As I watched Jack last night in the first half for Xavier, it was hard not to notice Mark's energy in him.  I was a freshman when Mark was a senior and we roomed together during our St Louis road trip.  Mark would share some wisdom with me during that trip that would have long lasting and meaningful implications in my life literally up until present day.  It naturally applied to basketball at the time but would of course mean so much more: 'Nothing Up Nothing In.'

Countless members of the UR Family are rooting for Jack in the name of Mark's spirit and memory.

Martin Ryan

Every day I am reminded of Mark in the emergency department, not only because his picture is hanging on the wall inspiring me to do better for each patient, but also because a significant story or aphorism of his comes to mind as a guide toward excellent patient care.

Mark was a wonderful friend and the best doctor I have ever known.


Dear Beth and Family,
  I worked with Mark at St. Mary's in Evansville years ago in the ER.  Interestingly I was thinking about him last week and the lessons I learned from him. Over the weekend I was watching a little of the Iowa game against Gonzaga when I heard the name Nunge. Remembering that Mark had ties to Iowa I thought it must be his son or relative playing and how proud he must be. I decided to look up the roster and the obituary for Mark came up. Shocked, I called my kids over and we looked at the obituary reflecting on our experiences with Mark. Muffin our family cat came from his barn and has been with us for years. The kids remember going to his house and picking him out. 
 Personally, Mark had and continues to have a significant impact on my life. With the beautiful memories already shared I want to add to the chorus. He was a man of integrity, kind, considerate, always putting the patient first. I had the great privilege of working with him on difficult shifts in the ER, uncomfortable contract negotiations, and contentious group discussions. The measure of a man during adversity tells a lot and Mark set the bar on many occasions. I will always be appreciative of the blessing of having Mark influence my life for the better.
My sincerest condolences,
David Sorrentino

I remember Mark as a fierce competitor on the hard court at Potsdam High School in the little village of Potsdam, NY.  He played along side Scott Manske.  The 2 big men were both blessed with God given talent and made Coach Kmack's job a pleasure to watch from his vantage point.  In the mid 80s, Coach Kmack developed teams that went on to be reckoned with at the state level and his very first notable team was lead by none other that 6'6" Mark Nunge, whose presence in the paint (along with Scotty) made him virtually unstoppable.   I never knew Mark personally, but I did know his mom pretty well.  She was my 4th grade teacher at Lawrence Avenue Elementary School.  She taught me to believe in myself way back then and I will never forget her advice.  She was (and I'm sure, still is) a beautiful person both inside and out.  My condolences go out to her and the entire Nunge family.  Mark will be dearly missed by all who knew him.

I remember Mark as a young {handsome} boy coming to the Sunset Lodge in Norwood, N.Y. for dinner. Was always a pleasure to serve them. My deepest sympathies to his family.


I was stunned to hear of marks passing.  I’m also very impressed to learn of his accomplishments and how he has touched so many in the medical field. I am watching Iowa basketball very closely  now, as I’m sure Mark is. My deepest condolences to the Nunge family.  

Word of Mark's tragic passing came late to some of us in his native Northern New York.Memories of Mark are still strong here. I coached another high school in Potsdam's league and got to know Mark well through that and the Potsdam State basketball camp where we all coached players from other teams. As I remeber it Mark was very talented but a little more laid back than his coach wanted him to be. It all came together in his senior year when Mark took charge and led his team to a championship. What also stood out was his good sportsmanship and friendly demeanor. It was obvious that Mark had a bright future ahead of him. Reading all the memories posted here shows that Dr. Mark lived out a special life. 
To Mark's family I am very sorry for you loss and please know that he is remembered fondly and his accomlishments repected in Northern New York.

Beth, you have my sincere sympathies. I met you Central College as a classmate and through work in the athletic equipment room. May God be with your family. 

Beth & Family,
We have been thinking of you all and we are lifting you up in prayer. We are so blessed to have had the chance to become friends while we were both in Iowa City. Jessie and Brooke got to play sport’s together and we enjoyed family get togethers. You also opened your home to Chad’s team when they were in Evansville! We cherished time seeing you again!  We feel blessed we knew Mark and it was clear how important family was to him! We will continue to pray for you all. Our love and friendship, Chad, Jenni, Brooke, Brady, Blake & Beau Walthall

Emily and I have had several conversations about Mark and the Nunge family over the past 2 weeks ... our memories always surround volleyball.  Mark had such a tremendous presence when he was in the gym or around the court.  Always so calm (which was even more noticeable because I was usually pacing and handwringing).  He was very helpful when Emily started the recruiting process and provided us with much appreciated advice.  After each of Emily and Jessie's hard fought battles in high school (MHS v. Castle) he always had  positive words for Emily afterwards.  Finally - Emily likes telling the story about stepping on the sea urchin during the PR trip (where Emily got to be a Nunge for the week) and how Beth had Mark on the phone to walk her thru removing them with a knife.   The Nunges are a very special family and our hearts are truly broken for your loss, but there is no doubt that the love you share as a family and the memories you have of Mark will help you get through this.

Beth, 

My condolences to you and your family. I pray that the Lord provides peace and comfort to all of you.  I remember meeting Mark several years ago when the two of you were visiting Scott & Muriel in Cedar Falls. He was fun to visit with and enjoyed his sharing of how there are actually farms in New York but quite different than in Iowa.  Will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Mark and Cheryl Klahsen 

Dear Beth, 
we feel so sorry for you. As far as we remember, we met Mark only once in 1992 visiting your parents place. We remember him as a nice guy.  Too bad we never met again. Heike an I wish you and your kids all possible strength to survive this shock. 
Remember the good times you had and build on that. Our thoughts are with you, our prayers, too. 
Hope to meet you once again.

Heike and Menno Heite Müntinga
Germany

I grew up playing basketball with Mark in Potsdam. Being the tallest guy around often put a target on Mark’s back. He always faced the negativity directed at him with a calm composure well beyond his teenage years. During our Junior and Senior seasons our High School basketball team became a powerhouse in our league. Due in large part to the play and leadership of Mark we won the regular season title for the first time in twenty years. Earlier this year one of our first coaches George Gordon passed away. I like imagine George welcoming Mark to Heaven’s open gym. Reading the memorials posted before mine I enjoyed seeing how Mark impacted people in every aspect of his remarkable and accomplished life. Proud and honored to call him a teammate. 

Beth, my heart breaks for you and the kids.  The love you two had for each other and your family was extraordinary.  Mark will be desperately missed.
My strongest memory of Mark is from when you were dating.  We were playing football on mom and dad's front lawn on the farm and every time the football was thrown towards me I cowered and missed the ball because this giant boyfriend of Beth's would run screaming at me.  Even though all logic said he would never hit me, I couldn't get past the reality of him flying across the yard at me.  Every time he caught up to me and the dropped ball he would laugh and pat me on the back.  He was kind and gentle.... but a bit terrifying at a full sprint.    

Beth, Becca & family-
Our hearts are broken to hear of your loss.  We didn’t know Mark well but it was apparent to us how much he loved his family. Please know that we are thinking of you & praying for all. 

Sincerely,
John, Jeanne & Shelby Dewig

I had the pleasure of being a teammate of Mark’s at the University of Rochester. I will give some backstory to highlight his influence on me. I did not make my HS team and was not nearly good enough for the UR team when I tried out my Freshman year. Fortunately for me, they started a JV team during my junior year and I made it as a backup. My senior year was Mark’s Freshman year and he was ticketed to be key member of the varsity the moment he walked on campus. I returned to JV team as a Senior and had a good season, so Coach Neer promoted me to the varsity with a few weeks to go in the season as a reward. The entire team welcomed me with open arms but no one was more welcoming than Mark, Jonathan Jones and Adrian Smalls, all key contributors to a winning college team. I was on cloud nine to able to practice and dress for games and will never forget how included and accepted I was, even though I was clearly not as good as the rest of the varsity players. Even when I was still on the JV, I was treated like “one of the guys” by Mark and the other varsity players.  On Senior night, we were ahead by a good margin and I got in during the final minutes. I ended up scoring my only varsity basket and if you look at the picture, our bench is in the background and as I caught the ball to shoot, you can see Mark leaping to his feet in excitement. To me it is a snapshot of how giving, caring and supportive a person that he was to care so much about a “garbage time” basket scored by a late season call up. I was not surprised at all that he went on to a life of achievement, love and service to others. I cherish the time I got to spend with him. 

Heartbreaking.. So sorry for your loss. I worked with Dr. Nunge for 2 years at Gateway. I don't ever remember a cross work being spoken. He was kind to everyone and never treated you as if you were beneath him because he was a Doctor.. I will always smile when I see a kitten and think of him trying to find homes for them..  He truly was One of the Best...

Just like everyone else, our family is speechless.....our family moved to Newburgh approximately a year before you guys moved to Newburgh. Castle Women's basketball brought our families together.  Zuri became teammates with Rebecca and Zion and Jack quickly formed a friendship forged by the love of football!

Jack invited Zion over for a Superbowl party. When she returned home, all she talked about was how she had decided to become a doctor like Jack's dad!

Life caused our families to move in different directions. Yet, somehow,
 Jack and Zion  both ended up at the University of Iowa playing basketball! 
God!

Beth, we travel to Iowa City alot, let me know if you need anything or want us to take anything to Jack.


Sending prayers of comfort,

The Sanders Family, Vincent, Ulanda, Zebrie, Zuri, and Zion.

We have such great memories of how you guys just folded us in- inviting us to go ice skating at WashU, taking care of us in Atlanta during the Olympics, and especially on our two families’ vacation in Tennessee. Our kids still laugh about learning the Nunge family dinner rules- having to drink your full glass of milk, and how someone could eat your veggies for you as long as you didn’t ask them to!  So thankful our paths have crossed here and there over the years. We loved Mark’s intensity, the way he pulled you into a deep conversation, and his quick humor and banter. We love you, Beth. Your cheery disposition and smile.  We love your kiddos and have loved watching them from afar in their athletic endeavors. We are so thankful to know you and call you friends.  Even though we have only seen you  sparingly over the years, you hold a very special place in our hearts and always will. We  will miss Mark deeply.  Love you!  Troy & Vikki

I probably got to know Mark best over the past couple of years when he would come stay at our house to watch Jack's games at Iowa. He would always text at least a month in advance with arrival date, time and potential departure. He would inquire as to whether "his room" was available. Mark would joke and ask when he was going to get warm cookies on his pillow upon arrival. We would sit at my island and shoot the shit, talking for long periods of time about kids and life and Mark always had some advice or a new artist he thought I would like to listen to. He would go on his run which he called his "Laura Wolf loop". Each time he came, he would inquire as to whether I was able to pave the road (Maier Ave.) for him so he didn't have to run on gravel. I longed for the day I could tell him it was done...

I have had the privilege of working with Dr. Nunge the past ten years at Deaconess Gateway ER. He was a man of Integrity and a man who truly cared for his patients! It was not an uncommon occurrence to find him sitting right on the patient’s bed holding their hand as they shared their medical concerns. As one of the charge nurses in the ER, I will always remember his frequent calls to my phone as he said, “Tammy I need you to get involved in a situation for me.” He was also the master of sending his infamous doctor to nurse communications in epic! I remember the day he came in for his shift and I told him we received isolation gowns that were made just for him! They were pink and made from air bag material and he was the only one that could put it on and it wouldn’t hit the ground! Our ER family has truly suffered a great loss. My prayers and condolences to his family who he adored! May God comfort you as only He can do during this most difficult time. 

I remember one time when Beth was away on a gals tennis trip and Mark was home in charge of the kids (10 years ago or so).  Beth had called home to check on things and we could hear the conversation.  Mark was apparently “wearing the children out” by sitting in a lawn chair in the front yard, instructing the kids to get as many laps around the house as possible:).  He was a one of a kind guy, and Nunge family I am certain you have just gained the tallest angel in Heaven.  God Bless you all.....

Sitting here thinking after these beautiful pictures, that every morning my fun in a cup has taken on new meaning. Love you all!

I was lucky enough to get to work with Mark while the Nunge's were in Iowa, both as his resident and then as his colleague.  He was always such an amazing mentor.  He had such a depth of wisdom and was so thoughtful about how he navigated the world.  I'd go running with him when we weren't at work, and it was just great to be around him.  Often when we were talking I couldn't tell if he was being serious or not, not until his sly smile spread across his face.  Mark was such a role model, not only professionally but as a parent and a person.  I will miss him greatly.

I had the opportunity to meet Dr. Nunge through his children, whom I had in Choir class at Castle South Middle School.  Dr. Nunge  was always a very kind and gentle man.  Extremely supportive as well.  His wife and children were the same way, which tells me this was a family held together by a great love for one another.  I am deeply saddened for the Nunge family's sudden loss, and send my sincere condolences and prayers for them during this most difficult time.

Am saddened by the loss of Mark, who was a friend and medical school classmate at Wash U.  Still remember his wry sense of humor and his tall tales about basketball.  Along with everyone, we will miss him and know that he left the world a better place through his actions.  Wanted to express our sincere condolences to his family.

I met the Nunge Family through Evansville United . I never for get the time that he talked to me about  coming to evansville  and where I was from. Complement my daughter Clara regardless she was not the strongest on the team.... two months ago  I have to take my dad to the ER very sick and he explained to me  so well and with a kindness voice about my dad situation. He was sooo nice and Beth and Jessica as well... great family!!! I will always remember the Nunge’s. God wanted him at his side to early but the memories that I have about him will stay with me. 

A great guy and a great teammate.  Could be stern at times, but valued his teammates and took his position as Captain our Senior year very seriously.  Always greeted me with a smile and said, "JJ! What up?" My condolences and prayers go out to his family...he will be missed.

My condolences  to Mark’s wife, children and the Nunge family.  I was beyond saddened to learn of his passing. I played basketball  for three years with Mark at the University of Rochester. I remember like it was yesterday when he came up with his father to visit campus as a basketball recruit some 35 years ago.  It seems like yesterday.  When I first met Mark he was mature beyond his years, competitive, focused and very driven. He was no different when he played basketball at the U of R. He was a great teammate, and made all of us better both on and off the court. My prayers and thoughts to his family. 

Eddie Loos 


We saw Dr Nunge once at the ER. I didn’t know him personally otherwise, but I know of him through basketball and my oldest daughter goes to school with his youngest son.  I was so impressed by his genuine caring, gentle and kind way with my infant and me at the ER. He had such a way of making us feel calm in a scary situation. I felt like he really cared about us.  Not just as a job, but really cared for us as people that mattered...our feelings and our health, both.  I know he must’ve impacted many lives with his knowledge and kindness. That light will most definitely remain and keep shining on through his family, friends, patients and anyone who had the pleasure of meeting him.  From our brief encounter, I will always remember his kindness.  There were even a couple of times we saw Dr Nunge as he was on a run and I said to my older girls “oh there is Dr Nunge, who was so sweet to us at the ER!”.  He will be deeply missed by many. Praying for the Nunge family during this difficult time. 

When I came to visit the Nunge’s new house in Newburgh, I remember opening their pantry and noticing how nicely organized it was. There were multiple boxes of the same cereal stacked in front of each other and at least three gallons of milk in the refrigerator. I looked at Beth and that’s when I learned that Mark does ALL of the grocery shopping and he was meticulous. 

I also loved to have conversations with Mark because he always kept me on my toes. I would learn new things, laugh with him and sometimes question his motives. There were times I left a conversation with Mark needing to clarify with Beth on if he was serious or not. He could hold a straight face with the best of them and yet, I always had a soft spot for his beautiful mischievous smile too. 

I met Mark for the first time when we recruited his son Jack. After only meeting him briefly I knew that we were dealing with an amazing family and an honorable and loving father. It is no surprise to me that he is a physician whom so many speak so highly of and who found a place in the ERs of many hospitals. He was calm, compassionate, understanding, gentle and fiercely competitive and a doctor who would, I am certain, never give up on a patient. As a father and a husband, I know that those qualities were exhibited on a daily basis, as well as the unbounding  love he had for all of you. So many of his amazing characteristics are in Jack and each of your children. Beth, we hope you can take comfort in the strength, intelligence, compassion and humanity the two of you have bestowed on your children. Our hearts ache for you!  We will embrace all of you and welcome you into the Hawkeye family when you are ready. We love you and you are all in our best thoughts and prayers!

Mr. Nunge was one of the best people you could have ever met. I’m heartbroken with the loss of Mr. Nunge. He always took care of me when I needed something. I didn’t ever have to ask, he always came up to me to see if I was hungry at AAU tournaments when I played with Jack. He went out of his way to check on me every weekend at tournaments. He always looked out for me and I will forever be grateful for him for treating me like one of his own. 
Thank you Mr. Nunge,
Rest In Peace

Mark (aka Nunge to the UofR basketball family) first crossed my path during his senior year of high school during his on campus visit when he spent an overnight with me and Ed Loos on the River Campus.  What first struck me about Nunge was his maturity and poise at such a young age.  He wasn’t the typical high school senior.  He knew what his priorities were and he knew how to treat people.

Over the next few years, we were teammates, became close friends and were part of a tight knit family who always looked out for one another.  Mark was always pushing himself and in a no-nonsense and quiet demeanor pushed us all to be better.   His ethical and morale compass were unmatched.  

Nunge was a person you always wanted to be around because he was as solid of an individual you could associate with and was fun to be around him.  

I’m distraught over his passing.  Sometimes life isn’t fair and in this circumstance it clearly isn’t. There is nothing i can say to make anyone feel better other than my thoughts and prayers are with Mark’s family.  The man above clearly had a greater need for Mark to be by his side.

Nunge made the world a better place and he made all of us better people because of the time we spent with him.  I know his UofR basketball family will keep his memory alive. 

With a heavy heart,

Neil Augustine 

Dr. Nunge was the first physician I would call when something strange happened. He was readily available and always willing to help nurses. He was the first person I called when I thought I had a brain tumor (migraines) . He came to my wedding. He ultrasounded my daughter once a week when I was pregnant when he was learning ultrasound techniques. He has been greatly missed since he left Centra. 

Beth and family,
We were in shock when we heard about Mark’s passing. What a tragic loss for your family, our neighborhood, and the entire community.  We have always had such great respect for both of you as parents and neighbors.  We are always next door if you ever need us for anything at all.

Sincerely,  Mark and Trish Melchiors 

To the entire family I want to say how truly sorry I am for your loss.  
A special memory I have of Mark is him taking the time to walk down the bleachers and across the gym floor at Reitz High School to ask about my Mom's health.  My mom was not doing well and Jessica had told him.  Mom passed away that evening and Mark knew that in and amongst  teaching, coaching and going home to see my mom alive for the last time I was stressed.  His act of kindness left me with a special respect for an outstanding man.  
Prayers for Beth, Rebecca,  Jack, Jessica,  Bob and Joey.   

Ryan, Avery, Cade and I shared some of our favorite Mark memories with each other last night.  Avery started off with remembering how Mark made her finish her milk before she could leave the table.  Cade one-upped her by saying that Mark told him he had to finish his broccoli AND his milk before he could get up (this reminded me of how the Nunges always eat something green with every meal).  My memory was from one of the Thanksgivings we spent together.  Mark gave me a tutorial on how to properly load their dishwasher as apparently I was taking too much time washing the food off of the dishes before I put them in.  Ryan's story was the best...when Trey was about 3 years old, he shoved some beads up his nose.  Since we were unsuccessful in getting them out, we called Mark.  He was about to leave the hospital, so he came straight here with a tool he was hoping would work.  You can imagine this giant of a man on all fours on our living floor trying to extract beads from a 3-year-old!  The tool didn't work, so Mark told Ryan to cover Trey's mouth with his and blow as hard as he could.  Well, no bead came out but Ryan's face was covered in snot!  We all got a great laugh out of that.

Spending time with the Nunges is something we will never forget.  While we don't see each other as often as we used to, the love and respect we have for you has not changed.  We love you and will always be here for you.

Mark had an uncanny ability to make others feel truly cared for and was always so gracious, humble and kind in his interactions.

My favorite memories of Mark are the talks we had at his daughters’ basketball games.  When Becca and Jess were in high school, he handed a Werther’s candy to me before every game or at halftime if he didn’t catch me beforehand.  Sometimes we would talk for a while, but those halftime handoffs would simply be made with a smile that always seemed so genuine.
  
Most of the time we talked about basketball, whether it was the upcoming game or analyzing the last game played, and it usually included something about Becca or Jess.  He was so proud of his kids, but no matter how many times I would say how great Becca or Jess played, he was always humble and would add something positive about one of their teammates.  That’s just the kind of man he was, always gracious, humble and caring about others.

Sometimes, when I asked, he would provide parenting advice.  I’ve always admired Mark and Beth for raising such respectful, hard-working kids.  His advice - about basketball kids, or whatever we talked about - was always so insightful and thought provoking.

Whether a 2 second interaction with a warm, heartful smile from Mark, or a lengthy conversation, you always left feeling better in some way and that he truly cared about you.  I am sure he was the same way with all of his patients.

The world has lost a great man who touched so many lives in such a positive, kind and caring manner.  I will miss you, Mark, and am thankful for the time and interactions we had. 

To The Nunge Family:

My name is Brandon Harris. I work at Schnucks and I have waited on all of you and even spoke with Mark, Rebecca, Beth, Jessica and Jack about sports and school.

I am so sorry for your family's loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. May God give you all the most profound peace and comfort and surround you all with His love. Peace, Blessings and Love to you all.

In Deep Sympathy;
Brandon Harris 

He was a great doctor and a great man! I worked with him in 2004 at Lynchburg General Hospital. He was always willing to teach anyone that had a question, and he never forgot my name! He left a wonderful legacy, he will be missed.

Some of the most joyful times I have had at Deaconess ER was each, countless time I was able to witness Dr. Nunge sit right on the bed with his patients either patting their hand or rubbing their head while he listened to exactly what each of them needed. 
The world would be a much better place if there were more Dr. Nunge’s. 

My deepest sympathy and condolences to your family. 

You will forever be missed Dr. Nunge. 


Only had one opportunity to meet Dr. Nunge , in Deaconess Gateway ER.  So very attentive, thorough and kind to my husband.  Thankful for him.  Sincere appreciation and hugs to his family and friends.

I remember the first time I needed to bring my grandson, Kolten, to your house when I cleaned. Mark went out of his way to make him feel at home. He turned the tv on to something he liked to watch. He offered him food and told him to make himself at home. He checked on him through out the 6 hours I was there. The two of you have always made  my family and I feel like family. This loss is very tragic and hard to wrap my head around. I do know that he will be deeply missed.

As Mark’s pastor during our lives in Lynchburg, VA, he and I enjoyed many conversations at King’s Island sushi bar. In between California and Dragon rolls I learned important truths from Mark. He was a radical realist, believing that whether an ailment was physical, emotional, or relational, the first step in healing was to bring people to the place of what was real. Courage and honesty were required to be real with oneself and others. Mark also was a traditional practitioner of medicine who put his patients first, no matter how the currents flowed otherwise in the systems around him. Mark’s commitment as a husband and father reflected our shared belief that our wives and children were gifts of God’s grace to us. My family and I hold all of the Nunge family in our prayers and give thanks for all that Mark shared.  
- Rev. Dr. Tim Gerde

What an incredible human being! While he may not have been a favorite of administration, he was of the nurses he defended! And he shared his knowledge! From staff to EMS!  Not one to think he was better and we were dumb. He taught us so much and made us better! Lots of wonderful memories! But I'll just say fire alarm and those of us who know will smile and say, yep, sounds like Dr Nunge   🤦‍♂️🙅‍♂️🤷‍♂️!!  Rest in peace our friend and mentor.  👨‍🔬👨‍⚕️

From all of us in the Hawkeye community our thoughts and prayers go out to the Nunge family.   We are thinking about you in these trying times.   

I had the privilege of living with the Nunge family in Lynchburg, VA for part of my college career. I babysat Rebecca and Jack and had a small amount of time with Jessica until I graduated in 2002. The Nunge family took me in (and my friend PJ) as part of their family and some of the fondest memories of my time in college include them.  I remember many times thinking that I wanted to be like Mark and Beth one day. Their family values were and still are admirable. 

My distinct memories of Mark include many political debates at the kitchen table. He was always ready for a good discussion. PJ was usually trying to act distracted so as to avoid the sometimes tense banter and Beth was always in the background smiling adding just the right amount of humor. I LOVED our debates. Mark was one of the first people to ever challenge me on my beliefs. It wasn’t necessarily that he didn’t agree with me, but because he wanted me to be firm in my convictions and also wanted me to be my best.  Mark wanted the best for everyone. 

On a lighter note, another distinct memory of Mark was his fire-engine-red F-150 truck with a camper top that was always parked just so in the driveway.  He loved that truck...and we did NOT. I used to tell him it would be much cooler without the hard top but he couldn’t have cared less. I loved that quality about him. 

He also always took care of the little things, like making sure the fridge was stocked with Cherry Coke and Diet Dr. Pepper (PJ and my favorites) or calming me down when I most needed it - like when I visited two weeks before my wedding and broke my nose doing a flip on their trampoline (dumb decision...the kids made me do it).  His diagnosis, “Well, it’s broken, but you’ll be fine.”  He was always a realist. 

The world lost a tremendous man but he sure left behind an amazing legacy. Much love to the entire Nunge family.  I grieve with you all. 


 




I am so very sorry for Beth, the children, and the rest of the family. Mark was a brilliant physician and a wonderful, gentle man. I always appreciated his quick wit and his ability to find humor in virtually any situation. It was my good fortune to be his colleague and his friend. 
Mike Burnley 

The Nunge family has been such a blessing to this community. We are heartbroken over the loss of Mark. Mark has glued my sons nose at our kitchen counter, on Easter Sunday mind you, treated my daughter in the ER after she broke her arm, in which I made sure he was working before taking her in, taken calls and texts from me countless times asking for his professional opinion - I still go to the same ophthalmologist based on his recommendation. He was the first one to the floor when my son was bleeding from the nose and mouth last year at a basketball game - the one game I was not at. I found so much comfort in knowing that Mark was there and in his text message telling me everything was okay.  He had such a calming way about him.  Mark's random, kind, thoughtful and supportive text messages were always so appreciated but even more so now. I always said that if I ever ran for public office or needed a good reference, Mark was definitely my PR/hype guy! I miss him. We are sending our love, thoughts and prayers to the entire family. 

Beth and kids,

I always remember, very fondly, having numerous play dates at your house in Lynchburg. We always secretly hoped Mark would be home and not working the day shift. It was more fun with Dr. Mark around not only for the kids, but also for the moms having coffee around the table or on the porch. He provided laughter for all!  He also never minded making an ER visit to your home. You truly felt Mark's kindness and care ~ what he felt for you and others was always palpable.
We send all of you hugs, love, and prayers.
Fondly, Heather and John Barnard

Mark was one of the first players that I coached at UR.  He was also one of the hardest working, dedicated and passionate players I ever coached.  He led by his example.  My fondest memory of Mark was a game at NYU in my 2nd year as an assistant at UR--Mark's senior season.  It was very late in a closely contested game and we were having difficulty inbounding versus pressure in our defensive end.  After two unsuccessful attempts, we had yet another attempt from the deep sideline.  For some reason that I will never understand, I jumped off the bench and shouted out an inbounds play over Coach Neer that was normally reserved for the baseline.  Without missing a beat, Mark tossed a perfect length-of-the-court pass to a streaking teammate who completed the catch and the game-winning dunk!  It is a good thing too.  He probably saved me from getting fired on the spot!  Later that season one of our players forgot to pack his game shorts for a road contest at the University of Chicago.  He came to Mark in a panic.  Knowing that as a part-time assistant with a full-time job I would be traveling solo behind the team, Mark told the player not to worry.  "I'll take care of it."  He then went to our SID who called me.  I was able to get into the locker room, secure the game shorts and still make my flight.  The shorts made it to the game, the player got a few minutes of playing time, and Coach Neer never knew!  Rest in peace, Dr. Nunge!

Coach B

I worked with Mark in the Lynchburg emergency room. One of the best dr I have ever met. Always a smile and kind heart. He will be missed by many. Prayers and hugs to his family


Mark was a fantastic ER Physician,  he took care of several members of my family and was a great friend. 

I worked with Nunge back in the 90’s at LGH!  He was nothing but wonderful to his patients and co-workers!  I loved his enthusiasm for learning and teaching even his HUC’S ( health unit coordinators) !  He and I hit it off and joked!  I remember him saying my name like it was yesterday and his laugh was contagious!
Prayers for his family during this time.  Im so sad to hear this news myself!  May he live on through his kids and may his family smile remembering  his love for life!
Joanne from Virginia



My brother-in-law taught me one of most important lessons I've carried with me with through life.  He reminded me that people will almost always remember whose face they see and how they were treated during the worst or scariest moments in their life.  It may not be until it flashes back to them when you both happen to be walking through the mall, then randomly there you are, they see your face, and suddenly memories come flooding back to them.  You may not always remember that someone who very specifically remembers you, so how do you want them to carry their memory of you?   You, Mark, were a gentle, kind, compassionate soul who lived your life helping others first.

Also ... "Beth, who's down at the gym?"   
Thank you for giving me that giggle, Mark. 
I have not, nor will I, ever let that go.  It will always be my go-to thought of you and will always make me smile.  

What a wonderful doctor to have in the ER.  His beside demeanor and calmness made those situations easier.  I personally had him on Oct 28th when i had to be rushed to ER following complications after a surgery.  He was very informative , calm and reassuring. Thankfully i was able to go home that evening under his care.  I also had an opportunity to deal with him a couple of times over the last two years after my father had a stroke.  He and Dad talked basketball and Jack  I know your dad was so proud of your accomplishments.  I’m sure he was of each if his children.  May his work ethic and characteristics live in each if you.  We were truly blessed to have crossed paths with him at Deaconess. 

I'm so sorry for your loss. Dr. Nunge was my favorite attending in residency. I missed him a great deal after he left for Indiana. He was someone I could always count on to look out for the residents, stand up for us both in difficult cases and in making rules and policies for the residents. His teaching was fun, practical, and nuanced. I still think of his lecture every time I talk to a patient's family about giving clot busting medicine for a stroke. His teaching was always based in an ethic to the underserved and he was such a moral leader for us as learners and our department. He was great at seeing you as an individual, seeing your values, and guiding you accordingly. He will be greatly missed. 

I had the pleasure of working with Dr. Nunge at Lynchburg General Emergency Department for many years.  My very first "emergency" encounter with him as a brand new ER nurse, was not as emergent as I made it out to be. I yelled for a Doctor and in walks this giant of a man with a white lab coat, tie, and serious look on his face. He said "what do you have"? I  frantically told him, and he said "it's cherry kool-aid ".  Confused, thinking the patient had vomited blood, I looked at him and he once again said "kool-aid, always look at your patient Katie." And then he smiled with that sheepish grin he had, and walked out. From that moment on, he called me kool-aid and made fun of me, but that teachable moment was followed by so many more by him. He made me a better Nurse. He was a gentle giant with a gentle soul who I used to watch sit on the bedside of his patients and hold their hand while he was talking with them about their care. He exemplified what true caring and compassion really meant. He was a true Angel. Rest in peace in Heaven Dr. Nunge. We will all miss you. I pray for comfort for your family. 

I had the honor of working with Dr. Nunge in Lynchburg. I was working as Charge Nurse when this young  Doctor walked through the doors of our Emergency Department. He introduced himself to me and said, so Dot, tell me how this place ,"Really Works". We bonded at that moment.  He was  a very caring and competent physician, as well as a nurse advocate. He was also very personable.  He  was also a lot of fun. I always think of him at Christmas time because he and I would sing..Grandma Got Run Over By A Reindeer.  This always made us laugh.  Sending love and prayers to you..his beautiful family. God Bless.  

Beth and FAMILY... I am very sorry for your loss. I enjoyed visiting Mark at games, and saw him running many times. Hold tight to your heart all of your memories. He was a  wonderful man, I respected him. If you all need anything please let me know and I will do my best to help. You are all in my prayers!

I knew Dr. Nunge thru the emergency department of Lynchburg General Hospital. Undoubtedly the smartest physician I ever worked with.  He had a very dry sense of humor which just added to his personality. The world lost a great doctor and teacher. He will be truly be missed.

I worked with Dr. Nunge in the ED in Lynchburg. Virginia.  I remember him as a fine physician who knew to be "kind" to old, ED nurses.  My sympathy to his family, friends, co-workers and students.  The loss is great.

I worked with Dr. Nunge at Deaconess Midtown  ED up to last year.  He was very approachable and enjoyed answering any questions I had.  When he worked the occasional evening or night weekend option shift, We often discussed his colorful ties and matching socks!  Towards patients, Dr. Nunge was compassionate and could always be found sitting on the bedside.  He will be greatly missed!  Prayers for the warmth of Jesus Christ to surround his wife and children.   

Dr. Nunge taught me so much as New nurse when I started at Lynchburg General. He was always willing to share his knowledge and for that I am eternally grateful. I know he will be missed by so many people. My condolences for his family. 

I did not know Mark, but I knew of him. Many years ago my daughter spent the night with the Hames family in Lynchburg. Later that night I found out that my daughter had a very strange accident that Mark took care of on his kitchen table! It appears that she was playing with a wire necklace she was wearing. She had it in her mouth and  somehow it lodged in her throat!  He carefully removed it and she went about her business. I know that I thanked him, but it probably wasn’t enough. I wanted to share this very unusual story about this compassionate doctor who helped my child in his own home instead of sending her to the ER. He will forever be in my thoughts and prayers.❤️

I worked with Mark in the ER at Lynchburg General. He was a great physician and treated the staff as family.  My thoughts and prayers are with his family at this sad time.  He will be missed by his work family too.

I finished my residency this past summer and began working with Dr. Nunge in the ER at Deaconess. As I attempted to navigate my first post-residency position, Mark was a comforting and supportive colleague and friend. 

Mark made a lasting impression on me in the few months that I was gifted with the opportunity to work with him. He taught me invaluable lessons regarding patient care that will continue to guide me in his absence. During our last shift together, he printed out several articles for us about promising interventions for those fighting COVID-19, and he presented his opinions, demonstrating his continued passion and dedication to our field. I will always cherish his insight and will seek to emulate his excellence in patient care. 

I offer my prayers and well wishes to Mark’s family. He made it clear, even in the short time that I knew him, how much he loved you.


Dr.  Nunge was great! I worked with him over the past 5 years in the emergency department with mental health patients. He was always an advocate for them, and would often want more for them than they did even! He was truly a caring guy who will be deeply missed by his work family. My heart aches for the loss his home family is feeling. May you find comfort in the days ahead.

Grace and peace to you all as you grieve Mark's death, give thanks for his life, and entrust him, and yourselves, to a merciful God. You are in the thoughts and prayers of many Iowans. 

Mark was a talented ., intelligent , competitive high school basketball player that I recruited to The University of Rochester.  He had  the unique combination of classy gentleman off the court and relentless competitor on the court . All of us who competed along side of mark were so proud of him  and impressed with his career and family . My deepest sympathies to his mom and dad ,who were wonderful parents and to his loving family ! Mark was the student , athlete and man we want all of our young men to become . 
   Respectfully 
     Jay Wright 

When my son was 4, I took him into St Mary’s ED because he suddenly quit walking and in severe pain. Dr Nunge walked in and was so wonderful to Myles (my son). My husband was out of town. I was a young mom and scared. He put us all at ease, sat on the side of the bed and let my cry while he told me everything was going to be okay. 

A man with such presence, yet gentle and calming. He told us about your kids and how wonderful they were. 

My son (14), an avid basketball fan, now follows the Nunge clan. He still remembers Dr Nunge and talks about that visit and says that Dr Nunge was such a good doctor! 

My heartfelt condolences to your entire family. Such a wonderful man, leaving us too soon. Sending prayers and hugs to you all! 

Mark and Beth were often my travel companions and watching buddies when our oldest daughter's played volleyball in middle/high school. His dry humor and calm demeanor always added to the enjoyment of the day. But most of all he won over my younger daughter with his banter and the sly passing of Werther's originals; you could tell he got a kick out of it!  A fun little something that meant a lot.  For that and so much more sir, you will be missed.   God Bless - The May Family

I will always look back & cherish the memories of my Uncle Mark . Whether it was our family trip to visit Beth in St.Louis where I first met Mark , Amanda and I being flower girls in their wedding, visiting them in Atlanta and they went with us to the Olympics, or visiting them in Lynchburg and Mark slipped me some spending money for our trip to DC before we left.  

He always was considered the ‘fun’ uncle.  I often think about our extended family vacations & he always loved driving the pontoon .

One summer I decided to bring my ‘boyfriend’ (my now husband) along to our family trip .  Mark let Dusty drive his excursion and Dusty ended up rear ending  a pole in the parking lot with it and denting the bumper. Mark was so calm and said ‘ oh well no big deal’ . We laugh about it now . 

Sending love & Thinking of you Beth, Rebecca, Jack, Jessie, Bobby, & Joey . 

❤️ Tessa , Dusty, & Daxson




Deepest condolences to Mark's family, friends, and colleagues; this is such a terrible loss. Mark and I were anatomy class partners as first year medical students, which occurred simply because our last names were in alphabetical succession. Nonetheless, we developed mutual respect and studied quite a bit together. I learned a lot from him, in part because his approach to studying was so methodical. He was generous enough to invite me play intramural basketball with him and other medical students, even though I can't even dribble, perhaps in part to help gently introduce me to my then future wife. Mark was always so cool, calm, and collected. I secretly was hoping to run into him after retirement, to share stories and reflections, but now mourn the loss of that possibility.  

Beth, Jack, Rebecca, Jessie, Bob, and Joey- words just cannot express how very sorry that I am to hear about Mark.  He was always larger than life and I pray that you will fill the hole in your hearts with the memories of him.  

I was a medical student rotating in the ER at UIHC when I met Mark.  I remember that he told me how much he loved having a patient with a dislocated shoulder because it was so satisfying  to be able to put it back into place and help them feel better immediately.  That was only second to giving someone in acute heart failure Lasix and watching them go from feeling they were drowning to being able to breathe comfortably.  He loved medicine, he loved teaching, and he was great at it.  

I remember Mark as a dad- talking to me about putting into check my selfish desires that my kids would be great at sports -- namely basketball.  He reminded me that my job as a parent was to support them regardless of if they love to play or not.   

I remember going skiing in Dubuque with all of our kids and Mark brought five meals to the table and set it in front of his kids and said, "Eat up."  He didn't ask them what they wanted, he just brought them food and expected them to figure it out.  I asked him in astonishment how he pulled this off without a mutiny.  He replied simply, "You get what you get and you don't throw a fit."  You can ask my kids, I have repeated this phrase to them often and always think of the way that Mark and Beth have been some of my most impactful parent role models.   I will miss you Mark.  Thanks for everything.  

It was a pleasure working with Dr Nunge over the years at Deaconess. Great physician who really cared for his patients.  When I had a question about anything he would always take the time to explain. I will truly miss seeing him in our department. Prayers for this family during this difficult time. 

If you were a teammate, classmate or friend of Mark’s at the UofR, your college experience was immensely enriched. While always the brightest in the room (including professors), he warmly engaged with anyone…the referees, trainers, opposing players…and was equally kind to all, whether the stars or scrubs. While Mark played freshman year and I rode the pine, Mark taught me there is honor in sitting on the bench if I brought out the best in my teammates by dogging them every minute in practice. Boy did that pay off, along with so many acts of friendship, both on and off the court. Mark was a constant force of encouragement, leadership and admired by all who knew him on campus. What I cherish the most are all the friendly arguments about (seemingly) profound things on long walks to class, miles on the bus to away games or late into the night in our dorm. Every word and act mattered and had meaning to him and yet, while intensely genuine and serious, God did Mark love to laugh. He enriched all who knew him at the UofR, everyone of whom had no doubt about the amazing life-force Mark would be to his family, friends, colleagues and community. Beth, my heart breaks for you and the kids. Our prayers are with you all.

The very first time I met Dr. Nunge I was a student nurse and Dr. Nunge was one of the first to introduce himself kindly to me and welcomed me to the Emergency Department. At first I thought I would be intimidated, but then quickly realized there was nothing to be scared about! One day early in my career he told me I looked like a young Elizabeth Shue. And his personality shined through when he then jokingly made fun of me because I had no Idea who Elizabeth Shue was. That was kind of the running joke between him and I for a while because he would call me Elizabeth instead of my actual name! I am truly so beyond sorry for the loss of Dr. Nunge. I just wanted to post this and let his entire family know that I am thinking of you all and praying for your strength in this horribly difficult time.  

We worked together in the UIHC ED when I was new and finding my way. He was always a sweet, funny, down-to-earth person and encouraged me. He was very caring and supportive of patients and his co-workers. I am grateful to have known him. I am so sorry for your loss! 

One of the first things I would do when beginning a shift in the ED was check to see which doctors were on. I was always happy to see Dr Nunge's name up there. I found him incredibly direct, and easy to talk to. He always expected an explanation or reason for everything but it was not because he didnt care, it was because he cared so much about what happened to the patients and also your understanding of ....well everything!

So many wonderful stories about Mark, but one of my favorites is from about 13 years ago.. Holly and Rachel were hanging out at our house, and Rachel was playing with her wire necklace.. somehow it got hooked to the back of her Uvula. Brian and I raced to the Nunge house, where Mark pulled out his pliers and all the Nunge kids gathered to watch their dad pry the wire necklace out! I remember cheering and a rousing my Hero chorus!! 
But that was Mark all the time!
When I had chest pains, the other two (non ER) MD’s in the neighborhood said... we have know idea what’s wrong we need a real Doctor, someone call Mark and see if he’s at the hospital! (Of.course he was and yes he healed me)!
When my mother in law was dying at our house, we made sure that Mark  was on call, and he was there for her too! The stories are endless, the memories will never ever fade!! A giant of a man, who hugged like he meant it, loved his family fiercely and was one of the kindest most honorable men I’ve ever had the good fortune to call friend! My wonderful friend, my heart is broken. Rest In Peace!! 

My heart aches for the Nunge family in the loss of Dr. Nunge. 

I think I’ll always remember Dr. Nunge first as a volleyball dad. Always observing and pacing quietly in the corner of the gym. Becca’s freshman year of high school, there was a match in which she was blocked a few times in a row (sorry Bec). I remember strategically telling her to try to tip once or twice after this, but she turned around and said “My Dad always tells me to keep swinging.” I look back on that now, and I cherish that, because it means his kids know how much he believes in them. I think that’s such a huge part of the making of a great young athlete - and anyone who knows Castle sports know that these kids are some of the best - knowing that their parents believe in them. Believe, as in present tense because now Dr. Nunge is sitting court side in heaven. Or let’s be real, standing in the corner for Jess’ FSU games. 

I remember a shift in the Gateway ER as an undergrad nursing student, and Dr. Nunge pulled me into several different rooms to see interesting things. Though I never worked beside him, I believe he had to be one of the best. 

Much love to the Nunge family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. 


I will miss my son in law mark.  He always ready to help when ever needed .   Especially when I got sick in Thailand  and I thank him and Beth  for help getting me home as along with Tom .He was a great influence on all of his children.    We will all miss him greatly

Dr. Nunge was an inspiring man. We are beyond grateful that we were able to share some time with him this summer. He welcomed us with open arms and made us feel at home. His laugh lit up the room. The way that Rebecca speaks about him is moving. She looks up to him so much, and we could tell every word he said resonated with her. The stories she would tell us of him, from the way he met Beth to the stories of him at work dedicating his time to his patients made an impact on us and inspired us to want to be better ourselves. We are grateful to have been able to meet him and we know that his name will continue to live on through the endless incredible stories that there are. Rebecca is one of the most strong, hard working, dedicated people we have ever met. We have no doubt she will follow in her father’s footsteps in becoming an amazing physician. We wish we could have spent more time with Dr. Nunge, but we will cherish every moment we have with Rebecca and the Nunge family. 

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Nunge family during this difficult time.  

Very sad to hear of Mark passing. He was very influential to me professionally and personally at Iowa . I always enjoyed working with Mark and hearing about and learning about his approach to medicine . I have especially fond memories of a conference in Washington DC - we had a great day  touring the city and visiting the monuments. Will truly miss him.  My Condolences to his family.

I was always happy when I arrived at work in the ER  and saw that Dr. Nunge was working that shift with me. He was an amazing doctor, and an awesome teacher. He’ll always be known for his compassion, his calm demeanor even in the midst of chaos, sitting on the side of the bed holding the hands of his patients, his white lab coat paired with his awesome ties, & his specific instrument set-up for suturing. He loved to tease me that he was older than me! (Even though it was only by 3 months.) 

My prayers are with your family during this sad time. Thank you all for sharing him with the world. We are all better people and more knowledgeable because of him.

Carol Wheeler, RN

Mark was one of the most compassionate and caring people we knew. We have heard countless stories of how he got many people through scary situations in emergency room. He was also a tireless booster for Castle Athletics. He will be greatly missed but has left a tremendous legacy for his family. Prayers to all in the Nunge family! We are here for you! 

I loved the conversations I used to have with him during volleyball seasons. I was always better off for having the conversation with Dr. Mark - whether it was something philosophical or just playful banter, he always managed to life my spirits. My favorite memory was asking him why he moved around so much in the gym during volleyball matches as compared to staying stationary during basketball games. His response, "Volleyball makes me nervous." I was blown away - never perceived him as ever being nervous about anything - let alone a volleyball match. Love the Nunges!

Beth and Family, 
I am shocked and saddened to hear of Mark's passing. I have many fond memories of him during medical school. He could be intense when studying or fun-loving while playing intramural basketball -- but no matter what, he was always kind. I was happy to meet up with you all again in Iowa City and thrilled to hear of all your kids' successes. You are in our prayers.


Beth and family,

We are so devastated by the news of Marks passing.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you.  In Marks name we have made a donation to St Judes Childrens Hospital. 

May God hold you all a little tighter in his steadfast love. 

Jim and Lori

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Dr. Mark Richard Nunge

August 29, 1967 – November 21, 2020

Alexander Funeral Home-Newburgh Chapel

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