Big 3-0 Coming up! Miss you every day bro. <3

Just read through some letters you’ve sent me. I will miss our jokes and laughter more than anything. Always, always thinking of you, brother. xoxo 

My sincere condolences to the family and friends may you endure this difficult time. 
Phillipians 4:6,7

NC

My deepest sympathies for your loss!
God cares about you. 
And find comfort in knowing that He is close to the brokenhearted.
—Psalms 34:18.


Emma wrote a poem tonight that she wanted to share:
He lays looking sound asleep 
He looks safe and sound
But now he is no longer around 
I wish we were still close
I'll miss you most 
I could hear whispers
He was the best that Chris
Today and forever you will be missed
   
Chris made such an impact on our lives in a short amount of time. We instantly loved him and always laughed with him. RJ is still going to send snaps because telling him would break his heart. Chris will live on in our ever fond memories...memories that make us smile and laugh till we cry. 

Chris, 

It seems so unreal to even be writing this right now...
You were always a blast to be around. You had this energy about you that was so whimsical and light hearted. You always had a funny comment or a joke to share.
 The last time I saw you was at West Sevs a few months ago... more of just a passing "see you around!" -- It's such a shame to think I'll never just bump into you again. 
I can still remember me and Alyssa screaming at the top of our lungs in your backseat that night when you floored it over the Patchogue jump on our way back from an unnecessary trip to McDonalds.  Got all 4 wheels of that Buick off the ground, while "A Thousand Miles" by Vanessa Carlton was blasting over the radio. All the great times at Alex & John's, letting us borrow "scalf",  telling me about Ted Talks and how much better Androids were. Walking past my house,  seeing me in my front yard and asking me if I was following you, Lol.  I could go on and on...So many good times and memories man. 

Rest in Peace to one of the funniest people I've ever had the pleasure of knowing & calling a friend. 

You will be missed & remembered. 

:'( ~Erin 


To My Buddy, 

The past four days have been a blur. It still hasn't hit me that your gone. I'm no stranger to death but I have never lost a friend.  I keep grabbing my phone to text you "Hey Big Willie Style" or something silly like that. Then we'd continue to talk about 90's nostalgia, the sims or whatever conspiracy was on my mind at the moment. You were a true friend. Someone who was always there. Someone who never EVER judged. You had a big and wonderful heart. You had an innocence about you that was unfortunately tainted by a larger epidemic I will never understand but so desperately wanted to help you with.  You were able to help so many others around you, including me. You taught me so much about myself. I will be forever grateful for that. 
You were SO smart. Too smart for your own good. There were so many things to love about you. Your sense of humor, your quick wit, your love for Buicks, your sarcastic remarks. I can still hear it all. "This man" Two words people say everyday, but you turned it into a a phrase I will say for the rest of my life. THIS MAN. I think the jokes we've shared have helped a lot. I don't think I'll be able to watch NEWS 12 without thinking of you. Watching Ken Grimble hearing "he's corrupt". I've been going through old messages and comments, it's difficult of course, but then the laughter starts and doesn't stop. Little by little the memories start to come back and they will never go away. Thank you for everything. 
Chriiiiiiiiiis, I will never ever forget you. 

Be at peace, Buddy. I love ya. 

Sarah

In loving memory of our cousin Chris who always filled the room with lightness and laughter. We will always remember your jokes, pranks, and the warmth you shared with everyone around you.
Love,
The Hand family and Kate & Stephen

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OK CJ, 
I don’t think I am ready to write this but I’ll try. It still honestly hasn’t hit me that you’re not coming back. I still just think I’m away at school or you’re out somewhere and you’ll be barging into the door any minute. I am sure one day within the next few weeks I’ll actually realize I lost my best friend, but right now I’m still so mad at you. You weren’t supposed to leave us this soon. You are supposed to be blowing up my phone with Abfroman lyrics or eating cheese on FaceTime, or exchanging glances when mom and dad say some bull. Who am I going to do that with now? You left me with both of them, jerk. Whiskers also lost the ONLY person who will ever stick their fingers in his ears to clean them. 

I know you were battling these demons for so long, but damn Chris you were smart enough to beat this. It’s not fair how witty and intelligent and funny and charming you are, and you’re still not given your chance of a full life. I know you felt like you were losing pieces of yourself over time and we’re struggling to get them back, but I just wish you knew how many people loved you and wanted to see you succeed. You had a heart of pure gold, and even if I got better grades and followed the rules, you lived more compassionately, and I would prefer that any day. You could talk to anyone, you could make them laugh, you could make them feel better if they were down, and you put time and attention into someone who needed it without asking for anything in return. You put unmatchable effort into others, and I wish you put a fraction of that into yourself, because you were worth it. Now you’re forcing me to step up to the plate and be like you as much as I possibly could. I’ll never compare but like always, you will remain my biggest role model. 

Chris you filled our hearts and household with lots of love and laughs.  To say you will be missed is an understatement. You were one intelligent man with the biggest heart. I will keep our memories forever in my heart. My deepest condolences to Parrie and family. 

It’s the BIG POP! Waddup heff lol. I already miss you my brother. Really not sure where to start. I can say the past 6-7 years of my life, you’ve played a tremendous part which led to you becoming a brother to me. Your family became mine as mine became yours. Having hundreds and countless of memories from me doing random couch  deliveries before we started our school journey, to both of us starting a brand new unfamiliar chapter with unfamiliar people and then realizing we’ve crossed paths before; to then road trips to Canada, Ice Bars and being interrogated for hours because we were college kids; and then back to Long Island to figure out the next phase of our lives. From making jokes about you having a young heff rolling around and same for me, all with the hopes of looking in the future just so we can look back and say we did it bp! Your final words to me were, “never stop bp,” and I’ll certainly keep going. Even on days where I may want to quit, but because of you, I can’t.  One thing you’ve taught me is how nice we should be to one another in this world and remain consistent. The impact you’ve left on others and myself included, we can guarantee  you will live on with us.  Till we meet again, Ayo bp!....“What fool?!”

I love you bruh! 

“iight fool, I love you too lol!”

There was never a dull moment with Christopher, he always had me laughing no matter what time of day.  He always cared about everyone else before him, he was such a kind, gentle, loving soul. My sympathies to Parrie and family,  you will always be in my heart. Christopher will forever be missed.

My Deepest Sympathies 
Jennifer Falco 



Dear Parrie & Family,

My family was devastated to learn about Chris.  I know how difficult it is for and your family please know that we share your sorrow and that our prayers are with you and your family.  Chris was such a warm and loviing person who will be missed by all who knew him.

Our Deepest Sympathies,

Larry & Sheila Falco

Dear Parrie and family,
I am sitting in my den and thinking just of you. I am heartbroken for you. I always think of how you raised your children in your lovely home, went to work,started a catering business and so much more to set them on their way. I am with you today and everyday thru your sorrow. Know that I am praying to God to give you continued strength this day and for the days to come. Love Carol,Bob and family.

OBITUARY

Chris Aanonsen

November 6, 1993 – April 20, 2018

O.B. Davis Funeral Homes - Miller Place

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