May loving memories of your son  help you find peace.wishing you strength and Comfort Jim.🙏💓

Trenner was truly one of a kind with the biggest heart and natural ability to light up any room that he was in. If Trenner was there, then you just knew you were going to have the best time. I am going to treasure all of our memories and feel blessed to have known you. Thank you for all the laughs, smiles, support, and love that you gave me through the years. I am going to strive to be as genuine, caring, and authentic as you. Rest easy friend!

Michael, when I first met you, you came across as this "hard" and "tough guy" but I found you to be one of the kindest people....you were always so great to Eddie and myself. I wish you peace in the life after this.

I love you Trenner. You are and always will be one of my best friends.

Karen, my heart breaks for you and your wonderful family. You and I were pregnant at the same time. I remember us commiserating over being pregnant again after  we thought we were getting a little too old to start over again. But start over again we did - and boy did we love our boys, Michael and Anthony. They gave us a reason to hang around longer at St. Justin’s.  I can still remember St. Justin parents telling both of us, you can spot a Trenner/Fernandez baby  a mile away. So many wonderful memories that we will cherish forever.

He looking so gorgeous it break my heart into pieces this is very saddest news ever 😭😭

Hey Trenner, I always enjoyed talking about the Warriors with you and actually meeting up at the 2015 Championship Parade…eventhough I got sunburnt like bacon, it was a great time!! REST EASY, REST EASY BRO!!

I love you little brother. You always had a saying for your hands but I know the truth. Both your hands were meant to care for the ones that you loved.

I love you so much my brother and I am so lost without having you in my life. I am going to miss not having my best friend to be with me through all of our good times and bad times. Some of our bad times could have been avoided if your sport picks weren’t in your words “insane or ridiculous”. You didn't give me a chance to run our game back from last weekend but trust me I won’t forget and we will have our rematch. I know that you are up there saying run it.  We have been through a lot and you have meant so much to my family and I. Your nephew Santino was so lucky to have had you in his life. You were so good with him and it breaks my heart that I can’t watch you two goofballs sharing the most pure form of happiness together.  He keeps asking for his Uncle Trenner which is a testament to you how pure your soul is. I am so grateful that I didn’t listen to you and kept recording the two of you because now I have many videos of you and him to be remembered forever. You were like a big brother to my daughter.  Callie is going to miss having you in her life. The both of you had an interesting way of flipping arguments into your favors even though I was right. You drove Holly crazy but she had finally come to terms with the fact that I was going to be with you and she was going to have to put up with our nonsense. I would be laughing while watching you make sure that you gave her a hug before me before our weekend shenanigan's of playing Madden all night then calling everyone at the worst times began.  Death has robbed us of our best but has not extinguished the light. The fire will continue burning forever. You have brought together so many people with your pure heart and unconditional love. We are so very lucky to have had you in our lives as our brother, friend or son. I have been telling you to get some rest for years now. This is not what I meant but I am happy that you do get to finally get some rest in peace. I love you and Cheers to your worst Irish Goodbye ever

Trenner was always there for anyone who ever needed him, he always was full of genuine love for his friends. I will always remember spending holidays, birthdays, and special occasions with him. I will also remember the times we did nothing special and just enjoyed each others company and friendship. He will truly be missed.

Love you Trenn... I will never forget you  until I see you upstairs.. Love you BROTHA!!!

I have no words, Trenner was closer to me and my kids than my two actual brothers are. I met him when my daughter was 4 years old and my son was 8 through Larissa Ward who was a neighbor at the time. He came to my daughter's birthday party and never missed one of my kids birthdays after that. He was their uncle. He was more loyal than friends I was in the Marine Corps with. He was hilarious, loving, and always present...still is...I hear his damn voice in EVERYTHING! There is a hole in our family's heart and it hurts in a way I can't put into words. I guarantee he's up there telling the story about when I got tickets to the Sharks game from a vendor at work and called him up to go...cause the crazy ass was always down to hangout...and we got there, parked, walked up, scanned the tickets and they kept scanning red. They door guy told us to go to customer service. Walked over there and the guy just shook his head, the tickets were for the day before. Trenner just shook his head...and NEVER let me live it down! 💔💔💔

I remember Michael, as a newborn, in Karen’s arms, as we parents watched our kindergartners (Jeanine and my Chris) line up that first week of school.  Many more memories were made after that day.
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We weren’t friends for long but when we moved  to 2601, you were part of the deal lol. Never a dull moment, always a story to tell, and just the love you had for those that meant something to you will always be remembered.  Funny to think Pocahontas 🐕 was waiting’ to chew your ankles lol  Rest Easy Trenner, see you on the other side 🙏🏼

OBITUARY

Michael Joseph Trenner

August 26, 1991 – December 19, 2024

Lima Family Santa Clara Mortuary

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