I only worked with Ben for little over a year. Was so impressed with his technical acumen and calm demeanor. 

While it was so sad to learn of his passing, I am so glad I had the opportunity to work with Ben but only for a brief period. 

Super impressed non the less. Rest peacefully Ben and may almighty god look over your family until your all reunited. 

Mark Lucca 



I had not seen Ben in at least 15 years, but his character and demeanor impressed me in an unforgettable way.  I can't think of a single interaction I had with Ben that was not positive.  He was the kind of man that many of us aspire to be; faithful, trustworthy, kind, generous, and unassuming.    

I attended school with Ben in Yadkin County during the 70s.  He came to my fourteenth birthday party and was the star of the show.  All during our high school years he was a steady compass for me in uncharted waters.  He always appreciated my aspirations to be the best that I could be.  His good character and matchless grace will always remain with me.  

I worked with Ben for a number of years before my retirement from the practice of law over four years ago.   Ben was one of my favorite people to work with.  He was smart and principled, but practical as well.  He also had a wonderful sense of humor.  We shared a love of bluegrass music.  I considered Ben to be a friend as much as a client.  I was shocked and saddened to read of his death.  I extend my sympathies to Brenda and the children.  He frequently spoke fondly of all of you.  Ben will be sorely missed, but I hope that we can all take comfort from the fact that he was a man of  great faith.  I thank God for Ben's life, and trust that He will help lift up Ben's family and friends at this difficult time.

My heartfelt condolences go to Brenda, Cameron, Carter, and the entire family. We used to meet regularly at our New Directions Sunday School Class, strengthened our belief in God, watched our children grow, and now say goodbye to a spouse. Brenda, may God comfort you and grant you and your family that peace which passes all understanding. It is not "goodbye," but "till we meet again."

God will take care of you all!
Olivia

We joined Troop 104 in early 2002 when Ben was Scoutmaster. He always found a way to motivate the Assistant Scoutmasters to do things that promoted the Troop. My first responsibility was coordinating transportation for summer camp at Camp Raven Knob. I called all the rental places in the phone book and got 3 10-person vans for the first leg and 2 15-person vans for the return leg at a cost of $30 per scout (excluding gas). I presented my findings at the Committee meeting on Thursday June 13. Pete Creger then talked about an anticipated crack down by BSA on 15-person vans due to safety concerns. I had spent months on this task and camp was starting in 17 days. I was worried when I went to our Scout meeting on Monday June 17. I told Ben that the cost was $30 per scout. He immediately went to work with my driver/rider spreadsheet. He got volunteer drivers and in no time, he had eliminated all vans. The cost was now $12 per scout and each driver would get a $25 reimbursement for gas. Ben was like that. He just got things done.

Ben was a special person who touched many lives. Words cannot express how sad I was to hear of his passing.   We shared so many good talks which I have missed.  He possessed a kind and sweet demeanor and a great sense of humor which would draw you to him immediately.   He was truly "one of a kind".  I am praying that the comfort of God be with his Family during this difficult time.

Love and Blessings,
Barbara Taylor (IAT)

Brenda, I had the fun of working with Ben back in the day at the Hartford, OKC.  I always enjoyed our visits when I would check on you all after a storm.  He was a sweetheart. Wishing you and the boys prayers to help your hurting heart.  Remember you will see him again. Thinking of you. 
Sissy

Ben's family has been linked to ours in many ways for 30 years.  He was always gracious and so brave in his last two years.   I was honored to know such a kind and kindred soul and to be his friend.  

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Benjamin "Ben" Henry Shore Jr.

October 12, 1959 – May 8, 2020

Brown-Wynne Funeral Home

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