Deepest condolences to the family of Lillian and in a special way Mary Ann. My memory of Lil was a warm and loving woman who welcomed me to her home. She was a great cook and I still use her spaghetti sauce recipe.
Rest In Peace Lillian.
Jennie Humbert (Maciejewski)

My Nanni left this world a week ago on April 5th at 12:15am surrounded by her children. I was in the thick of an 18 month sleep regression with my youngest daughter at that moment, trying so desperately to rock her back to sleep. In those long, sleep deprived mama moments, I often think about my Nanni. I wonder how the heck she did it with six kids, a job as a piano teacher, church organist and choral leader and the generational expectations of managing all the household chores and cooking. And it’s in those moments when I think of her that I’m reminded of those reserves of strength that we as moms have. The dig deep kind of reserves that somehow push you to keep going. That’s one of the many gifts she gave her six children, 13 grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren in her 94 years … the never give up and do what you need to do for your family kinda strength and love.

This weekend we laid her to rest next to my grandfather after 17 years of them being apart (52 years together). It’s so hard to say goodbye to someone who has influenced so many aspects of my life, as a woman and mother. But looking around at our big extended family, it’s clear that she’s not really gone. She’s so vividly present in each of us. She created this remarkable legacy that we are all so lucky to carry on. It was just time for her to take a well deserved rest after so many years of loving and protecting and cooking for all of us. 

And so instead I’ll say goodnight Nanni. Thank you for always having a fridge full of meatballs and for establishing pie as a breakfast food. Thank you for the wonderful summer memories that were a pillar of my childhood and for sharing your gift of music with me and so many. But most of all … thank you for teaching us what family truly means and for helping me dig deep during those sleepless mama nights. I know you are there and always will be ♥️🎶✨

Mary Ann,
So sorry to hear about your mom.  Our condolences to you,  your 
siblings and your extended family.  Hope the memories of all your
visits with your mom are a comfort to you now.  Wishing you and 
your family peace at this time.
Sincerely,
Cathy Beamish & Ron Thomas

To the Solty's family

Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss.   For almost 10 years of my life I saw your mom every week at Soo Piano.  Although she wasn't my teacher, I knew her well.  She was an inspiration to many young musicians and always had a smile.  Cherish your memories 

Liz Hellinga 

My aunt was a beautiful person, always good natured and fun to be around, with an infectious smile.  She was a great friend to my parents and she and Walter had many wonderful vacations with them.  After my parents died, my family stayed for a week one summer in the Soo at Lily and Walter’s home, and they treated us like their own kids and grandkids.  I will miss her deeply.  Tom, Ann, Matthew and Jonathan.

Please accept our  deepest sympathy on the loss of Auntie Lily. She was a beautiful person with a beautiful voice and I can still hear singing Ave Maria.  She and Uncle Walter enjoyed many happy Florida vacations with my parents and her generosity and hospitality are still remembered.  Jurij and I had some lovely visits with her when she was in the retirement home and I remember her bragging that her room had the best view in the city.  We also visited her in the Davey Home when she first moved in and she took us on a tour, introducing us to many of the residents who talked about her wonderful piano-playing ability.  She was truly a remarkable lady!  May the many wonderful memories you have of her sustain you through this difficult time and in the years to come.

Maxine, Jurij, Christina, and Andrew Bilyk

RIP Lilian
I remember Lilian when I first came to St. Jerome's Church in 1988.
Lilian was always kind and supportive to me in my decision to being ordained. She know rests in the loving arms of God
Fr. Paul Conway

Thinking of all the wonderful memories of my second mom Lil. So happy that she agreed to be my Confirmation sponsor and taught me how to cook all her special Italian and Polish dishes. 
Above all I remember how she surrounded my daughters Tricia and Krista with her special grandma's love.
I'm sad for the family to have to say goodbye to their beloved Nanni, but she has earned her rest and peace with the angels. 
Go be with your Jaju, Lillian!

Mary Elizabeth Clements - Soltys

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Lillian Norma Soltys

February 14, 1928 – April 5, 2022

Arthur Funeral Home - Barton & Kiteley Chapel

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