Fred,  like too many others from our class of '70 you are gone too soon.  But, as I remember you, you lived up to my favorite poem:  Frost's The Road Not Taken as you lived your life on your own path; often the one less travelled by but all the more sweet therefore....your new path we can only imagine but I believe, for you, it will be extraordinary.

I'm so sad to hear of Fred's death. I knew him from Pilgrim Fellowship youth group at the Manhasset Congregational Church. A highlight was performing together in the PF musical "Once Upon a Mattress". He was Prince Dauntless, I was Lady Larkin. Wonderful memories. He stood out to me then as being gentle, humble, and kind. As I looked through the posted pictures, I could tell that that never changed. My condolences to all of his family.

Fred,
I have looked at this book for days trying to figure out what to say and where to begin. I have known you since I was in elementary school. I would go over to Seth's house almost everyday and play in the cul-de-sac with both your daughters and all the kids around the block. I remember vividly the day Erika told you I asked her to prom, and when she told you we were dating. The two of you went on a car ride so she could talk to you, and how nervous she was the entire time. I remember coming over after my classes in college and we would both be studying away in her room while you would be laying in front of the couch watching CNN or golf. 
Having the same major in college helped me out in my early course work by picking at your brain in regards to criminology and social theories. Another common interest was books. All though we both liked to read up on history topics our specific topics differed. You liked to read up on political figures as well as that ginormous Civil War encyclopedia you had. I know Erika enjoyed our common interest we had, along with the new found one of Rye bread which happened before your passing. 
I will always be grateful for you. Not only did you take me in as your own but gave me the love of my life. I know Erika loves you more than any of us can grasps and misses you deeply. She counted on you and your were there for her through everything. From the basketball games to watching you walk her down the isle on our wedding day. She looked towards you for advice such as when she was purchasing her first car on her own (which she took and went with it) to when she would call you after work to decompress and talk to. 
When your granddaughter came along you were quick to tell Erika and I how much of a handful we had. She grew to know your routines and when entering into your house she would walk into the hall pointing towards your room saying "grandpa". We will continue to talk and share stories to keep your memory alive in Skyler. 
I will continue to take care of your daughter and show her the love she deserves. I will do my best to support and advise her through life as you have. You can know that I will do everything to protect her and Skyler.
I will continue your legacy by showing my children integrity, respect, hard work and determination. There is no one that can fill your shoes in the family and I feel a big hole in my life with you gone. I will cherish all my memories and experiences with you. I miss you deeply and will one day see you again.

Your son-in-law,
Ryan

Thank you for being you, little brother.  You've given me many insights into life and left a wonderful family for Leon and me to love.  Rest now...we'll love and remember you always.
                Your loving sister Carol and brother-in-law Leon

Dad,

There are no words that can describe how I feel. I miss you so much. You have always shown us how to live life with integrity, respect, hard work and determination and I promise to continue on that path. Thank you for all that you have done for me, for our families, for everyone. Thank you for fighting for us. You are my hero and I look forward to the day we see each other again and the stories, wisdom and advise you will share with me. I love you.

"Death is a heartache no one can heal, love is a memory no one can steal".    

Today was a testimonial of a wise man who lived and loved very well.  When we first met you Fred we immediately knew you were a strong, devoted, honest and loving husband and father.  A man of great compassion to those he loved.

The photo video of your life are the memories of the loved man taken to soon, but will never be forgotten.

Your legacy will continue to shine on, stronger than ever by your remarkable daughters and grandchildren.

We thank you and Fritz for inviting us into your home and for being there for Chuck and our sons.  We were immensely surprised and proud to see our 3 sons as your pallbearers.  What an honor for them as they thought so highly of you.

I wish I could mend the hearts of Fritz, Vanessa, Erika and all those who loved you.  We promise to be there in their time of need. RIP.

Chuck & DeeDee Teachout

My husband, Frederick Sauter V loved his daughters, Vanessa and Erika, sons-in laws, Derrick and Ryan with all his heart, I am so grateful he was able to see 3 grandchildren, Derrick Jr., Skyler Mae and Leila Rene and enjoy them. I was very blessed to have 33 years of marriage, some rocky, but a lot of good memories. I know that you are no longer suffering. No more pain, worry or fear. We will see you there someday. I will always love and miss you.
Fritzi

Uncle Fred, we love and miss you already.  You are so loved, by so many. I am thankful that we have memories we can look back on and smile about to fill our hearts and that you have been part of our lives. I promise to look after your family.

During this time, there will be hugs and tears. There will be people who don't know what to say. There will be pictures and keepsakes. Memories and stories--we've never heard and some we could never hear enough. But most of all there will be LOVE. The kind that never ends. You're an amazing person filled with goodness and light. We will miss you Fred!!!

With and sympathy and love,

OBITUARY

Frederick Sauter V

March 11, 1952 – June 3, 2017

El Camino Memorial - Sorrento Valley & Memorial Park

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