemmed from his fall off a ladder). While her nephew David was visiting, she remembered that we'd told her about an accident that he had in January, and so she asked him about it, "So, you've had an accident?" He showed her pictures from his phone of his wrecked car and showed how close he was to having been broadsided (something he hasn't even told his mother, my Aunt Nickie).

She was concerned about Elena's loss of her 19-year-old friend, Michael, last year, Glenn's loss of his best friend, Will, who was in a motorcycle accident at the age of 22 this past January [2011], and about mine and Renee's loss when Lisa died.

If she cared to tell her age, she would say that she lived a good, long life. She would have loved what you [Pastor Duane] said from the pulpit, that she was young. Because she was young. She always felt that she was the same person inside even though she'd aged.

Mom was stubborn and she nearly always got her way. She argued about money: trying to get the person to take more. She had her own logic when it came to reimbursing someone for groceries: any amounts were always rounded up to the next dollar. Then the total was also rounded up with some added for good measure. We enjoyed sparring with Mama, inwardly chuckling about how she played with paper, but also secretly grateful for the extra amount that always came in handy.

One time that she didn't get to throw money around was about a month before she died. She had been expressing hurt and disappointment that I hadn't been at her house for a stretch of quite a few hours. Then she said that she had sinned in her feelings and by expressing them. She thought she was jealous of the time I'd been with a friend instead of with her. She said that she needed to make atonement and wanted to give me money to make up for upsetting me. I told her that she didn't need to make atonement, that she was not at fault. And even if she had sinned, she only needed Jesus' sacrifice on the Cross to make atonement for these. So she didn't have to give money, just tell Him. So she asked if we could pray and tell Him, so we did.

Five days before Mama died, Karyl urged me to call the Catholic church. I had been intending to call and find out if there could be any comfort from there for her, but didn't call until Monday. The priest called the next day and left a voice mail. I called him the following day, Wednesday, and he said, without prompting, that he would like to visit that day, right that minute, as a matter of fact, if she wasn't busy with something. I wasn't home at the time, but I wanted her to receive the anointing for the sick. Fr. Raphael went over to her house, and the home-care aide, Kaitlin, was there to let him in. He read her scripture and was there for about 20 minutes. She was happy to have him come over, and she answered "yes" to our questions about him later.

For Mama's funeral, I think she would want comfort and hope to be given every single person in attendance.

Next is the famous "banana story":

One time Mom explained why she didn't like to get cards for people. She said that you spend a lot of money on a card, which then just gets thrown away. She said that she would rather give them "something useful, like a banana". From then on, we often gave and received bananas (usually written on) for birthdays.

Stories that will be included shortly include:

There's the towel dress and other inventions of Mama, the Clover Club potato chip contest, the chaise longue that she won, the Nikita Chewchef contest entry, the Beeline fashions, "Sober, Congenial and Laughing" at Grandinetti's, and other stories that I think of while I'm doing dishes and not at the computer. How about our injuries: Lex had the pipe from Gordon's house and I had my fingernail injury when I was pushing the lawn mower. Mom handled those well. How about Linda's foot being stepped on by a horse?

Mom invented the towel dress. She thought there should be a comfortable dress to wear around the house, one that was washable as well. She paid to have two designs made into dresses. These were beautiful as well as comfortable. She sent her designs to a company that made clothes. They said that they "lost" the dresses. They gave Mom compensation for the dresses she sent.

Mom also invented a gadget that would record a message when you wanted, and would play back the message when a button was pushed. She needed this gadget to tell people: "Remember to put away the sausage when you get home", for whenever (which was quite often) she sent someone home with food.

Mom submitted an entry for a Clover Club potato chip contest. We think the reason she didn't win is that she gave the recipe for potato chips, then told the audience, "Oh, heck, why don't you just buy a bag of Clover Club Potato Chips".

Mom was always entering contests. She usually won when they required something creative rather than just a sweepstakes. She won a chaise lounge (pronounced "shays lawnge" by Mom and all of us) and a record and several other prizes. One contest was to name a new gum. She entered "Nikita Chewchef".

Mom sold Beeline clothes and drew several fashion pictures (currently missing) of the clothes.

The story about "Sober, Congenial and Laughing", which includes some pictures that are in a photo album was as follows: Mom and Patti and Lex decided to go to Grandinetti's for pasta and "bottomless wine". Patti wasn't drinking at the time, but Mom and Lex enjoyed a lot of the wine. As pictures were being taken, Mom proclaimed that "we will take pictures of us, sober, congenial and laughing". Mom and Lex were well past sober, but at least Lex was able to pretend for a picture. Patti took a "congenial" picture. And Mom was mostly laughing.

Long ago, Lex was playing with next-door neighbor Gordie. Somehow, they had gotten a hold of a rusty pipe. Lex came running in with a cut on his hand. Somehow, Mom was able to be calm and drive him to the hospital, where he had to have stitches.

In another event, also long ago, Patti decided it would be fun to help the Shirley Lane neighbor kids with the mowing of the lawn. They were pushing a push mower. On Patti's turn, the lawn mower was stuck on the sidewalk. She barely had the chance to move it when it got caught on a crack in the sidewalk. Patti tripped and hit her fingernail on the sidewalk, causing it to have an injury which we won't discuss in detail. The neighbors' mom was home and she administered first aid. Lex called Mom and she was able to take Patti to the hospital and get our Dad to sit with her. There was also the continued problem about the antibiotics. Patti refused to take them, but Lex had an idea: dissolve one in water and then get two other glasses with water and let her pick one to drink. If she didn't know there was a pill in the water, maybe it wouldn't taste so bad. Dad found out about this and put a stop to it before she had to drink down one pill. Mom came up with a solution: crushed pill on a spoon with some sugar and water.

Linda also had an injury: A horse stepped on her foot. We don't remember if Mom even knew about it.

Linda and I would like to include stories about wine and about "careful driving" (also known to Paul as "Don't drive so bad"). I hasten to add that these two stories have nothing to do with each other!

A computer program that generates biographies has this to say about our mom:

   "Carmella Marie Moore was a modest woman, quiet and observant in her ways. She was trustworthy and traditional in both her approach to life and in her various relationships. She was tough-minded with the kind of 'stick-to-it' attitude that earned the respect of all who knew her. She was also a woman who was meticulous, carefully disciplined, and orderly in virtually everything she undertook. Carmey was realistic about life and was always at the ready, prepared to take on any responsibility that faced her."

While that may not be everyone's description of our mother, some of it rings true, and all of it would have been appreciated as a compliment. We thank the computer for her kind words and go on to other anecdotes and comments:

      Carmey came into the world on August 13, 1923. She first greeted the world in Jamestown, New York. She was the daughter of Carmelo and Josephine. We think she was born at home. She grew up in Jamestown, New York, on Barrows street. Carmey experienced many things while growing up. They had a fire in their house when she was young. She remembers her sister carrying her out. Also, another time, her brother, Tony, was taking a bath and passed out from fumes in the room. They had to come in and revive him. She thinks he had to have an ice cream cone every morning for breakfast before he would go to school. They found some wrapped presents that turned out to be just rocks. She was so disappointed that she remembered the incident years later. At school, one of the boys spilled India Ink on her dress and she had to go home and change. Her father would buy chocolates for the family every week. He would give her a penny to spend on candy. Her mom, our Nana, had a friend on the ship that came over from Italy. The friend wondered why Nana wasn't married yet, as she was almost 19. Carmey's dad would never spank them. He would get his hand back and swing, touching her hand lightly with his hand when it got to her. She was brought up to be self-confident and dependable. These were traits that would serve her well throughout her life.

      The friendly computer also says this: "Growing up, Carmey was good at working through the usual family problems and spats when they appeared. She was the one person in the family who seemed to be the most able to keep the stress at bay." Carmey would say that there were no problems and spats. She was raised with two sisters and two brothers. Frank was the oldest, then Jo, then Nickie, then Carmey, then Tony. Her sisters had to get permission from their dad to wear makeup or nail polish. Being the youngest girl, Carmey got to wear whatever makeup and nail polish she wanted, as her sisters had already worn their dad down.

       Carmey's grandparents were in Tortorici, but we believe their names are Francesco and Josephine Foti and Nicolina and Carmelo Crassi. She didn't know her grandparents, but she cherished a picture she had of the Crassis. Carmey was close to other relatives as well. Carmey's extended family included Aunt and Uncle Lupilo and their children: Billy, Nickie, Lena and Mary. Aunt and Uncle Crassi were her mother's brother and his wife. She was close to their daughter, Nickie. Carmey remembered living with their cousins for a while after the fire at their house.

      The computer also thinks this about our mother, but was not around to know for sure: "As a young child, Carmey was never someone who needed to be the center of attention. She wasn’t pushy and never forced her way into games or other activities. Instead, she was willing to wait to be asked to join in. When asked, she would generally jump at the chance."

       Carmey developed a variety of interests as a child. And many of the things she enjoyed doing, she did quite well. She was always curious about the world around her and was often eager to explore it. Carmey spent her early school years at Jefferson Street school. Carmey painted a cute tray in Kindergarten or 1st or 2nd grade. It was of a squirrel, we think. It had very square-looking bumps on its tail.

       She loved the Catholic church and participated in church activities from when she was young. As a child, she might have liked tennis and badminton. Carmey liked to play on her one skate. She enjoyed playing jacks.

       Carmey's childhood home was a house, but her dad lost it in the Depression. The family would pick fruit for extra money. They went to Niagara Falls when Carmey was older.

       She graduated from Jamestown High School in 1941. Though the teen years were primarily focused on education, there were plenty of things going on outside of school for Carmey. She was also involved in the community during her high school years. She learned about the value of working when she got her first job as a waitress. Carmey got her first car, a DeSoto, after high school. Carmey also did a bit of traveling during her high school years. She traveled to Niagara Falls.

      Carmey went to college in Stillwater, Oklahoma. She was in the Navy when she attended college. She managed to do a little traveling during those breaks in classes.

      Carmey met Alex Willis Cameron while she was working at the Naval Reserve. Bill came in with friends to do reserve duty. He asked her out. Her mother asked about him wondering who she was going out with that evening. She said, "Just someone, Ma. Don't worry. I'm not going to marry him.".

       The couple exchanged vows on June 29, 1957. This marked the beginning of their time together as a family. The wedding was at St. James Catholic Church. Before they got married, Bill promised Monsignor Calijoia that he would raise any children they had as Catholics. Many family members attended the wedding and reception. The maid-of-honor was Mary Laska. The service was performed by Monsignor Calijoia. The wedding reception was held in a hall in Jamestown.

       Following the ceremony, Bill and Carmey managed to spend some time together on their honeymoon. They went to see the Caverns of Luray.

       Compassionate and devoted to Bill, Carmey held endearing, traditional values about marriage and family life. She took the responsibility of marriage to heart, giving it her total commitment. She was a source of strength to Bill, and using her gifts at nurturing one-on-one relationships, she worked hard to make her new family happy, no matter where they called home. Their first residence was an apartment in Jamestown. They bought the house on Maple Street in 1958 before Linda was born.

       In addition to being each other’s best friend, Carmey and Bill were friends with the people who rented the upstairs apartment, the Rix family. Bill brought home a tomcat with six toes that was named Tigger. The cat brought a mouse to Carmey since she was the one who fed him. He was grateful and wanted to give her something to eat as well. She screamed.

       Carmey remained involved in the Catholic church. She helped Bill with the March of Dimes. Bill worked for the Democratic party in getting out the vote. Carmey helped type and mimeograph everything he needed.

      Carmey brought the same traditional values by which she lived her life to how she raised her own family. She was a good parent, always firm yet fair in her dealings. She would always listen carefully and think things through before she acted, even when it was an adverse situation. Carmey and Bill had three children: Linda, Patti and Lex. One story from the kids' childhood was: They were out near a store and Linda wanted an umbrella, but they were late for the bus. The bus driver had to pick up Linda and put her on the bus. From then on, Carmey liked to give umbrellas to Linda, or at least she looked at them and considered buying them at the stores. The children would often fill Carmey with pride and joy because of their accomplishments. Linda played the organ. Lex was in Little League. Patti modeled a dress she made in 8th grade.

       The family had several pets including goldfish, Tigger the cat, Pooh Bear the dog, and Brandy the dog. Pooh Bear came from Sandy's dog Pepper. Brandy was a runt. They used to wait for the "carrot lady" (Carmey) to give them carrots. She would watch them and make sure Pooh Bear didn't take Brandy's carrot, as Pooh was in charge of Brandy. She wouldn't do anything to her while Carmey was watching, though.

       Carmey tried her best to make sure the children were raised in a warm and nurturing environment. Their house was a two story house with two bedrooms on the first floor. The upstairs apartment was rented out. The first floor had a closet that had been the former stairway to the second floor. There was a vacation to Niagara Falls and to Canada while the family lived in New York. In 1970, the family moved to Arizona. Later on in life, she was also blessed with six grandchildren and two step-grandchildren, Glenn, Elena, Jeanetta, Evie, Kenneth, Renee, Sean, and Kyla.

      Carmey greatly enjoyed what she did for a living. She was a hard worker who expected the same work ethic from her co-workers. She was skilled at working effectively in just about every situation; this included small groups, one-on-one situations as well as solo tasks. She enjoyed dealing with concrete ideas and could penetrate any amount of fuzzy or unclear information to reach the essential facts. Always able to attend to the task at hand, she was excellent at meeting deadlines. She was an efficient worker, one who paid careful attention to details, allowing sufficient time to complete one task before moving on to the next. Her first full time job was working for the War Department as a civilian. She wrote out the telegrams when someone was killed in action. While she worked at several jobs over her lifetime, her primary occupation was working as a secretary for Hope's Windows and then for the State of Arizona Insurance Department. Probably the most unique or interesting job Carmey ever held was working at Diamonds when she first moved with her family out to Arizona. She worked as a waitress, then worked for the War Department. Then she went into the Navy. After the Navy, she worked at Hope's Windows, then at Marlin Rockwell. In Arizona, she worked for Diamonds, then the State of Arizona, Department of Insurance.

       Carmey worked hard to be a team player, doing what was necessary to meet objectives. Carmey's supervisor received a letter from one of the representatives of an insurance company because she was so helpful to him. She was willing to do whatever it took to get the job done, even if that meant going the extra mile. Carmey belonged to the union at work.

       During her career she became friends with Lola Cramer-Stout. Lola was a great friend and they spend many hours visiting at each other's homes. Easter was always the holiday that Carmey spent with Lola, trying different brunches at restaurants in the valley.

      Carmey was in the U. S. Navy. She obtained the rank of Chief Petty Officer. She was stationed in San Diego and Stillwater, Oklahoma.

      Carmey always tried to set aside a certain amount of time for working on her hobbies. Some of these hobbies included taking acting classes. She also enjoyed cooking and sketching. Carmey enjoyed her coffee, and she always liked when other people made pasta. She could sit and enjoy the food, not having worked too hard cooking to enjoy her meal. When she would read, Carmey's favorite reading materials were biographies. She also read her paper (the Arizona Republic) every morning. Carmey would watch "Who Wants to Be a Millionaire" and "The View". Carmey liked all kinds of music: country-western and rock especially. Though she was interested in sporting events, Carmey would prefer not to watch the Sun Devils or the Cardinals. It made her too nervous, wanting them to win. She would read the paper the next day to find out the score. She might have been known to ask what inning it was in the football game, but that's as far as it went.

      Carmey was a woman who was dedicated and devoted to her faith. Carmey was a Catholic all her life. She had faith in Jesus from all the reading and studying and listening to sermons and praying that she did. Carmey joined the Italian-American club. She was a sympathetic woman who valued her beliefs and was willing to work tirelessly for them.

      When Carmey looked ahead toward retirement she did her best to be fully prepared. The day for her to leave the workforce came in 1987. She had begun planning retirement far in advance, so everything was set out well when the time came. She was living in Phoenix, Arizona when she retired. She worked tirelessly at family get-togethers. Carmey lived in her son Lex's home from 1992. It was in Awatukee. She enjoyed getting her Awatukee newpaper and seeing her neighbors Stan and Helene and Wendy and Alan and their children. Helene took her to a fund-raiser at the Corpus Christi Catholic church.

       Even in retirement, Carmey continued to stay in touch with her old friends while making plenty of new acquaintances. Some of her friends included Stan and Helene, Wendy and Alan and, of course, Judy Sagall.

     She was active in her new community and felt fulfilled.

      Carmey Moore left us on March 25, 2011. She passed away at home in Awatukee, in Phoenix, Arizona. She was 87 years old. The cause of death was breast cancer. She was preceded in death by her mother and father, her brother Frank, her sister Jo, an infant brother Carmelo, her first husband, her second husband Andy Moore. She is survived by her daughter Linda, her daughter Patti, and son Lex, and their children. Services were handled by Green Acres Mortuary. Carmey was laid to rest at the National Memorial Cemetery on the corner of Cave Creek and Pinnacle Peak Roads in Phoenix, Arizona.

      Many would say that "commitment" is a word that best describes the life of Carmella Marie Moore. She was committed to living the life of a good woman who was both practical and trustworthy. She was committed to the traditional values that she upheld her entire life. She committed herself to being a hard worker who expected the same effort in return from others. Most of all, she was committed to those she knew and loved.

Some comments from friends and family are as follows:

"She would always play Poker with us. She had a big black spoon (I have it now) that she would make eggs with and I would eat with it." -- Kenneth

"When I called Mom to say that I was getting married, she said, 'No, no, Linda - Don't get married!' When I called to say that I was a vegetarian, she said, 'No, no, Linda - Not a vegetarian!'

After the initial shock, Mom got used to both and was very accepting. She loved Paul and always made sure that I (and Lex) had something suitable to eat." -- Linda

"Aunt Carmey .... One beautiful lady; one loving and caring Aunt! So many memories - all heart-warming and joyful! As a young child, when my Aunt Carmey lived downstairs from me with my grandma (Nana) her mother, she would bring my sister and I each a long box of Peppermint Patties, each Tuesday or Friday night, when she returned from the Naval Reserves. As I remember, my father drove her most of the time. (If my memory serves me well - questionable!) This Aunt Carmey would do to coax, or bribe me to stop sucking my thumb, which I dearly cherished doing! What a precious Aunt she was!!" -- Carolyn

"I remember with so much fondness and love the Christmas Eve's at Aunt Carm's 12th St. apartment she would host. She would make Italian sausage, and many other goodies - have her family down to celebrate Christmas Eve together. I always looked so forward to these times - Aunt Carmey made these times so very festive and fun - She was the 'glue' that kept our family in touch during our very busy times in our lives. She was always 'there' for us all, and I miss our 'chats' on the phone we used to have. What a precious, loving Aunt!!" -- Carolyn

"Marie's joy and beautiful smile and appreciation of life and her love for her family" -- Anna

"First time I met Marie she had given Patti permission for us to meet. Marie was so gracious & just wanted to know all about me -- another time we went to Fry's to get her some wine for Christmas -- She got cheated by Fry's -- that's all she talked about for a week -- What I treasure most is Marie's sincerity & authenticity. She was down to Earth & real -- She had to have her lipstick on tho -- If that wasn't on -- she felt naked -- Loved her!" -- Karyl Greenlaw

"Momma chased after me when I was about 2, yelling and screaming. Little did I know that I had just cut my fingers on the orange juice can that I was curious to take out of the trash just after she threw it away. Momma wanted to take care of my cuts but I didn't understand. She caught me, fixed my fingers and explained why she had reacted." -- Patti

"I remember our classes together. Marie was very caring and loving to her children, grandchildren, friends and neighbors. She always prepared a lunch for me when I visited her. We had interesting conversations. She always included me as part of her family. Our friendship lasted 30 years." -- Judy S.

"I remember when Grandma would watch us do little shows and she would clap a little early." -- Renee Putman

"I'm sorry for not getting back to you sooner. I have a crazy work schedule; working two jobs, and I'm also in school. This is no excuse, yet it's my reality for now. I'm sorry for missing the memorial for your mom. It's hard to believe that it's been a year already. All I can say about Aunt Carmey, is that she was one of the warmest, most self-less people that I knew. She was always so concerned about other people. She never seemed to complain. 'Are you hungry, Eric, can I get you anything else?' This was a mantra of hers, at least whenever I was around. She had cool stories about her past, from her days in the NAVY, to funny little anecdotes about my dad, information my dad would have never, not in a million years, communicated to any of us. She was an amazing cook; I'm sure everyone swears by her meatballs and other authentico Italian dishes. I was very pleased to have seen her the year before, around May I think, where Jeannette (my girlfriend) and I dropped in for lunch. Jeannette was taking care of some things in Phoenix, so I spent much of the time alone with Carmey. She was always just herself. She was a wonderful woman, and although I did not see her as much as I would have liked, I still miss her dearly." -- Eric

"... I remember your mom most from the smile she always had on her face and thinking about everyone but herself. She always wanted to make sure we had plenty to eat when we visited." -- Jennifer [Nickolas]

"My memories of Marie are all warm. She was always interested in me & how I was doing. She was always hospitable, sharing, & caring. And wow! What a cook! One time I was lucky enough to get invited for homemade raviolis. She & Patti worked for hours mixing, rolling, filling, sealing. When it was time to eat, Marie put four raviolis on my plate. I thought to myself, 'Four? That's it?!!' (I was used to frozen, store bought ravioli. I usually ate 10 or 12.)

I started eating and couldn't believe how good they were. And to my surprise, I could barely finish -- they were so filling! I'll never forget that experience, nor will I forget Marie Moore." -- Nancy Brandon

"I realy miss Marie, every time I have few minutes I wane go, and talk to her. She was like mom to me. She watch over my house, wen I go away. I pray for her every day." -- love Haline

"Linda if you, or your husband come to Ahwatukee please come to the house, thank you for thinking about us. Marie was like mom to me." -- Haline

"I feel blessed to have known Carmella briefly, but I do know Patti, as one of my best friends. Carmella did a great job raising her family and she was a lovely person with a big heart. Best wishes to her family." -- Love Rita Roper

"At my age, memory is a fleeting thing but I'll try to recall some of

the things that your Mom and I got involved in.

I really do not recall all the facts about me and 'ice cream' before

going to school. I do remember living in a house on Tower Street

(Jamestown, NY) and going to the Lincoln Elementary School. If there

was a day that I refused to go to Kindergarten Class until I had an

ice cream cone, then I have totally forgotten the incident! Maybe my

sister Nicky can remember some of the details.

Celeron, NY was a small town just a few miles outside of Jamestown.

An amusement park was there most of the summer, with rides and

concession booths. One evening Carmey and I went to the park, but I

don't remember how we got there. We probably took a bus. I was in my

early teens at the time. One booth offered a grand prize of a

portable typewriter that could be won by throwing some balls at

something and knocking them down. I spent all my money, and probably

Carmey's also, trying to win that prize. Naturally, I didn't win the

typewriter, but I did win a consolation prize, a beautiful girl doll

with, I think, a porcelain face. Carmey kept that doll ever after,

and it is probably still with her possessions.

I was eighteen when I passed my driver's test and received a driving

license. I wanted to buy a nice, 1939 or 1940 DeSoto automobile but

I did not have the money to buy it. Somehow, Carmey had some savings

in the bank so she loaned me $500 (?) to buy the car. I may have

given Carmey some driving lessons in that car so that she was later

able to get her driver's license. When I was drafted into the U.S.

Army in 1950, she took care of and drove the car while I was gone. I

don't remember how or when, but I think I later repaid Carmey the

money she loaned me.

As I mentioned before, my memory is a bit hazy about some of the

facts that I tried to recall in the above incidents. Check with

Nicky and maybe she can fill in more of the details. Hope this will

be of some help to you when you put all your remembrances of your Mom

in her biography." -- Uncle Tony & Aunt Dorothy

"I remember so much my Aunt Carm when she came home from the Navy and living downstairs with my Na Na. She was always there as I was growing up in 'teens'. One night, I was sleeping in the downstairs bedroom. She told me to never go to bed with dirty feet, and to this day, I never go to bed with 'dirty feet'.

She was so precious to me and we were very close, all through our years.

I will always remember my Aunt 'Carm'." -- Sandy Langworthy

Some special notes from Carolyn are:

"Thank you, precious Patti, for sharing these most personal and precious insights of my most beloved, cherished, and exceedingly wonderful, loving, second-mother to me, Aunt Carmey. I will cherish this in my heart forever, and truly appreciate YOU for sharing this!!!

Your mother was a beautiful gift from God, and God's love and grace and mercy was always evident in her life.....all the way back from when I was a little girl, right through until the day The Lord took her Home. Beautiful in every way....inside and out. My heart rejoices to 'hear' the conversations you had with Aunt Carmey about The Lord. Thank You, Jesus! And, thank you, Patti, for sharing this with me!

When you talk to Anna, tell her my heart rejoiced when you told me she sang 'Hallelujah' to your mom the day before she went Home. Somehow, in my heart of hearts, I felt Aunt Carm needed, or wanted, to hear that glorious song. And coming from Anna's mouth, it had to have been a beautiful sound to Aunt Carm's ears. Anna has an extraordinary voice!

I love you, Patti, and will be talking to you soon. I am now going to print out the message you sent for my mother. She will be so pleased to have it. Love you so much! Carolyn"

"Dear Patti....I LOVE the banana story!!! Lol!! That is sooo unique! And it sounds just like

Aunt Carmey! One time, some time ago, we were talking on the phone and someone's birthday was coming up....maybe my mom's, not sure. Anyway, your mom and I were talking about buying and sending Greeting Cards. Then your mom said to me: "I have HUNDREDS of cards that are sent to me in the mail (the kind we get from charities, etc.) and I'll NEVER be able to use them all". I just laughed so hard, because I knew exactly what she was talking about. Why go buy cards that will be thrown away when we can use the zillions we have at home that were sent to us! Ha!! So true! If she had told me about the bananas, I probably would have thought that was a GRAND idea! Lol!

every year.....and also Lottery Tickets. Then one year she sent me the money to go buy the

Yes, your mom and I would send Scratch Tickets to each other in our birthday cards otherlottery tickets, so I could use my own numbers,if I had any. Oh....these precious, wonderful memories! Your mom lived her life so very beautifully and lovingly....and today has been a tearful day for both mom and me. Our breakfast literally consisted of eggs, toast, prunes, milk (for me), coffee, and tears flowing freely as we talked about and thought about Aunt Carm. It's almost too difficult to believe; but I know that our God does all things well and He is a loving and gracious Father.....therefore we can trust Him fully. But I love the thought of Him 'leaving the party up there to come down and comfort all the grieving hearts here'. That 'picture poem' is awesome. Like I told Sandy today....'Life's middle name is "change", and underneath are the Everlasting Arms'.

Patti, when your mom went back to see Aunt Jo, did you go with her? I can't remember. Did Aunt Carmey fly back? I told my mom that story today, about how Aunt Jo had died before your mom got to see her. I was hoping that would ease my mom's heart. She said there is a lonely place inside of her now, and I know just what she's feeling. Boy....as if you don't!! All the funeral arrangements were beautiful beyond words, and the precious love and grace your mother always exhibited is so very evident in you, Linda and Lex. It is a beautiful and comforting thing to see. And I am so thankful for each one of you!!

Love you, my precious Patricia!! I will soon be adding my words and thoughts to the Memorial website. Love you much!!! Carolyn (Something 'happened' to the body of the text above.....your mom and I sent both scratchers and lottery tickets to each other in our birthday cards. Somehow those sentences got scrambled up)"

"Patti.....Just a very quick email at this time, as I need to get mom's breakfast ready, and this morning has been very busy with Jenn here and my neighbor who just left. Her mother-in-law passed away this week, and we were discussing the resurrection of our bodies "on the last day", and about our spirits returning to God when we die. She and her husband are wonderful people, believers in Christ, and when we see each other, we have an uplifting time sharing about The Lord.

Of course you may send Anna the email I sent you. Yes, it IS easier doing that, and you are welcome to do that.

I laugh hearing about Linda giving Lex and his family a bunch of bananas! Lol!! Too wonderful, funny and unique!! I pray you will be able to let the tears flow.....as many and as much as need to be released in you. And then remember that in Revelation (somewhere!) we are told that either the elders or the angels are holding bowls, that contain the tears and prayers of the Saints. Wait....that might not be exactly how it reads! Ha! But....we do know The Bible teaches that God puts our prayers in a bottle (I will look that up to find out where it is) and that tears are cleansing and help us to release our deep sorrow.

I love you, precious Patti!! Will email and 'talk' (even on the phone) again soon. If there is anything I can do for you, you must let me know. Love, hugs.....Carolyn (I pray for you, Linda and Lex....especially for the three of you!)"

The following are letters and messages from C. Marie Cameron:

A letter dated "Tuesday, September 23" and postmarked "Sep 24 1969" reads:

"Dear Alex,

I miss you and thought I would drop this in the mailbox before going to work.

Linda, Patti and Lex are in school and if they were in the house while I was writing this, I'm sure they would be shouting all sorts of messages to you.

We can't afford too many long distance phone calls, but I can certainly squeeze a few minutes from my schedule to write, and also stamps are cheap. [6 cents on this letter]

I don't know your address as yet but hope your cousin John doesn't mind delivering this to you.

Hope you have already written to me as I'm looking forward to your letter, and any news.

I'm working nights now, but it should only be for 2 or 3 weeks until my department gets more work. I worked 10 hours last night and I believe the Wrap Room where I am working now will be scheduled for 10 hrs for the rest of the week.

Bye!

Love, xxxxx

C. Marie

and

Love from

Linda, Patti & Lex

P.S. I wrote -- your wife, don't forget - but then I thought you might think I was being sarcastic so I crossed it out ...... but decided to tell you why I crossed it out. (Again, Love and kisses)"

A letter written on "wrap room" paper and dated "Friday, Sept. 26, 1969" and postmarked "Sep 27, 1969" reads:

"Dear Alex,

I've been thinking of you tonight while at work and in fact maybe your ears were ringing, because the girls were asking about you. (Pat Schultz is one of them.)

I'm working with her in the Wrap Room, along with a girl named Betzy, whose boyfriend, John Pullan, knows you.

In fact, I sold the Washer to a Pat Finnerty, and he said his father & Mother knew you very well, and so did he.

I know you know a lot of people, but I'm still surprised when I hear of so many who know you.

Linda, Patti & Lex are staying at the house on Maple Street because I'm going there after work too. Dave & Larry will be there early tomorrow morning to get the cellar cleaned out. They borrowed Bill Brown's truck and will have to return it by noon.

I have to work tomorrow (4 hrs.) and since I'm going to be quite busy, I canceled my hair appointment.

I miss you, more every day, and Linda, Patti & Lex do also.

We're wondering what you are doing. Have you found a place for yourself? Hope you are thinking of me, and of the nice times you and I once had, as I am thinking of.

This letter will be short as its almost time for me to go home.

Will let you know more of how things are going when I hear from you, or maybe I'll get a chance to drop a line in a few days.

I'll mail this on the way home tonight.

Lots of Love & kisses

C. Marie

Lots of Love & kisses

from Linda, Patti & Lex"

A letter dated "Wednesday, October 1st" and postmarked "Oct 2 am 1969" and sent with two 6-cent stamps to be Via Air Mail, reads:

"Dear Alex,

I was certainly very glad to get your letter this afternoon ... I have been thinking of you and yesterday when I didn't receive a letter I was quite disappointed.

The kids also have asked every day if you had written.

Lex took this picture at Murphy's and he wanted you to have it. Linda and Patti and I also have one.

Phoenix, Ariz. sounds very inviting, especially how you wrote about it. I'm glad you said it will be a lot better for you when we all are there with you.

You wrote a glowing account of it, very descriptive and it sounds terrific. I'm sure we'll love it. I called Linda on the phone from work and she wanted to know what you said in your letter. She'll be happy to hear about the oranges, grapefruit, lemons, & date trees, which I didn't even know they had growing there. Patti & Lex also will be glad to hear about the trees and they all will be glad to hear about the various points of interest for sight-seeing. I'm especially happy to hear about the tours (the one to Las Vegas ... but I hope it isn't by air-line), and how close Phoenix is to California, Mexico, Tucson, Flagstaff, etc.

Where are you staying? Have you found a reasonable place? Hope so. I'll send you your clothes, pants, shirts, etc as soon as possible. How do you like your job?

I'm still on nights working in the Wrap Room. Don't know when the Roll Room will be picking up and if I'll be going back soon on my previous job. It was suppose to have been only for 2 or 3 weeks, but in the meantime I don't mind my present work.

I hope before long that things will get settled here so that we can move out there with you.

Because so far, it has been all work and no play and I don't want to play with anyone except you.

Linda, Patti and Lex are my happiness here but I would like to have us all a family together again, which means you as the head of the family, as my husband (and father) which you, of course, are.

I'm writing this to you at work, so will mail it on the way home tonight.

When I said the children are my happiness here, I should have also said, you too were my happiness, and its strictly dullsville here, except for the kids.

Lots and Lots of Love and kisses from Linda, Patti & Lex

All my Love,

C. Marie, your wife, of long ago, it seems

xxxxx"

A letter dated "Friday, October 10, 1969" and postmarked "Oct 1 1969" and written partly on "wrap room" paper and partly on regular paper, reads:

"Dear Alex,

I'm writing this on my break so that I can mail it to you on the way home tonight. I've been thinking of you.

Sorry that I had to call you collect as I noticed your voice had a slight impatience to it and that it sounded like you didn't actually want to accept the call. I have no choice in the matter tho as I really hate to see my telephone bill which will arrive in a few days as the charges will, no doubt, be exorbitant.

I hope you can arrange things there so that I and the children can be with you as soon as possible. I'm not gaining too much by working here, at the moment, unless you can send money home (well, not exactly home) so that we can get the outstanding bills paid, yours and mine.

Working in the Wrap Room allows me time to think of various things. Especially now that I am working nights. I remember the very pleasant times long ago when you were on the 4 to 12 shift at Carborundum and when I wasn't working and you would come home after work and come in the bedroom, and always give me a kiss whether I was sleeping or not.

You would come home fresh and clean from your shower, and would be very attractive to me. In fact, you always did look your best when you were working at Carborundum, not that I wanted you to work in a factory, it was because you would always be looking so nice after your shower, and you really looked your best then. (Because you didn't let yourself go, like you did after you got the Union job.) But this could have been on account of other circumstances tho, so I don't mean this as a dig.)

How are you doing with your clothes? Have you enough shirts? I would like to ship a few things out to you, so let me know your address.

How are the un-furnished apartments? Have you seen any? Do they come with a stove and refrigerator? If they do, wouldn't you be able to rent one and then I can ship you your dresser and other things. I wished you could find reasonable accommodations so that your money wouldn't all go towards a room in a motel as I really need a steady weekly amount from you in order to manage.

I'll have to look to you now for all the financial assistance.

I really don't want to go into all the sordid details of my expenses, etc, recent car expenses, rents, etc.

My recent encounter with my car was very disgusting. The car wouldn't start in the morning and the children were late for school 2 days in a row. .... Patti and Lex came back home the first day rather than be late, and the second day, just Lex came back home but he said he wasn't feeling good tho. They had off Thursday & Friday of this week for Teachers conference and will have Columbus Day off this Monday.

I had to have my car towed from Marlin Rockwell's parking lot, as the night before it didn't start (after getting the car to a garage on Monday, they stamped the Inspection sticker O.K, getting $4.00 for that, and then I still couldn't get the car started that night.) Schriver charged $10.00 for tow, $10.00 labor, $9.55 broken starter spring, total with tax $31.32.

Money is not important but at the moment we need it to clean up the bills so that we can look people straight in the eyes and "hold our heads up".

I want to help out as much as possible and I think we can do it. It doesn't matter that we have had a set-back as long as we shoulder the responsibility.

Hope you have already written to me.

Frank Salomme always asks about you and today he said to say hello to you. He mentioned that he has a brother-in-law in Phoenix, and that he worked at Magnavox. Have you looked into the possibility of getting a Government job nearby at the Missile Base located there?

Lex is sending you a little note. He misses you, so does Linda, so does Patti, and so do I.

We all send you lots of kisses and love.

I'm trying to think mostly of the 9 first years of our marriage before I let my mind wander to the last 3 years of our marriage, and know that the good thoughts will beat the bad ones.

Love to my husband, and if at times your "right ear" is ringing its because at work your name crops up quite often during the evening. The "right ear" means good things said about you.

Love and kisses from your wife, C. Marie

Love from the children"

A letter on "wrap room" paper, dated "Wednesday, October 15th" and postmarked "Oct 15 1969" and stamped with two 6-cent stamps and marked "Via Air Mail", reads:

"Dear husband Al,

Your very nice letter, even tho short, was sweet, and I appreciated it, and also the fact that you enclosed a money order for $20. It was a beautiful day Monday and then your letter arrived and it put me in a nice frame of mind. It feels nice when you can help me out, as you did before I went to work. A woman likes to know and feel that a husband is the one to take care of things, as it rightfully should be.

Tuesday started off with a bang ... terrible. It was very cold out and my car wouldn't start. I was going to drive the kids to school. I just got the car back from Schriver's and when I couldn't get it to start, I naturally was quite furious. (sorry, but there are times when I can't control my temper. I called Schriver up, and then when he got there, (I was in the apartment) the car started for him. He proceeded to tow it back to his station but then when I went down for it about 3 o'clock he said there was nothing wrong with it. Both of us proceeded to tell each other off, and as I hadn't paid the balance of $21.00 (I just paid $10 when I first picked up the car) I had to pay the balance and luckily I had the $20.00. If the car didn't start then what will it do when we really have snow and zero weather. I certainly wouldn't have called if the car had started and truthfully I can't figure out what possibly happened as I waited in the car 5 minutes or more before attempting to start it again but nothing happened. (I was out there for about 1/2 hr.) So why it finally started when he got there is beyond me.

I am thoroughly disgusted and even tho I can get a ride to work, and back, when I am stuck I really do need transportation for grocery buying, washing clothes, church, etc.

I don't want to buy another cheap car, if anything, it will have to be in the $1000. range in order to get a decent one, and one that can be dependable. But I don't know how that could be possible. Do you have any suggestions? Our indebtedness is sky-high now. Maybe if I got a good car, and possibly drive out to Phoenix with the kids, when we get ready to come out there. In my last letter, I asked if you could do something so your car payment wouldn't be so high and I hope you can let me know.

Did you have any results with your interview with John Blake on Saturday?

I sort of expected a letter today and hope its on the way.

I'm at work just now and am writing this to you on my break so that I can mail it on the way home.

We're having nice weather again today.

It's Lex's birthday today. (15th October) Did you remember? I'm going to have to buy Lex a winter coat as he doesn't have a nice one, and that will be his birthday gift. The kids are even going to ask Santa for money instead of toys so they can have the money to buy things on the way out to Phoenix.

I work in the Wrap Room with Pat Schulz and she used to call you Will, but lately its always Alex. There is a Company there in Phoenix which buys Marlin Rockwell's bearings, and I'm sending you the address, which she gave me.

Airesearch Mfg.

402 So. 36th Street

Phoenix, Ariz. 85034

It could bear looking into, as I understand they pay well. A couple others are:

Bayer Industries

4165 W. Clarendon

Phoenix, Ariz. 85019

Conner Tool & Machine

733 W. Lincoln

Phoenix, Ariz 85007

The above two are probably not as big as Airesearch Mfg.

Well, I had better get back to my job. Your letter was certainly nice ..... it sounded like your ole self -- and I loved reading it.

Linda, Patti and Lex send you lots of love and kisses. They were home when your letter arrived and it pleased them very much when I read it to them.

It gets awfully lonely nights, especially Saturdays, and I miss the times when things were going smooth for us, and we would be going out on Saturdays, Little Theater or the movies.

Lots of kisses and Love,

Your wife, C. Marie"

Here are some letters written by Mom from 1990 to 1994:

Thursday, May 24, 1990

Dear Beautiful Linda,

Thank you very much first of all for the lovely plant at Easter-time. The Lillys were beautiful and I enjoyed them, and so did Lex. We took some pictures Easter day, with Lex, and your Dad was at our place, so I think we have one of him also. I don't believe they were prints, but slides, and I haven't seen them as yet. We have a bunch of them, and so does Patti, and we're waiting for Lex to put his projector up so that we can view them. Lex has been very busy at work, putting in long hours - even on Saturdays.

For Easter we went out with Lola, and Anna Chambers, along with your Dad. Lex wasn't feeling too well as he had been to the Doctor for a sore throat, etc. Patti and Mike and Glenn also weren't with us, as Glenn had an ear infection.

What did you do Easter Day? We were thinking of you Linda, and wished that you could have been with us. Also Paul. I see by the date that Paul must be with you now. Hope he is okay. I'm glad that he was able to visit you, and will be there until the 28th.

Thank you very much for the beautiful Lion and the lamb - which you sent me for Mother's Day. It is adorable, and I like it very much. (So does Glenn, but I only let him look at it while I hold it.) Also thank you for the lovely card, and the money. I am planning to go to Laughlin (the gambling place - similar to Las Vegas - only closer - about 3 1/2 hours away).

I've had the flu since Monday, and am just now getting to feel a little better. It has been a very busy month. Sunday Patti's friend from Church got married, and I helped out in the Nursery. There was a little boy there who was sick with the flu, as his mother told me and I believe that I caught it from him. Then Sunday night we went to Nicky's place as she had a cake for David who received his degree in Business from A.S.U. Everyone was there. (Except Jim, and Mike - who weren't feeling well). They all asked about you and Paul. Tuesday night there was a shower for Patti's friend Nancy Brandon who had a baby boy on May 3. I didn't go but sent a gift with Patti, who stayed only a short while as she knew I wasn't feeling well, and Glenn was with me. Then I've been worrying about Glenn catching the bug from me, but Patti said that if he had the bug he probably caught it from Mike, and Patti also wasn't feeling good, and she said she got it from Mike. I can't imagine all this flu making the rounds when we have such warm weather - hot to be exact. Well, enough of that.

Hope you've been okay Linda. How has the weather been there? We read about the floods in Texas - we hope that your place wasn't in the path. Have you sold your house in Charleston, S.C.? Hope things turn out okay in that respect.

We had a party for Glenn on May 11, for his first birthday. Everyone was at Patti's place, and it was enjoyable. Patti took some pictures. The things you sent him are adorable, and also the suit you put in the package which you sent to your Dad for his birthday.

Thank you very much for the picture you sent me when you graduated from your school in Pensacola. Its very pretty and I am going to frame it.

How was your party at Busch Gardens? I enjoyed reading the article you sent me of the Navy man winning the Virginia Lottery - that certainly wouldn't be hard to take. As you know we have two pick drawings a week - one on Wednesday and the other on Saturday. I didn't go to the store yesterday to get my regular numbers, and was certainly glad when those numbers didn't come up last night. A couple from Yuma won about 4 million last week. Last night's million didn't have a winner, so it will roll over to Saturdays' drawing.

I loved the pictures you sent me. The one at the airport was so cute and also the rest of them. I had to laugh at the one you took of me and Glenn dozing on the couch. (The pictures of the Champion Capons were cute also.) I loved the ones you sent of Paul and "your babies" and the one of you and your dogs - they are adorable. (Please excuse my typing - I like this typewriter very much but I'm not used to the touch as its a little different from the typewriter I was used to at work.) I can understand that you must miss Paul (and Nicki and Anna) and hope that they will be able to move there in Norfolk with you. How is that situation progressing?

I'm sending you some scratch lottery tickets, and the pamphlets describing the games. Hope you get something.

How is Paul's mother? Hope she is okay.

I'm glad to hear about your job, as everyone asks about what your duties are on board the ship. It sounds very difficult to me. I'm sure you're kept very busy.

Lex is planning to go to the Grand Canyon this weekend. What are your plans for the Memorial Day holiday?

It would be nice if you had a phone number where you could be reached for phone calls.

Thanks again Linda and Paul for the things you sent me for Easter and Mother's Day. If there is something you would like me to mail you, please let me know. Is the food good on board the ship? Send more pictures, if you've taken any.

Love to you Linda, and Paul, and hope that you will be able to visit us here in Phoenix sometime soon.

Love to you beautiful Linda & handsome Paul from Mother.

I love you Linda & Paul. Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, from Mother & Lex & everyone

Friday, August 30, 1991

Jamestown, N.Y. (the Colony Motel, Fairmount Ave)

Dear Beautiful Linda,

First of all, I took your June 2nd letter with me, and not the recent one you sent me from Egypt, so I don't have the correct address which you gave me in that letter.

Thank you very much for the Western Union Mailgram wishing me a Happy Birthday. It was a joy receiving it. Lex, Patti, Mike, Glenn and your Dad helped me celebrate. Lex and Patti bought Mexican food (take-out from a restaurant) which was delicious. Your Dad bought a cake and ice cream (2 half gallons) and I received presents from Lex & Patti.

In case you are wondering what I am doing in Jamestown - - I probably forgot to mention to you that Frank and Rose are celebrating their 50th Wedding Anniversary this year. They married August 30, 1941 - - JoAnn and Carl (and grandchildren) are having a Dinner Reception tomorrow (Sat. August 31) at 6:00 pm at the Holiday Inn. I came on the bus, leaving Phoenix Wednesday morning (8:15 am) and arrived in Jamestown today (Friday) at about 8:00 pm. Frank reserved my room, and also the room for Rose's brother John & his wife Marilyn, and after picking me up, going to their place where Rose had some delicious food, he drove me here. John & Marilyn drove from Milwaukee, and they are here also. Connie, Rose's sister flew in from California and she is staying with Frank & Rose. Carl, his wife and his daughter are expected in tonight, so I haven't seen them as yet.

Also, Pam and her husband Bob drove up; Ronnie flew in and so did Bob - from Florida. Bobbie reserved rooms thru AAA someplace on North Main Street. They have arrived also, but I haven't seen them as yet.

Lex was thinking of flying to Jamestown, but since he is planning to buy a house, and is in the process of negotiating it, he decided not to make the trip out. Patti would have liked making the trip but in her condition, its not advisable.

I wished I was typing this letter to you Linda, as I can type faster than write, so I'll have to write again when I get home & then also send you some snapshots, because I still should tell you about my trip to Jamestown in June for my class reunion & also the trip to California for Jennifer's wedding.

Patti wired Rose and Frank flowers, and so did Lex. Both are beautiful. I saw them tonight. Rose and Frank did not want any gifts -- the invitation read "Your friendship is our cherished gift. No other is needed." but Rose was very emotional upon receiving the bouquets from Patti (Mike & Glenn) and Lex, and she really loved them.

I loved the pictures you sent of yourself, and Kathryn & her baby and Paul. I loved also the pictures which you sent in your June 2nd letter, Paul in the wardroom for Christmas on the USS Shenandoah. It's a handsome picture, and the beautiful one of you that day in your uniform, both beside the Xmas tree.

Tuesday, November 5, 1991

Dear Beautiful Linda,

Thank you very much for the letter you wrote to me and Lex on October 20th and for the beautiful pictures you enclosed which I've shown to Carolyn and Nicky on Sunday, Nov. 3rd, which was Nicky's birthday. They both wished, and also I that we could visit and travel the places you did, and are still doing. You look beautiful in the pictures Linda, and we like your dresses which are very colorful and pretty. (I have one made on the same order, flowers, etc. which I wore to Jennifer Foti's wedding.) I have a lot of pictures to send you, but will do that in another letter. I have a few errands to attend to now, but decided to mail this letter to you, as it will take awhile to write behind the pictures, etc.)

Patti, as you know, has a beautiful baby girl. She has dark hair (a lot of it) and reminds me of when you were born. She doesn't have as much hair as you had tho.

I love you very much, Linda, and miss you, and want you to visit us. We all liked the pictures of Paul, his son, and Kevin, & Paul III's wife (the pictures you sent to your Dad & Patti) and the ones of your "babies" they're adorable.

We're glad that you will be back in the States before too long, and that you and Paul will come to visit us.

Love you very much, Linda. Lex sends you love also.

Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Your Mother

Thursday, 1 - 7 - 93

Dear Linda and Paul,

I just came back from getting the mail, and thank you for the beautiful pictures you sent us. Didn't realize that you had so many trees where you lived in Norfolk, Va. The pictures of the cars were very interesting, especially the Peugeot, at the car museum. Also, I liked the ones at Luray Caverns, and the one of Paul taken off Skyline Drive in the Shenandoah Valley and the lovely pictures of you and Avis, and Paul and Avis taken in the Caverns.

Thank Avis very much for the 2 lovely shifts she gave me for Xmas - the prints are so pretty. Also, thank you Linda and Paul for all my Christmas presents - the Chanel Eau De Parfum Spray, which I've already used, the calendar which Lex said he'll put up, the Lifesavers Story Book, the Santa candy, Handel's "Messiah", and the cute piggy ornament. We miss you here Linda and Paul, and enjoyed your visit very much. (Also, Avis' visit). And we enjoyed having the dogs visit us, as they are so cute and so much fun; also, very well behaved. It's too bad that they have to be locked up for so long - I wonder if that is really necessary. Your New Year's Eve in downtown Honolulu sounded like fun. Lex and I spent New Year's Eve at home. So did Patti and Mike. Lex finally went to the Doctor yesterday. He stayed home from work Tuesday morning, as he wasn't feeling good. The Doctor yesterday gave him some medication - but he still worked very late last night - until about 2:30 a.m. this morning.

I mailed your letter from the Shenandoah Monday. Patti had the car and came down with Glenn and Elena. She drove me to the Post Office, then went to get glasses as she couldn't find hers, and Eye Masters had them ready in a couple of hours. Then we had lunch at Wendy's, and Patti had to pick Mike up at work, and then they went square dancing. She picked up the children at about 10:30 p.m. Somehow, I caught the flu bug, as Tuesday morning I started not to feel well. Ruben and his fraternity brother Rick came over Tuesday night, and I was glad Lex was home as I wasn't feeling good. They had supper, and I just nursed a Coke, and went to bed early - just after they left at 10:00 p.m. I'm starting to feel a little better today.

Patti said your Dad might be released from the Care Center next Wednesday or Thursday. I guess Medicare will pay for home care, but she also is going to see about hiring someone to come in for a few hours a day.

Linda, I received a Xmas card from my cousin Nicki, and her husband John. Their last name is Rinaldi. They are in Hawaii, and have moved there from Cleveland, Ohio. They are staying temporarily with her daughter Marcy who lives in Hawaii. She is Aunt Lopilo's daughter. Aunt Lopilo was Nana's sister. I think you remember me mentioning Aunt Lopilo, and her children - Mary, Billy and Nicki. I gave Nicki and Johnny your address, and told them I was sure you would be glad to make their acquaintance. She and her husband are lovely people. Her son John (about Lex's age) got married in July, and her 2 daughters Marcy and Cheryl are both pregnant and are expecting in May 28th and May 21. Our families were very close when we were young. Her address at the moment is 77-6489 Princess Keelikoliani, Kailua-Kona, Hawaii 96740. I haven't seen Nicki and Johnny (or her children) in about 30 years.

I'm sending you some pictures which I had duplicates made. You are lovely in all of them Linda, and Paul is a cut-up in most of them - but they are handsome pictures; and Avis looks lovely feeding Elena. I still have other pictures taken with the disposable camera - which were taken outdoors, which I haven't developed yet. I like the one of Lex and your dog Nikki near the front door, and also the ones of Patti, Glenn & I with Anna, and the one of Patti, Elena, Glenn and Anna in the living room. I'm also sending a picture of Lex with his birthday cake, and me, with the birthday cake (since I have duplicates). Also one of your Dad taken Xmas Eve at my place with a Santa hat. Lex had a cookie decorating party on Monday Dec. 21, and had his friends over to bake the cookies and decorate them. He had Santa hats for most of them. He wasn't feeling too well that night, but since he had made plans for the event, he couldn't cancel it. They all had fun anyway.

Send me some pictures of your place in Hawaii. Hope everything is okay at your place of work, and that you like your job. Also, hope that Avis likes it there, and also Paul. It sounds like a very nice place, and your weather is ideal. We've been having a lot of rain these past few days.

Everyone says hello to you Linda, Paul and Avis.

Regards and love to Avis from everyone here.

Lots of love to you Linda and Paul - and we all miss you.

Love, Your Mother, and Lex, and Patti & Mike & family (Glenn & Elena)

Tuesday, March 16, 1993

Dear Linda and Paul (and Avis),

Thanks for your recent letter Linda. I really appreciated the articles on the price of lettuce which you sent me. The lettuce at Safeway beginning with the stories of the impending floods at the Yuma fields was priced at $1.39 a head of lettuce, with the leafy lettuce and romaine lettuce at $1.49 a head. Now it is down to 99 cents for the other types, so it is much cheaper than there in Hawaii. Remember when Paul went to Safeway to pick up some tomatoes, and he paid more than $3.00 for about 3 tomatoes. Tomatoes are much cheaper now. Bashas' had them for 3 lbs.99 cents, altho Safeway is more expensive at this time.

Well, thanks for the interesting articles Linda. We all miss you Linda and Paul, and Avis. Hope everything is okay with all of you. Has Paul been able to get any job offers. We hope so, as he would feel better having a job. Lex is very busy lately. He has spring break from his class at ASU, but is very busy at his job.

I'm glad that you all liked the See's candy. I'm surprised that you even had 3 pieces, Linda, as you are not one for candy. Thanks for the gadget that crushes cans - I really like it, but haven't used it as yet, even tho I have 2 plastic bags full of aluminum cans to crush. Lex said he would put the can crusher up in the garage but as yet he hasn't had time.

We've had a lot of visitors it seems. Jack Benetto came over Tuesday night, along with Marge. He showed us tapes of Alaska (where he lives). He has been Lex's friend for a long time, since Oak Shadows. He's been living in Alaska for about 2 1/2 years. Marge is a school teacher, and a friend since High School. She is married and has a 7 year old daughter. Anna Chambers visited on Wednesday. Joe's wife had another baby girl in January. Ruben stopped over on Thursday night. I've been baby-sitting Glenn and Elena, which I enjoy doing. They both have colds now. Patti and Mike went to a square dancing party Friday night (and square dancing on Monday night). Patti took your Dad to the Doctor on Wednesday, so they could look at his leg, and again on Thursday. Everything is okay with him. Saturday he took a cab to his Sam's meeting at the Legion in Phoenix, and then took a cab to the VFW on Thomas Rd. and then on home to his apartment. He called me when he got back and sounded fine, and he seemed to have had a good time. Sunday noon he was suppose to go to the Sam's picnic at Encanto Park, and Lex said he would take him there, but when Patti called up Sunday morning at your Dad's place, he was resting, but said he would call Lex when he was ready to go. I just talked to Patti and she said that your Dad decided not to go to the picnic on Sunday, as it was getting too late. Patti had also offered to take your Dad. Patti, Mike and the kids went to Flagstaff the day before (Saturday).

We're glad to hear that the dogs will be coming home soon - they'll probably be glad to be home.

You shouldn't be out in the sun too long Linda, as I always have been a worrier about that. Hope you're okay.

Have you heard from Nicki Rinaldi since you wrote to her last? Did you ever go to the Waikiki Imax Theater, with the free tickets that you won?

I liked the last pictures you sent with me and Elena, and Patti, Elena and Me, and the one of me in the kitchen with Anna is especially cute. Has Anna lost her winter coat as yet?

I still haven't taken my disposable camera in to have the film developed, but will soon, and send you some pictures as I believe I have a number of them taken while you were here in December. Have your cars arrived yet? Will you then drive your jeep to work? We have been having warm weather lately, but the east coast has had blizzards and lots of snow.

What will you be doing for Easter? Lex has been shopping for a car, but as yet hasn't made a decision.

Say hello to Avis from all of us. Hope she is enjoying herself, and not working too hard. Everyone asks about you all there. Love to you Linda, and Paul, and Avis from all of us here. I miss you Linda, and Paul.

Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Your Mother and Lex

Thursday, February 3, 1994

Dear Beautiful Linda, and Handsome Paul,

I have had my typewriter sitting on the kitchen table for a number of days now in anticipation of writing, but something always comes up. One day I happened to get one of my photo albums out, the one in which I have pictures of when you Linda were small, and Patti and Lex, and the ones with Nana, Grandma and Grandpa, Elayne, Joanne & Donna, and Uncle Frank and Rose, and needless to say, that took a number of hours while I reminisced - I loved looking at the pictures - they were also of Ronnie, Bobbie, Pam, Aunt Jo, Sandy, Carolyn, etc. etc.

Did you get Lex's xmas package to you Linda, and Paul? We hope it arrived okay and that you liked everything.

Lex had to go to the Doctor a few days ago as he had a sore throat, and he is taking his antibiotics. Patti is taking Elena to the doctor today, as she has had a fever and has been very sick. I talked to her a while ago, and they were going back to take x-rays as she might have pneumonia.

Thank you very much Linda and Paul for the subscription to the Saturday Evening Post. I have received one issue, and found it very interesting. Patti also received hers and read it, and she thanks you - she tried calling you one night but didn't get you.

I loved the pictures you sent with your last letter - you and Avis in front of Iolani Palace, the ones of Elayne, JoAnne, the one of you and Paul taken at an anniversary party, the flowers in your front yard and the adorable little girl at your command picnic with Paul, Avis and the dogs - very pretty picture. Lex thought it was cute also.

Did you both get your algebra test marks? Hope you both did good. Did you finally get your tree decorations down and put away? I can't quite remember the mouse ornaments and mouse dish towel I sent you Linda. I'm using the dish towels (3 of them) which you gave me and like them very much. I've also used the coffee beans (LION) which you gave me, and the beans make a delicious cup of coffee. I'm on the second bag now.

We laughed when you wrote about the note Lex wrote on one of the See's note cards (eating a million calories) and the gift tag from Lex (from: Rome with Love). Also I had forgotten about my pen from the Department of Insurance. The sweatshirts you and Paul bought with the two lion cubs in red Xmas hats sound cute - take a picture and send it to us. (Also, Linda, I would love having a photo of you taken in your Lt. uniform.)

I haven't seen Schindler's List as yet, but I want to. It hasn't come to the Theater near me, but it should soon. Lines at the Theater are very long for this movie. I saw Shadowlands and liked it very much. It was a beautiful movie and Anthony Hopkins played C. S. Lewis very well. I'm enclosing an article from the paper which you might find interesting. You gave me the C. S. LEWIS book "The Four Loves" which I started to read - but now I think I'll finish it. I also saw the movie "Mrs. Doubtfire" with Robin Williams - which I liked.

How are things at work Linda, and Paul? Lex is busy at his job working, it seems, long hours.

Has Avis come back to Hawaii? How is Kay Frances doing? Hope they all are well.

I talked to your Dad a few days ago. Patti took him to the Doctor for his check-up and everything is okay.

Lex bought your Dad a CD Player - Radio and Cassette player for Xmas. Did you get yourself a portable CD player which you mentioned you might buy?

Hope you both are making plans to visit us real soon, which you have mentioned might be in June. Everyone wants you both to visit.

I miss you Linda (and Paul) very much, and love you, and want you to visit. Everyone sends love to you Linda, and Paul, and hope you both are okay. Also, the dogs.

Our weather has been chilly in the evenings. Its nice and sunny during the day tho.

Love to you Linda, and Paul, from all of us here.

Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, from Mother and Lex

P.S. Patti just called. Elena has pneumonia - but not too bad. She is on antibiotics. We talked about the tape you sent Glenn and Elena "The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe" - which she says Elena always wants to see, but Glenn doesn't like the Lion being killed and doesn't want to watch it.

I'm enclosing a few pictures taken Thanksgiving Day at Sandy's house. I love you very much Linda, and Paul, and miss you. Love again, Mother

An email from Wednesday, April 2, 2003, with the subject heading "this is my new e-mail", reads:

"this is my first message so i want to make it important, but i'm at a loss for words. which is unusual. tell who ever wants my e-mail address - in other words, forward my e-mail address to linda because i do not have it

love you and be careful driving. love to mike and the children of course.

your mother"

An email from Saturday, June 14, 2003, reads:

"Dear Patti,

Thanks for the pictures of Elena, and her friends at Camp. Linda helped me

with your messages.

She is getting ready to go home now. Love to you and Glenn, Elena,

Jeanetta, Renee and Mike.

Come to visit. Tell Elena that she looked beautiful in the pictures, and so

did Elizabeth.

Love, Mother"

An email from Tuesday, June 17, 2003, with the subject heading "Re: Email from Mom", reads:

"Dear Patti,

How come this print is so large? I wanted to ask you if you got a response from Lex , per your Email. Love to you, and all your family. Perhaps you can also give me some instructions on operating this computer. I appreciate all the instructions I've received from Linda and Lex, but I need more.

Love, from your Mother"

An email from Tuesday, June 17, 2003, with the subject heading "Re: I'm sending you a draft", reads:

"Dear Patti,

I didn't understand your draft. Aside from a few words, it was blank. When

you have time, please explain it to me.

Love to everyone, and come to visit.

Love, your Mother"

An email from Friday, December 12, 2003, with the subject heading "Re: Forwarded survey", reads:

"Dear Patti,

Thank you for your e-mail but I don't think I will respond to the survey.

Ask me to babysit your children, and I would be delighted to oblige, as I

love them, and enjoy seeing them and being with them. So I beg forgiveness

for not partaking of this bit of fun. Maybe if I could see the reasoning

behind it, or if it was some sort of contest I would oblige. Love, Love,

Love, etc etc to you as always. If it is still important to you that I do

the survey, I will reconsider. Let me know.

Love,

Mother

P.S. Since I love you, below is the survey.

1. What time is it? About four o'clock

2. Name as it appears on birth certificate: Carmella Foti

3. Nicknames: Carmey

4. Number of candles on your last birthday cake? I don't remember

I5. Pets: None

6. Hair color: Dark Brown

7. Piercings: As a child, both ears

8. Eye color: Brown

9. Hometown: Jamestown, N.Y.

10. Town you live in: Phoenix, AZ

11. Favorite foods: I like a lot of different foods, which are my favorite.

12. Ever been to Africa: No

13. Been toilet papering: No

14. Love someone so much it made you cry? That's a tough question. Hard to

answer.

15. Been in a car accident? Tap on wood - No

16. Croutons or bacon bits? Neither

18. Favorite restaurant: Many favorites

19. Favorite flowers? All of them

20. Favorite sport to watch? None, prefer reading about who wins.

21. Favorite drink? Water, of course. For dinner, a glass of wine

22. Favorite ice cream flavor? All, except strawberry

23. Disney or Warner Bros.? Neither is favorite, except when they show

good movies

24. Favorite fast food restaurant? All, depending on location

25. What color is your bedroom carpet? Gray

26. How many times did you fail your driving test? Passed

27. Before this one, whom did you get your last e-mail from? Ruben

28. Which store would you choose to max out your creditcard? Fry.s

29. What do you do most often when you are bored? Go to sleep

30. Most annoying thing people ask me: What is your age

31. Bedtime? It varies

32. Who will respond to this email the quickest? Patti Putman

33. Who is the person you sent this to that is least likely to respond? Not

applicable

34. Favorite TV Shows? Channel 8 when they feature the singers of years past

35. Last person you went out to dinner with? Can't remember, but probably

with family

37. What are you listening to right now? Nothing, but talking to Lex

38. What is your favorite color? All, except pink

39. Time you finished this email? 4:40"

An email from Friday, December 12, 2003, with the subject heading "Re: long, but interesting", reads:

"Dear Patti,

I loved the article that JoAnn sent to you, and you sent to me. I also want

to see the movie The Passion, by Mel Gebson. What a beautiful article, and

I thank you for sending it to me. Tell JoAnn that I appreciated it. I am

going to close now, Patti as I have been on this computer for a long time.

Love to you, and your precious family,

Mother"

An email from Thursday, January 1, 2004, with the subject heading "Re: Here's my drawing, Mom", reads:

"Dear Patti,

What a beautiful drawing, Patti, in fact, you did excellent, especially with

your left hand. You are truly an artist, and I couldn't even compare with

you at all. My drawings are more or less caricatures, and I doubt that I

can improve on them. Lex just printed out your drawing, on very good paper.

It is terrific, but who is the person. Is it someone I have never met?

Regardless, it is a drawing that that person will appreciate.

Let me hear from you. Happy New Year to all the family.

Love, Mother"

An email from Sunday, January 4, 2004, with the subject heading "Re: Here's my drawing, Mom", reads:

"Dear Patti,

I've just read your last e-mail, and it gave me a laugh, especially when you

mentioned the squirrel that I drew way back in years past. I still have

that metal plate. Thanks for the picture I drew of Yul Brenner. I can't

remember where it is now. But you are very talented, and I'll have to watch

you draw sometime. Also, I think Elena is a terrific drawer, as she can

draw without looking at something. She has a photographic memory of things,

and tell her that I've saved all of her drawings that she made, they are

beautiful for such a young girl. Tell Glenn, I have also saved his

drawings, which are very good and I like them. Hope you are feeling better

and also Renee and Jeanetta.

I will give you a call, as I have to tell you that Rose called me today, and

we talked for more than 2 hours. I was happy to hear from her. She loved

the birthday card which you mailed to her, and which we all signed. She

said she treasures it.

Love to all the family,

Mother"

An email from Saturday, January 10, 2004, with the subject heading "Re: THROUGH MY WINDOW", reads:

"Dear Patti.

I've just now read your last email, and with Lex's help I clicked on to the

link to H. Hargrove, and it is very beautiful. I noticed that his real name

is Nicolo Sturiano. Lex guessed the song. He said it was by Bette Midler

from the movie Rose. I loved the song, but I didn't know it was from the

movie. We also printed out 4 pages of 'Through My Window' - To A Keeper.

It came very nice.

I called Tony a day after his surgery and he was resting and said

everything was okay. We don't know yet whether or not he will be coming to

Phoenix as he had originally planned.

Hope everyone is much better now. I haven't had a chance to call as Lex has

been busy getting my computer ready for me to use. Just now it is in the

kitchen, but Lex will put it on the desk in the spare room. Peter is giving

him a computer desk to take with him to Boise. Lex said that there are some

tasks that are running and he can't figure out how to make them stop

starting automatically. Lex wants to know if you know where you put things

to start automatically as he can't figure it out. He will call you later.

Love to everyone, and I hope everyone is over being sick

Mother"

An email from Friday, January 16, 2004, with the subject heading "Re: BEST Groaners, big time!", reads:

"Dear Patti,

Thank you for the jokes. I guess I liked the ones about Chess, and the

twins, the best.

How is Elena feeling today? I hope she is better. I'm better today also.

Lex called me last night and wanted to know our address on 12th Street. I

couldn't remember it off-hand, but I found it for him. He said he was

filling out an application for an apartment and they wanted to know all

sorts of things. I couldn't remember the last name of the managers. Their

first names were Ed and Ava. He said there were 2 apartments which looked

promising. The one he thinks he would like, is an apartment about one-half

mile from where he will be working, and it is downtown and near a Y.

Come to visit anytime, as I miss seeing the precious children.

Love to all,

Mother"

Another email from Friday, January 16, 2004, with the subject heading "Re: BEST Groaners, big time!", reads:

"Dear Patti,

This is my second email to you regarding the jokes. I don't know what I did

wrong with the last letter, but after I had clicked on to get it sent to

you, and arrow was pointing to the notation to Create. I thought it would

automatically be sent to you, as I used to do with Lex's computer, so

somehow I am not doing the right thing. I don't know what happed to the

email I previously wrote . Now I notice that in the second line above I

made a mistake but I hesitate to correct it, as I might mess this up.

Love to all, and come to visit. I'll try again to send this to you.

Mother"

An email from Friday, January 30, 2004, with the subject heading "Re: I got a place", reads:

"Dear Patti,

When you talked to me yesterday I thought you said you were emailing me a

message. I don't know whether the message was lost or not. I haven't

received any emails from you.

Hope the children are fine. Tell them I love them and would like to see

them. Hope they enjoy going up north to see some snow.

Love to all,

Mother"

An email from Monday, March 22, 2004, reads:

"Dear Patti,

I tried calling you twice today but did not leave a message. Hope everyone

is okay. I want to help you to clean your house but this week will not be a

good time for me as Tony and Dorothy will be coming this Thursday, March 25.

Hope you can come to play Bingo with us and also go out to dinner with us.

Have you heard from Sue and Phillip?

Sending love to everyone. (Glenn, Elena, Jeanetta, Renee and you and Mike).

Love,

Mother"

An email from Friday, May 28, 2004, with the subject heading "Thought I'd write", reads:

"Dear Patti,

I've been thinking of you so decided to write. Love to you, and to Mike,

and to Glenn, Elena, Jeanetta, and Renee.

Love,

Mother"

An email from Tuesday, June 1, 2004, with the subject heading "Re: Thought I'd write", reads:

"Dear Patti,

Thank you very much for the lovely email you sent me, and all the 'loves'

which I appreciated and it reminded me of the birthday cards we would write

the loves for how many years it was for that particular birthday.

I can imagine how tired you must be cleaning the house, and I'm sure it is

looking good. The children have been very good while I have been taking

care of them, and they are adorable and I love them very much. It was fun

having Glenn here yesterday, and in the evening we played a few hands of

poker, and were playing when Mike came to pick them up.

Ruben called yesterday evening, and he said hello, and mentioned that this

month it was his birthday and also yours. He said it was very cold there,

and he was wishing for some of our hot weather.

Lex emailed me and wants to know the details of the Utah trip. He said he

can drive down and meet everyone. He was at the Lochsa River with Rob this

memorial weekend, and he said it was a popular destination for the people in

Boise. The rapids were rough, and he followed Rob, who is very good.

I will be glad to have Anna, and you (and whoever you want) to come over on

a Sunday for coffee so that you can relax, and talk, etc. Let me know when

and what I should prepare for the occasion, whether it will be lunch, or

dessert.

Love to the family, many times,

Mother"

* * * * * * * * * *

Born Carmella Foti in Jamestown, NY in 1923 to Sicilian immigrants Carmelo and Josephine Foti, passed away in her Phoenix, AZ home 25 March 2011. Preceded by her parents, infant brother Carl, sister Josephine, and brother Frank. Survived by her sister Nicolina Burkett, brother Tony Foti, daughter Linda Brown and family Paul, Evie, and Kenneth, daughter Patricia Putman and family Mike, Glenn, Elena, Jeanetta, and Renee, son Alex Cameron and family Colleen, Sean, and Kyla, and her cherished nieces and nephews, to whom she was known as Aunt Carm.

She proudly served her country during World War II at Coronado Island, CA, Stillwater, OK, and the Brooklyn Navy Yard, NY. She was honorably discharged from the U.S. Navy as a Yeoman Chief, and returned to Jamestown to work at Hope's Windows, then Marlin Rockwell.

Marie moved to Glendale, AZ in 1970 with her husband Alex Willis Cameron, where she worked as a secretary until her retirement from the State of Arizona, Dept of Insurance. She enjoyed and participated in amateur theater, liked to read and sketch portraits, and was known for her lemon meringue pie, ravioli and very large meatballs.

Marie will be remembered by her family and friends for her generous, loving, happy, and charismatic nature at Green Acres Mortuary, 401 N. Hayden Rd., Scottsdale, 29 March 3-6pm (viewing), and 30 March noon-1pm (funeral service), followed by military honors at National Memorial Cemetery of AZ, 23029 N. Cave Creek Rd., Phoenix 30 March 2pm.

Biography:

Carmella Foti was born on August 13, 1923 in Jamestown, New York. Her parents were Sicilian immigrants, Carmelo and Josephine (Guiseppina) Foti, and the family included her oldest brother, Frank, and two older sisters, Josephine and Nicolina. Another brother, Carl, was born after her and died in infancy. The youngest brother, Anthony, was born, completing the family. She related stories about the fire they had in their home and being carried out by her sister, skating with one skate around the porch as the other skate was being used by one of her sisters, having her hair curled for church by her sisters only to have it straight again before she got home, how her youngest brother had to have an ice cream cone every morning before school (he says it was just one time!), and having her beloved father bring home the same candies each week (the ones he loved) for a treat and telling him "Oh, Pa, why those again?"

She was proud of her Italian heritage, speaking Sicilian at home with the family, but learning English as soon as she started kindergarten. And that proficiency went with her throughout her life, always using a large vocabulary in her work environments and even with her children and grandchildren.

She loved school and loved the traditions of her church. She told stories of Lent and of teachers who took special care for her.

Her faith started early and she took the Confirmation name of Marie as her middle name when she was confirmed.

She graduated from Jamestown High School in 1941 and worked as a waitress for a short time.

Her sister Jo worked in Washington, DC, and she went to live with her and to work for the War Department, writing notices and preparing telegrams. She saw all the W.A.V.E.S. dressed in their Navy uniforms and decided she wanted to wear a uniform, too. She joined the Navy and became a Yeoman. She traveled to San Diego and Stillwater, Oklahoma. She loved the Navy and told of many adventures. While she was still on active duty, she received word that her father was very sick. He died of pneumonia at an early age before she could get home on leave. By the time she was honorably discharged from the Navy and went home to live, she was very happy to wear civilian clothes again.

She went to work for Hope's Windows, working as a secretary for the vice president of the company. While she was there, a sizable number of cartoons were made of her by a coworker, and she saved every one along with other satirical writings that were generated by the same friendly jokesters.

She stayed in the Naval Reserves and was called upon to escort Desi Arnaz to a premier of Lucy and Desi's movie "Forever Darling" in 1956. She cherished her pictures of herself with Desi and with Lucille Ball. While in the Reserves, she met Alex Willis Cameron. They were married on June 29, 1957 at St. James Roman Catholic Church in Jamestown. Monsignor Caligoia officiated at the wedding ceremony.

After having enjoyed watching the earlier seven of her nieces and nephews grow up, she had her own children: first Linda, then Patricia, then Alex (each to be called "Linda-Patti-Lex" or some other combination until she got to the right one). She was happy to be able to send them all to Parochial school at St. James from Kindergarten onward, and to see all achieve First Holy Communion. While doing this, she was happy to find Vacation Bible Schools at other churches that could also teach her children songs and Bible stories, so she enrolled us in three different ones one summer (including one from an Evangelical Covenant church in Jamestown).

In 1966, she started working at Marlin Rockwell in Jamestown. Her job was to check roller bearings and ball bearings in the factory. She returned home after work with tiny roller bearings in her up-do hairdo, and the largest roller bearings in her purse. This was due to coworkers playing practical jokes on her. So she was careful to check her purse from then on, especially if it seemed heavier than usual.

In 1970, she moved with her husband and three children to Glendale, Arizona. The trip was in a 1969 Dodge Polara towing a U-Haul trailer. (She took her turn driving, but decided to hand over the wheel when it came to backing up.) The car broke down in Texas and so the trip took two weeks, when it should have been a much shorter trip. On the July day that the family arrived in Phoenix, the temperature was 117 and she wanted to move to Alaska instead!

She took a temporary job at Diamonds (which later became Dillards), and then found permanent work at the Arizona Department of Insurance, working as a secretary in the Life and Health division. Later she worked with Property and Casualty as well.

She returned for a short trip to Jamestown in 1971 to see her mother before she passed away.

She divorced her first husband in 1973. She then met Andrew J. Moore in 1975. They were married for a year and then divorced.

In the meantime, she saw all three children confirmed in the Catholic church. She started going to Catholic Charismatic meetings where she gained a lot of spiritual insights, including hearing the parable of the sower and coming to terms with concepts such as our righteousness being as filthy rags to the Lord. She told those in trouble and heartache to "give it to the Lord", never wavering from her compassion for people.

She always said about herself that other people can express their faith, while she feels the same way but just can't put these feelings into words. But Mama was never one not to express herself. She found the words when it really mattered, while retaining admiration for those she saw expressing their faith.

She moved to Phoenix in 1979. At this time, she started taking acting classes and enjoyed these very much. By this time, her sister Nickie's family (except for her brother-in-law, Dave, who passed away in 1976) had all moved to the Phoenix area, so she enjoyed get-togethers with this extended family. Her daughter Linda had joined the Navy in 1976, so she resigned herself to letters and many visits and phone calls. Linda married in 1977, and Marie gained a son-in-law, Paul.

She continued to work for the Arizona Department of Insurance, riding to work by bus every morning with an omelet made that morning for herself for lunch, packed in used reinforced envelopes that were too good to throw away. (Her daughter, Patti, also had one of these omelets packed for her for lunch in the same reinforced envelopes. No one at work mistook the envelopes for their own lunches, so that was a nice compensation for having to put an envelope in the staff refrigerator.)

She answered the phones at work all day, so she took a rest from the phone when she got home. One time she had to tell us a story about a call she had gotten at work: The man who called was so frustrated about his insurance company that he blurted out, "That Blue Cross Blue Cheese!" So that's why we say something different from most people when having our picture taken. Mom would tell us, "Say, 'Blue Cross Blue Cheese'."

She retired from the Department of Insurance in 1987 or early 1988. She saw her daughter Patti married to Mike in 1988, but lost her sister Jo to cancer that same year. Her first grandson Glenn was born, and then first granddaughter Elena. She moved into her son's house in 1992. She continued to see the younger set of nephews and a niece (Mark, David, Eric and Jennifer), as well as three great nieces (Debbie, Denise and Jenny). She was able to visit nieces Carolyn and Sandy, and kept up with her nephews Ronnie, Bobby and Carl, and nieces JoAnn and Pam and a growing number of great nieces and great nephews that lived in the Valley and back east. She experienced the loss of a friend, her first husband Bill, in 1994.

At last! Her daughter Linda retired from the Navy in 1998 and she had her family back again. She had two more granddaughters and a grandson in 1999 (Mike and Patti's daughter, Jeanetta, and Linda and Paul's twins, Evie and Kenneth). And then granddaughter Renee was born in 2000.

In the meantime, the family experienced the loss of her nephew, Bobby Edens. All were her favorites. This favorite nephew had visited her in Jamestown and couldn't quit commenting on her table. She had it taken out of the basement for a huge family get-together and decided to spray it with Chanel No 5.

Her son Lex moved for his job in 2004 and soon added Colleen, Sean and Kyla to her family and to her heart.

She lost her sister-in-law, Rose, and brother Frank in 2006 and 2007. She stopped taking vacations with one or other of her daughters about this time. Before that, she was always willing to go visiting (as long as she didn't have to fly).

Mom continued with her love of cooking, baking, and sketching. She had started sketching when she held Beeline Fashion shows back in Jamestown, sketching the fashions on small pieces of paper for her use and the use of the company. She made the best bread and some of the best (as the contest was never held) Italian cookies (that we called biscotti). She made Italian chocolate cookies and cookies with hard-boiled eggs baked in them for Easter. Her lemon meringue pie was always requested for Thanksgiving or Christmas get-togethers. Meat balls were made large (because it got them done and out of the way faster) and the sauce was the most delicious ever. She taught all her kids to make raviolis (so she wouldn't have to make them herself so often: they are a lot of work!)

She was never afraid of work, though. She wanted to spend her time taking care of her grandchildren rather than doing all the cooking. That didn't stop her from always being in the kitchen and not sitting down until everyone else had had their meal and had seconds and dessert.

Thanksgiving 2010 was the first family get-together that she missed. This was due to her health.

She passed away quietly in her home in the early morning on Friday, March 25, 2011.

It is important to note that cars she enjoyed in her life included her 1948 Desoto and her 1967 Dodge Monaco. She also liked her two Impalas, her Peugeot, and her red Eagle Vision.

Though the following is not really part of an "Obituary", this is a handy spot to include some letters written by Mom from 1978 to 1988.

September 21, 1978

Dear Linda and Paul,

We just received your letter yesterday, Linda, and we were very glad to get it. Everyone has been asking if I heard from you, but I also realized that the mail takes quite a long while to arrive. You dated your letter September 8 and it was postmarked on the envelope September 16th.

We're all so happy that you like it there. You made it sound like so much fun, and you were so descriptive of the place. Patti and I, and even Lex I'm sure, would love visiting you and Paul. Patti said she is saving her money already, and asked me if I was. I'm not saving, as I know I'll dig into it when I need it, so I'll think about the money at another time.

It really sounds very interesting there. I'm glad to hear that you and Paul are going to learn how to speak Italian. You'll have to teach me how when you learn, as I only know the slang. Lex asked me if I would be able to make myself understood if I were in Italy. I told him that I would be able to understand them, but doubt very much whether they would be able to know what I was talking about.

Patti has been getting the bus at 67th & Camelback. It now leaves at 8 minutes after 7:00 o'clock. Naturally, we get out of the house later and later, but a few times having to chase after the bus and getting in front of it, has cured me and I make it a point to hurry. There is a new schedule now and the bus leaving after 7 o'clock gets Patti barely on time at ASU, and she has to run to her class. So, we're going to try to make the bus that leaves at 6:40 a.m.

Lex has been working more than I want him to. We barely see him, and that's in the morning when I wake him up to go to school. He over does the work bit. So finally I told him he should only work during the weekend, Friday night, Saturday and Sunday; but he had enough to do with his paper route, as Patti didn't have time to help him out, as she has so much school work to do. Finally, Lex consented to tell his boss that he would only work Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Saturday night, he worked his shift, and then another Bob's Big Boy down on Central was short of help, so his boss's wife drove Lex down to that place, and I fortunately didn't wake up during the night to discover that Lex wasn't home. He called at 4:30 in the morning to tell me he would be home, as by that time he thought I must have realized that he wasn't home, and would have probably called the police, etc. Then he gets up to do his Sunday morning route, with only a couple of hours sleep.

Patti is helping Al clean his apartment on Saturday morning. He picks her up at 8:30 a.m. and they go out for breakfast first, and then Patti cleans the place (which she said isn't very difficult) and washes his clothes. He pays her $10.

Were you able to see anything of Ireland? I figured you wouldn't be able to call me at Philadelphia because I was at work.

Yes, I've heard about the bathrooms having the water tank up above; but I thought they had done away with those a long time ago, I didn't think they still had them.

How is the base? Do you like your work? Are you still living at the American Hotel? How are the apartments and have you been looking for any furniture?

We all miss you very much Linda, and Paul.

Your letter made everything sound so exciting, that I even wished that I could be back in the Navy, and stationed there.

Naples seems like a very colorful place. How is the weather? Is it something like Arizona weather?

I can't imagine the people driving like they do there. I wonder why. Are the streets narrow, also. Are there any hills there?

I would love visiting the old places that you say Naples has. And the people being out at night is certainly different from here, as nobody goes out at night. It really sounds like a lot of fun.

Have you and Paul started your cultural indoctrination yet? Tell us about your tours, and the places you went to eat. It sounds more like a vacation than a tour of duty, and I'm certainly glad you like it there Linda.

What do they put on the pizzas? Do they make them like they do in the U.S.?

Well, Linda, I decided to write to you before doing my work here at the office, because I wanted to answer your letter right away and not put it off.

Patti and Lex and I send you and Paul lots of love, and we're all so glad that you like it there. You make a good tourist guide, Linda, as your descriptions of everything make us all desirous of visiting.

Everyone asks about you both and wondered if I heard from you. Vera's father has asked about you a number of times, plus everyone here at the office, and also Jim and Larry, and Carolyn and Sandy.

We miss you Linda, but we're glad you have a tour of duty that is a little different.

Take care (in the driving, etc.). Let us hear from you, and tell us what you both are doing. The weather here is getting to be beautiful, especially in the mornings and evenings. The afternoons are still warm, but we seem to be getting the cooler weather early.

Patti I'm sure will be writing to you. You and Paul have received some mail, which we'll send to you.

Lex also will probably write to you, also.

Well, better close, and get busy here at work.

Love to you Linda, and to you Paul, from all of us.

Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Mother and Patti & Lex P.S. Lola says hello!

Tuesday, November 21, 1978

Dear Linda and Paul,

I've been meaning to type a letter to you long before this, and I see that you wrote on Nov. 3. How have you been Linda? And Paul? We're all going to miss you this Thanksgiving Day. What will you be doing? Are you going to cook a turkey - or are they hard to purchase - or expensive there?

Carolyn and Sandy and their families will be down to our place this Thanksgiving Day. I'm certainly going to miss your help Linda, but I know Patti will give me the needed help and support, which I seem to always depend on when I am having company over. I haven't purchased the turkey as yet. Patti and I stopped at Tang's last night but they didn't have them in as yet, so I will probably go to Safeway for the turkey. They are at $0.59 a pound this year, a little more than last year.

Carolyn and Sandy wanted to help pay for the turkey, but I wouldn't have it at all. (But Carolyn, without my knowledge, left $5.00 in my purse when she left, so I'm going to have to accept it graciously).

They will bring the pies, also the vegetables, etc, and I will bake the turkey, potatoes, dressing and make the salad.

We have been having a lot of rain (that is, last week, as this week it has cleared up, and the afternoons are beautiful); but there is a storm coming up, and it might rain before leaving for home tonight.

My brakes failed one day (Saturday) while I was going to pick Lex up after work so that he could deliver his papers. (Luckily he had his bike with him.) 59th & Grand the water was so deep, I had never gone thru water such as that, but at the time, I wasn't worried because the other cars were going thru the intersection, and I had no thought that the brakes would fail. So it wasn't a very good feeling when I couldn't stop the car, but finally I did and pulled in a place, and then I waited there until I thought Lex should be leaving, and walked down to the corner, and shouted at him. I couldn't even cross the streets the water was so deep. Lex drove the car home. It was terribly bad all through Glendale and Phoenix.

How has the weather been there? I imagine it gets cold in the evenings. (As you mentioned the tile floors being cold). Would love to see a picture of your place, and also of you Linda and Paul. Have you taken any as yet?

I laughed when I read what you said about Paul pretending like he was "crying" as I can picture him doing that; and also, about the octopus, etc. spitting if you look at them too close. Lex would love shopping at that marketplace, as he really enjoys seafood. I don't know whether I mentioned it or not, but for his birthday we bought lobster & also crab, and had a nice dinner (almost a month after his birthday tho) Lex helped me with the lobster & crab, and they both were delicious. It was the first time we had tasted crab, and all of us enjoyed it. (Vera, also, as we invited her). So Lex is all for trying squid, etc. if we can find where to buy it.

Patti, and I, and also Lex, would love visiting you and Paul there. I don't think $600 is too much for such a trip, and it certainly would cost much much more, if we had to worry about a hotel room, etc. I read an article about a couple from Scottsdale vacationing in Venice, but they were outraged at how expensive the hotel accommodations were; something like $400 (or more) for 2 days stay, including food, etc. That seems hard to believe - perhaps they stayed at the most expensive resort in Venice. But the article also mentioned that as inflation goes up, it will be increasingly more expensive to travel to Europe.

Where did you get your black cat? She sounds cute. Patti has been making friends with a cat (also black) here at the apartment. One day Lex answered the door, and there were a couple of religious people talking to him, and as the door was open, the black cat ran in. Lex at the time couldn't chase her out, but when the people left, he tried getting her out, but she hid under the China (Buffet), and he couldn't get her out. So you won't believe this, but he decided to let the dogs in (which was kind of foolish, as Patti was sleeping and he could have called her and she wouldn't have had any problem); but the dogs, especially Brandy, barked and chased at the cat, and the cat climbed up the living room drapes. Patti found out about it when she discovered her plant that was on the window sill broken, and she was furious, and then when she told me, I was furious.

I was just now interrupted by a phone call - from Andy, and of course he had been drinking. He called yesterday also. He wanted to know where we would be for Thanksgiving, and if he could come over. I hope he doesn't come over - even tho I did extend an invitation - What else could I do? - I said "if you want to come over, you can -" (He isn't on speaking terms with Peggy - and I think his wife must be spending Thanksgiving with her folks - and perhaps not to tell her he isn't invited to Peggy's, he isn't going with her - ) What problems - but I hope he doesn't come over - and I really think he just needed to know that he was wanted someplace. I pray the Lord will help him, and that he will spend Thanksgiving at his in-laws, which I think he usually does, in the evenings. I just couldn't say - NO, you cannot come over - as I think he won't have the nerve to come over.

(Reading the above doesn't make sense, but I hate to be put in such a position - and that is the reason I don't answer the phones at home - but at work, I have no other alternative but to answer it.)

(12/1/78 P.S. Andy didn't show up. By the way, he always asks how you are.)

Patti has been very busy with her studies, but I'm sure she will be writing to you soon. Also, Lex.

I would love seeing the Catholic Churches and all the rest of the beautiful buildings there. Does the base have any activities that you and Paul go to? How about movies?

How is your work coming along Linda?

We all miss you very much Linda, and we all miss you very much Paul; and also now during the holidays, more so.

Everyone asks about you Linda, and Paul.

I haven't called Nicky in a little while, but I will. I'm glad you mentioned her in your letter, and also Mark and Dave. Nicky might go out with Mark and Dave to a restaurant for Thanksgiving, which is okay, but of course we will miss them. I told Sandy to tell Nicky and the boys to stop over at night for dessert. (I didn't get a chance to finish the page, but I typed another page today.)

12/1/78

Linda, I have been wanting to finish the letter I started but simply haven't found a spare moment here at work, and then at home, after supper, you know that I barely get to read the papers, when I fall asleep.

How was your Thanksgiving Day? Did you and Paul go out to dinner, or did you prepare a turkey, with all the trimmings?

I bought a big roasting pan, and cooked a 20 lb. turkey, and it was delicious. Carolyn and Sandy brought down the vegetables, rolls and dessert, along with soft drinks, etc. We all enjoyed the dinner and the day very much.

The weather is very cold in the mornings and evenings, but it's nice during the day. Patti has had a very bad cold, but she has been going to school. She has mentioned wanting to write to you, but she has been so swamped with school work, that she stayed up all last night (and went to school this morning without getting any sleep; and she did that a couple of weeks ago also, and I think that is how she got her cold.)

Lex also has mentioned writing to you and Paul; and I'm sure he'll get around to it.

Everyone asks about you and Paul.

We all think of you, Linda and Paul, and miss you.

I had better close for now. I will send the letter on to you, and if I left anything out, will get around to writing that in another letter.

Love to you Linda and Paul, From Patti, Lex and I.

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE,

Love, Mother and Patti & Lex

P.S. Frank called up and said he and Rose would be going to Las Vegas in January, and that they would also come to Arizona, and visit with all of us here for about 3 days. We'll be glad to see them both. They asked about you & Paul.

Love again - Mother. Sorry for the delay in mailing this to you.

Friday, January 5, 1979

Dear Linda and Paul,

I'm going to try to write this to you today, and hope I can finish it. Thanks very very much for the lovely Christmas card which you sent to us; and also the lovely Christmas present. I love everything you sent to everyone, as much as I love the ceramic fruit bowl which you gave me. Thank you very much Linda and Paul. Lex liked his very much, and Patti liked her owls. (I like the ceramic of the boy with the pizzas) I didn't get to see what you sent to all of the others, as Patti and Lex took the car when the package arrived, and delivered the packages to Nicky, Mark & Dave; Carolyn & Jim, and to their Dad and Lynn; and another time went to Sandy's. They all loved their presents.

Everyone asked about you at Christmas time, and asked about Paul. We all missed having you both with us during the holidays.

What did you do for Christmas? Did you go to Church? Did you have a dinner at your apartment? By the way, it certainly sounds like a very nice apartment - but we don't blame you for getting a new apartment. We hope when you are settled in it, you will like it much better than the old one, and that it will be warm.

Linda, I didn't send you or Paul your Christmas present as yet. You remember how I was always late sending Jennifer & Eric's presents in California; well, this year Patti bought their presents very early (she got Eric an ASU shirt and Jennifer stationery); so that package went out very early. But it wasn't that I wanted to delegate yours and Paul last, it was only that my finances didn't stretch too far (your Dad hasn't been prompt in the December check - which I hope will arrive pretty shortly). But as soon as I get my pay next week, you will receive a belated Christmas present. Lex also hasn't purchased one but will, but I guess he was having trouble figuring out what to send. (If you have any suggestions, we'd welcome them.)

I bought Lex weights (110 lb.) which he wanted, and Patti a coat which she wanted and needed. Patti has been wearing it going to ASU and she looks so nice in it. (The weather has been very cold in the mornings, and evenings, as you well know.)

Christmas Eve we were supposed to go to Church at Sweetwater, then to Carolyn's, but Lex was working quite late, so we didn't get to go to Church. We enjoyed the snack at Carolyn's & Jim's, and it was nice to get together, and everyone asked about you and Paul, and we all agreed that we wished that you both could have been with us, and we were wondering what you and Paul were doing Xmas-Eve. Christmas Day we went to Sandy's & Larry's and had lasagna. Nicky is looking good, and she asked about you, of course.

Linda, I hope you like your nightie which I sent to you for your birthday; and I hope Paul likes his shirt. I know his birthday is in December, but I don't know the date.

How did you celebrate your birthday? And Paul's.

I wrote in my Christmas card about the rent being raised to $305 if I signed a lease; otherwise, it would be $308. I had no other alternative but to sign (they made the papers up, but I haven't had a chance to get to the office as yet).

The $22,000 houses (2 bedrooms which we didn't even like, are now up to $35,500). It's ridiculous. But, I will have to do something, as I don't feel like paying $305 for an apartment, especially one which isn't what it should be, especially the bathroom, etc.

Lex is still working at Bob's Big Boy. He had to get a hair-cut yesterday.

Patti has been working at the A.S.U. Library during her school vacation. She will be moving into the dormitory when school starts in January, and I'm certainly going to miss her being away from home. I know it will be easier for her in the long run, as she won't be spending so much time traveling back and forth, but nevertheless, I'll miss her; as I missed you, and still do. Patti said she will be home during the weekends. She'll be able to be on work-study (working at the library) while living at the dormitory which will help her, as after she pays for the dormitory room and meals, she won't have much money left over.

Linda, we're all happy to hear that you made 2nd Class - you deserve it, and we're very proud of you. Please send us a picture of yourself in uniform when you sew on your crow Jan. 16th.

Also, we're happy to hear that Paul has a job. It's too bad you don't have the same hours, hope Paul likes the job.

The duplex you are planning to move in sounds better than the houses I have been looking at. At $190 a month, I think it's very reasonable. I wish I could get a home that had a marble staircase, 3 bedrooms, 2 baths, kitchen, living room and garage. Patti and I went out again (Sunday) to look at some models, and they didn't impress me in the least. But my thoughts are towards getting a new home, mostly because I do not want to be at the mercy of the apartment owners, who seem to think it's okay to raise the rent every time the lease expires.

Glad to hear about your new car - I never heard of an Innocenti Mini Cooper, but it sounds nice, and you did get it at a reasonable price. Gas has gone up to almost 70 cents a gallon, and now with the Iran crisis, no one knows how high it will get.

Be careful driving Linda, and Paul.

Would love to see some pictures of you Linda, and Paul, and your new villa, and car, and Naples, in general.

Patti took some pictures with the camera Lex gave her for Christmas, and she will be sending them to you.

Everyone has asked about you Linda (here at work) as well as everyone else.

Carolyn said she would be writing to you soon. (You may have already received the letter.)

Janet Hobbs was visiting at Christmas time from Lake Montezuma. She brought along her poddle, and when she went over to her sister-in-law's house, the sister-in-law did not let her stay overnight on account of the dog, so Janet got a motel room. (She could have stayed with us, as she arrived at our place first, but after leaving us to stay with her sister-in-law, she decided not to return until the next day.) So Christmas Day we were all going to Sandy's for dinner, but Patti, at Janet's insistence, decided to call them up to find out if it would be okay to bring Janet's poddle. Larry answered the phone, and without realizing that she wouldn't come if she couldn't bring her poddle, he said he didn't think his dog, Janet's dog, Carolyn's dog, and the cat would get along. It was quite a day. I was going to stay with Janet, but she said if I didn't go to Sandy's, she would go home that very minute. I had no other alternative but to go. Patti was very upset, and without me knowing it, or anybody else, she did not eat at Sandy's. Then, when Patti and Lex and Vera had to go home to deliver the Xmas papers, Patti and Janet (and the poddle) went out to dinner. Sandy and Carolyn were very upset that Janet did not go there for dinner (because they had invited her when Janet was at our place at Thanksgiving time). (No one thought about the big backyard that the poddle could have played in, and when we tried calling Janet up at the house, she didn't answer the phone.)

Janet stayed at our place Christmas night, and then after I left for work, she was going to her friend Blanche's, but on the way a truck ran into the passenger side of her car. She was not hurt, which we were all glad of, and neither was the dog. The policeman investigating the accident was told our address to deliver the dog, but when he stopped the car, the poddle jumped out the window, and it took practically all morning for them to locate the poddle. (Lex, Patti, Blanche, and then Janet when she returned from the check-up at the hospital).

All in all, it was quite a day. I haven't heard from Janet, to find out how she is, and so forth - if she got her car fixed.

Has it snowed there? We're getting more rain today.

I would like to write more to you Linda, but had better close this.

I will be sending you something (my thought is a check, for yours and Paul's Christmas present, and perhaps you can find something much better there than I can send you.) Or, maybe you can go out to dinner with the money I send you.

We all miss you and love you Linda, and Paul. Write and also send some pictures, if you have any.

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, from all of us, Love, Your Mother, and also love from Patti and Lex

P.S. We miss you both. Sorry it took so long to answer. Thanks again for the beautiful Christmas presents. We love them. Love again, Mother

February 15, 1979

Dear Linda and Paul,

I have been thinking of you constantly, and wanted to answer your letters Linda, but I have been so busy here at the office, and I can't find time away from my work to write to you. I keep thinking I'll get such and such work done, and then type you a letter, but before I know it, there's more immediate work that has to be done.

Thank you very much Linda and Paul for the lovely Valentine Day's card, Lex bought some cards, and he left one for me to send you, but I forgot it, and then Patti said she'd buy a card for you, but they were all gone when we went to the book store at ASU to get one for you. I would have liked to buy you a box of candy, as is my usual custom since you kids were small, but I don't think it would be wise to buy a box and mail it to you.

Lex received the beautiful sweater you sent him for his birthday and he likes it very much, and wore it right away. He looks very nice in it. He also wrote to Paul, but has not wanted to mail it yet, because he has something else to put in the card.

We miss Patti being at ASU, but it's certainly much better for her. She didn't get much time to study going back and forth. She stayed at the dormitory last weekend, and since they don't get their meals during the weekend, I guess they have a hot-plate and manage to cook up something to eat. And they also go out to eat. Patti and her roommate will be home this weekend, as they have Washington's birthday off (Monday February 19th.).

The apartment is a mess, but we will try to clean it tonight. Lex is still working at Bob's Big Boy, and is kept quite busy. He mentioned today that he wants to take tomorrow off from school. But I'm thinking now he might be just kidding me and that they have off tomorrow. (I'll have to find out).

Lex also loved the Italian books you sent him. He was reading them and it actually sounded like he knew what he was reading. I understand quite a bit of it, I think, but there are plenty of words that stump me.

Linda thank you very much also for the lira which you sent us. That was sweet of you.

I have been very busy trying to find another place. I have been looking at old homes, near the capital area where I work, and there was one that was really not bad. But the asking price was $31,500, and the real estate guy told me that maybe he would accept a price in the high 20's, perhaps about $28,000 or $29,000. I didn't quite agree (to myself) because I wouldn't have offered more than $25,000 and at that price, it was still high, because there was a lot of work still to be done at the house. So, I don't think, for the time being, that I will consider an older home. But I'm not ruling out that possibility entirely. It depends on what I find.

I could still get a new home under the Section 235 program of H.U.D. but John F. Long and Design Masters seem to be the only ones building, and they have almost a year's waiting list. But, I could get my own builder, find my own lot, and go that route.

Aunt Jo Edens called me a couple of weeks ago but I wasn't at home to get the call. She wanted your address, and she said she was going to write to you. I think she is planning a trip to Rome, and will perhaps have some time to visit you in Naples? Have you heard from her yet?

Sandy and Carolyn always ask about you. Sandy called last night, and she said she wrote to you, and that you owe her a letter now. I haven't seen Nicky since Denise's birthday.

Linda, as you can see I'm still trying to get this off to you, but the next interruption I get, I'll close the letter.

We were sorry to hear about your flat tire on New Year's Eve. I don't believe I'd like that particular custom of throwing out things, to make a new start, and have to drive the streets after people have thrown out glass, etc.

Love, Love, Love, Love, Mother

Thursday, April 19, 1979

Dear Linda, and Paul

It's about 15 minutes before 5 O'clock, but I want to get this off to you, so the letter won't be long.

Reading your letter, I can imagine how glad you both were to get home after four-wheeling in snow and getting stuck in the snow. I'm glad you both are okay. I'd like to hear more about it sometime.

Sorry to hear about your clutch going out on your car, but it is nice having someone like Paul who is able to fix it. Glad to hear also that he has other cars to fix, which probably keeps him very busy. (I know I was glad that you and Paul were here in Phoenix when my battery was stolen that night.)

I'm glad you bought the tablecloth with the money I sent you. I bet it is beautiful. Lex also wrote to you both, and sent you both a belated Xmas present.

I was very glad to get your letter Linda, as I have been telling everyone who has asked about you that I hadn't heard from you. Sandy asked about you, so did Carolyn, and even my boss (Mr. Evans) just asked a couple of days ago, and he wanted to know how you were getting along in the Navy, and in Naples.

Friday, 4/20/79

I didn't get to finish the letter yesterday, so will try again now.

I'm glad to hear that Aunt Jo will be in Rome, and is planning to see you and Paul. She called me up again after getting your letter, and she said she was happy you wrote to her so soon.

What did you do for the Easter holiday? Did you go to church?

Patti, Lex and I went to St. Louis the King Church, for the 11:15 mass. I haven't been to church in such a long time, altho I have gone to Sweetwater Church (which was also long ago). I should go more often.

Then we went with Lola to King's Table. The buffet was $3.95. We all enjoyed being there. We took pictures, also, with Lex acting up a bit, so perhaps Patti will send you some when they get developed.

I would love to see some pictures which you said you took, and hope you'll be able to send them soon. I'll send you a Navy picture of me, when Patti helps me find it. I have no idea where they are. Maybe when we move from the apartment, a lot of things will surface.

April 25, 1979 - Wednesday

I can't believe it has taken me this long to get this letter off to you.

I promised myself that I would finish writing and mail the letter. There is a lot of things to write about, perhaps that is why it takes me so long.

Lex has been very good about walking the dogs every morning, and also cleaning the patio before going to school. We are also getting after the dogs about barking, but they really don't bark too much, and it's only when the kids go behind the patio gate that the dogs bark. They seem to enjoy their morning walk tho.

The house I wrote to you about going to see turned out very bad. I was very discouraged. It's not worth the $28,500 the real estate man told me they were asking, and then while we were there, he said they would be able to get $32,000 after fixing up, as suggested by the FHA appraisal. I said I hope they get it, but it was too small for me, etc. etc. The interest rate is up to 10%. You'd be amazed to know that none of the builders are building homes for $38,000. Under the 235 program, HUD subsidizes with the interest rate, and it could be as low as 4% in my case, with HUD subsidizing the balance of the interest rate.

We will be praying for Paul's mother. When will she have the cataract operation? Let us know.

Did I ever mention in my letters about Frank and Rose visiting us? It was wonderful seeing them both again. They asked about you and Paul. They both look very good, and we all enjoyed their company and hope they can visit us again soon. Frank and Rose are terrific guests, and it is a joy to have them visit. We didn't get to do much sight-seeing as Rose cannot do too much walking, as it tires her. We all went out to dinner on Saturday night, including Sandy and Carolyn, and the children (Debbie and Denise), but Mark and Dave and Nicky were not present. We went up to see Nicky as Frank wanted to see her.

Patti and I would love to visit you and Paul, and I'm sure Lex would also like to take a trip out. It would be fun visiting you both, and also sightseeing the various places.

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, from your Mother and Patti and Lex.

Sunday, Sept. 2, 1979

Dear Linda and Paul,

I have wanted to write to you both long before now, but it seems that I as always to busy at work that I don't feel right in taking time off to write, and then when I get home, it's the same story.

This is Anna Chambers typewriter, and I am going to type up a resume for one of the job announcements for the State for her, and picked up the typewriter at her house this afternoon. But before I type it up for her, thought I'd write to you, and to thank you both for the lovely birthday presents which you sent to me. Thank you also for the birthday card which was so cute. I think it was nice of you Linda to think of sending me something to help with the housework. I can think of the times when I was so very happy to find the house looking so nice and clean when you got at it, which was very often, as you seemed to know that I'd be happy to have the place looking clean.

(Lex just came in the door, with Debbie and Valerie. They both work at Bob's Big Boy, Debbie as Cashier and Valerie as a waitress.) Lex and Debbie saw the birthday card and read it and thought it was cute. They just now left - they are going to someone's house.

I loved all the presents you sent me, and enjoyed unwrapping them. The package arrived before my birthday, but Patti said that I couldn't open the presents until my birthday, which I did. Patti made a cake and we also had ice cream. Lex drew a picture of a clock radio, which he said he would give me for my birthday. Patti gave me two lovely tops (red) which I can wear with my slacks. I've already worn one to work, and everyone likes it; the other I'll wear when it gets a little cooler, as we have been having 110 and 116 degree temperatures, and since they have to leave the thermostats at 78, it is very warm at the office; in the winter time, the thermostats will have to be set at 65, and can imagine then we'll have to really dress warm.

I needed a tune up for my car again before getting it inspected at the Emission Station, so Lex and a friend of his, did it, and my car passed inspection. I told Lex I'd take that for my birthday present, and he wouldn't have to buy me a clock radio.

Sandy and Carolyn have been down to the apartment, and they all ask about you Linda, and Paul. We had a baby shower for Carolyn and it turned out very nice. She received lovely things for the baby.

Carolyn called me up at work and was so very happy when she received the package you sent her for the baby, and was thrilled over all the things which you and Paul sent to the baby. I am sure she has already written to thank you. Carolyn and Jim (and baby Jennifer) left for Jamestown yesterday (Saturday), and Carolyn was looking forward to the vacation. She has been very busy, working a few days a week and of course the baby keeps her busy, but she loves it, and her and Jim love the baby very much. She is a doll, and is getting so big, considering she only weighed 6 lbs at birth.

What have you been doing with yourself Linda and Paul. We all miss you very much, and I wish you both would be coming to the States for Christmas as we miss you and would love seeing you, and to be able to spend the holidays with us.

How is your mother and dad, Paul. Also, how is your sister? We hope they are all okay. Give them our regards when you write to them.

Linda we enjoyed the pictures you sent us, and we hope you'll send us more. I don't know whether I mentioned before that we received the snapshots (but I think I did); anyway, send us some others if you have any.

How is the weather there? Have you started to get your Fall weather? Have you gone to any particular church while there; or do you go to the services at the base?

Tony and Dorothy and Jennifer and Eric visited us, and they asked about you and Paul. It was good seeing them, and we all enjoyed their visit.

Frank called me up on my birthday. He said that he and Rose went to visit Aunt Jo, and they also saw Ronnie and his family, and Bobbie and his family. They all said we should get together for a reunion, (I guess back in the East) altho I would rather have them all come out to Arizona.

Nicky seems to be coming along okay. I saw her at the baby shower for Carolyn and then Patti and I went to see her new apartment, which is near the Glendale Community College. It certainly is a big apartment, and very nice. I think much better than her last one, and also better than Oak Shadows, She is paying $275.00 plus utilities.

Patti is down at the dormitory at ASU. I just called her a little while ago, but Tina answered and said that Patti was at church. I talked to Patti yesterday, tho, but wanted to know how she was doing. Patti wanted to know if I heard from you, but I mentioned that I still had to answer your last letter, which I was going to do.

Lex couldn't get a dormitory room this semester, but probably will the second semester. He has a varied schedule, so sometimes I take him to the bus stop to catch the 5:30 bus, and other times the 7:00 bus. Also, I pick him up at various times, mostly tho at 5:30 which makes it convenient as I arrive there approximately at that time.

Jeff is home but will have to report to Colorado about the end of this month, as he signed up for another 4 years. He is looking good. He surprised us one night last week. I have talked to Peggy on the phone and she seems to be her usual self, and we are all glad that she is feeling okay now.

Did you receive Lex's long letter? I guess we should write more often. I hope I have answered all your letters Linda.

Please send us some pictures of you and Paul. I think I mentioned that Jo sent me the one of you and Paul taken in her hotel room in Sorrento after you took her home in the evening. It's very beautiful of both of you, and I have showed it to everyone. It's a lovely picture. Jo said she had a wonderful day with you and Paul.

Well, better close.

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, from your Mother, and from Patti and Lex

March 21, 1980

Dear Linda and Paul,

I want to thank you both very much for writing to me, and I'm sorry that it has taken me this long to answer.

Patti is in Colorado with her Church Group. She left Wednesday and is due back Sunday. It is a Seminar she is attending.

I started this at work, now I am home. Lex is coming home for the weekend. I expected him to be here when I arrived, so I just called him at the dorm, and he said he was just leaving to get the bus. He wants to go to a free karate lesson tonight nearby at 16th Street at 7:00 pm. He has already written to you both and perhaps you have already received his letter.

I'm glad to hear that Paul is teaching a class in square dancing. I never learned and I think I would like taking a class sometime. It sounds like a lot of fun.

We all missed seeing you Linda & Paul for the holidays but we're glad you both spent Christmas Eve & Christmas Day with your friends.

I love the bedspread you sent me - it is really beautiful. It fits the double bed I have, but I gave that bed to Lex, as the mattress is not firm enough for me, and Lex also has the large bedroom at this new apartment, so I'm considering using the bedspread on the twin bed that I have in my bedroom, but it is too large for the twin, but I still might use it even tho it fits the double bed better.

Patti & Lex still have fun blowing the bubbles, but I get after them to play outdoors with them - But, it's still okay --- I also blew the bubbles so I could tell you I did, and I think it was very sweet of you Linda to send them. We all have fun, and it brings me back to your childhood days, which don't seem too long ago.

I always go look for mail to see if you have written, but I know it is my turn to write, so I'm getting this off to you even tho it is much easier if I typed the letter at work. But as you know, I don't get a chance then. Mr. Evans always asks about you and how you are doing and if you like the Navy.

How was your vacation trip to Munich, Germany? I hope you & Paul took pictures and will send us some.

How are you both doing with your skiing? Lex also has been going in for that sport and likes it very much.

I was glad to hear about what you both ordered for your present from me. Have you received the "Granny" afghan, etc & the books ordered?

I am enclosing an Arizona State Tax form. I have forgotten to check on the cost of a $50.00 Savings Bond, but I promise I will check-up on it and write to you to tell you. I could buy it for you and send it to you, and you can send me the money for it after I send it to you. But tell me who you want it made out to - the full name and address and I will go to the bank and purchase it for you Linda. So do that soon. A $50.00 bond should be approximately $37.50, but I'm not sure. So, just give me the name & address of your Godchild, and I will buy the bond for you and send it to you soon, Linda.

It was Mr. & Mrs. Grace Davis, her husband's name was Jim, who gave you your Savings Bond when you were born. She was the Real Estate lady who sold me the house on Maple Street. They were very nice people.

You probably heard from Lex that the Judge found Lex "not - guilty" and we were very happy about it.

My car has been fixed and I like it and the man did a very good job on it, and also at a reasonable price. Gasoline is up to $1.16 a gallon for regular and more for leaded gas. Frank in New York State has been paying $1.25 a gallon. But now we read that there is a surplus at the gas tanks (Stations) and who knows maybe the prices will go down. People are taking buses to work and more or less cutting down on their driving. I drive about once or twice a week to work, otherwise I take the bus as it is very convenient to do so.

Well, Linda and Paul, I hope you both are okay and having fun there in Italy. I would love visiting you both. Patti also would love visiting, and it would be nice if Patti & I could visit, but Patti has been involved so much in the Church activities, and School, and work, that I don't know how her schedule would permit it. I don't get to see her, as I used to, but I'm glad she has things she likes to do, and she has been meeting some nice fellows at the church, who take her out to dinner, movies, skating, etc. and she has been dating a number of different guys, double dating with the other girls that go to the same Church. Patti needs to get her eyes checked again, as her contacts bother her, but she didn't wear them for quite awhile, and then starting wearing them again, etc. But I have been after her to see her Doctor again and she said she will soon. How are you doing with your contacts Linda?

Glad to hear that Paul is studying to be a Mason. Also that he bought a 1974 Honda and 1973 Jeep which he will be fixing and will sell. Is he still doing warranty work on AMC and Chrysler vehicles?

Please send me a magazine like you sent Patti, Linda, as I like the picture of you and Paul square dancing.

Must close. We miss you Linda and Paul and love you both. It seems so long that you have been gone.

Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love from your Mother, and Patti & Lex

Monday, July 7, 1980

Dear Linda and Paul,

Hope you both had a nice holiday on the 4th of July. I bought you the picture corners and I'm enclosing them, and will make this letter short.

Did you receive Lex's package as yet? We hope so, and we hope the cookies arrived in good condition. I made the white cookies, but perhaps that type doesn't travel too well, especially the frosting. Let us know how they arrived. Lex made the chocolate cookies for you both, and perhaps they're in better condition.

Did you receive the $50 bond also?

Patti said she will be mailing you a letter soon. She received the lovely birthday card you both sent her and she thanks you for it.

Carolyn's Jennifer will be 1 year old the 9th of July. Carolyn has invited us down for Jennifer's birthday party. I bought a cute little pants & top set for her.

We didn't do anything exciting for the 4th of July. Lex had to work. I did a little shopping during the day, and Patti went to Church at Tempe in the evening. One of her friends picked her up.

Your Dad and Lynn were to take Patti shopping this Saturday, but since your father worked the night before, they couldn't make it this Saturday. He wanted to take her on Sunday, but Patti is at Church services in the morning, and also evening, so they have made plans for the coming Saturday. (they want to buy some clothes for Patti's birthday.)

Our weather is very hot. How is it there?

Send us some pictures of you Linda, and Paul, as we'd love seeing them. Patti hasn't received the reprints which she is intending to send you.

Everyone says hello to you Linda, and Paul, and they all ask about you both.

Tell us about your trip to Sicily. I'll be sending you the addresses of Ma's relatives there just in case you decide to visit Sicily again.

We'll also be sending you the suntan oil soon. And I'll also return the balance of the money which you sent, unless there is something else you would like for me to buy for you.

(Do you think you'd want more photo corners? Let us know.)

Closing for now, we all love you Linda, and Paul, and we all miss you both. LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, from your Mother, Patti and Lex

Friday, August 22, 1980

Dear Linda and Paul,

Thank you very much for the lovely birthday card, Linda and Paul, and thank you very much for all the lovely presents. The shoes, I really needed, as the pair I bought when we visited you in San Diego are getting lopsided and they are getting uncomfortable. The panties I also really needed, and I'm so happy to get so many of them, as along with hose, those are the two things that I delay buying when the money has to go for other things. (Patti, bought me 3 pairs of stockings, as she got tired of seeing my torn ones). I delay buying stockings because I wear slacks and naturally the runs don't show. I also loved the pencil sharpener (snoopy) and the pencils, and the dish towel and potholder, and lastly, I love the vase, it is beautiful, and I'll make good use of that. I also enjoyed unwrapping the presents. Thank you again for remembering my birthday.

Patti and Lex gave me a beautiful AM/FM - clock radio, as I don't have an alarm to get me up in the mornings. (I still have the radio you gave me a long time ago Linda, which I still love and also still play, the only thing is that the alarm system somehow does not work and the clock doesn't give the right time, but the radio part works just fine, and I play it in my kitchen.)

Lex made me a cake that day, as it was his day off. It was delicious. At the office, Lola, and Peggy, brought in cakes and we celebrated my birthday and Petey's birthday, which was on the 14th for her.

We're finally getting cooler mornings, but it is still in the hundreds during the afternoon.

I mailed you your suntan lotion, and hope you have received the package by this time. I didn't write a letter at the time as Lex mailed it while I was at work, and it was more or less rushing, as we had delayed mailing it for so long. Hope you will have enough summer left to make use of it.

You mentioned that you might be coming home before Xmas time - we are very very happy to hear that news, and certainly hope that you and Paul will be able to get a flight to the states. This is coming as a surprise as we didn't imagine you would be able to visit us while stationed so far away. We would love seeing you Linda, and Paul, as it has been such a long time, and we all miss you both very much.

You still have $13.00 left over from the money which you sent to buy the bond, etc. So if you need anything else, please tell me, and I'll send it to you. I didn't want to mail you just the suntan lotion, so I enclosed some nuts, and I hope that they arrived okay, and also the bottle of lotion.

You didn't give us any idea of when you would be coming home to visit, but we hope it is soon. I haven't taken any vacation time as yet, so when you and Paul come, I'll manage to take some time off for my vacation.

Frank called me up last Saturday to wish me a happy birthday, but he thought my birthday was the 21st instead of the 12th, and that was the reason he called late. He asked about you Linda, and Paul. He said they didn't have much of a summer, as it rained most of the time. He also mentioned that this year has been the worse the business has had, and that he was intending to retire this year, but is delaying it until perhaps next year. They don't intend to take a vacation to see us this year as they had already taken one to visit Rose's sister Jo in Florida. It was good to talk to Frank.

Patti is down at the Dormitory as school starts next Monday, August 25th. Lex has checked into the Dorm, but he hasn't moved in as yet, and for that matter, Patti hasn't completely moved in either. Patti went to get her eyes checked, and the Doctor changed her prescription for her contacts. She will get them this week. Patti will be getting financial aid this year, which is a big help, as tuition went up, and also to stay at the Dorm (including the meals) it will be $900. Lex is very upset as he was just informed that he will not be getting any financial aid, as he had a small amount in his savings account which he claimed, so he was not eligible. The news arrived last night, and needless to say, Lex was so upset that he wasn't fit to live with. So he will stay at the Dorm this semester, as he will have money for it and to pay his tuition, but the next semester he won't be able to afford it. I told him he should stay at home, but he has to get his grades up (which weren't very good this past year) and he feels that it would be best to be down at ASU so that he will be able to concentrate on his studies.

Patti will also be staying at your father's place to take care of the cats while he and Lynn are on vacation. She will be there 2 weeks. He is leaving her the car so that she can get to ASU, but I think Patti intends to drive to Camelback from his place and take the bus, as it is a lot of driving, and it would be better to take the bus.

I'm enclosing your Proof of registration Card, which came in the mail a while ago; in fact mine came in the same time yours did as I had also registered again since I moved from Glendale to Phoenix. Patti registered to vote also, and Lex wants to, but as yet, hasn't had a chance.

Thanks again for all the lovely presents, Linda and Paul, and we all are hoping that you will be here to visit us soon.

Everyone says hello to you both (Carolyn and Jim asked about you both a few days ago when I talked to them on the phone); and Mark and Dave have asked about you, and also Sandy and Larry. The last time I saw Nicky, which was on Jennifer's birthday, she also inquired about you both.

Love from all of us to you Linda and Paul, and let us know when you're planning to visit us.

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE

from your Mother, and also Patti & Lex

P.S. Both your cards were cute, and the kittens on the card were adorable. Send us some pictures!

Love, Love, Love again, Mother

January 12, 1982

Dear Linda and Paul,

It was so nice getting your telephone call, Linda and Paul, and also your last letter. I am at work just now and will try to dash off this letter. Thank you very much for the lovely slippers which you gave me, the Chanel No. 5, the towel which you tucked in the box, and also the other things which you gave me Linda (the tree, and the ceramic bowl with the chocolate candy, etc.). We all missed you both at Christmas, and we still miss you. Patti loved her things, and so did Lex, and I'm sure they'll be writing to you both.

We're very happy to hear that you have your new home, and hope that you're almost settled in it by now. Wish that I could have helped you Linda, as I know it was quite a job getting your furniture in place, etc. How is your work? How is Paul doing? Has it been cold there? We are having some rain today, but other than that, it has been warm. Patti and Lex will be starting the school semester this Thursday. Lex was supposed to register for classes today. Patti registered quite a while ago. Lex is still working at Dale's Electronic.

Patti got some pictures developed (some new ones) of the Christmas tree, and one taken in her new dress, which she should send to you, plus some of the other ones. Carolyn gave me a couple taken at Thanksgiving time at Sandy's house, and you came lovely in them Linda. We'll try to get some developed to send you.

I haven't bought Paul his Christmas present as yet, but will shortly, and then I'll also mail the package you have here Linda which I forgot to give you. Patti and Lex also will be sending you both your Christmas presents, but as you know, we're always kind of late. I still have to send something to Uncle Tony's children, Jennifer and Eric, and I hope he doesn't think I've forgotten them.

Nicky has been down with the flu, and so has Mark. We were going to go out with her (and her friends Carmin and his wife Joan) this Saturday night, but she was sick, and so were Joan's mother and father, who were visiting them from back East, so they decided not to go out. The Greek Restaurant (near Fry's on 16th Street) has nice entertainment (family type) and that's where we were going to go.

January 14, 1982

As you can see, I didn't get a chance to finish the letter, but will try to now.

We've had some cold spells in the evenings, and are wearing our heavy coats. Lex has been wearing the jacket your Dad gave him, and he likes it. Patti is at the Dorm now and I miss her. Patti's classes started today and Lex's tomorrow. I'm still very busy at work. We have 2 temporary girls, and they are doing fine, but we still have a back log to catch-up.

We loved our Xmas tree, Linda, and it still was in good condition when we took it down.

We would love to see the picture of you taken when you re-enlisted. Please send us one. Also, any others you have. We would like to have a picture of Paul's children which you said you took of them in the ASU shirts. Also, don't forget your promise to send me a large picture of you and Paul, whenever you both have time to get one taken. We hope that Paul's Grandma is fine and also his Mother and Dad.

Will close for now. Hope you're completely settled in your new house. Also that your job is coming along fine.

Love to you Linda and Paul from all of us, and we miss you Linda, and Paul. Everyone says hello.

Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, from Mother and Patti and Lex

Saturday, January 23, 1982

Dear Linda and Paul,

Thought I'd send this to you Linda. I'd hoped that I could pick some winners for you and myself, but you might enjoy scratching the tickets. These were the ones I was going to get for you on your birthday.

Hope you and Paul are okay, and that you're completely settled in your new house.

So far, I still haven't done any shopping, and neither has Lex or Patti, for our belated Xmas gifts, but will get around to it.

Patti is at the dorm. Lex is cleaning his room just now. Patti said she talked to your Dad a few days ago and he is working days, and would like to be on that shift instead of nights. Lex talked to him last week & he had said you also called him on the phone, as you did us.

What are your hours at work Linda? We'll call you and Paul one of these nights when Patti and Lex are home.

Everyone asks about you Linda and Paul. Carolyn's in-laws will be visiting her and Jim next month. I understand the weather back there has been terrible. How has it been in Charleston? We also had very cold weather a few days ago and the nights have been cold.

Lex went skiing last week-end with Marge and her 2 brothers in Tucson, Mt. Lemon, but it was icy and rocky and Lex got a big gouge in his skis which he has to p-tex.

Will close for now. We miss you Linda and Paul and Lex, Patti and I send you both our love.

Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, from your Mother and Patti and Lex

P. S. Send some pictures if you have any developed.

Saturday, February 27, 1982

Dear Linda and Paul,

I want to thank you very much for the lovely tablecloth, the beautiful "tile" picture and the dish drainer which you sent me. I love them, they are so unusual and something I wouldn't have been able to purchase here. I really do appreciate you giving them to me. I haven't decided where I'll hang the "tile" picture, but probably on the wall behind the couch. Also, I haven't put the table-covering on as yet as I want to use it on a special occasion. The dish drainer I've been using constantly and I don't know why I didn't get one sooner to use, as it practically dries the dishes before I use a dish towel. Thanks also for the lovely dish towel with the "Cactus". Lex loves his "stein" , and Patti loves her guitar and mandolin, and so do I. She brought them down to the dorm to show the girls, and I told her I want to bring them to work to show the women I work with. Lex was very pleased with the candle stein and he put it in the China, along with his other ones. Lex and Patti will be writing to you both shortly. I just now finished baking an apple pie, from the can of apples which you bought me when you were visiting. It smells very good. Lex went over to Lola's today. He was also supposed to go to your Dad's house to help him today. Your Dad had called him last Saturday evening to help him this Saturday, but he had also told Lola he would help her this week (before your Dad had asked him), so it presented a problem. Lex wanted to help both of them, and he was going to your Dad's after helping Lola. I hope he will be able to get there before dark to help him. Your Dad works tomorrow (Sunday) otherwise Lex would have been able to help him all day.

Patti was giving a "Shower" to Mary Ellen, the girl who is marrying Antonio in April. It's a different type of shower in that its a Tupperware party shower. Patti was going to make a dip and cut - up - vegetables and it was at noon today. I tried calling her at the dorm a little while ago, but she must still be at the shower. Carolyn called me on the phone the other day, and so did Sandy, and they both told me that you had written to them and they were very happy to get your letter. I've talked to Nicky also and she asked about you and Paul. Carolyn is expecting her in-laws in about a week. I told her I'd take care of Jennifer again one Saturday soon. Patti, Lex and I took care of her awhile back and we enjoyed being with her. Patti got a permanent last week and she looks nice in it. Carolyn & Sandy said you were taking some classes in college. Tell us about it. How is Paul doing in real estate? We hope he is doing good. Sandy said that Larry is planning to go back to Bible College again.

Well, I'd better close.

Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, from Mother, Patti & Lex

Tuesday, August 17, 1982

Dear Linda and Paul,

I want to thank you both very much for the lovely birthday presents which you sent me....thanks very very much. The sheets and pillowcases for my twin bed are beautiful, the towel set is beautiful, and I loved the pink panther towel, and also thanks very much for the Chanel.

I told Patti when she got home that night that you had called, and that I told you that she gave me Chanel (Patti), and then when we opened the box I was pleasantly surprised to find that you had also sent me Chanel. Patti had gone to a wedding at Valley Cathedral on Central Avenue, and Mark and Dave had also been invited, and they went together. Lex picked them up about 10:00 p.m. and when they got home, I opened your package. They all had fun with those "bubbles". Mark and Dave stayed overnight, and Lex drove them to the beauty school Saturday morning. Patti went along, and had her hair cut. Mark cut it, and he did a very good job. Everyone liked it.. Nicky had a cake for Mark and Dave the same Saturday night for their graduation from Glendale Community College. Carolyn, Sandy and Nicky, and all asked about you Linda, and also about Paul.

Friday, August 20, 1982

Patti is going to your Dad's tonight. He'll pick her up when she gets off the bus at about 7:00 p.m., and she'll stay overnight. Your Dad and Lynn will be going on vacation in September, and Patti will be staying at their place to take care of it and the cats. Your Dad wants to be with Patti while she gets used to driving their car, so that she can have it to drive back and forth to ASU. So they intend to drive a bit tomorrow.

The classes start the 23rd of August. Patti has already checked in the Dorm, and met her room-mate; I think she said her name is Sharon and she lives at Greenway and 51st Ave., not too far from where your Dad lives. Lex's friend Jay is back for his last year at ASU, and came up to see Lex a few nights ago, and also took his Stero. Lex will miss the Stero. Lex has been working full time this summer, and his company paid him for the class he took this summer at ASU. He registered for his classes, but I don't know what his schedule is as yet.

What have you both been doing? Hope Paul will get to sell some of his listings, and we're glad that he is doing good in that respect.

Did you get much of a tan Linda? How did your dinner go the other night? (When you invited your friends over for ravioli's.)

How has the weather been? Today it got up to 114 degrees.

Your kitten Rebel sounds so cute. They're adorable and lots of fun, even tho they need attending to, as far as cleaning up, etc., but they're worth it.

Have you signed up for any classes at Baptist College? How are Paul's folks and his Grandmother? And his children? We all miss you Linda, and Paul, and hope that you both are planning to visit us soon. Are you still planning to go to Naples on a vacation? Has Paul fixed the Jeep? Is the Honda still in the shop?

Everyone asks about you Linda, and Paul. Sandy said she would like to visit but I don't know when. She and Larry and Denise are on vacation. Also, some weekend she will be taking care of Jennifer so that Carolyn and Jim can go on a short weekend vacation.

Thanks again for the beautiful presents for my birthday, and the lovely card. I'm enclosing the 5 lottery tickets which I hope you will have fun scratching, and hope they could be winners.

Well better close. I'm enclosing some pictures taken at Patti's birthday. Send us some pictures! Don't forget to take a picture in your uniform Linda. Send some of you and Paul around your home.

Love to you Linda, and to Paul, from me, and Patti and Lex.

Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, from your Mother, Patti and Lex

March 29, 1983

Dear Linda and Paul,

I'm at work just now, and very busy, but thought I'd take time off from my work to send you these lottery tickets. This game is different, and you can mail in 3 non-winning tickets for the million dollar drawing.

We're having beautiful weather today. It's about 75 degrees. How is it there?

What will you and Paul be doing for Easter? We hope you both have an enjoyable day. Are you going to Church?

Carolyn called last night. They're all going to Duff's for dinner on Easter Sunday. She invited us to go along, but we usually go with Lola on Easter Sunday (as you probably remember). Lola suggested going to Black Angus (the restaurant near Bell Road), and Patti and Lex like that restaurant. Patti's friend, Roger Imus, is also going with us. I haven't decided which Church I'll go to, but I think I'll go to St. Louis the King, and I'm hoping Lex will also go to Church. (He usually does, and I think I should go more often.) Patti and Roger will go to Metro Church of Christ.

Lex and Patti enjoyed their ski trip this past weekend. Patti and Roger came back early, as they wanted to go to Choir and other services Sunday evening. Lex got back about 11:30 p.m. Sunday. Needless to say, they were both exhausted Monday. Patti fell a number of times, especially on the chair lifts, getting off.

Frank's birthday (April 3) falls on Easter Sunday this year. His birthday is the same day as Nana's was. I think I'll call him up on the phone to wish him a happy birthday, and also to find out how he is feeling, and also how Rose is. The last time I talked to him (in January) he said he might be planning a visit to Arizona.

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, from your Mother, and Patti, and Lex

Wednesday, September 26, 1984

Dear Linda and Paul,

I'm at work just now, but thought I'd write a short letter. It was nice talking to you last night Linda, and I had wondered what you had gone through on your initiation, on the 18th. Lex told me about it, and it didn't sound too pleasant. They seemed to delight in torturing you people with raw eggs. Since you were Garfield, you should have told them "how you liked your eggs.....hatched, grown, etc. etc." (I'm only kidding, Linda.) Lex has that memorized, and has pulled that gag on me a few times on Sunday morning when I ask him how he wants his eggs.

Well enough of that. I had better get this typed and sent to you, while there is a meeting going on in the office, and I'm able to take time off from my work to get this typed to you.

It's been raining quite a bit these last two days. It poured down this morning going to work. It also rained a lot last night. We'll be getting our cooler weather now, and it will be kind of nice, since we've had such a hot summer.

Nicky, Dave and Mark also want to go to the Frankie Laine concert on the 18th of November. Lex bought the tickets for all of us; including 2 - for your Dad and Lynn. Patti doesn't want to go mostly because she does not want to miss services at Church Sunday night. She would have gone, if it had been on another night.

It was Jim's birthday on the 20th of September. I haven't seen Carolyn and Jim in about a month, but I told Carolyn I would take care of Jennifer one of these Saturdays. Nicky took care of her last Saturday, when Carolyn and Jim went out to dinner for Jim's birthday. Jennifer is going to school now, since she is 5 years old.

Better close. Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Your Mother. Love also from Patti and Lex.

May 8, 1985 - Wednesday

Dear Linda,

I've tried to write to you long before this, and I hope I can get this off to you today, so that you will receive it when you get back to Barbados.

We all loved the things you sent us. Thanks very much Linda for the beautiful long, colorful, dress which you sent to me, and Patti also liked the one you sent to her. We haven't taken any pictures of us in the dresses, but we will do it the first chance we get. Lex liked the shirts which you sent him, and also the Banks beer, which he has in the refrigerator. Also, we liked the coins which you sent, and Patti liked the bottle of "sea, sun and water".

Everyone has been so busy lately, it seems. Patti and Lex have been doing their programs, and assignments, which they have to do, as it is close to the time for finals. Lex and Patti are still working part time. Patti will be staying at Lola's house starting today, as Lola went on a trip to Hawaii, and she will be back the 17th of May. Patti was up all last night doing a project, and she didn't get any sleep, but she said she will be okay. Lola will be leaving her car at the BEAUTITUDES (I don't know if that is how it is spelled) at 17th Avenue and Glendale. Patti intends to pick it up after work, but she'll have to take the bus and stop at Lola's neighbor to pick up the keys. Hopefully, the neighbor will drive her to where the car is parked.

Linda, we loved the pictures you sent us. I brought them to work and showed them to a number of people. They all liked them, and thought it was interesting that you were on board the USNS BOWDITCH. They said you were very pretty. I haven't framed the pictures as yet but intend to.

By the way, your Dad now has another address. Patti and Lex will be writing to you also, but since I am writing now, I will tell you. He called about the middle of April, and told Lex that he wanted to be out of Camlu by the 1st of May. He didn't mention much particulars, but was adamant about moving. Lex said he would see about another place. We checked a place in Glendale (Colter Village) and that was almost $900.00 a month. Your Dad had also talked to Carolyn and she also tried to call a number of Retirement places, but got the same answers, and one place mentioned that there would be a 2 year waiting period. Needless to say, since Patti and Lex only had a couple of weeks to search, they have your Dad in a nice apartment. His address is: 2928 E. Fairmount, Phoenix, Arizona 85016. His telephone number is: 955-0365. (Apt. 184)

Patti called the Managers at Camlu, and she informed Patti that she did not want your Dad out of the retirement home, but that he would have to abide by the rules; to get to dinner on time (or to meals on time); as she felt that he would come into the dining room late, on purpose, and then someone would have to get up to serve him, (I don't believe he did it on purpose, as perhaps he over-slept); also, I guess they didn't like it when he was growing a beard, and felt he should shave; but she did tell Patti that she liked your Dad and that he would have to obey the rules; also that since the time he was informed of this, he wasn't speaking to her.

Patti will be writing to you soon, I hope. I want to get this letter out to you as soon as possible, as I want you to have it when you arrive back.

Your Dad likes his apartment. Patti has been shopping with him, getting groceries and things which he needed for his 1 bedroom apartment. There is a pool, and he bought a pair of swim trunks. I talked to him last night, and he said he went in the pool yesterday. I asked him if he missed "Camlu", and he said "every chance he gets". It's a furnished apartment, but he needed towels, sheets, etc which are not furnished. Patti bought his telephone (a French one) at Sears, and he likes it. He is happy about having a phone, and it didn't take long to have it connected. Installation charges were $69.00; and the phone, I think cost about $58.00. Patti is going to see your Dad today, after work, and they are going to look for a TV. Patti has also been down to see your Dad quite often. He moved in April 27th. Patti went down Saturday and cleaned, etc. She has made him a couple of meals, or more. The apartment complex is called WARREN APARTMENTS, and it's located on East Indian School Road (which is the street below us). The complex is quite large, there are 5 units, and that is the reason why your Dad's address is East Fairmount instead of East Indian School. Each unit has a pool, and washers and dryers. It is near two shopping plazas, within walking distance, and a COCO's Restaurant, Manuel's (a Mexican Restaurant) and a Chinese Restaurant. It's a place where you don't need a car, and it is very convenient to a lot of places. Patti went down to see him last Friday, with a guy, Andy, who is in her Russian Class. Patti said your Dad brought out the pictures of you which you sent him to show Andy. He also (your Dad) liked the things you sent him; Lex liked the cigarette lighter, as it was from your ship.

I'm writing this at home, Linda, as I didn't get an opportunity to finish the letter at work. I will buy some lottery tickets tomorrow and mail them in a separate envelope. I sent in your last losing tickets (5) for the drawing.

We haven't talked to Paul, lately, but will call him again when Lex and Patti are home, so we all can talk to him.

We're glad you like being at sea, Linda, and that it is fun; and we know you miss Paul, but it does sound like you are on vacation, especially when you have a room steward cleaning your room and making your bed; and not have to cook. What type of work are you doing? Barbados sounds like a nice vacation spot. The restaurants you went to sound like they have good food, and the guy dancing with fire sticks must have put on a good show. I couldn't figure out what "EMO" stands for. What movies have you seen? How is the food on the ship? What is the weather like when you are out to sea? Laying out in the sun, have you gotten a tan? Can you take pictures on board ship?

I'll close now, Linda, as I want to make sure you have this letter when you arrive.

Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love from your Mother and love also from Patti and Lex.

Saturday, May 11, 1985

Dear Linda,

I just this few minutes ago received the lovely flowers you sent me for Mother's Day. They are just beautiful; there are red (big ones) carnations, and rose carnations, yellow daisies, lavender flowers, and white ones, and a lot of other flowers, made up in a gorgeous bouquet. Lex just got up (it is 11:30 am) now, when he heard me talking to the delivery man. He said the flowers were pretty. I tried to call Patti, she is taking care of Lola's house, but she wasn't in. I called Patti before I left for the hairdresser, and she said she was going down to see your Dad his morning, and clean his apartment. She was with your Dad Thursday night, and they went looking for a TV. I think they are planning to get one at Sears, with Patti's charge, and make monthly payments.

I hope you are still in Barbados and haven't left for another month of sea duty; as I hope you have received the other letter I wrote you. My calculations, I figured you would be back in Barbados on the 17th of May, so hope you get my letters. Lex said he will be writing to you.

Our weather is warm, and temperatures have gone up to 100 degrees.

Patti wrote to the Bank in South Carolina, to transfer the funds to the Mesa Bank, but she hasn't received a response to her letter as yet. Her friend, Andy, from her Russian Class, sent her a rose at her place of work, and in the card (in Russian) wrote "A pretty rose for a pretty girl.", but then he realized that his Russian wasn't quite right, and he went back to the Florist to correct the card, but the flower had already been delivered to Patti at work. It said "A red rose for a red girl." Patti laughed, and so did we when we heard about it.

How did you manage to get flowers sent to me, Linda, from where you are?

I'm sending you some lottery tickets; a new game, Aces 3. Hope that one of them is a winner but if not, 5 can be sent in for the Grand Prize drawing.

While I was writing, Patti just called. She is going shopping with your Dad, and I guess they want to browse around 'Pic-N-Save', and also go to Wards. Patti said she will write to you

I love you very much Linda, and miss you, and everyone asks about you and wonders how you are doing.

I will take pictures of the flowers you sent me, and Patti and I will put on the dresses you sent us, and take pictures of us, and I'm sure Lex will oblige by putting on one of his shirts that you sent him, so we can take a picture of him to send you.

Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, from your Mother and from Patti and Lex

P. S. Thanks again for the lovely flowers. How was your recent tour out to sea? Take some pictures. Love again, Mother

12/7/85

Dear Beautiful Linda,

A very Happy Birthday Linda and I wish you were here so that I could bake a cake for you. This is part of your gift. "It was the happiest day of my life when you were born, and when Patti was born, and when Lex was born."

Love, Love, Love, Love, Love from Mother

Sunday, June 8, 1986

Dear Beautiful Linda,

We love you. Thought you might like to have some nuts for snacks, altho we know your meals there are delicious. Lex is coming along fine.

Patti called us from Yalta this morning. She is enjoying herself and the food is good.

Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Mother and Lex

October 31, 1986

Dear Beautiful Linda,

Thank you very much for your last letter, and the pictures you sent us, and the lovely scarf that was made in Italy. I know by this time Paul is with you, and that you are very happy to have him with you. I loved all the pictures you sent us, but there weren't any of you Linda. I'm going to buy a new photo album to put all your recent pictures in.

We just had about 20 kids "trick-or-treat"ing; Lex had the apt. fixed up to scare them, and he played "The Haunted House" record which we've had for quite a while. It was fun. We have a lot of candy left over. Patti just got back from your Dad's. She went down to help him out handing out candy, but there weren't any kids. Patti brought home some candy from your Dad.

It was nice talking to you on the phone Linda, and it only came to $3.39 for 5 minutes. How is the weather? I hope you got over your sore throat. Hope Paul is enjoying himself. What happened there for Halloween? Do they have Halloween festivities like we do here? Do you get a lot of snow in winter? Send us a picture of your house. Did you get new carpeting put in yet? The pictures of the countryside are very pretty -- we like your car also and the Grand Lodge (Freemason's Hall) is very impressive.

What will you be doing for Thanksgiving? It's Carolyn's turn to pick the restaurant where we will get together that day. Nicky said she will have Christmas at her place, and Dave wants to make lasagna. Please tell me what sizes and what to get for Paul. Would appreciate any suggestions.

Its Nicky's turn at her place for our "card game." Last month we were at your Dad's place, and he had steaks for all of us. Lex was the Chef and he cooked the steaks on the outdoor "grill". Patti prepared the rest of the meal, and Nicky and I enjoyed being waited on. Mark was there also.

This letter will be short, Linda, in comparison to the others. Lex liked his birthday presents and I'm sure he will be dropping you a short note. We wished that you and Paul were near enough to spend the Holidays with us. Thanks again for the lovely scarf.

We miss you and love you Linda and Paul.

Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, from your Mother, and from Patti, and from Lex

P.S. Let me know if you need anything Linda, and I will be glad to send it to you.

Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Mother

Friday, August 26, 1988

Dear Beautiful Linda, and Handsome Paul,

I want to thank you very much for the presents you sent me for my birthday. I love them all. You sent me too many things but I'm appreciative of them. The collection of Jacksons Teas is beautiful - I've always liked containers such as these and I'm going to display them in my kitchen as they are so very pretty. Also thank you very much for the lovely leather billfold made in Italy, and of course, thank you very much for the check for $50.00. I've already deposited the check as my checking account is getting quite low, so your check came in handy.

Lex registered for 6 hours of classes at A.S.U. but he has now obtained a job, which he is glad that he got it. It is at JENSEN SYSTEMS, INC. and it is in his line of work (Electrical Engineering) but he is starting at the beginning level. He starts to work at 7:00 in the morning and can put in as many hours as he wants to. He is very conscientious about learning his job. He has been putting in a lot of hours, but he doesn't give himself credit for it - maybe he will later on. So, he is getting his money back from A.S.U. but the refund check hasn't arrived as yet. He knows where he will be picking up the battery for Paul's Harley-Davidson but he has not picked it up as yet. (Paul, we will get it out to you this weekend and I hope you will not be too disappointed in us for not doing it sooner.)

The Peugeot was at the Peugeot Dealers getting that work done as we mentioned to you a while back. It seems like one thing gets fixed (when you have it at a Garage) and they seem to mess things up a bit. To make a long story short, after the car wouldn't start, the battery was tested, etc. and Sears said it was the alternator. Lex took it out, and it has been rebuilt and now Lex has to put it back in the car. Our managers don't allow anyone to do any repair work here at the complex, but Lex is going to put the alternator in the car this Sunday.

Thank you also for the tape MATADOR. I haven't played it yet but will. (P.S. Lin66- the Puffin is cute.)

(Linda, I must tell you that Patti and Mike gave me this typewriter for my birthday - and I have yet to master it. It is a Smith Corona Electronic typewriter, but I haven't read all the instructions, and I don't know what I did wrong up above, but it locked on me - where I have typed your name "Linda" so I'm continuing on in spite of it.)

I must confess that I had to look up "puffin" in the dictionary as I didn't know that such a bird existed. The dictionary says it is any one of several sea birds of the genera Fratercula and Lunda of Northern Regions characteristically having black and white plumage and a vertically flattened, brightly colored bill. That's certainly interesting to me as I had no idea such a bird existed. (I'm repeating myself.)

Thanks very much also for the lovely card.

While I'm at it, I must also thank you for all the beautiful things you both gave me for Mother's Day. (The pig apron, towel, the two lovely sweaters - I've worn one and the other one - the white one - Patti wore while we were down Lovettsville, VA.) She didn't think she would be staying for the extra day and she didn't bring anything extra - so she put on the white sweater and it looks beautiful on her. I wore the green one, and have washed it and worn it since - and it's very pretty.

Thanks for sending the negatives. Patti said Mike's Dad has all the equipment for developing negatives and that she will be doing them at his place, and Mike's Dad will be helping.

We have the VCR tape of Patti and Mike's wedding, which is very nice, and will be making extra copies. Patti wanted a few more pictures added to the tape, so the original and the extra pictures have to be given to the photographer (Dave Schrimeger) to be completed.

I saw Patti and your Dad last night. Patti had been out grocery shopping with your Dad, and then they came up to the apartment to pick up your Dad's wristwatch which Lex had sent to the repair shop to put in another battery. They both had some supper, along with Lex. (I had already had my supper.) They liked the presents which you sent me for my birthday.

I'm enclosing some pictures. Patti has some to send you also. Your Dad mentioned that he still has to write to you.

It is Carolyn Curtis' birthday (or it was on the 23rd of this month), and Sandy, Larry, Mark, David, Denise and Nickie are having a SURPRISE - OVER THE HILL 40 - PARTY for Carolyn this Sunday. She has been to Las Vegas with Jim these past 4 days. I have Jennifer's birthday present still here at the apartment but will probably bring it up to Jennifer at Carolyn's party.

Well, must close. Maybe next time I write to you I will know a little more about how to operate this typewriter - which I like. It has codes for Pitch, Linespace, Script, Auto, etc. which will make it easier for me once I read the instructions. It also has Word Eraser and Correct.

We've been having very warm weather. An unusually hot summer even for Arizona.

Thanks for the Llechwedd Slate Caverns Coloring book. I'm enclosing an article about a cave that has been discovered in Arizona, which was designated Arizona's 25th state park, and will be developed into a tourist attraction. It was discovered by two Tucson guys in 1974 and kept secret to protect it from vandals.

Everyone asks about you Linda and Paul. Everyone sends love.

We'll be glad when you both are back in the States, as I miss you both, and so does everyone here.

Also, again please forgive me for not sending you the dry battery, Paul, but will get it airmailed to you very soon.

How is your dog doing - is he behaving much better since he last chewed some of your furniture? When will you be getting your other puppy?

How has the weather been there? How are you going with your real estate lessons, Linda? I'm sure that Paul is a excellent teacher.

I miss you a lot Linda, and Paul, and love you both.

Thanks again for all the things you sent.

Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, from your Mother

P.S. Send us pictures, if you have any. Love again, Your Mother

September 16, 1988

Dear Linda and Paul,

It was so nice to get your last letter, written on the 23rd of August, and also enclosing a very large check for $200 which I thank you very much for - I am protesting that you did give me too much, as I should be allowed to give you something without being reimbursed for it. Nevertheless, I did deposit the check, and I thank you both very much for it, and I also want to say that it more than covers the amount that I spent for the car parts and battery - so you have a credit due of almost $50. We finally bought the battery for the Harley-Davidson which with the tax cost $67. We'll be mailing it - air mail - very soon, and hopefully Paul will get it within a week.

I just now got interrupted by the phone - Patti called. She has a sore throat and did not go to work today (in fact, she has been home from work for the past 3 days). Then your Dad also called.

Your Dad said he would be writing to you soon, and also sending you the video tape of Patti and Mike's wedding.

Patti said she has written to you. (Everyone sends love to you Linda and Paul.)

The pictures you sent are very pretty. We love the one of you Linda, and we think it is a beautiful picture - and you look lovely. Very interesting pictures of your Expedition Razorbill and the cute sheep, etc. You probably won't miss the weather there - cold - wind and rain - but the countryside and the coastal paths, etc. will hold fond memories.

Did you get a test score when you finished your real estate course? How did Paul enjoy his week-long school in Scotland?

We're still getting very warm weather - in the 100's. We've had a very unusually warm summer - and I guess the whole country has been experiencing the same hot temperatures.

Were you able to do any yard work? When you mentioned slugs - I remembered the time you were in Seattle (I think it was there) when you said you were out to dinner, and found a slug in your salad.

How is your little puppy coming along? When will you get her? Her name - Corlan Imperial Tatiana - is quite impressive. Who gives her her name? What will you call her for short?

Now our Chevy is acting up. Lex bought a new battery for it (pro rated - as the one we had had a 5 year warranty) and new brackets, etc. Then we will perhaps have to get it checked to see if the alternator is okay, etc.

Lex will be writing to you when he gets some time. He still puts in long hours at work - and along with his other activities, he keeps very busy.

Glad we have the Peugeot. Everyone seems to be having car problems in this hot weather. Nicky has finally gotten her car so that its okay. Lola had to have a new compressor for her air-conditioning. Mike's car wasn't drivable for want of a starter - his Dad put a new one in for him. Mike had to work long hours to get a project completed. Patti and Mike were driving Patti's Datsun.

Everyone asks about you Linda and Paul. We all miss you very much, and love you both.

Imagine you have already received my last letter, but I wanted to get this off to you to thank you for the check you mailed me, and to tell you that you really didn't have to send me any money.

Let us know if you want anything else mailed to you.

Larry Langworthy had surgery on his left shoulder a few days ago. It was to correct an injury he sustained while at work - a year or so ago. He will be released from the hospital tomorrow, and he is coming along fine, altho he is still in a lot of pain. He'll have to be home from work for about five weeks, I believe. We will have to visit him at home.

Carolyn said Jennifer received her birthday present from you - and will be writing to thank you. She loved what you gave her.

I love you Linda and Paul, and hope that you will be back in the States before too much longer, and then will be able to visit us.

Everyone says hello and sends love to you Linda and Paul. Send more pictures as we enjoy seeing them. We hope Nicolai is behaving and not chewing up anything else.

Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, Love; Your Mother (Miss you Linda, and Paul.)

P.S. I'll be sending some Candy & nuts, that is See's will, for an early Halloween treat.