I met Ralph just over 2 years ago when i was new in role.  He was so helpful in sharing knowledge and getting me up to speed.  I liked and respected him right away. More recently I realized we had a love for Labradoodles in common.  I'm fortunate to have known Ralph.  He will certainly be missed.

Ralph was one of the most caring and genuine people I have known.  It was always a pleasure being in his company, many laughs were always had.  We would often text/chat and he was always interested in how I was doing/how work was going/if I found a girlfriend yet etc.  I know he is now in a better place but I will deeply miss being around his positive and caring soul.  Much love to David and the Nye's.

Attended the memorial service for Ralph a few weeks ago, a colleage, and a past leader of mine. Many in my network were there and 'Ralphie' was a central point of connection for many of us who worked together over the years, and got me to thinking of what people will say about any of us when we're gone. 

Talking with family gave us a more rounded view of the personal life Ralph led and in hopes of capturing some of those facets of him - I thought I'd share some of the facts and stories which made Ralph a great leader and an admirable person.

Ralph's mom told us he was born 7 weeks premature - probably in a rush to get started on his life! He had a difficult first few days as a preemie and was a fighter from the very beginning. When he first started school, Ralph took Post-It notes with a checklist of things to be done to get ready and flow-charted his morning activities on the bathroom mirror - an early project planner and strategic thinker! 

He once won an award at school (which he was humble about and didn't mention to family) for noticing that the flag in front of the school was raised upside-down and for going to the office to correct it - a responsible problem solver, Ralph always went the extra mile to make things right. Throughout his life, Ralph provided telephone 'Tech Support' to friends, family, and his extensive network for being known as the go-to guy on just about anything. The breadth of knowledge he gathered and resonated was truly astounding. He went out of his way to share what he'd learned with anyone he thought it would help.

His prowess with technology had no bounds, and his family have fond memories of seeing Ralph off to the side checking his e-mail or sending TXT messages to friends, family, and co-workers - anyone who needed his help was only fingertips away. Ralph leveraged technology to deepen relationships, not as a distraction. Everyone we talked to mentioned his finesse in relationships, both personal and professional. He had a knack with people; resolving difficult conflicts, leading through change, and being there as a quiet proponent and a dedicated supporter - these are the consistencies between his professional career and his personality.

I had the pleasure of reporting to Ralph for a short period of time between leadership changes, and will always remember the warm-hearted approach he took to leading people. Ralph was a friend to everyone he met or worked with, and could be relied upon to bring people closer together to solve problems. A uniter, Ralph engaged a wide network of diverse people and aligned them to common goals. 

For anyone who traveled with Ralph on business, they would know he combined trips for maximum effect and I feel lucky to have had lunch with him in Boston at a restaurant on top of a high rise when our travel schedules barely crossed. He made time for people.

Ralph positively changed the lives of everyone he connected with, and that's the best eulogy any of us can hope to accomplish.  You'll be missed, Ralph, -T.

SOMETIMES MEMORIES SNEAK OUT OF MY EYES
AND ROLL DOWN MY CHEEKS.

I first knew Ralph when we both entered  grammar school.His courtesey and consideration of others made him approachable and easy to be around no matter how shy and sensitive you were.  He was also imaginative and could find pleasure in everyday things. We were friends easily.
 My earliest memories of talking to Ralph go back to about the first grade.  We were sitting underneath a large heavy equipment tire that had been reappropriated for playground use.   We'd just heard a disney song in class, the name of which I could not have hoped to remember but that filled Ralph with excitement : Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious.  He recited it to me in a loud whisper.  Not like a six or a seven year old but like somebody much older that has to tell you something in a library or classroom at the last minute.  
 that little grammar school was a lot more fun with Ralph there.  I will miss him greatly.

To all the family and friends who attended the celebration of life for Ralph yesterday, I wanted to thank you for being there and for sharing your memories of this fantastic person.  I enjoyed meeting you and sharing the great times we all had with him.

It is a testament to a person when the memories relived bring a smile.  And that's how it was with Ralph. Whether it was "doing budgets" while at work or discussing via FB getting a labradoodle, he was always so animated, so alive and so committed.  Love and hugs to all he left behind. He will be missed.

Ralph, I will never forget growing up together and all the fun we had playing soccer and little league, taking swimming lessons, and just being kids.  But I will remember most how kind and compassionate you were to everyone.  Rest in peace, buddy.

The first time I met Ralph was about 16 years ago when I started working at  American Express company. It didn't take me long to get to know Ralph for having a kind and beautiful heart.  Ralph was genuine, humble, passionate,and transparent in his special way. He always smiled and made people feel comfortable no matter what the situation was. I Will miss seeing you Ralph. I trust God knows best for all of us and know you are in a better place.
Your friend,
Nadia Khoshaba

Ralph could do it all. Doing it all means making efforts for the benefit and support of family, friends and community - not just for oneself. Ralph gave generously, the only way he knew how. We would talk on the phone so often - mostly on my way to and from work - and just recently I said to him, "I don't have anything new, we just talked last night." To which he said, "I like talking to you because you make me laugh." Funny, I had always thought it was the other way around. I'm so thankful I've known Ralph for over half of my life. He quickly became a friend, then family, a mentor, and often, my therapist! For someone who was so busy and had so many obligations, he kept his wit about him better than anyone I know. I loved laughing with he and David. We would laugh until we cried, asking the waitress to bring us more napkins to soak up the tears of happiness. We enjoyed several trips together and were always planning the next one. It was an honor to hang out with them together. They always included family in their time together. Ralph was hilarious, but he had dignity to the endth degree. He was modest and humble for someone so successful and smart. The last text I have from him reads, "How was the dessert?" He always loved to talk about food and we shared many fun meals together. After I had trained my dog to stay off the furniture, he visited and trained her to get on the furniture. He thought it was the funniest thing. Months later he would say, "Is Spirit still getting up on the bed?" to which I would say, "Yes, no thanks to you!" And he'd laugh his trademark giggle. He was infamous for posting ugly pictures of me on Facebook, without my permission, then telling me I looked great in them. I finally posted a picture of him sitting on Shamu and he stopped posting pictures without me approving them first ;) Through the tears I find myself smiling. Ralph's legacy will live on in all who knew him. How can it not? He was one in a million, billion, trillion. When I think of Ralph, I think of David. And when I think of David, I think of Ralph. We should all be so fortunate to know a love like that. I thank them for letting me share so many fun adventures with them. Ralph, I love you. And thank you. Can't wait to see you again.

Oh Ralph what am I going to do without you.  Tell Casey & Bosco I said Hi. Jake was happy to see you.  We dogs will do what we can to make David happy.  He loved you so much. Jackie Doodle

This is the way I know Ralph.  If he wasn't making desserts or bbqing.  There wasn't a think he made that wasn't good.  I will miss you.  You were a very special guy to me.

Ralph who will rock me to sleep at night.  I love you and will take care of David.  I miss you every night.  Love you Baxter

I will miss you so much but promise to talk care of David.  I won't poop on the floor any more.  I love the new create you bought for me.  I love you Ralph and miss you ever day.  Chaser dog

Dear Friends & Loved ones of Ralph A. Nye, Jr.:  Early this morning I was unable to sleep thinking of "Ralphie" as my husband & I first knew him!  All of the wonderful letters previously written were mostly about his later years.  His mother, Kay Wyant, two days before her 17th birthday came to Cal Cleaners looking for a job.  She wanted a new Mustang!  She was hired and turned out to be the best help ever.  She also kept us all in stitches.  I couldn't operate the cleaning machine but she quickly did.  One of our customers was Ralph Nye and he fell in love with Kay.  It took a while for him to win her as she and her mustang were inseparable.  They were married in our Lakewood home on 05-25-69!  Her parents had the reception at their nearby home afterwards.  Life was good!  Kay had purchased a lot in Lake Montezuma, AZ, the same time we did.  Ralph eventually quit his job in Long Beach to come to Arizona looking for work and to build their home.  He did both at the same time, ending up with Lowell Observatory in Flagstaff.  He has driven the 50 miles up and back daily for over 35 years.  Ralph Jr. was born in Long Beach on 10-17-72!  He was a fun child as he had to be with such a mother.  One day we were at heir home and Kay asked me to please bring Jr. in.  I went out in the front yard saying "Your mother wants you inside."  He turned around and kicked me in the shins.  He didn't want to go in but he did.  I just laughed.  My husband & I never had children so we became his adopted grandparents.  We were allowed to take him with us on occasion.  We had since built & moved into Crown Cleaners in Downey where he spent time with us.  It was cute seeing him try to emulate the girls writing up the drop-off orders from each car.  His mother said to be sure he took a nap in the afternoon so we put him upstairs in our office with windows looking over the plant.  He got quite used to that!  On Sunday mornings we felt it best to get caught up while closed so we'd have it easier on Monday morning.  A few Sundays he was allowed to go with us but first we'd drive to Griswold's for breakfast which was east of us.  Later we'd ask where he'd like to eat and he'd always loudly say "GRISWOLD's".  Coming and going he noticed the San Gabriel mountains calling them "Big Dirt". One Sunday we had some imitation flowers to put on the crypts of my husband's uncle & aunt in Westminster.  Kay didn't want us taking him to a cemetery but we went anyway, telling him to stay in the car.  He wanted none of that so he happily looked all around at the crypts.  On the drive out of the cemetery I pointed to where his mother's grandfather was buried next to the exit.  He promptly noticed he had no flowers.  We assured him next time we'd bring some which satisfied him.  One Sunday a school frien of mine (since the 3rd grade) & I wanted to see "Grease".  Jr. was with us so it was his first movie ever.  He loved it and was good as he could be.  He also had his first airplane ride from L.A. Airport to Phoenix with my husband & me.  He had been with his maternal grandparents and Kay wanted him with them in Lake Montezuma.  They agreed he should fly with us so the three of us walked up the ramp to the plane.  He was so excited!  He gave his order to the stewardess and enjoyed every minute ofthe flight.  His parents were so happy to see him and hear all about his first plane ride.  We also ate at Little America in Flagstaff together.  One of them always ordered chicken so Ralphie could have the drumstick.  The minuute he got one he plunged it into his glass of water.  Never failed!  While still in school near Lake Montezuma he became our dog sitter.  He enjoyed taking care of them.  Then he excelled in grammar school and high school before heading off to the University of Arizona in Tucson.  Once "Cricket's" opened he even became a part-time waiter.  He was always so meticulous in everything he edid.  He was very, very special as you can tell by my previous letter!  To know Ralph Jr. was to love him!  

Sincerely, Norma O. Grogan

I was blessed to know Ralph for many years throughout his time in Network Development and later after he transitioned to Technologies.  I will miss his New York restaurant suggestions and our playful banter over Apple vs. Android.  Ralph was more than just a colleague - he was a true friend.

Only had an opportunity to meet Ralph a couple of times when he was being so attentive and considerate of David's mom,Lois, one of my dearest friends.  Have heard of his sweet spirit and generous heart for years and know that he is dearly missed.

I worked for Ralph, or a better way to say it is I worked with Ralph. He was a person who I very much admired, a genuine gift to the world. I am not going to dwell on his departure from the earth, because he gave more than he took from life, and so he was truly a success to the world. There are few people I know who have contributed more. What more can we ask of life than to give back more than we take?

I had the pleasure of meeting Ralph on his original hire date with American Express as a contractor in 1996. Ralph was always very kind, compassionate, true blue and very genuine. Ralph was a breath of fresh air because of his very positive nature. We worked hard and had lots of fun at the same time. Ralph always had a smile for everyone. I miss Ralph very much and he is forever in my thoughts. My deepest condolences to the Nye and Rausch family members.

It has been a long time Ralph since we worked together in Network Development.  You were a great asset to us then an I am sure you are a great asset to those in heaven now.  David, even though we never met, you have my sincerest condolences and wish you fond memories.

Ralph was my business partner and customer for about three years, when I took a role that was very new to me. He always supported me, in good times and bad times, always with encouragement and positive thoughts. My deepest condolensces.

I met Ralph a few times over the years and he was a lovely, funny, and kind man.  He will be missed.  Peace to you all.

Ralph, you are my third son.  David brought you into our lives 20 years ago and it took no time for us to fall in love with you.  When I was in the hospital you made sure the nurses took good care of me.  Thank you for loving my David.  He grew under your love.  I will miss and love you every day.

I had only known Ralph for a fairly short time, but I can honestly say that he was one of the few people in life that you get the chance to meet and when you walk away, you feel better for having talked to him. He was a genuinely good, warm, kind hearted, caring and generous man. Our offices were very close and I don't think a day will come when I don't expect him to stop by and ask with a smile ……… “hey, what's going on?”. You are missed Ralph.

Ralph was a great colleague, mentor and friend.  I had the privilege of getting to know Ralph over the past 10 years.  He'd always reach out when he was coming to NY to see if I was free to meet for lunch.  Despite the stress of his job, he epitomized calmness and goodwill.  Always.  He will be missed.

I know David very well from carpooling with him for 2 years and eventually got to meet Ralph and both of their families.  Ralph was always cheerful and patient. He and I shared the same birthday and a lot of the same tech / car guy interests. I plan to be there for David with his car questions in the future. The news of Ralph's passing is heartbreaking for David and both families. We offer our sympathy to you all.

I had the honor to know and work with Ralph for the past several years, and I was always inspired by his energy and kind smile. Ralph was always ready to help and mentor others. He was genuinely a warm-hearted man that cared about his team and the value of relationships. I personally have benefited from our friendship and appreciated working side-by-side with him these past years.

My deepest condolences go out to David and the Nye family.   Ralph was such a wonderful and special person to many of us.  His contagious smile and warm spirit will forever be in our hearts and memories.   Ralph is truly missed but will never be forgotten.

So many have said it better than I can.  For someone always on the move Ralph always seemed to be there. He was always looking out for others, whether it was making sure you had delicious food to eat, wonderful drink concoctions, kind words, etc. I will even miss his antagonizing ASU v UA texts. Most of all I will miss the way loved our family and my cousin.

Ralph let me drive his Audi once. I would heckle him throughout the time I was blessed to know him that he could always leave his rides with me during a business trip. He never did. Then, one night last winter, we went to Richardson's and he just said, "Want to drive us there?" like it happened all the time. He was always ready to surprise you on all occasions... with a delicious appetizer or desert, or, infamously, a sing-along birthday song at Macayos even though it wasn't your birthday. I can't add much to what has already been said here. I am glad to have him watching over me now, and will always think of him when I need to go clothes shopping or am craving a night out at a new restaurant in town. I will miss him so much. Love to the Nye's and David.

I would often bump into Ralph at the grocery store & we would catch up quickly since we both worked at different locations the last few years. After working with Ralph for 10+ years, I have had the opportunity to thank him personally many times over for helping with various projects, sharing information, jumping on calls, trying to figure out blackberry issues and the list goes on & on.  But really, I should have just thanked him for being Ralph.  He truly shared his heart with everyone he worked with and his passion for life was always present in his smile and his quest to get to know people. Thank you Ralph, for being you! 
To his loving family, I pray that you will find some peace during this heart breaking time, as you read how he made such a positive difference in so many lives that he touched both inside & outside of work.

My condolences on your loss.  Ralph was loved by his Amex family.  He'll be missed.
"To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die" Thomas Campbell

My deepest condolences to Ralph's family. 

I met Ralph when he started with the company approximately 20 years ago.   Whenever I needed help or support on something, I could always reach out to Ralph.  Whether it was questions about the Amex systems or connecting my PC / Laptop at home, Ralph would take the time to help.  

Throughout the years, Ralph became more than just a colleague.  He would always take time to send me an IM, email, text or call to make sure I was doing okay.  He took an interest in my professional growth and that is something I will always be appreciative to.  I will miss our run-ins at our local Starbucks, Aj's, and or Frys.  I will forever miss his smile, the updates on his furry family members, and the updates on the family restaurant. It won't be the same. RIP Ralph until we meet again!

Our deepest condolences on your loss.  We are praying for all of you.

I have been reading all the memorials and not sure if I have anything new to add. Ralph was an amazing person. He was a great leader, mentor, boss, friend, etc. Everyone that knows Ralph he was always busy and had something going on. With that said he always had time for you no matter what. If we weren't able to touch base during the day, he didn't forget, he would either call me directly at home or even possibly reach out through other media forms. Wow how amazing is that! It didn't matter if it was work related or personal he did make the time. He believed in work life balance and wanted to make sure our families always came first. 
I can't even imagine what his family is going through, I have sent many prayers their way. I want to share something with you that I wrote for someone, I lost very special to me a few years back:

Life, Death and New Beginnings

It is funny how every time there is new life it is a new beginning for everyone. It is new for Moms and Dads, Grammas and Grandpas, Aunts and Uncles, even brothers and sisters & cousins too. It is amazing what a new life can bring into someone's life.

It is strange & funny how death is a new beginning as well. When someone close dies that means one must begin a new adventure without them and create new memories. It is up to us to decide how the new adventure will go. Will it be filled with joy? Will it be filled with sadness? Who knows maybe both.

God gave us life and death; he also gave us free will to choose how to deal with it. Whatever that choice is, it will help mold each and every day of the new adventure.

I will miss Ralph and think about him especially when there is a new iPhone coming out or some other new cool electronic thing that I know nothing about and would need his advice.

I met Ralph when I first joined Network Development team in ES.   Ralph was certainly a strong contributor to the organization and he had a way of keeping the customer needs in focus all the time.  A true customer advocate!  Ralph you will be missed by many!  Thoughts and prayers to your loved ones.

My condolences for your loss.  Ralph was a wonderful person who was very helpful to his peers and shared his wealth of knowledge to improve those around him.  He added much to this planet and will be greatly missed.

Ralph was a hard worker, a fantastic partner but most of all a kind soul.  Whatever the time you could always count on him to deliver.  when Ralph was on the case, I always knew we were in better hands.  And sometimes he would call to check in b/c that's the type of person he was.  I will miss you - you made Amex and the world a better place!  May you rest in peace dear Ralph.

My dearest Ralph....my pooh bear, you are an amazing person to me. I can't stop crying, and want to be with you beyond belief. You have taught me so many things in life, and showed me the world. As I read all the comments, I see how many people you have touched in life and from all over the world. To hug you again, to tell you I love you and hear, "I love you too pooh bear" would be wonderful. I ache that our lives won't be spent together, and I ache just from thinking about you. People say that pain will go away, but I don't want it to. I want to think about you every day and remember the love we shared in both good and bad times. All I can say is I love you, I miss you, and I am blessed to have had you in my life for 20 years and I love you very much. 

You would be happy to know, that Baxter licks my face when I cry, Jackie sits in your spot, and Chase, as you say is goofy and makes me laugh and cry because I know how sill you thought he was. I love you Ralph, with all my heart, forever.

I met Ralph when he joined Amex almost 20 years ago. He was a bright 20-something, eager for knowledge, and I was an aging 50-something with a few bits of knowledge and experience to offer. It soon became apparent to me that he had something special to offer. We maintained our relationship as he progressed in his job, became amazingly proficient, and achieved promotions, I felt pride as if he were one of my kids moving up and being successful, and that I had the honor of somewhat contributing to his success. His managerial ability, technical expertise and system knowledge became will established.  But these are things which and be learned. His primary underlying strength, something which is embedded in ones character,  was in his dealing with people.  I can see from reading thru these 63 posts that others recognized his incredible gift.  He made you feel that he was generally interested in your personal welfare.   Even now, after I had been gone from Amex for almost 2 years, he texted me last month just to ask how I was doing.  In the movie "Wonderful Life", every time a bell rings, an angel gets his wings.  Well, the bells are ringing for you, Ralph..

The world lost a true gentleman in Ralph.

Like a lot of people have already written, I'll always remember Ralph for his incredible ability to make time for people and the way he never let the little things slip. Whether it was following up on his emails with a call "to make absolutely sure" I was up to date on a pressing business issue; the "welcome to PHX" messages on FourSquare that he would send me every time he saw I'd landed at Sky Harbor; or even the way he would never fail to stop by when in NYC, even if for nothing more than to say hi. Ralph was never ever "too busy" - regardless of whom or what demands were competing for his time.

Ralph also had the most amazing work ethic of any person I know. He undertook any task whether it was big or small - the glamor projects or the dirty jobs - with the same enthusiasm and vigor. He was a model colleague and an inspiration to those working both alongside him and within his team.

Like the rest of you I will now forever miss Ralph's warm friendly smile, his calm demeanor and his incredible positive outlook both on work and on life. 

Hope he's up there smiling down on us...

Ralph and I quickly forged a brotherhood and friendship over many late night work calls.  He was someone I could count on; he always had my back and I had his.  I couldn't have asked for a better work partner and friend.  I miss him.

Thank you Ralph for sharing your passion for life with us.
You remain forever alive in the hearts and minds of those who knew you; those you touched.

Sometimes it is the little things that make someone special.  Like the warm greeting Ralph would always give me at department town halls. 

He will be missed.

Fortunately for this  world, every once in awhile a person comes along whose character quite frankly, is larger-than-life-itself.  This would be our Ralph.  His kindness, his energy, his generosity cannot be measured adequately with words.  This monumentally "unthinkable" loss has rocked our entire Rausch family.  David honey, thank you for bringing this exceptional man into our lives.  He will FOREVER be treasured and missed...and rest assured...will be honored with JOY at each and every Rausch reunion hereafter.
For all of us who cherished him so deeply, I pray for strength during the day and peace at night.  I TRULY feel humbled to have shared so many remarkable memories with my adored "adopted" nephew.  I love you honey and will hold you near and dear to my heart from now until forever.
xoxox's Sandy

My deepest sympathy to all Ralph's family for their tragic loss. I got to know Ralph in 2013 and only worked with him for one year. Very quickly he made me feel very comfortable and he was always extremely helpful to me. Always a kind smile on his bright face.  I am also a dog lover like Ralph, I will definitely make a donation for a dog park in Phoenix be to established in memory of Ralph Nye. Ralph you will be missed.

I first met Ralph as a colleague a number of years ago while working in Phoenix. His warmth, diligence and intelligence were immediately obvious and especially his ability to always make you feel like a friend, not just a co-worker. Since then, I've moved to Australia and Ralph had moved on to a new role, but still he always made the effort to get in touch for a chat when he had time, and probably even when he really didn't. It's hard to believe I won't be seeing his name pop up on my screen again. 
I hope his family can take some comfort from so many heartfelt messages paying tribute to the exceptional person he was.

Ralph thank you for finding me for my loving family.  Mike & Lois love me very much.  I'm sorry I misbehaved at the dog park.  I will miss your belly rubs and you visiting with Jackie, Baxter and Chase.  Love you,

My thought and prayers go out to Ralph's family and friends.  His smile, kind demeanor and positive attitude will truly be missed.  I first met Ralph when we worked together on a project in 1998.  I always enjoyed working with Ralph - he was genuine, hardworking and acted with integrity.  He always made time to chat and reached out to stay in touch over the years when we weren't working on the same projects.  His genuine care and concern for people was heartfelt.

Ralph was one of the kindest, thoughtful, caring and warm-hearted people I know.  I am truly grateful and blessed to have known him as a co-worker and friend.  He was my go-to guy for any technology advice (to be or not to be Apple – LOL) but most importantly, I knew I could go to him about anything.
As chaotic as his day may have been, he would ALWAYS make time for you.   Thank you, Ralph for making all our lives brighter with your warmth and kind-hearted spirits.  Will miss you and your warm smile dearly.


Laura Rivera?

I will have a Ruth steak in your honor

Consolation

What image flashing
Through my mind contrasting
A stated life lasting
As I venture on

Whose smile proceeds laughing
Whose gift sends the thirsty dancing
With thoughts forever asking
As I venture on

Graft to me what brings strength
Let my ways make others shrink
Into something more which they see
A soul that lives with love received 

My eyes have depth the searching find
A way to walk within my mind
A garden thrives and reveals great signs
Your nurtured care and good design

I want to hold the waters flow
To dam its path from where it goes
Keep the ways I've come to know
Enjoy the soothing touch of souls

Yet the water flows as I confide
I choke upon a deepened sigh
The surface looks the same but I
Know underneath great changes lie

How can I enter in
To swim back where we begin
The place before this current time
Even now the current is beyond my mind

We walk this earth alone
As we go we are consoled
By those who receive our soul
So you are one in which I'm known

Forever carry my love with you
As time goes by as seasons do
For in me I know that love concludes
A better soul for solitude

Without you I feel the fire
In your ways I escape the dire
So those along who with me hear
My voice lift up your song 
As I venture on

Ralph was such an amazing person.  His love for David was unconditional.  I loved him very much and will miss him every day,  He brought joy to David and the rest of the family,  He was a genuine person who loved life.  I love you Ralph and someday  we will meet again in Heaven.  Aunt Judy

Ralph became part of our family some 20 years ago and as everyone as noted his smile and wit made him a hit in the family immediately.His caring for everyone was blessing. Once my son had a car wreck and I recieved a partial phone call from him that was cut off.  Not knowing his condition I called everyone I knew in Phoenix and was only able to get ahold of Ralph, he dropped what was doing went to the scene of accident and called me to say everything is okay. We will all miss him but his memories make me good inside and smile. We love you Ralph!

Bob Rausch
Kansas

I have been blessed to have a fellow Wildcat in this family of Sun Devils.  I wish I had the opportunity to have spent more time with Ralph, but I feel fortunate to have made some wonderful memories with him.  The kids will fondly remember his yummy cinnamon rolls and fantastic bartending skills.  I will remember his kindness, gentile nature, Wildcat pride, excellent cooking, and generosity.  I know he is watching over all of us from his seat in heaven.

I had the pleasure of working with Ralph many years ago when he was a manager at AMEX.  He was such a kind, gentle man and very smart.  He amazed me with his technical skills.  I lost touch with him at work but we recently reconnected when we had an issue and we were on the same call and he was now a VP.  It was great to chat with him again.  I am so sorry for his loss.  My heart and prayers go out to his family and friends.

It is with great sorrow that I say farewell to a friend.

Ralph always had a great love and respect for life, family, friends and animals.
Those of us who were fortunate enough to have had him in our lives are better for it.
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. 
 Rest in peace my friend.

I have worked with Ralph over many years, mainly from afar, but I did meet him in person a few times. Whether the reason for our meeting be simple or problematic Ralph always brought a "can do" positive attitude which made him such a joy to work with. He will be missed by so many on a daily basis.

Ralph Nye saved my life.  After being laid off for 8 months, Ralph personally called me to interview and bring me back to American Express in late 2007.  Our relationship went farther back.  We first met as contractors in the Fall of 1995.  I was never sure where Bob Nichols (may God bless his soul) found Ralph.  We all knew quickly Ralph was (my term) a 'wiz kid' who knew anything and everything about computers, systems, electronics and much more.  He had to be only 22 at most, but there was that endearing, calm, compassionate, fresh and bright intelligence that wanted to share what he knew and always eager to learn more.  That desire we saw in young Ralph to connect to knowledge and people permeated his personality.  Anyone who worked directly or indirectly with Ralph knew this 'wiz kid' "shooting star" (term then and unfortunately too appropriate now) was going to go far. Everyone supported and cheered Ralph's career and successes for many reasons, but for me it was because Ralph gave 100+ times more back than he ever took.  
Besides saving my life, Ralph had an uncanny timing for showing up at the most opportune times (for me and not necessarily for him).  My wife and I ran into Ralph in London during 2000 at a very small hotel that we had randomly booked.  Ralph was smiling and full of energy advising to use the train system to see some of the outside of London tourist sites.  
Even in recent years, Ralph might show up at my desk late in the work day asking 'what's going on' almost perceiving some pending issue or challenge needing 'wiz kid' informal counsel. No matter Ralph's needs, he would make time to listen. He would sometimes stand, not saying a word, looking as if he was seeing through me.  He would have a Mona Lisa-like smile with his brain undoubtedly clicking to share his wisdom.
We can only reflect and cherish the short time Ralph shared with all of us and thank the universe (and Ralph's parents) for bringing this light of love into our window of earthbound existence.
So, thank you Ralph for giving so much!  I know that wherever you are now (beyond the hearts of many of us), it is a much brighter and more loving place because of you.  May God bless you, your wonderful family, closest and personal friends, and people like me with whom you shared 'wiz kid' Ralph...until we meet again...

The nicest and most compassionate man I ever met.  In his short life, he inspired lots of people and positively impacted their lives. He will be greatly missed as a friend, colleague and leader.  My thoughts and prayers for you Ralph, your family and friends.

I had a privilege to work with Ralph since 2012. He was amazing human being, his passion for work was exemplary and he was very supportive leader/guide. He was instrumental in transforming and rebranding our organization to meet the ever-changing needs of the American Express business.

My deepest condolences to his family. He will be missed terribly in American Express. He was my neighbor too and I will definitely feel his absence on a daily basis.

I have known and worked with Ralph for over 10 years - during that time, our careers took different paths and I was thrilled when we were working together in the same group!  Ralph was a kind, caring and really smart man - and a great sense of humor!  We bonded over our love of Kathy Griffin, Lisa Lampenelli and Joan Rivers.  He had such high integrity and was always looking to do not the easy thing - but the right thing.  I am still just so shocked at this loss and my deepest sympathy is with his family and friends - I am so deeply sorry for your loss.  Please know so many people are thinking of you and sending their caring wishes to you.

I got to interact with Ralph at work only recently when me and my family moved to Phoenix. When Ralph got to know that I was not part of any team here in Phoenix he was exceptional in his way to see that I feel comfortable and feel part of an extended team. This gesture of his was so positive and comforting and I will always remember him for that. 
May his soul rest in peace and may God give strength to his family members.

Ralph-
You were a great colleague and more importantly a wonderful person.    The halls at work will be dimmer without your smiling face and positive attitude.  I can honestly say I am a lucky person for having the privilege to have known and worked with you.
Rest well and you will always be missed.

Ralph leaving us so suddenly has affected so many people around the world. I have worked with Ralph his entire AMEX career and enjoyed every minute. My wife and I also have the pleasure of living close to and knowing Ralph's family in Lake Montezuma in the Verde Valley and they are fantastic people. Years ago when we met Ralph's family, it was clear where Ralph inherited his love of people and his kindness. Ralph, we will all work hard to continue your legacy of kindness and treating everyone with respect. You will be missed.

Everytime I can't get something technical to work I will say a little prayer to you, Ralph, and I know you will help me from your "command center in heaven". Thanks for being you! You will be missed by so many.

Our sympathies to all Ralph's family  my children and fondly remember Ralph  from beaver creek school he was special to us all.

Ralph, thank you for giving us the gift of your friendship. You were a truly exceptional person and dedicated friend. You have made a wonderful impact on so many lives that will continue on in all of us. Kyle and I miss and love you very much. We will keep David in our arms until we see you again.

Ralph was a great friend growing up. I enjoyed the trip to California with our two families and the computer classes in Flagstaff. It shows what kind of friend he was when after 20 years we were able reconnect and it was like no time had past. I will miss him!

What a great person. I had the pleasure to work with Ralph on several projects. He was a kind, funny and very supportive colleague and will be missed.

If you want to touch the past, touch a rock.  If you want to touch the present, touch a flower.  If you want to touch the future, touch a life.
— Unknown
If success is measured by the positive impact on the lives we touch, Ralph was a very successful man. All the kind words in the other comments paint a vivid picture of the Ralph I got to know in the past year: generous with his time and his advice, positive, friendly. He had a real spark, and a genuine interest in his team. We will greatly miss him.

I loved the note from Ralph's parents! I always admired how Ralph could verbally represent a complex idea in a simple and powerful way. He was always the most articulate guy in the room. Now it's clear where that gift came from.

Loved the note from Ralph's parents. I always admired how Ralph could represent a complex idea in a simple and powerful way. He was always the most articulate guy in the room. Now I know where he got that from.

Shock and sorrow cannot begin to describe my emotions as I learned that Ralph had suddenly left this world.  From my fondest memories of "lil Raphie" at Crickets to watching him grow and turn the world into his oyster... Ralph always did it with a smile, kindness, and a natural sense of grace.  My thoughts and prayers remain with his incredible family, and I consider myself very fortunate to have known him.

What a lovely person Ralph was! I had the opportunity to work with him often in the past year; he was kind, supportive, encouraging and always available when I needed assistance.  He will be missed.

To my childhood friend , you were a Great guy , you will be forever missed

We join you in sorrow over the loss of Ralph. Nothing can ever take away the love our hearts hold for him. Our memories will bring us joy and laughter as we were blessed to know him. Today we cry for him, but tomorrow we will smile because of him.

Ralph, Ralph, Ralph – where do I begin?  You touched my life in so many ways.  You were an extraordinary man - full of life, selfless, genuine, compassionate & caring about all who crossed your path. Ralph was my leader at AMEX & I connected with him right away:-) He was my leader, mentor & friend.   When he was promoted to VP & left our Team, Ralph continued to keep in touch. He would call me @ home just to see how I was doing & what was new - nothing to do with work. He always sent me text messages on Mother's Day - what a sweetie:-)  I will miss his is phone calls & text messages.  My heart is heavy & I will miss you so very much and love you more.  The world was a better place for having had you in it.  Rest in peace….until we meet again my friend.

I worked with Ralph at American Express for many years before I moved away. I remember him always having a smile on his face, always willing to help if you had any questions. He pointed me the right direction for a good deal on a 4Runner, and we used to compare stories on our trucks. When I heard he had passed away when he was full of life and adventures, I felt so incredibly sad. I really hope his family knows how many lives he touched. Rest in peace Ralph...

I still can't believe he's gone. My memories of Ralph will always be filled with encouragement and never ending kindness. He is perhaps one of the most genuine and honest individual I've had pleasure to work with. Ralph - you will always be fondly remembered. From Sydney, Australia - MN

Rest easy Ralph May angels fold you in their wings and keep you safe
You were such a special person 
Doug and Cheryl McDonald (Phoenix,AZ. and Maitland, Australia)

Ralph was a great co-worker, always trying to make things work for everyone around him. He was not an Apple fan and I remember him trying to convince us at work to not buy Apple products. I am sure he is up there now flying with the Angels somewhere around the Pacific Ocean ; )

Always felt better after meeting with Ralph. He always made time to say hi and made me feel comfortable to work with him.

OBITUARY

Ralph A Nye Jr

October 17, 1972 – October 11, 2014

A.L. Moore-Grimshaw Mortuaries Bethany Chapel

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