Vincent A. Cole

Vincent Cole was born to Luther McFarlane and Louise Cole on July 16, 1923 on the island of Jamaica, WI. He spent his early childhood years being cared for by his grandparents. Louise had moved to New York City to seek out an improved quality of life for herself and her son. Vincent attended school (elementary/middle) in the Westmoreland parish of Jamaica, until he came to his mother in the US.

Arriving in New York City in 1937 at the age of 14, Vincent continued his education, going on to graduate from the famed Benjamin Franklin High School in Harlem. While in middle school, Vincent was introduced to the piano.

Vincent’s passion to pursue music in college was postponed by WW II. He served three years in the US Army, stationed in Guam, China, and India. After being honorably discharged, Vincent enrolled and graduated from New York College of Music (NYU). In 1948, he met Helen Illidge. The couple shared a common circle of friends, interest in music, and their faith. Helen and Vincent married in 1951 and remained lifelong partners.

Following his marriage to Helen, Vincent began a dual career, working as an employee of the United States Postal Service and as a piano teacher. These careers would span over 40 years. Vincent was a piano instructor to hundreds of pupils, most notably young adults. He had a reputation for seeking the best from his pupils and was known to strive for perfection. He did not have much patience for pupils who had not practiced, prior to their lessons. It was fair to say, the unprepared pupil would be well rehearsed the next week.

Vincent was known to read at least three newspapers daily and was well versed on any current newsworthy topic. While he did not always have a lot to say, he spoke with clarity and always showed a willingness to help others in need.

Vincent was devoted to his family. He was called “Pop Pop” and “Grandpa” by his seven grand children and two great-grands. Seeing his grand and great-grand children brought him great joy and put a big smile on his face. The grandsons were affectionately called “champ”. His daughter in-laws and granddaughters were always greeted with a “Hey glamour girl”.

Vincent touched numerous lives and his wisdom, guidance and worldly insights will be sorely missed.

Vincent is survived by his wife of 63 years Helen, two sons Ron (Kristi) David (Patrina), grand children Ron Jr. (Melissa), Justin (Thalia), Melina, Marcus, Cory, Deona and Maxwell; great-grandchildren Jaydon and Gianna; brothers, sisters, god-daughter Deborah, nieces, nephews, cousins, former pupils and friends.

Vincent found Christ at an early age and remained a devoted Episcopalian. We celebrate his life and the impact he had on his family and friends. God Bless!