Vincent "Binky" Miguel Lopez

Vincent was born on March 25,1994, in Moreno Valley, California to Jeaulene Meza and Danny Lopez.

Vincent was the second oldest of his siblings; Danny, Isaac, Adrina, Julianna, and Steven. As a child he attended Hendrick Ranch Elementary, Landmark Middle School and Vista Del Lago High School.

There are many memories that Vincent’s family has about him.

Vincent’s father, Danny writes:

“Vincent, my son, my second born. You will forever be my baby boy. I don't know where to start. I have so many memories of you from the first time I held you that day you were born and all the days watching you grow. Everyone always said how you were my little twin with your darker tone of skin and always got teased by your brothers growing up but you always ran to me when they made you mad. And I was always there for you, because I loved you .. From the times growing up you were always different never a follower you were just you and that's what made you special. You were my son and I was proud! Vincent, God gave me you for a reason and I was proud to be your father. You loved us so much and it showed, and we loved you . Danny, Isaac, Adrina, Julianna, and Steven all had the the pleasure and the opportunity to call you they're brother and they love you and will always keep you in there hearts. I'm going to miss you Vinny, with all my heart. I love you and thank god for lending you to me the 21 years I had you . I wasn't ready to see you go: Maybe God wanted you more, for whatever reason that would be, I just ask when I see you again God gives you back to me... I LOVE YOU SON .. Love you DAD!!!!💙💙”

Vincent’s Mama Linda writes:

“Lil Vinny different from all five of the other kids lol… He had his own personality that I loved and his own way to dress... Sports well his football team (Green Bay) no matter who tried to convince him to go to with another team he didn't listen. We did have two things in common though, we both liked the Los Angeles Lakers and our Anaheim Angels, I will never forget our memories over the years, all the laughs will never be forgotten...

I didn't give birth to Vincent but raising him allowed me to love unconditional and our bond together was simply amazing… I can still hear him "Mama Liiiinnnddaa" he had to say my name all long lol, and his hug was so strong That I knew he just loved me.. There is so much I can speak on about him but I want to give others room to talk about my binky as well, just know he was loved by many and he will forever have a place in my heart...

Vincent Miguel Lopez it was with much pleasure to raise you baby and be apart of your life!! I miss you so much and my love will never stop, I will give to your brothers and sisters because that's what I know you would have wanted... May you always watch over us all ❤️

You are at peace my handsome now may you rest in paradise!!

I love you Binkus!!”

Vincent’s older brother Danny writes:

“Forever my brother VINCENT”!!!

Dear Vincent,

Aka, “VBOI”. Aka, “V-mac. Aka, “Vinny Boi”.

“I remember the good times we had always growing up together the 3 of us boys, watching over you two was major role in my life to be there for you. to make sure you were okay, and to make sure you were just you at the end of the day. I will remember the days that us 3 just had each other to depend on, you were HUUUUUGGE HELP WHEN IT CAME TO TAKING CARE OF OUR LIL BROTHER ISAAC, WE DID WHAT WE HAD TO DO. WE SHARED CLOTHES, FOOD, FRIENDS, BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY WE SHARED LOVE THAT NO OTHER CAN REPLACE!!! WE GREW TOGETHER< WE RODE TOGETHER. WE STARVED TOGETHER WE FOUGHT TOGETHER. YOU WERE ALWAYS AND FOREVER WILL BE A REAL 1. AS YOU WOULD SAY IN YOUR WORDS, I AM THE REAL TRAP LORD. YES YOU WERE BINK, YES YOU WERE! I LOVE YOU N SAVE ME A SPOT UP THERE VEEEE!! UNTIL I SEE YOU AGAIN.”

Vincent’s brother Isaac writes:

“There is so much I want to say about my brother, I can write a book. Since we were kids we had each others back to the fullest. He always told me to show no tears, I got you. We were there for each other. Vincent was loyal, humble, brave, and most of all my big brother. My heart aches every time I think about him not being able to finish where we left off, we had so many memories to make. I'm gonna miss your smile, your laugh, and when you used to tell me you’re still my little bro, I’ll kick your ass. Our wake and bakes we would have we would go sit in the sun while we have our sessions. Through everything we went thru, all the struggles all the happiness. We stood by each others side no matter what through thick and thin. You showed me everything Vincent: being a solid person, never showing pain, turning a dime into 15 cents. If I could only be half the person you were. In the coldest streets you showed me how to go out there and make it happen. I always put my trust in you. I knew by having you on my team we would be winners. You, me and Danny are like the three musketeers. That will never change Vince, I love you brother. I'm still in disbelief about all this, I can't really wrap my head around all of this. It’s not goodbye my brother, I'll see u later. Save me a spot up their Vince, it ain't going to be easy without you bro. I know your looking down on us, protecting us now from heaven. I love you Vincent, rest easy my brother”.

Vincent’s sister Adrina says:

“Where do I begin , we have so many memories together ... When I was little everyone would call me little Vincent because we look so much alike, they still do, but now it means more to me then it ever has. What I'll miss most is getting random messages from you and pictures of you and Kimberly off of her Instagram or from her phone. In every message you would remind me how much you love me, you would tell me how much you missed me and how you would kill someone for me. I've never known the hurt that I do now. My heart is full of anger sadness and disbelief. I’ve been thinking about you every second of every day since you've been gone. I don't want to believe that you're gone. We weren't done making memories, we had so many more to make. I'm more than grateful for the time we spent. Vincent you were an amazing brother and I'm going to miss you so so much ... I love you with all my heart, but what hurts my heart most is that I never told you enough. You'll forever be my big brother, you'll forever be in my heart. Big brother you finally have peace and rest...See you soon❤.”

Vincent’s other sister Julianna says:

“My brother Vincent will truly be missed... I will never forget when he used to call me tum tum and I would give him that look like stop Vincent lol.. I still can't believe that he is gone however, I know his spirit will be with my family and I always. Only if I could see him one more time I would tell him how much I loved him and how appreciative I was of him. My family is not complete without you and you will never be replaced. Vincent I love you and may you now rest in paradise.. Until we meet again!!”

Vincent’s youngest brother Steven writes:

“I will always miss Vincent being my big brother and always talking and teaching me about football and I love him.

Kimberlina shares:

“I love Vincent, he and Isaac are my brothers. Everyone knows there isn't a thing I wouldn't do for either one of them. I love them both like brothers, fought with them like brothers, even shared rooms with them at one point. It's like God was giving me a sign, or giving us a sign. A couple of weeks before he was taken from us, Vincent walked into my room early one morning with a warm cup of coffee, it completely blew my mind, I mean Danny doesn't even do that for me. I even thought to myself after saying thank you to him. "What's in it?" Maybe I was wrong for thinking that, who knows, but it was surprising to me… I thought and kept thinking about it and when Danny woke up I told him what had happened and his response was " What the heck? " I replied "right?". I went into the living room and enjoyed my coffee with him before work... I left that morning with a huge smile in my heart wondering why he would do something so sweet for me? All in all, I was wrong for thinking what could have been in the cup, well it was love, that's what was in it. Best cup of coffee I've ever had! I love you Vincent, and will miss you so much my brother.

It’s crazy to know how much it has impacted GGs life, I mean I know you're watching her and laughing of how protective she is over her "Vincent sweater”, I have to fight with her everyday to take it off. She misses her “Uncle Bincent"💛 and even though I know she will hurt for a while, I know you will always live within her♡. The memories you two shared, from you watching her as a newborn baby, till the other day when you tickled her and she told you "stop bugging me Vincent", are memories she will forever remember... She asked if God has a cell phone because she's been wanting to talk to you, I told her "Baby you just talk and Uncle Vincent will always be listening.”

Vincent’s Nina Jennifer states:

“Vincent, handsome boy, beautiful spirit. There's so much to say, God blessed me with not only knowing you but being related to you and also being bonded by God as one of your Godmother's. Vincent talked with his eyes, heart, and soul. He had this energy that pulled you in, people were drawn to him, his infectious smile made you want to know him or to have some of what he had. He had a quiet demeanor that calmed my spirit, his smile made my heart smile. He always had a way of making light of any situation. Thank you for making my heart laugh. You were always watching and observing. You were a good brother not only to your siblings but also to your cousin Viviana. I have so many fond memories of all four of you playing, laughing, fighting, and crying. I am so glad I was able to share in refereeing all those wrestling matches. It was always fun and games until someone got hurt. It takes a village to raise a child, and God blessed me with the honor of being part of that village. Until we meet again, when the sun shines on my face and the wind blows in my hair I will think of you, Shine on Baby!”

Vincent’s cousin Viviana recalls the following memories:

“ For as long as can remember you have been more than just a cousin, you were the brother I never had. You always made me laugh and when we were kids I was always looking out for you, until you got bigger and looked out for me. There was never a time where your big smile wasn't infectious. All of my best memories growing up...you were a part of. From living at Grandma's together, to the house on Ankerton, family vacations, and all the family holidays. It was always the girl with her boys and I hope you've found the paradise you deserve my brother, as you lay down to rest I pray Lord Jesus let you be blessed. Forever in my heart and a part of my spirit, I love you Binky.”

His nickname was Binky, and he loved his family so much. His brothers and sisters were his heart, and they all meant the world to him. Vincent always showed his love and compassion to his family, relatives, and friends. Vincent was always there to help, no matter what he was asked to do. He was also known as the jokester in the family, he loved to make people laugh, and was always the first one to volunteer to do something crazy, especially when all of the other kids chickened out.

Vincent was laid back, he liked to chill, and he didn't like being the center of attention. He had his own style, from the hats that he wore to the shoes on his feet. He loved to compete on the basketball court with his brothers and his dad. He loved to play a game or two in front of Grandma and Gramps house on Finley Drive.

While growing up, VIncent loved sports. He played Junior All American football, and also played Pony baseball for a few years. He loved professional sports too, with the Green Bay Packers being his life long favorite NFL team, despite the rest of the families loyalty to some other team that wears blue and gold. He was a huge Angels fan and he loved his LA Lakers. He was one of a kind. Bink loved his music. Some of his favorites were: Led Zepplin, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Bob Marley, Jimi Hendrix, and rap.

Goodbyes are not forever.

Goodbyes are not the end.

They simply mean I’ll miss you

Until we meet again!