Honey --- I thought things were supposed to get easier as time went on. Yeah right! Not having you around effects everything. I can't walk through the house without getting a lump in my chest. You're everywhere --- I had to stop watching "Wheel of Fortune" and other shows we watched together. Life just sucks like this.

As expected it's been a very hard and distressing time. Any normal day without you is rough but holidays --- Whew! Christmas was a total bummer. I felt like if I enjoyed myself somehow I was disrespecting your memory. Now here comes your birthday. I don't know what I'll do. I still hear you calling me late at night. Your passing was tolerable because I was overwhelmed by grief. I really didn't think far enough ahead to figure out how I was going to make it through the ordeal. I'm numb - drained - operating on auto pilot - I can't see how I'm going to break out of this - maybe there isn't an "out". Maybe I'll feel like this forever - I couldn't survive that.

Marty, I was worried about you and googled your name, and my worst fears were realized:  you are gone from this place.  I valued your friendship since I met you in 1979; you were one of the most knowledgeable and professional property managers in the business.  I miss you, but when I get to the other side I will have a good friend there to show me the ropes!  God bless you, Marty.  Hope to see you again.

Here in the dark, alone I sit
  listening to the sounds of an empty house
the cat - your cat - sits with me
  alert, all big eyes and listening ears.

If I strain I think I  can hear you -
  calling me - your voice crackily and course.
No, I think not - the cat doesen't move
  it's quiet and still - dark and empty

I hardly remember your voice - your face
  when you were not in pain
That sickness consumed you - body and soul,
  spirit and being - until - you were gone.

Here I sit - alone in the dark
  the cat has gone to patrol the house
I strain to hear your voice
but no - it's only in my head - you're gone.
                                               Love Always, Me!

Honey - I miss you so, so much. I constantly have to tell myself that you're gone. It breaks my heart every time. When I'm alone I can almost hear you talking to me. When I'm at work at lunchtime I have to stop myself from calling your cell phone. I would give anything just to have a minute to talk to you and hold you  ---- I'll love you until the end of time.
Your loving husband,
Ken

I just found this site. It's been a very long month and I miss both Martha and Mom so very much. Martha was such a fighter. Such a strong woman to look up to. My heart is forever with you all, Ken, Keith, and Kenny. My "Mother Goose" Mom, left us here to be strong all together, so she could be there to greet Martha with Pete. Miles and health kept them apart here. Now they are together. I will live the rest of my life having them both in my heart and missing them always. I will always be here for Martha's brother, Gussie's son, Tom. Together we will heal, together we will all have very fond, loving memories, forever.

Marti you brought joy to our early family life! You showed great courage and conviction in everything you did.
We will hold you in our hearts for ever.

Honey --- You are already missed beyond words. I'll always cherish our 44 years together. It was terrible losing you but I know you're with your Dad and Mom and that consoles me. Sleep well my love - Love Always - Me

Dearest Mother, Rest in Peace, may God Bless Your Soul.
Thanks for being my Mom.  You were a beautiful woman with a big heart and I'm lucky to have had the honor to call you Mom.. You were always there for me growing up and raised me right. You always had time for us and our problems and always found a way to make us feel better. You were a wonderful person and I will miss you always. Say hi to Gramma/Grampas and Fagin/Doon, Weezy and all the other kittys and birds you rescued throughout the years.
Love Always and Forever,
Keith you loving son.

Marty will be missed Dearly. I will celebrate her life as long as I am living. Thank you for sharing her with me and my Family.

Marty and I were friends for many years and we kept in touch all during her illness. She will be missed greatly and I offer my condolences to her family.

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Martha Mary Huber

January 2, 1948 – August 19, 2011

Oak Hill Funeral Home & Memorial Park

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