I am so sorry for your loss David was such a good person.  He was fair and caring.  I don't know how to express how he will be missed.  Bless you.

We were really sorry to hear about this loss.  Our condolences to the entire McKay family and especially Kay.  She and Dave touched our lives in innumerable ways and we will be forever grateful to them for bringing us together.  Darren and Julia Carboni

We are sorry for your loss. Mr. McKay was a fair and caring educator. He led a great school at Knoles. I was fortunate enough to speak to Mr. Mckay before I left for the U.S. Army in 2008. Due to great educators like himself, education and learning became an important part of my life. I still remember sitting in his office. He will be missed. 

-Seth Montoya Knoles Knight 1989-1995

Paul, Gib and Mrs. McKay- I was sad to hear about your loss.  I don't think any other person or family mirrored our own including your dad/husband with my own father.  They were friends and much alike.  And as time will heal your wounds, I hope that you will be grateful for the time you were allowed with such a great husband, father and man. He was someone admired in all aspects of life and so will be missed by many.  God bless and my sincere gratitude for all of you being an influence in my own life.  A truly amazing family.

Dave McKay was an oustanding person. It was my priviledge to coach Paul in High School Basketball at Flagstaff High School. Paul was an outstanding young man, an excellent student, and was a tough competitor. I am sure he got that from Great Parents. All children should have aparent as Great as Dave & Kay McKay!!

Dear Kay,
Having known you and Dave in Flagstaff through the Boys and Girls Club school-based mentoring program was a unique honor for me. I send heartfelt sympathetic thoughts to you and your family.

Although I'd seen David only a few times, at reunions, since 1959, I have many fond memories of him in Ajo High School as a classmate and the sports we engaged in and later for one semester at what then was EAJC. To his entire family we offer our sincere condolences and you all are in our prayers.

Mrs. McKay, Paul, and Gibby, I was really sad when I heard about your loss. Mr. McKay had a very positive effect on my life and if I end up having a child I know I'll draw on the time I spent in his presence as a model for how I'd like to treat my kids. He was always enjoyable and fun to be around, as well as being a role model for the type of man I wanted to be. I thought about all of you a lot today and this week. Sincere regards, Jay Verkamp

Kay and Family,
We were sorry to hear about your loss. Dave was a loving husband, father, grandfather, and friend. We feel blessed to have known him. You will be in our thoughts during this difficult time.

Kay and family,
We're so sorry to hear the news of David's death. We have such fond memories spending time with you while we were at NAU...those 2 years were some of the best of my life because of you  both. We've always considered the McKays as a very special family and we feel blessed to have known David. We will miss David so very much. God bless you Kay, please let us know if we can do anything for you. Much love,

Kay and family, 
Bob and I were very sorry to hear about Dave's passing.  We were glad to have seen him and talked with him at the gathering at the Wrigley Mansion.  He was a great asset to the Flagstaff community and will be missed by many.  We send our deepest condolences and will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time.  Bob and Dolores Schrader

Dear Kay, Gibby and Paul..I believe I know your sadness as I shed my own tear.  As I treasure my memories, a smile will appear.  I have a favorite photo I wish to share with all.  With Love and Fondness....Adele

Kay, Gibby & Paul, We are sorry for your loss as well as a great loss to the community. Dave touched us in many ways, he will be missed greatly. Candee & John Croslin, Flagstaff

My heart goes out to you for your loss.  David made a difference in so many lives.
He will be sorely missed in the community.

It was an honor getting to know Dave as a fellow administrator in FUSD.  Dave was one of the kindest gentlemen I have had the privilege of working with.  Dave, you will be missed by the Flagstaff community.  Kay, my heart goes out to you for you loss.  Dave was a giant among men.

Dear Kay and family, I am so sad over Dave's passing. Kay, you and Dave are the people I have looked to as examples of compassionate leaders who have made Flagstaff a better place. Dave will be missed - but his legacy lives forever.

Dear Kay and family,
Our sympathy.  We're so sorry Dave is gone.  I like this poem, and it made me feel better when my father died.  Hope you have many happy memories.

When we start to count flowers,
We cease to count weeds;
When we start to count blessings,
We cease to count needs;
When we start to count laughter,
We cease to count tears;
When we count happy memories,
We cease to count years.

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Kay:  Phil and I were so saddened to hear of Dave's passing. From my student teaching at Knoles the first year it opened to working with you as a Big Sister for BBBS, I personally know how much you both have contributed to our community.  He will be missed! We missed you both on our annual visit to trick or treat at your door.

The opinion page in the Wed, Feb. 16, 2011 issue of the Arizona Daily Sun paid tribute to Dave as leading a life of "inspiration"  . . . so very, very true.  Despite Kay's irrepressible personality, Dave’s experienced and caring influence can be sensed in the work of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Flagstaff long after his retirement.  Dave chose to invest his life energy in the lives of our youth and he reminded us that everyone can make a difference to someone.  Thank you Dave for being the ultimate model of the humble servant and thank you, Kay, for sharing him with the rest of us.

Kay, my heart goes out to you and your family. Peace for Dave's soul and your peace is my prayer. Love, Joanne

Dave's heart was as big as his smile. Our family has so many happy memories of Dave and Knoles Elementary School. He was truly one of a kind who humbly and generously dedicated his life to making our world a better place. Our thoughts and prayers are with you dear Kay, Gibson, Paul and families.

Kay - I'm sending you my condolences today, but hope that someday soon the pain of your loss will be replaced by warm memories of many happy times spent with Dave.

Kay and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Dave will always be a major figure in the history of BBBS and I will charish the times we worked together. He brought his humor, professionalism and compasion to the table in everything he did. He will truely be missed. - Becca Fain, BBBSA

David's leadership inspired us all to  become better community members, to care for our children and to set an example for those who will follow.  Bless his life, his work and his family.  My heart goes out to Kay, Gibson and Paul and the entire McKay family for their loss and may we all celebrate a life well lived.

Our most sincere condolences to the McKay family.  Dave was a shining example of a great principal to all at Knoles Elementary School and an inspiration to the entire Flagstaff community. Our prayers are with you.

The Joiner Family

Dave was my principal for one year at Marshall. I so wish I could have worked for him longer.  I respected him as an educator and as a man. My condolences to Kay and his family.  Dave will be missed.

Kay & Family,
David was a Warrior on behalf of children and a model citizen to Flagstaff and the state of Arizona. It was difficult for me to learn of your loss. I have known David for 53 years as we attended and played football for Eastern Arizona College. He was our leader and did it in a quiet method which was his style. We met for the first time in his dorm room at Eastern Arizona where he had two large posters on the wall. One of Barry Goldwater and the other of Julie London a sultry singer and later televsion star. The brotherhood and friendship has endure since 1958. I could tell "McKay" stories for hours. 
Love, Dale Hancock

Shooting Stars...Dave and Kay, my mom was proud to be among your shining lights!

Dear Kay and family,

I will always be grateful for the life lessons I learned working at BBBSF.  Thank you Dave and Kay for sharing your wisdom, helping me and so many others grow to greater potential, and giving so much to the community.  

Peace to you all -

Gibby,Paul and Mrs. Mckay,
Your father touched so many lives in Flagstaff and his presence will truly be missed by many people. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Goitia family-Michael,Michelle,Maia and Esai

Dearest Kay, 

Dave was a great mentor at Big Brothers Big Sisters of Flagstaff and a good freind. He will be missed.

Kay and Family,
Dave was willing to put up with 2 clueless college grads who attempted to throw their kid on the bus at the wrong stop on Rio de Flag and may have thought he was going to full day kindergarden.  Brendan was there 7 years at Knoles.  Thanks,Dave.  
 Dave Healey

Dear Kay and Family,
     I am saddened to hear of the passing of Mr. Mckay. I had him as a teacher way back in the good old Flagstaff Junior High School days. He was a tremendous teacher!  And how you have touched my life Kay... Had the wonderful privilege of attending two of your seminars at the FMC Business Office and at Flagstaff Medical Center on how to succeed in a working environment. Your positive and caring attitude changed my life!!! I know that this strength you have will sustain you now.  Please accept my sincere condolences and deepest sympathy. You are in my thoughts and prayers.  
          With heartfelt caring, 
          Dottie (Euler) Harkey

Kay, Gib and Paul,
Our family always felt blessed that our three children were students at Christensen School while Dave was the assistant principal there.  His gentle, encouraging manner was a strong support to our three and to hundreds of other young Flagstaff citizens during those important elementary school years. 
Dave's warm, positive approach influenced the lives of many; the impact of his work will be remembered and appreciated through generations to come.  Our gratitude and our heartfelt sympathy are with you all,
The Luedde Family -  Thomas, Caroline, Rob and Dolly

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Dave.  My thoughts are with Kay the family at this time. I feel blessed to have been able to get to know Dave during my time with Big Brothers Big Sisters of Flastaff and I know the world is truly a better place because of his presence in it.

Our thoughts are with Dave's family.  We have many memories of Dave and his many successes as an educator and with Big Brothers.  He will be missed.
David and Nancy Maurer
Prescott, AZ

Dave was so welcoming to our then 8-year-old daughter when we moved to Flagstaff in 1988 and he showed us around her new school. We knew we had chosen our new hometown well with caring people like Dave already living there. Our prayers are with Kay and the rest of the family as you say your goodbyes. Dave was a treasure!

To Kay and Family,

Tom and I feel privileged to have known Dave and are so sorry for his loss.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Love, Tom and Ellen Augenstein

To Kay and Family, 

Dave was such a light to all of us at BBBSF. His smile was welcoming, warm and comforting, and something we all looked forward to seeing. His passion for helping the youth in Flagstaff was contagious.

We are blessed to have known him, worked with him, and to be a part of his family. We will continue his legacy here at BBBSF with honor and dignity now and in the future. 

All our love and prayers, 

The Staff of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Flagstaff

So sorry to hear of his passing.  It was great to attend Knoles Elementary and have him as the Principal for the first two years it was open.  He cared about children a lot and the legacy he created in Flagstaff will continue forever.  Keeping his family in my thoughts and prayers.

What a legacy Dave leaves behind.  Our deepest condolences to Kay, the boys and their families.  He was a good man and will be missed.

My condolences to the entire McKay family. I remember Dave fondly from my time in Flagstaff. So many people benefited from Dave (and Kay's) extraordinary generosity in serving others. The world needs more Dave McKays.

WE ARE SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT DAVID!
YOU FOLKS ARE IN OUR PRAYERS.

            EARL & MICHAELA MCKAY
            NEW CASTLE, INDIANA

My condolences for your loss.  I was an intern at Big Brothers Big Sisters in 2003-2004.  Making a difference for others is something to strive for in our lives and Dave made a difference for countless people.

OBITUARY

David Glenn McKay

February 24, 1939 – February 10, 2011

A.L. Moore-Grimshaw Mortuaries Bethany Chapel

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