Pamela is survived by her beloved husband Fritz/Fred, their daughter Jamie their son Ryan, Sadie the grand dog, her twin sister Patte and sister Lyn. Her parent’s Lu and Bert and three brothers Don, Mike and Greg who await her in heaven. Along with other family who have preceded her in death. She is survived also by her amazing sister in-laws and their spouses and generations of cousins, nieces and nephews. As well as her four legged grand babies Brandi and JoJo now with her.
It would be wrong to say that pam lost her battle because she never stopped fighting. No matter how sick she was, she was always determined. When anyone else would have broken, pam stayed strong. Through her, we know what resilience and perseverance truly look like. There was no quit in pam. Just because she is no longer physically here, it doesn’t mean she lost her fight. When you die it does not mean that you lost to cancer. You beat cancer by how you live, why you live and the manner in which you live.
Pam loved well, she adored her family and loved them as a faithful wife and mother giving selflessly to each of them. She encouraged and lifted others in their times of need. She was “mom” to all her kids’ friends. She got her strength of this beautiful endless ability to minister from her savior Jesus. But even before knowing him she worked tirelessly to love them all fully.
Pam loved to line dance to country music. The Cha Cha Slide, Cupid Shuffle and the Wobble, and loved to Zumba to Fire Ball with her Zumba gals. An avid animal lover and karaoke queen. Belmar beach trips with her daughter, concerts with her son and LBI summers with her husband, family and their friends and all the family get togethers with loving extended family.
We know there was a beautiful place prepared for her. Maybe with horses nearby, a butterfly garden, waves crashing just outside her window, a juke box playing ‘Prop me up’ and a vacancy next door for reserved for her twin.
No one will fill her place in the hearts of those that knew and loved her. Pamela was a beautiful treasure given to all of us and taken too soon.
If you wish to pay your respects join us Tuesday March 2nd, 10am – 11am at Risen King Alliance Church. 190 New Hempstead Rd. New City N.Y. 10956. Open to the public.
The family will be having a private viewing and memorial service.
In lieu of flowers please send donations in Pamela’s’ memory to Pet Rescue, Westchester or Hi Tor Animal Shelter and/or United Hospice of Rockland.
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