I think about you constantly. Things have gotten easier in some respects, but I cant believe how much time has flown by. Jaden went off to college today and I cant believe it. Hes grown up to be such an incredible person. You'd be so proud of him. I know you took him safely there. I miss you every day Air. Thanks for giving love and guidance from above. 

Waking up on the couch where you first confessed your love for me, then i for u. The couch were we had our first kiss. And the same couch i would sleep on after I threw my fits lol. As my last days here in our home approaches,  our life together plays back like a Hollywood movie. Every laugh, every smile, every tear, and ultimately the horrifying day you left me😢, the day u left US! You have always been my baby but now your something to me i can't quite verbalize. Your spirit so radiant as you still walk with me as my guardian angel. It brings emotions that I never felt before,  to see how you set things up so perfect the way u wanted to in life. I wish you were here pysically to share my new journey with me because I know in my heart that so many things are happening because of you. Thanks for the good word u put in on my behalf with our heavenly Father! Aaron i feel u in my soul n love you so much. Loving u is my favorite thing to do, I was born to be ur girl. N lookin back, if you don't know by now baby im so damn proud of u and everyday of my life will be dedicated to the strength n bravery u showed us all. I may still be hurt, but I'm Aaron's Girl, and for that reason, I can never be broken! I love u "My Buddha". Kiss everyone I love who is there with you! I have a long life to live before I see u again, but thank God I will one day be in the arm of the love that left mine 😢😢. Love you baby!! #etetnalBliss #forevermybaby #signedyouruglygirl! 

Aaron I ran out of room before I could mention your brother Carl... I hope you know what a Hero you were and are to him... Your siblings love you dearly and we are all so happy you are finally free of the horribleness of the illness that plagued your life.  I'm sure by now that you finally know how much Heavenly Father and Jesus love YOU!!

Son, I'm sorry it's taken me so long to write to you.  I need you to know that I loved you.  It seems we fought and argued much of the time.  But, my son I have loved you since you were a little boy of 4 1/2 years old when we had the Webster party after I got to adopt you and Auti.   As you got older and developed a personality of your own I watched you and Auti as you were the best of friends not just brother and sister.  Then you started growing up and being you own young man.  As you grew we seemed to butt heads at every turn.  I never stopped loving you though.  At 18 or 19 you were stricken with the horrible illness of one of the most life altering mental illness schizo-affective disorder.  As we watched you as you suffered so terribly.  I'm so ashamed that I could not cope nor come to an understanding of it.  However you did love me and I knew that but as I became more and frustrated I began to vent my feelings and complain most of the time.  Your poor Mother had to listen as I spewed my venom about you. I said so many vile things about you.  You bore the frustration of my inability to deal with you as a loving father should have.  But you bravely struggled against hating me.  Eventually you met a young woman and became a father.  The joy you exhibited at having your 1st son Jaden was wonderful for you and we all loved him as soon as we saw him.  Time passed and a 2nd son Syrus was born.  He too as was Jaden the Apple of your eyes.  You love them so.  Then 7 years later what should happen but another boy. Kai is his name. How you love him just as much as Jaden and Syrus.  They certainly knew their father loved them.  What a blessing they have been to your life.  You also were blessed with an angel of a mother who was given the wonderful blessing of understanding her 1st born son, you.  She never stopped loving you and would delight in your visits and hearing your voice as you called to tell her you loved her. Aaron I love you too. I miss you believe it or not.

Webster family,

Every one of you holds a place in our hearts, and we could not be more thankful for it.  We have only experienced love and joy with your family and have always known we have friends with open and welcoming arms to run to when things are tough.  Aaron had the best of the best with him at his side.  He was so clearly loved and his love for his family was unparalleled.  Julia Child will be happy to get a new partner.

With all our love,
Bart & Stephanie Harpster

We are sending you love and sympathy for this terribly sad loss for your family.  We know you are always a  loving supportive family, and can only imagine how hard this time is for you.   The friendship our family has felt for Carl has been a treasure.  


Dear family of Aaron,
Paul has told us of your dear one's passing. We are sending our sympathy to all of you!
In your brokenness of heart, we would encourage, if you have not done this already,  to go to the Lord Jesus, He is full of compassion to those who are suffering. "Pour out your heart before him, God is a refuge for us."
"For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord."
Sincerely,
The Rozeboom family

Baby I don't even know what to say.  Everyday , all day i talk to you since u been gone. I'm sure I have told you the extent of my pain n confusion since ur passing. I try to understand how I could be holding you one minute n morning u the next? I would have never imagined that this would be our reality.  Never thougt that one day the same bed I felt safe n loved in, would one day be the most painful n loneliest spot in my life. Since u been gone I spent countless hours crying n begging u to come back to me as if it's possible in anyway. But baby, today my pain was less than it's ever been. Because I stopped worrying bout missing  you n started thinking how beautiful it is that you never have to live in the bondage created by your pain n mental anguish. You no longer have to endure the untruths and stigmas that prevented you from being seen as the beautiful soul I fell n love with. You are free now.  I felt cheated from the life we planned together. When i stop to think of how u couldn't  touch me or tell me u love me again, I can't catch my breath. But tonight, as I set here on the floor as I often did with you, I realized that we have reached a level of love which takes most people a lifetime to experience. You showed me a love that made every steuggle n my life worth it, because you were my end result. I just need to tell you that you maybe gone but u n I are not over. Our bond will carry on along with every plan we made together.  Between me and the boys, your legacy will be fulfilled as you always wanted during ur life. If no one knew you  during ur life, their gonna learn during ur passing. I always had ur back baby, n I'll continue to, until im there with you one day.With every fiberof my being, I love you Aaron Webster. Thank you for sharing the last of your life with me.  Thank u for the love u gave #eternalBliss 

Air, I love you so much. These past few days have been so hard. I get through them by thinking of all of the love we shared. You are, always have been and always will be my hero, my defender and my big brother. Thank you for teaching me how to love others, how to love myself and giving me what I need to fight through every day. You're my superhero. 

OBITUARY

Aaron Webster

February 8, 1979 – April 19, 2019

Wasatch Lawn Memorial Park and Mortuary

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