Wow..its hard to believe its been 2 yrs since you left.us..You are greatly missed n loved by soo many..Keep watching.over.all of us n lead us in the right direction..Thanks for bein my guardian angel..luv ya grandma james!!

my dear mom its 2years now that you left us imiss you so much mom the pain still with me  you know i try talking to you every time i go to bed i cry my self to sleep at times  sometimes i wish i could be with you where ever you are its hard down here bet where hanging in there i love you and miss talking with at times i dont feel i have someone to talk to like you would talk to me well i just want you to know i love and miss you with all mmy heart sherry xoxoxoxo

hay grandma its brittany wow i cant believe you been gone for so long DONT FORGET WE All love you an u are still in ouR HEARTS LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART

Wow, it has almost been a year Grandma. Time has flown by so fast. I miss you so much though. Your picture is hanging up in my locker so when I'm at school, your always there, in my locker. When I'm at school on Tuesday, your going to be right there, in my locker. Your going to be with me always. I love and miss you so much Grandma!

Hey grandma.. Wow, cant believe in a few days it will be a year u have left us all... Alot of things have changed since u have been gone.. Some good, and some not sooo good.. I am doin what u told me that one day i am changing my life for the better for my KIDS.. I quit smoking, im drug-free, and i have been excercising daily to keep in shape.. U are missed sooo much by all of us..But i know ur up there having a big ol party with my grandparents and my uncle.. Yeah my family's crazy so i know u guys are getting along just great.. I love you Grandma and hope u continue on being my Guardian Angel cuz i know u have been all this time.. Miss n luv ya much.. Love, Tina

hello grandma its Brittany your loving grandchild. i just wanted to say that i love you with all my heart and i will never leave you out of my mind. i miss you so much it is not even funny your the only person that made me happy   when you even gave me that smile that brought up my day . And them kisses you alaways gave me and i will never forget that i love you so much and i hope you are doing great love brittany <3

my dear mom well its almost a year since youve been gone i miss you mom  your smiles your hugs and dont forget your kisses to wow im lost for words i do know i love you mom with all my heart mom come visit me im not scared i need to feel your presence one more thing all the holidays come and gone and i miss your cards you always sent they really ment alot

hi grandma happy brthday. i hope you are having a good one! we love you! 
         ~Megan James

Happy Birthday Grandma! 11-11-11 is here! Hope your enjoying your special day, and we are all thinking about you. Love you!
Love Hope

Happy Birthday Mom!  Its 11-11-11, I know you didnt make it till today but you are still here in our hearts and we are still going to celebrate your day!
Love Lara, Mathew, Jessica and Corey

Hey grandma, I miss you so much. I love you so much also. I missed playing rummy and scarbble with you. You also helped me through rough times i had with my parents. You will always be loved by many. You will be in my heart forever. Also I have your room now and the jigsaw puzzle you made and put on your wall is still there and will never be tooken down. I will be praying to you everynight. I love you grandma

hi mom  i know deep down your in heaven now i just wanted to say helo  and keep coming around all of us we all miss you very much hope you are okay were all trying believe me mom you will never be forgotten i love you with all my heart       love sherry

Hey Grandma. I Hope You Are Doing Good! I was thinking of you so I decided To Write to you in your guest book. I really miss you a lot, and so does Hope, Dad, And Mom(Cindy). I hope your doing great!
                Love,
                     Megan James

mom i am lost without you my heart hurts so bad all i can say is i miss you i love you and we will reunite some day when that day happens i hope you are the one to come get me i cant wait to see your smiling face again                                            with all my love sherry

Happy Mothers Day Mom!  I hope you are having fun with your family and friends up there!   I sure do miss you down here though. Things are so different with you not here. I miss you! Love, Lara

hi mom its been 2 months since you been gone well its mothers day  happy mothers day mom i miss you love you  43 ever love             from your daughter and best friend sherry

 dear ruth you have beeone of my best friends for 57 yearand i am going to miss you very much
your beloved friend irv

Its has been about a month now since you have been gone and it has not been easy. I keep thinking that your just at home. Im trying to move on with my life, and keep in thought that your in a better place, and I know that it is true. I wish you were here right now, telling me that its okay and that everything will be fine. You will always remain in my heart and always will be in mind. Love you always and forever, Hope

Mom,
Its has been one month since you have been gone.  I keep thinking you are still staying the night at Sherry's and you will be home soon.  It wasnt till I sat with you today that I realized you are not coming home.  You are at your new home.  I miss you so much.  I know that you are watching over me but its still hard to know that you are not here with me.  I wish I could just hear your voice or see your face or have you hold my hand to let me know you are alright. I need to hear that I am going to be alright.  I keep trying to go on with my life because I know that is what you would want me to do but mom its really hard.  Please help me get through this.  I love you and miss you.  Your Daughter, Lara

Sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. Take peace in knowing she loved each and everyone of you!

My walking friends and I are praying for healing in your family.  I know how much it hurts to lose your mother.
Blessings,
Aunt Joyce

Mom,
  It hasnt been that long since you been gone and I feel so lost without you. I try to stay strong because I know that is what you would want. I pray and hope that are family help each other thru this. I love you mom. Your love and our memories will be in my heart forever. Love Always, Dee

mom                                            i miss you so much im trying hard to cope but some days are hard for me i cry i laugh im trying to figure out which way to go i just dont know im lost isee things you bought they make melaugh there some that make me cry   mom hope to see you again someday so we can begin again i love you soooooo much    my love forever your daughter sherry

Lara, I'm so sorry to hear.  I lost my mom back in '07 and at times, it feels like just yesterday.  Hang onto all the memories and know that her influence, wisdom and love has helped shape you and your children.  She will remain with all of you....forever.  <3

Lara and Family,

Please take comfort in each other and the memories you have have of your mother.  So sorry for you loss.

With our deepest sympathy.

From:  Nigel and Julie Menzies

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Through This Difficult Time Our Deepest Sympathies To The James Family. 
On behalf of the Vilcek’s; 
Thomas, Griselda, Alfredo, Jesus, Alexander and Anthony ....

You have fought a very good battle for your children, your family and now it is time to rest may you rest in peace

Grandma,
  I could never expect more from you. You were a great grandmother and that's all I could really hope for. Everyone loved you and always did love you and will never not. The only thing all of us can think about is that you are in a very very good place now. R.I.P.
                  LOVE,
                       Megan<3

mom its been two days since you been gone and it hurts more each day. but i can only hope that i can remember the good times and the times you helped me though the bad times so i can smile when i think about you and not cry. your loving son Rick.rest in peace.

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Mom,
You will truly be missed.  I dont know what I am going to do from day to day knowing you are not here with me.  I will miss checking on you in the morning before I go to work and seeing you when I come home.  Who's gonna make the coffee, do the laundry and cook spaghetti?  You have been my rock all my life.  You made me laugh when I was sad.  You stayed by me when I was sick.  Now there is just an empty room of so many memories.  I have no idea how I am going to get through this (hopefully with the help of ALL my brothers and sisters) so send me some of that strength you had because I am going to need it.  Love, Your Daughter,
Lara

You were all I could ever ask for in a Grandma. You had Cancer all these years and fought through it. You will forever be in my memory and heart, never to be forgotten. I love you forever and always.

Grandma, I love you. I'll miss all the puzzles we did together when you stayed at my house, but I know you're out of pain and in a better place. I love you grandma.

Love,
Ryan

its so hard with you gone you have always been there for me through everything and you made me see that life is a good thing and that you are gone everything feels different i miss you so much Grandma...you are missed so much thank you for everything you have done for me i been through so much and you always knew how to help me through everything i love you and miss you..R.I.P grandma there is no more suffering anymore...

love your Baby jackie

R.I.P you are so missed. I can't believe your gone. You are in a better place now, though.  Keep an eye on all of us.  R.I.P

R.I.P grandma you will be dearly missed its hard to know  you are gone when you been there for everyone i love you so much you where so special to me and one of the great people in my life..i love you grandma GOD BLESS YOU..

me,Don,and Collin love you so much

Aunt Ruth,

I love you more and more as the days go by. I know you are doing well in Heaven with grandma and grandpa. The ring you gave me last Christmas will always be on my finger. I love you so much and know you are doing well.

Grandma i love you so much and you have been there through everything. I know you are looking down and guiding me every step of the way. I will always remember you because I have so much of you in me. You have touched more lives than you can ever imagine.

Love always,
Jessica

Grandma James we are really going to miss you.... now you are a little angel looking at us from your very own star!   Love you very much!!

Eric, Lusana, Bennett and Kenadie Cacioppo

On behalf of the Meister / Murphy family I would like to express our deepest sympathies  to the James family for their loss. Sincerely Bill Meister.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.

I love you grandma, so much. You've been there for me since day one and i don't think that I could ever thank you enough for how much you have done for me since the day I was born. I will never forget you and your memory will always live with us forever. As Mat told me today, I have your stubbornness so a little bit of you will always be with me. You were the person that held me together through some of my toughest times. I will miss you dearly but I will never forget you. Love your baby, Jessica

RIP Grandma, we will always miss you and know that you are now in a better place. You were an important part of so many lives and always will be.

Love, 
Alyssa, Pat and Kayla

Please know we love all of you, we wish you all the strength you need at this very sad time. We have all of you and your extended familys in our prayers today and everyday. May God lighten our heavy hearts. I will always remember Aunt Ruth for her kindness, beautiful smile, and her zest for life ! ! ! May you find Peace

So sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved mother. Wow, such memories. Our thought and prayer are with you all.

Cathy Skrip-Morgan

Dear James Family,
When I reminisce about your mother and my dear sister, Ruth, what stands out most is her love and devotion to her family.  You are her heart and her treasure.  .."for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also."  Matthew 7:21  May your common bond of love for your mother bring you closer and lead to healing and comfort during the days ahead.  Love,  Aunt Joyce and Uncle Bill

Your family is in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.  Grandma was always so kind and welcoming to me.  She is with the angels now looking down on all of us.

We are very sorry to hear about your mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

R.I.P. Grandma.. you are now at peace ..GOD has received another beautiful angel..you will be dearly missed...we love you always and forever grandma...love always,tina,jamie,corey,brittany and destiny...XX OO

Grandma, you have touched so many lives. You are going to be missed dearly. Things will not be the same, but we all know you will be our guardian angel.
I love you so much. 

-Krystal

RIP Grandma. Your long fight has been inspiring to us all. You will be missed.

So sorry to hear about your mom.  My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this hard time.
                        -Mary Beth

my dear mother you will be missed very much you rest now i love you with all my heart      your daugther and best friend for ever       love your daughter sherry

im so sorry to hear about aunt ruth i really wish i could be there.  know that my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.  love michelle and nicholas

OBITUARY

Ruth L. James

November 11, 1937 – March 6, 2011

Chapel Hill Gardens West Funeral Home & Cemetery

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