Pam, You are such a Great friend, Great Person, everything about you would always make me laugh everytime we talked. It's so hard to think you have gone to Heaven.  I know you are in a great place and watching over us. I will miss you so so much and I will NEVER forget you. I Love You, Your Friend Matthew McClanahan

My thoughts and prayers are with Ryan and all the family.


I'm so glad pam and i crossed paths again via facebook, I know she has found the peace in heaven, that was so hard for her to find on earth. And i'm especially thankful she had Ryan, and he had her. My prayers are with Pam's entire cirle of family and frieds, for this is really a shocking loss. My guess would be that she has already claimed a horse in heaven. 

I will always have Pam in my heart. What a wonderful friend she was to me and my family. We shared a lot and i will miss her so much. I will keep Ryan and all of you in my prayers.

YOU MY FRIEND WILL BE GREATLY MISSED,A PIECE OF MY HEART IS GONE!I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER ARE GREAT TIMES AND HARD TIMES WE SHARED TOGETHER. MAY GOD BE WITH RYAN AND YOUR FAMILY AND I WILL SEE YOU AGAIN MY FRIEND!!!!

Debbie and family,  I am so sorry to learn of the loss of your sister and aunt.  Praying that God wraps His arms around each of you and helps you through this sad, difficult time.  Deepest sympathy from my heart.  Marg

I'm thankful to of had the chance to tell you I love you, the phone remains silent as I miss you. You had so many people who loved you waiting there in heaven, and too many of us that will be missing you here on earth. 


Please know the family is in my prayers at this time.  Pam always had a smile on her face...I am proud to have called her one of my classmates.
Sincerely,
Trish Deppermann

At the end of August 2010 you left me a message on facebook.  You simply said. "After all these years I am asking you to be my friend again."  I was so excited to get that message and my reply to you was, " Pam, in my heart you have always been my friend."  We went many years without seeing each other but we stepped right back into the friendship like we never were apart.  In the past year you have become a big part of my life. I am so happy that God allowed you to reenter my life, even if it was for such a short time.  You allowed me to meet Ryan and you shared many stories with me about him and your love for him.  I am so grateful that we talked for so long on October 2nd.  You knew I was at a very busy place right then and you told me you would be thinking of me, but that you would let me get through that.  Then we would meet for lunch after my schedule calmed down.  I did not know that you were in the hospital.  But I understand why you did not call.  I would not have been able to get through the things I needed to do had I known you were that ill.  And you were always considering those types of things, you were so thoughtful that way.  I will always love you and Miss you.  But I know someday I will see you again in Heaven.  One of the first things I will do is walk right up to you and say, "After all these years I am asking you to be my friend again." And I know what your response will be. 

My thoughts and prayers are with Ryan and the rest of Pam's family.  May the Lord give you strength and support during this difficult time.  

So sorry to hear of your loss. Pam and I just got back together last year and we had a good time together. I just can't beleive this has happened. I will be praying for her family and her son. She is at peace now and in a better place than we are. I am so sorry, Vicki. I am here for you

Pam you will be truly missed. I will miss seeing your name come up on my caller id and knowing we will have an intersting conversation. You could always make me laugh and when I needed advice you were always there to help. I am going to miss you my dear friend. And don't worry about Ryan we will help keep an eye on him and get him through this hard time.R.I.P.

I will always miss u and no1 can replace u :3 -Ryan

Thank you Pam for giving birth to our child you will be missed! -Greg




We felt sad to read about Pam.  She and Mark
were our neighbors at one time.  Pam was always
so friendly and enjoyed her horses and dogs so
much.  A few years ago we visited in passing
and learned she had Ryan.  She was so full of
joy and love and indeed Ryan was the light of her
life.  Our thoughts and prayers will continue to
be with all of you.   

I missed Pams call after the Kentucky Derby this year. I always enjoyed talking with her. She will be missed.  Our sincerest simpathy to all her family.   Jack and Karen Moore

ryan, we are thinking of you and hoping that you can have people who can get you through this. you are in my prayers. you have inspired us and i hope that you can do that the all the new people you meet! best wishes:)

Pam and I have been in and out of each others lives for too many years to count.  Each time it was like we had just seen each other the day before.  We knew we could call each other no matter the time of day.  If we needed someone, the other one was there.  To say she will be missed is an understatement.  We have been through so many things together that her presence will be felt for many, many years and missed.  I loved her and that says it all.  My thoughts will be with her family and especially with Ryan.       

Dearest Ryan ... Our hearts go out to you for the loss of your Mom. Nothing makes sense when someone you love has gone.  Words fall short of expressing our sorrow for your loss. We hope that your cherished memories of your mother will bring you comfort and peace during this difficult time. You and your family are in our prayers!  Sincerely, Chris, Trina, Garrett, Tyler, Cassie and Payton

I'm so sorry for the loss of your Mom and sister.Pam was a great little gal, always a friendly smile and a warm greeting.She will be missed by many.

Larry, Debbie, Vickie, and family,

I am so sorry to hear of Pam's passing.  Kristie and I will be praying and thinking of you.

Respectfully,

Marc Bailey

Ryan (and family),
We are very sorry for your loss!  None of us can imagine what you are experiencing but know you have a lot of classmates, and a teacher, who care deeply for you.  May you find comfort in knowing you have an angel watching over you and your mom will never be far from your heart!
Thinking of you,
Ms. Hartman & class

My heartfelt sympathy to Ryan and the rest of Pam's family. My son was the coach for Ryan's baseball team different years and I got to know Pam pretty well. She was fun to talk to and be around. Ryan was the most important thing in her life and she was a very proud mom! She will be missed. Ryan, hold your precious memories of your mom close to your heart and god bless you all!

Cindy Brandt 

So sorry for your loss, Deb, Scott, Curt & Jill.  Our hearts go out to you.

Debbie, Scott, Curt & Jill,
  We are so sorry to hear of Pam's passing.  Our thoughts & prayers are with you and your family.  Ryan is such a little sweetheart and we are praying for him! I hope the pain you are feeling now will soon be able to be replaced with fond memories of your sister.  If you need anything, do not hesitate to call!


My thoughts are with you Ryan. You will be in my prayers.

Deb,
We are so sorry for your loss. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.


my thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends so sorry for your loss

I was ryans baseball coach for 2 years.  Me and my wife and Mom built a great friendly relationship with Pam and Ryan at games and away from games.  Pam was a great lady and a great mother.  She talked to me and my wife alot on the phone about ryan and his well being. We know ryan meant alot to her.  She wanted me to coach ryan every year so hopefully I get the chance to coach him again.  My Thoughts and Prayers go out to Ryan and the Family.  We will dearly miss her.

My son Cole spent a lot of time at the apartment playing with Ryan. She was always really great with Cole and I really appreciated that. I will miss speaking to her on the phone. She was a great mother and friend. I am really sorry about your loss.
Tamie Martin
Cole Martin

So sorry to hear about Pam passing. She will be missed! I worked with her at the Williamsfield Retirement Center and always enjoyed her laughter and fun outlook. My deepest symmpathies.

Our hearts go out to Pam's son, and her brothers and sisters. Pam was always so good to call here and check on her Uncle Tom and Aunt Janet. She was such a sweet young woman, and Ryan was the love of her life. Gone too soon! We loved her and will miss her.

To the Family of Pam Flier-Goodin,

Prayers and sympathy go to all of the family Pam will be missed by many.  



Thoughts and prayers to Pam's son and brothers and sisters.  Gone way too soon.

Rick and I were so shocked to hear of Pam's passing.  Our heart goes out to her son.  Our prayers are with all of her family.  

I met Pam when she lived in williamsfield and Ryan was friends with my grandson. My sincere condolences to family and Ryan.

My thoughts are prayers are with you Ryan and your family, at this difficult time.

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Pamela Flier Goodin

May 8, 1958 – October 16, 2011

Preston-Hanley Funeral Home & Crematory

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