Becky, I am sorry to hear about Patrick. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. 

Pat I love you bro.   Thanks for sharing your life with me the memories will never leave me.   Ft Walton beach , lalapolusa ,Jimmy buffet, grateful dead, the festival in the hills.   We did it all.  Thank you for teaching Jason Orthober and myself to set a volleyball,  save us a spot on that sand volleyball court in heaven. 

Dear Becky & Baynham,

     Our hearts go out to you.  You have been in our thoughts since we 
learned of Pat's passing.   Please know you and Pat are in our 
prayers.

With Sympathy,
Jinks & Jim 

I do hate that my Work friend for many years at Suburban then at Lincare is gone.   He was a kind and loving man and it breaks my heart.  He loved talking about his parents and their travels.  We joked about so many things with Larry in our tiny office.  Rest In Peace Dear Friend.  God Bless You.   

Dear Ed and Becky,

My heart literally stopped  when I read this in the paper.  Pat had a place in my heart always, from the time he was a young boy coming over to our house until the time he saved my life in the hospital. 
Know that you are in my thoughts  and prayers and I pray for God’s comfort and peace to be with you.
We will always and forever remember Pat’s kind loving heart.  With love,  John and Linda Schulz 

Patrick was a loving, sweet, kind person. He will be greatly missed. We are praying for you, Baynham and Becky, and for Patrick's soul.

Mr. and Mrs. Spalding,
I am truly sorry for your loss. Pat was a great guy who I owe for some of my fondest childhood memories. He  had an infectious smile that always made things better. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. 
John Plumeri

I am so saddened to hear this news. He was a wonderful young man. I greatly enjoyed having him in my classroom. I vividly remember how his face would light up when he had something to contribute to our classroom discussions or when he would approach my desk with something to share with me.  He always had such a kind way about him. Bless him and his soul. Sadly God has a special new angel.

Dear Becky and Baynham
I am so very sorry to hear of Patricks  passing, you have my deepest sympathies. He will be missed by many.

Melanie Clayton

Becky and Baynham, We are very sorry to hear about Pat. He was a very kind person that always greeted you with a wonderful smile.  We have many good memories of times at St. Barnabas and Casswood Drive.  May the Lord bless and comfort you and your family during this time.
Please accept our sincere condolences,
The Kilcourse Family

Pat was one of the greatest cousins you could have. He was always funny and great to be around.  He will be greatly missed. Our deepest sympathies and prayers are with Aunt Becky and Uncle Bayham in this time of need. 
Love, Todd and Val  

Every time Patrick and I crossed paths, he always brought a smile to my face.

Your neighbors,
Theresa and Sam Jensen

Becky and Baynham,   Larry and I are so sorry to read about the death of Patrick.  Your family  are in our prayers.  
Love,  Mary Jo and  Larry Rodgers





I was so sorry to hear of the passing of your son. No human words can ease your pain at this time only God can comfort you and he will be with you during every step of this journey.

I only knew Pat for about 3 years, but for half of that time, his desk was next to mine at the Census Bureau.  I appreciated his smile and his sense of humor, and he was a great guy to work with.  Pat gave me important information that was priceless in helping my son deal with the VA for his PTSD issues, and there is no way I could repay him for that. Hearing the news of his passing was a huge shock to me.  My thoughts and prayers for peace and comfort are with you.

To The family of Patrick B. Spalding :

Sending my deepest sympathies to you in this time of sorrow. 

I worked with Patrick at NPC. 

May he Rest In Peace!

Respectfully, 

Becky and Ed,
I'm sorry to hear of the loss of Pat. I can't imagine that kind of loss and pain. Pat was such a kind, sweet young man. My prayers for you now and in the days ahead. I really miss you all!
Love and Prayers,
Linda Dennis 

There just are no words to say how sorry we are.  I know you must be in shock, but I hope it helps to know how many people are praying for you and keeping you in our thoughts.  You know we are here for you and share your sorrow.  He was such a nice guy and always fun to talk to. He will be missed by all of us.  God bless you.

Becky and Baynham,

We just don’t have the words to express how sad we are about your loss of Pat.

I do remember that he really enjoyed our Wednesday night dinners.  
We always enjoyed talking with him.

You are in our prayers.
We Love You.
Roland and Barbara


Dearest Becky and Baynham,

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.  My heart is breaking for you.  I remember the many times that your son joined you at Sunday Service, and I was always so glad to see him there.

May God bless and give you peace.

With love,
Mae Duke O'Brien

OBITUARY

Patrick Baynham Spalding

October 28, 1969 – October 22, 2020

Arch L. Heady and Son Funeral Home & Cremation Services

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