Oh Tony, I am still processing this, I don’t want to believe it. 
Tony and Linda’s will forever and always be a safe place for me. They were there for me during some very difficult times. They have both shaped me into the person I am today. Tony helped me learn how to joke around, make light of certain situations cause not everything is that serious. Thank you for opening up your home to ALL of us crazy kids over the years! Especially after your night shifts at GM. I remember fondly being dropped off in the mornings, Breakfast Television on, coffee in hand, “ooh no! Not the trouble makers!” He would say with the biggest smile on his face. Erika and I would then hang up our belonging on our hooks and crawl up on the couch with Linda and Tony while they sipped their morning coffee and we got a few more minutes of sleep. Or the lawn wars my dad, Tony and the Garrity’s had, Detroit redwings vs. Toronto Maple Leafs. Whichever teams made it into the playoffs, you could almost bet we’d wake up the following morning with Toronto Maple Leafs flags on our lawn or Tony would wake up/come home to redwings flags on his lawn. You and your family made our birthdays, st Patrick’s days, Easters, Summers, Halloweens and Christmas SO special! We were so fortunate! Thank you for being in my life, GO LEAFS GO! 
Love you and miss you alway, my Tony toenail 🤍💙

Linda and family....I am so sorry to hear of your loss.  So many memories of Tony and your family in our hockey years.  Sending ❤️ 🏒

Tony Clark was an amazing man.  I have so many fond memories growing up around him on Crestwood Drive, at the hockey rink and on the baseball diamond.

Over the last few years, I got to spend time a lot of time with him during drop-offs and pick-ups at Walter E Harris.  We had so many great conversations.  Tony kept me up to date on what was new with Linda, Geoff, Jenn, Crystal and all the grandkids.  During our chats, Tony would always ask me about my parents, Dan and my family.  It was so nice to chat with him, as men, and hear how proud he was of his family.

One of my favourite memories of Tony was how adamant he was that I call him and Linda by their first names.  Because my dad was a teacher, one of his biggest rules was that Dan and I ALWAYS address our elders by their last name.  That rule applied to teachers, coaches, friends’ parents, neighbours and more.

As a result, I would always address Tony and Linda “Mr. and Mrs. Clark”.  Tony would consistently break my balls about it and flat out order me to call him Tony.  I explained that my dad was really adamant that I call him Mr. Clark and that if I didn’t, I could get in trouble.  Tony would just laugh and say “call me Tony”.

I did my best to call him Tony but my dad hammered his rule into my head with so much persistence that I often instinctively called Tony “Mr. Clark”.  Tony would chirp the crap out of me and tell me over and over again that I had to call him Tony.  Over time, I finally got the hang of it but I always thought it was funny that Tony was so adamant that I directly defy one of my dad’s most important rules.  I loved it!

As I said, Tony was an amazing man.  I feel privileged that I got to grow up around him and his incredible family.  Tony, thank you for all the great memories and I’ll see you further on down the road.

Love Tom, Melissa, Johnny and Tommy

I first met Tony shortly after I began dating his daughter Crystal, 18 years ago.
Tony and Linda have always made me feel like family, right from day one. They both hold a very special place in my heart. 
For the 8 or 9 years that Crystal and I were together, I actually felt envious and threatened by Tony. My new family depended on him, but I could fix things as well!!  I eventually learned that this is not a man to be envious of, rather a man whose lead I should follow. Tony has a huge heart and cares so much for his family. He is exactly the type of father, husband, grandfather, etc that I want to be. Ever since I had this epiphany, I've only tried to make him proud, make sure that he is proud of the father and husband that I'm trying to be.

Tony, I hope you can look down on me and be proud that all the good things I have accomplished are due to your guidance and acceptance.

Your life was a blessing, your memory a treasure.

Linda, Jenn, Crystal and Geoff

I was so deeply sad to hear of Tony’s passing. You all were such a big part of my childhood,  I have so many memories with all of you, especially Crystal and Geoff.
Linda, you and Tony  were my second mom and dad growing up and I always felt  at home and welcome when I was at your house. 
Love
Andrea Reed (Harper)

Shock and deep sorrow go with this terrible loss. 
Tony and Linda were my children's second parents for many formative years. Long before I knew we were related, I knew that this home was a safe, caring, loving environment, and, was forever thankful for that peace of mind.
Tony was always a wonderful example of of what a father could, and should be, and his love and care for his family is something that always has stood out to me.
May all of the wonderful memories bring you all some solace, and may you Rest well, Tony...you will be sorely missed, and never forgotten.

Tony and I reconnected in June of last year after I had spent decades searching for him. I was 11 when he came into my life through the Big Brothers Association. I thought I had so much time to plan a trip to come see the whole family. I wanted my wife to finally meet the man I spoke of so many times over the years. The man who taught me about selflessness, and unabated kindness to everyone he met. Tony & Linda did so much for me during a time of need in my life that I am forever grateful for. 
Tony was the kindest person I've ever known,  and he left a mark on my heart that I will always cherish. I love you Tony and I will tell all of our stories again when my grandchildren are old enough to understand them. ❤️❤️❤️

We were shocked and saddened to hear of Tony's passing. I will never forget going to baseball Tournaments with Dad and  sitting beside Tony and the guys on the bench. He always took time to chat with a big smile and always greeted me with that big high five. Gestures like this spoke to how big of a heart he had. I have so many fond memories with you all throughout the years and memories I will never forget. 

Linda, Jen, Geoff, and Crystal,

To each of you and your families, we send our deepest condolences during this difficult time. He will be greatly missed.

Dale and I are very sorry to hear about the loss of Tony...He always made us feel like family when we came to Oshawa..
He opened his doors to us whenever we came up.I remember coming up with Brandon and Tony took him to get his ear pierced..Tony is going to be missed by so many people..our heats goes out to Linda..Jenn..Crystal..Geoff and all their families..I know we live so far away but if any of you need anything we are here for you...take care...love and miss you all

Sarah and I are soo sorry for your loss deepest condolences 🙏

Words cannot express the sorrow my heart feels for the loss of our Uncle Tony.
Linda Clark and Tony Clark have helped raise so many of us kiddos. Tony taking on such an amazing 2nd dad role to all of us.
Geoff, Crystal, Jen, and Linda our hearts go out to you all. 
I hope Dad was there with welcoming arms
❤️ Paterson's

Tony is one of the greatest men I have had the pleasure of meeting. Both Tony and Linda created such a safe space full of love and magic. I wouldn’t be who I am today with out them. I’ll forever find comfort in breakfast Canada playing in the early mornings and the MASH theme song will always bring a smile to my face. Tony’s humour, love, kindness and warmth will be missed but never forgotten. I’ll never forget the comfort of nap times on the couch with Tony, the rough housing, pranks and dad jokes. Tony toenail, you’ll be greatly missed and thought of often and fondly. 
Linda and family,
I’m so incredibly sorry for the sudden loss of Tony. I wish you all the love and comfort in the world at this time. Thank you for making my sister and I feel part of the Clark family, it is truly an honour.
Love you all, 
Erika

There are no words to describe how we are all feeling with the loss of Tony.  Sending love and hugs to all ❤️

We were so sorry to hear this news last night. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Sending all our love to the family. We love you guys. Tony was the best!! He will be dearly missed by Cali and Ricky. They are absolutely heartbroken. Thinking of you Linda. We will see you soon.

Linda, Jennifer, Crystal and Geoff, the sudden loss of Tony was a shock to us all… Our hearts are breaking for all of you.  You moved onto Crestwood Drive in 1991 and we’ve been neighbours and best friends for 32 wonderful and amazing years.  Tony was a family man, he was loving, he was funny, he was a prankster, he was an athlete, he was a helper and would help anyone with anything, he was a “character”, and he was larger than life.  We have never met a family that cares and loves each other more than the Clark family.  Our boys played hockey together, ice rinks were built, fireworks on Everson Ct., Canada 125 Street Parties, Yard Sales, road hockey, St. Andrew’s hockey dances, New Years Eve parties and drinks on the deck. We shared so many memories together.  Please know that you can lean on us for strength during this difficult time and remember that we will always be here for you.

Tom and Betty Garrity  XO

To the Clark Family,

May Tony's memory be a blessing.  Sending my love and condolences to you all.  He will be sadly missed by many. I'll always remember, his generosity that he showed me when I was in need.  I'll never forget this type of kindness.  

Fondly remembered,
Ann Horruzey, Neighbour

How blessed we are to have known you Tony! From the minute we moved to the neighbourhood, you and Linda made us feel so very welcome. You were a great neighbour, friend, and second father to Ashley and Ashton. We will never forget your kindness, generosity, and your humour. The kids will never forget that Tony’s the guy who will always hook you up  with treats. Thanks for looking out for all of us, for caring about the kids and the neighbourhood, for your help, your guidance, and most of all, thank you for being you. 
We love you and will miss you always! 
Lots and lots of love,
❤️ Alison, Allan, Ashley and Ashton (the original Stump) Forman

It is with great sadness that we hear of Tonys' passing. A complete shock to learn of such a devoted loving husband, father and sports enthusiast lost so suddenly. Our deepest condolences to Tonys' family and friends. May all his golf games be under gods sunny skies and scores under 80.
Mark and Jennie Paterson

Linda, Jennifer, Crystal and Geoff

We are very saddened to hear of Tony's passing.  We have many fond memories of our children growing up together, family dinners, and watching Leafs and Blue Jays games together.   You are all in our hearts and may the wonderful memories made together as a family comfort you all in the days, months and years ahead.

With love Bill and Dawn

My deepest condolences go out to Tony's wife and children, grandchildren, and his brothers Al and Adrian, and all his friends. 

Al and Ad Im so sorry for your loss. 

Sharon Sutton

The Luxton's grew up across the street from the Clark's so many years ago on Church Street Bowmanville.   The Clark brothers were all a few year solder but in those days, everyone on the street were like family, age didn't matter.  I still recall spending many days at their place and them in our kitchen.  I still recall Tony as a gentle giant in my mind's eye.  As the other memories here read, it is obvious that Tony never changed.  Even decades after he had grown and left Church Street, he returned with his children one Hallowe'en to visit the old neighborhood and my father.  I can still picture him in our front door, proud as could be to be a father and beaming ear to ear gabbing with my dad.  My dad thought that it was a nice touch to visit the old neighborhood after so many years and to come see him.  Tony never changed, he was a gentle giant when we were kids, and a gentle giant as a grown man with a family.  Sympathies to the family.  Shane Luxton, Church Street Bowmanville neighbour...

I will miss you Tony, i always enjoyed stopping in to see you and your family. We were always welcomed and invited to stay longer. Sometimes we stayed sometimes we didn;t.  A great guy and friend,   wish we could have seen more of you guys??    Wayne & Cheryl  Great thoughts of you.

As part of the St. Andrew’s hockey family, a number of us spent our winters together at the arenas. It was SO fun and I always felt very grateful to be part of it all. Our boys made wonderful friendships with each other and we made wonderful friendships among the parents. I always got a kick out of Tony and his humour. He could be bossy with the referee because - you know - all dads were the experts (haha). But Tony was just a marshmallow inside - in my opinion anyway . To this end, he was always a very nice man and always treated me and my family like one of his own family. He was very proud of his children and his wife sweet Linda. The bus trips to our hockey tournaments would not have been as much fun without Tony.  You made our worlds just a little bit brighter every time we spend hockey times together Tony. Hugs from Vera and the Family

We are so sorry to hear of Tony’s passing. We have great memories of all the hockey games and tournaments with the boys. Linda our thoughts are with you at this time. Tony will be missed by all that knew him. “GO LEAFS GO”

Ralph and I were very sad to hear of Tony’s passing…we only saw him a few times across the road at his brother Al’s home.  Our son Ian let us know so we wanted to extend our condolences to Al, Tony’s wife and to rest of the family.
Cecile & Ralph Bowers, Tyrone

Wishing you peace, comfort, courage, and lots of love at this very difficult time. Our hearts are saddened over Tony’s passing. Linda how blessed you are to have shared your life with Tony for so many years. He loved and adored you and that was evident each time we saw the two of you. May that love sustain you especially during the difficult times.
To Jennifer, Crystal and Geoff and your families we offer our condolences to you as well. May your strong love for your dad and grandpa and happy memories of him help heal the pain that you are feeling. He was a very proud dad and grandpa. May his love of family and life be his legacy.
We feel honoured to have called Tony our friend. Rest in Peace Tony.
Go Leafs Go!!!

My deepest condolences to the Clark family.
I had the privilege of working with Tony at Truck Plant and the occasional ball tourney.
He was a great competitor but always had time to share a few laughs.
RIP.

Condolences to Tony’s family and friends. He was a great guy. I was fortunate enough to work with Tony in the truck plant and play hockey and golf with them as well. Tony was a stand up guy. 
R.I.P. my friend 🙏

My sincerest condolence to his family for the loss of Tony Clark, or as I liked to refer to him 'Big Tone'.
My favorite memory of Tony was in highschool when he did up his backyard for Halloween and made it into a scary maze for kids to walk through and had all of Geoff's friends and I in to play parts scaring kids. Simply an awesome thing to do and a memory I have forever. 
The Tonester will be missed.

Condolences to family and friends on the passing of a great man, workmate and teammate. For one day this year I'll say Go Leafs Go
🏒🇨🇦🐻💙

We are  deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Tony was a great friend , workmate  and most of all a great husband, father and grandfather to his  family .  We were fortunate enough to have shared some  great memories with Tony over the years  with both of our families . He will be missed . John & Melodie  Moulaison

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Tony Clark

July 11, 1957 – November 5, 2023

Oshawa Funeral Home

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