Born in Hiltons, VA on June 27, 1939 to John and Laura (O’Neal) Carter, she and her beloved
brother, Neal, were raised by Harrison “Harry” (Grandaddy) and Lucinda (Granny) McNutt after
her mother’s death; followed immediately by her father’s deployment to World War II with the
U.S. Navy.
Marie was a loyal, loving mother, aunt, friend and, especially, “Somemommy” to her
grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She instilled in her family a love for the mountains of
her youth, reading, and a curiosity about a wide-range of subjects, upon which they typically
formed strong and often immovable opinions!
A graduate of Berea College in Kentucky with a B.A., Marie then attended the University of
Tennessee where she earned her M.A. in Counseling and later received her Ed.S. degree from
the University of West Georgia.
Marie’s natural leadership style flourished under the mentorship of Mr. Bobby Martin, and in
1973 she became principal of Cliftondale Elementary School in Cliftondale, GA. In 1984, she
became principal of Seaborn Lee Elementary School in College Park, GA.
As a single mom in the 1970s, Marie faced many societal and financial challenges and
obstacles. As an example, she wasn’t able to obtain a credit card in her name but she
persevered and broke through barriers. She inspired many with her determination and fierce
work ethic. She was proudest of the fact that all of her children earned college degrees and are
successful in their respective fields.
She retired in 1996 to begin her next chapter serving as a volunteer with many local
organizations until the pandemic began. Marie served faithfully as a volunteer with Meals on
Wheels, Piedmont Fayette Hospital Auxiliary, Peachtree City Library Board, Fayette County
Library Board, Flint River Regional Library Board, a student mentor at Peachtree City
Elementary School, South Fulton Retired Teacher’s Association, and the annual Alzheimer’s
Walk. Marie enjoyed spending time with her family, her many lifelong friends, a very special
Book Club, playing bridge, reading, and her Bunco group.
Marie is survived by son B. Scott and Sandy Washburn of Melbourne Beach, FL, daughter
Kristi and Steve Rapson of Sharpsburg, GA, and son Dr. Thomas and Shanon Washburn of
Milton, GA. Grandchildren include Shelley (David) Walton, Brent (Kiley) Washburn, Shane
Washburn, Stephanie Rapson, Andrew (Cortnee) Rapson, Sarah Beth Rapson, Wes Washburn
and Carter Washburn, and nine great-grandchildren. She also is survived by her niece Robin
Carter, nephews Brian (Cheryl) McClellan, Kirby (Florenda) Carter, Jimmy (Suzi) Carroll, their
children and grandchildren, her dear friend Fleda Little, and extended family members.
She was predeceased by her parents, siblings W. Neal Carter, Janet Carroll, David Carter, and
former husband Thomas L. Washburn, III.
A memorial service will be held Wednesday, Nov. 3 at Dogwood Church in Tyrone, GA. The
family will receive visitors between 10-11 a.m. followed by the service at 11 a.m. with Dr. Keith
Moore officiating.
Memorial donations may be made to the Real Life Center (reallifecenter.org) whose mission
Marie faithfully supported, or by the gift of a contribution to the library of your choice.
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