I had a dream about you last night   I was so happy to see you. You were so happy to see me. Its like we picked up right where we left off. You asked for a cig lol.  (Still smoking? lol) 
 I can still feel you even though  I’ve been awake for a couple of hours now.  I never got a chance to say goodbye but I guess now I know  It gives you an opportunity to visit me in my dreams.  I miss you Lance!!!!! 
Thank you for visiting me. I’ve been thinking about you.

I would ask Lance to come over and give me a kiss.  He would walk over and put his head down so that I could give him a kiss on the top of his head.   I always got a kick out of this.

In a few days it will be one year since you were murdered.  Everyday I think of you and miss you beyond what words can say.  I loved the way you tried to protect grandpa and me.  Whenever I would ask for a hug or kiss you never turned me down.  If wishes could come true I would ask for that now.  
You were are first grandchild and that is very special to us.  I recall the moment you were born and I fell in love with you.  Nobody else can replace the love I have for you in that empty spot in my heart that aches every day when I think about  you.  I miss you so much only God know how much.  
Remember I would tell you how much I loved you and then I would say as much as I love you God loves you more.  I just hope and pray that you remembered that just before you passed on.  God loves  you & I hope you made it to heaven.  I want you to be there when it is my time so that we can be in His glory forever.

God bless you and keep you.

Love,

The old lady with the cane.

I found the picture from the BBQ he was present at my brother Jacob for his 31st birthday Oct 11, 2020 an he was such of big help, lance was different in the manner  of he was genuinely a kind soul.

I spent a lot of time with Lance when he was young. I worked at his school and he always had a special place in my heart. 
May he Rest In Peace 


Lance, my heart is so broken. I have no words. I love you forever, bro. 🙏🏼🖤 Anthony and I will never forget you. 
Save a spot for me in heaven😭

Lance Brah, I’m going to miss you man, you always kept your word if he said  He’ll will be there” he was there, since the day I met him he always was present at every event our family threw for my brother Jacob, Lance was always supportive an was always open to help. Ima miss seeing him when I went to check up on my brother or check my mail
He’s another angel of mine. 

Oh my sweet nephew Lance your life was precious and I will always hold you dear in my heart..Thank you for the memory of you messing up my hair Auntie will always remember it...You were so handsome your face will always be in my mind, thoughts and heart..My heart breaks for your Mom, Dad, Sister and Grandparents my sister Donna...You will be very much missed love you....
Hugs and love to the family,
Love Uncle Eddie & Auntie Peggy Cruz 

I love you Lance. Damn my heart hurts.  You did not deserve this.  Sheri, Angie, Vince, Grandma and Grandpa I’m sending all my love. 

OBITUARY

Lance Joseph Barr

July 12, 1996 – October 2, 2020

C. P. Bannon Mortuary

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