Dear Mr.Pat and Mrs. Debbie,
Tim and I are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Tim really loved matt like a brother and will miss him very much. I'm sorry we weren't able to be at the funeral - we did not know. I'm glad I got to know Matt and we will both miss him very much. God bless, Kendra and Timothy Tegtmeier

Dear Pat,Debbie,George,Gail,Joe,Debbie & all family members,
Please accept our sincere condolences on your loss of Matt.
Words cannot express what you all are going through.
You are all in our prayers.
Love, Jeannie & Tony Ruda

Dear Pat and Debbie, My Dad, Charlie Walters shared with me the news about Matthew.  I am so sorry for your loss.  I will pray for his soul and light a candle within my parish.  May God comfort you during this difficult time and heal your hearts.

Pat and Debbie, we are so very sorry for your loss.  We pray that God will comfort your pain and give you peace.
Brenda & Tommy McDaniel

I miss you Matt. You and I made it through some wild times. We looked up to each other. I still look up to you. You will always be my homie. Forever & Always. 80's Baby!

Pat and Debbie....Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with both of you during this difficult time. May God bless you both and give you strength and peace.

Matt, my thoughts and prayers are with you and you family. You were such an amazing person and we will never forget you... You and Mike will always have a special place in my heart and everyone else's too... With love
-Taralynn Brignac

May the wind always be at your back and the sun upon your face, and 
may the wings of destiny carry you aloft to dance with the stars. Rip Buddy!

I am so sorry for your loss.  No words can ease the pain you and Debbie have at this time.  Remembered you are Loved.

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Our thoughts are with you. So sorry for your loss.

Debbie and Pat I am sitting here not knowing what to say. I am in Singapore feeling helpless because I can't be there with you. My heart goes out to the both of you at this time. I have talked to you both all day today in my head. I hope someway you know that. I have it pictured that Mathew and Michael are together now. They are your 2 angels that will take care of you both. Remember I am always here for the both of you. Gary sends his thoughts and prayers to the both of you.
Love you both,

Nanete and Gary

Our thoughts and prayers are with you Pat and Debbie.  We are so sorry for your loss and pray that you can find peace.  We ask for God to have his hand upon you, give you peace, comfort and solice in your life.  We love you both.

Matthew, ...  ENJOY YOUR JOURNEY WITH JESUS CHRIST... SPREAD YOUR WINGS AND FLY WITH THE ANGELS... GOD BLESS YOU.

We are very sorry for your loss.  There are no words to ease your pain.  In time the memories that dance in your head and tug on your heart will once again bring smiles and joy.  We pray God, family, friends and sweet memories can comfort your hurting hearts.  I hope you can find comfort from "REMEMBER ME AND I WILL LIVE FOREVER".  Our Jake was waiting to welcome your Matt.  God bless your families.

Our Sympathy,
Another Grieving Family

Thoughts and prayers go out to the family. A special place in my heart, is where you will remain. You always made me smile, no matter what. I'll never forget you. Love you Matty~

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Matthew Matt Samuel Milam

November 9, 1986 – October 21, 2011

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