On behalf of the Adams family, I would like to extend my sincerest condolences on the passing of Mother Carmen Spence. I had the honor of knowing her since I started attending Emmanuel Apostolic Church in 1997. Mother Spence had a great love for Jesus Christ and for people. Through her faith in God, she demonstrated a life of strong Christian character. I will always remember her beautiful spirit, humility, kindness, generosity and gentleness. I had the privilege of teaching her in the adult Sunday School class for many years; she was very consistent in her attendance and would often share words of encouragement with the class to strengthen our faith. Mother Spence carried herself with class and elegance; I would often compliment her on the beautiful outfits that she would wear. On special occasions, she would always call, write cards or notes to our family. My children remember how Mother Spence was always caring, and would remember their birthday's, and buy them gifts. They also remember how she would give them candy at church. Mother Carmen Spence was a gracious woman who modelled a life of Christ-likeness and exemplified the Proverbs 31 woman. She will be greatly missed. We praise God for her life. 


Aunt Carmen was such a wonderful surrogate grandmother to me and my sister when we lived next door during the 1980s. She always had a kind word and a beautiful smile while she sat sewing. 
She also ensured that we had a good dinner every night, which made such a difference during those years of struggle.
We were blessed to have her in our lives and carried the kindness she demonstrated with us for life.

Rest in peace Beloved Aunt  Carmen!
Love, Nickey Mais & Donna Thompson 

Mother Spence was a woman who had so much love to give and always made sure that all of her children in the church were well and remaining steadfast in God. She was a sister, friend, mother, aunt, grandmother and a God fearing woman❤️ She was very kind and thoughtful. She would remember my birthday every year and give me a call and a few days after I would receive a birthday card at my door from her and I’m always so thankful for how considerate and intentional she was in our relationship and a myriad of others. 

Mother Spence was a once in a lifetime kind of person. She cannot be compared nor replaced.I value all of our long conversations over the phone and all the advice you’ve given me that I will always hold onto! I love you 🥹❤️. What a blessing to be able to live such a full life and had a beautiful radiance to you that always made everyone feel loved, heard and safe🙏🏽 it’s sad you’re gone, but you’re not forgotten and I know that your soul is resting in peace in heaven. 

Meg, I am so sorry to hear of the  death of your loving mother. May God comfort you and your family in this very sad time. May her soul rest in peace.
Carole Gordon

Mother spence was one of those people who you meet and instantly she would make you feel like family I had the privilege of growing up around her from a young teenager and was just living right next door across the street from her house she was a grandmother to every child in our neighborhood including myself. When I would visit mother spence at her home just to say hello or if I would see her at church or just outside  gardening in her garden she would always embrace me with a big smile or a big hug this was just the kind of person that mother spence was she was a beautiful beining inside and out and the list goes on endlessly. Our deepest condolences goes to the entire family and just know that heaven has gained another star as she is now resting at the feet of the master rest in perfect peace Grams we love you has we will  forever  cherished your memories in our hearts.

She was a beautiful and gracious woman inside and out. A pleasure to spend time with. Funny and witty. She was full of kindness and goodness. A lifelong student of the Word of God. She was elegant, yet graceful. Generous and selfless. A precious woman who loved her God, her family and the church. 
I  miss you. Will cherish the words of encouragement, instruction, inspiration and the love you have bestowed upon me.
My condolences to all her children and family. May God comfort and strengthen you all always 🙏 ❤ 
Love, Elizabeth Adams. 

My beautiful aunt, you are truly missed. I cannot believe when we spoke on Mother’s Day that this would be the last time I would hear your kind and loving voice. You never missed a birthday or a Christmas call, you stood In place as a mother and I am grateful for the way you took care of my mom.
Rest well I know I will see you again.
To my beautiful cousins I stand in solidarity with you as you mourn the loss of one so precious. May God grant you peace during this difficult time knowing that he is always with you.
Love Madge

My deepest condolences to the entire family. May God strengthen you during this time 
Mother Spence, Mama C, was a lady of a kind and compassionate heart. She was one of my mother best friends (Mother Dodd). She always check up on me and my children. My daughter Darica was her girl. She just loved my family. There was never a birthday or a special occasion that she would forget to call and update me on important things. She was very encouraging and a God fearing lady.
We miss you Mother Spence!!
Gone but not forgotten!! RIP❤️
Heaven gained a beautiful soul!!

My deepest condolences to mother Spence’s entire family. Mother Spence was one of the finest human being I have ever known.  She loved my entire family and call us almost weekly to check in on us, especially during and after the pandemic. She loved my children dearly and never forget their birthdays.  
She will be surely missed.  What a beautiful soul! She was beautiful inside and out.  
Mother Spence may your soul rest in peace. Heaven is now rejoicing 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Marva Filius and family❤️

Our deepest condolences to Sis. Meg and family you will always be in our prayers.  May God strengthen you one day at a time🙏🏾❤️

Sis Spence was always so nice. She always took the time to do little things to make you feel special. You will definitely be missed. Praying for the family for God to strengthen them through this time. 

Aunt Carm 
You were such a beautiful kind soul.
I love you and will miss you terrible. 
RIP 
Barbara 

Carm,

I have so many beautiful memories,  but the one that comes to mind immediately is the impressive towel designs that your beautiful hands created.❤️  

You loved God and served him until the end of your days.  You loved and cared for people as only you knew how. You were one sophisticated lady Carm! I admired you in many ways.  
May God bless you as you have blessed so many on your earthly journey.
Sleep well Carm, sleep well🌹🙏🏽

OBITUARY

Carmen Spence

August 4, 1931 – June 19, 2023

McEvoy-Shields Funeral Home and Chapel

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