Hard to believe it’s been three years since Bobby passed away November 30th. Gone way too soon and missed by so many. May he realize how many souls he touched on earth. Rest in peace with Don, Foof & Renaldo❤️

Bobby, You are missed everyday. I know you are making the angels laugh with your sense of humor and shining a bright light with your smile. Love, Ginny

Bob,
I hide my tears when I say your name, but the pain 💔 in my heart is still the same. Although I smile and seem care free, there is no one who misses you more then me.  God looked around his garden and found an empty place, He looked down upon this earth and saw your tired face. He touched you with His finger and place His arms around you, and lifted you to rest, God's garden must be beautiful for He always takes the best.
Remembering you is easy, because I do it everyday, but missing you is a heartbroken 💔 that never goes away.
With all my ❤️ and Blessings 🙌 🙏 ✨️ to you, Mom, Dad, and Don in your Heavenly home above.
Eternal love ❤️grant to them Oh Lord
With all my love
Little big sister, Rosie

Bob,
Thinking of you today as I always ❤️ do and another day of missing you 😔 . 
I am still learning to live in a new way, since that day you went away. With so many things left unsaid, but knowing  I get to say them with every tear I shed.
I'm embracing this pain, yet knowing that you will always live in the memories which remain.
Always in my heart ❤️ 💙 little big brother for my love is eternal. Our bond remains throughout the years with your little signs each day, that I hold so dear. I truly try with my every being to Pray 🙏  your in God's keeping, with peace, love and Blessings in your Heavenly home.
God Bless, God Speed, as fly high with the Angels. 
Loving you through all eternity. 
Much love and Blessings to Mom, Dad and Don.
Always your little big sister 💓
Rosie

Bobby: you always had a smile on your face in Junior High and High School; you’re still missed and loved.

Happy 65th Birthday in heaven Bobby. Here is a photo from your surprise 40th. That party  was one of the happiest memories with you. Your million dollar smile was in full force all night celebrating with friends and your family. You are so missed and will remain in the hearts of many. Keep those 44’s coming. Nancy❤️

Happy Birthday in Heaven dear Bobby.  There’s so much I’ve been wanting to share with you….  The Lord knows how much I miss our conversations and time together. My heart is heavy today…

Happy Birthday in Heaven. You are missed & thought of always.  Ginny

Bob, 
If Heaven had a window and God granted a view, of all the beauty it beholds, I would look for you. I would listen for your laughter and view once more your smile that such a part of you. Though your smile is gone from sight, and your hugs I can no longer touch I keep and treasure always the memories of my brother 💙  I love so much. Your memory is a keepsake  with which will never part. God has you in his keeping,  I have you in my heart.
With all my eternal ❤️,  Happy Birthday in your Heavenly home.
Love to Mom, Dad and Don.
Forever in my heart
Big little sis, Rosie 
Love and miss you so. 😔

Recently I published a novel titled The Academy Of Smoke And Mirrors: A Boarding School On The Brink
In the afterward I thank the people who helped me along the way.  Here's an excerpt from the afterward:

I appreciate the encouragement of friends… who encouraged me to write. {One of those was} lifelong friend Robert Pante. Bob loved literature and music and was always generous with his suggestions and encouragement when I started writing fiction. Bobby, you left too soon, and I miss you.

You will sing as on a night when a feast is observed, and be merry of heart, as one marching along with a flute toward the mountain of God.
"The Everlasting LIght"
Those we ❤️ love must someday pass beyond our present sight...must leave us and our world we know without their radiant light.
But we know that like a candle, their lovely light will shine to brighten up
another place more perfect...and Devine.
And in the realm of Heaven where they 
shine so warm and bright, and our loved ones live forever in God's eternal light.
Eternal rest grant unto the O Lord and let perpetual light shine upon them.
Always, always in mt heart and soul Bob, for all eternity.  Please hug and send my love to our beautiful Mom, handsome Dad, and our beautiful Don.
Miss you, and your dream was an inspiration for today's message.
❤️ love you with all my being.
Big little sis, Rosie

Dear Bob,
  I hope you are happy and smiling in heaven! You are an   angel 😇 and I always loved your beautiful smile and hanging out with you and my best friend Nancy.
We miss you and hope you are happy and at peace.
Till we meet again! Your sister Rose is a beautiful lady and loves you dearly as my dear friend Nancy and anyone who met you! 
God bless you and keep u
You in his care!
Love , Lynn ❤️🙏🙏

Jen and Jess loved their Uncle Bobbybobby…

Our farm was always more fun when Bobby arrived….

No one in my life will ever have a brighter smile than Bobby!  You are missed everyday.
We love you forever….

Thinking of you on this day two years ago, when you gained your angel wings🕊️ You’ve touched so many and will live on in all our hearts forever.  Ironically the check for a meal I had today with my son, came to $44 and the number of the check was 44. Got home and Pink Moon by Nick Drake came on, the song you played incessantly. Keep those signs coming. Photo, with those pearly whites, taken during a weekend visit to Liz & Pete’s farm late 90’s. 

Rest in peace Bobby, 
Nancy🙏

Bob,
I woke this morning with my beautiful memories 💕 of us in the past. I still can not believe this real, with you gone 2yrs. I miss you beyond any words can express.  So I have a special poem for you, that I feel strongly that these words are from you. So as you watch over me, please send all my love 💓 ❤️ and 🫂 to mom, dad, and Don.  
Missing you eternal 😢...fly high my beautiful brother. 
Little big sis, Rosie

Bobby- You are missed and always loved. Ginny

Bob, 
I placing a tribute to Don, and I know you are with me in this message for Don on his second anniversary ❤️ in Heaven.
Don, 
You gave no last farewell 💔,  nor ever said goodbye, and you where gone before we new it, and only God knows why. 
It broke my heart to lose you, but you did not go alone, for a part of us went with you, te day God called you home.
So I send this special message to Heaven up above, for all the Angels 😇 to take care of you with my eternal love, for you know our love was and always will be deeper then any differences we may have had.
We hope in God's promise that all who seek Him will find eternal life--a place of refreshment, light, peace forever. 
Fly high my brother and God speed.
With all my ❤️ and our precious memories...
Eternally your sister, 🌹 Rose.
For He who follows does not walk in Darkness, but shall have the Light of Life 


Bob,
Your birthday brings back memories of laughter and of tears, of all the celebrations held throughout the precious years. As you are watching over me, I hope that you can see how much those memories we made will always mean to me. I'll cherish times we had and smile just at the thought and hope you ❤️ the magnitude of the joy your life here brought.  On holidays and birthdays it's so hard to be apart, like everyday that falls between, your memories fill my heart ❤️. You're with me now and where ever I go, you're part of all I do, and I'll celebrate your special day and the gift of loving you.
With all my ❤️ eternally...I love you and miss you forever.
Please hug and send my love to Mom, Dad and our brother Don. I Pray 🙏 you are all together celebrating with mom's pasta and meatballs.  ...God loves Phoof's meatballs. 
Keep your signs coming, they are present each day.
Loving you always and forever, your big little sis
Rose 🌹 ❤️ 💙 💜 💖 🫂 

Bob..44,
Today marks your first year in Heaven and since that day you had to go, the memories I treasure are within the tears I flow, for no one knows what your loss means to me. Each passing day I reflect on your laughter, silly antics, sense of humor...no one will ever compare and with that beautiful 😍 smile.  I truly do not need any special day to bring you to mind for the days don't think of you are very hard to find. So on this day with all mt heart, I treasure you dearly.
I leave you with a heart felt message.
They say there is a reason
They say time will heal
Neither time or reason will change the way I feel. Gone are the days we used to share, but in my ❤️ heart, you are always there.
The gates of memories will never close, I miss you more 💔 😢 then any one knows.
Love and miss you everyday, and till we meet again...Always and forever.
With all my Heart love to Mom, Dad and Don. Missing you all sooo much.
God Bless and keep you.
May the Angels  lead thee into Paradise 
May the Martys receive thee at the coming and take all of thee to the Holy Land. May the Choirs of Angels receive thee and Mayest thou Have Eternal Rest.
With the all the love of my every being,
Little Big sister,
Rosie 


Bob, 
Thinking of you, Mom, Dad, and Don on this daddy's favorite holiday and the day he was called "Home". 
As I remember the fun we all had, sitting in front of our house, watching the fireworks launched from the high school field. I hold on to these memories with all my ❤️ and 🙏 you are all together watching from above.  My heart aches 💔 for those yesteryears, as time goes on, but truly try to embrace those beautiful memories. 
This weekend they have the Twilight Zone marathon and as I watch, I can sense your presence, through laughs and tears all at once. I know how much you enjoyed watching and sharing our thoughts of some of the episodes.
May God Bless 🙌 you as you Fly High with the Angels, and with all my ❤️, I 🙏 you found your Willoughby...I know you are not alone, as Mom, Dad, and Don are with you.
MY ETERNAL ❤️ 
Big little sis, Rosie

Thinking of you my beautiful brother. 
Today is your birthday in Heaven above, and my Blessings I send on the wings of a dove. Your birthday brings back memories of laughter and of tears of all the celebrations we hold throughout the years. I remember, like it was yesterday the day you where born, and when mom brought you home, I fell in love with my little brother. I promised to protect you, and of course when we grew older, the tables turned. Now as your are watching over me from Heaven, I hope that you can  see how much those memories we made will always mean to me.
I know you soar with the Angels and your heart has wings, so FLY HIGH my brother.
With love eternally always, your little big sister, Rosie 

They say that time heals a broken heart, but as we approach this beautiful Easter Celebration, I still feel the lose and think back to our yesterdays, when we where all together at Mom and Dad's house. I can still smell Mom's gravy and taste "her out of this world's meatballs"..."God loves Phoof's meatballs". I also recall the homemade raviolis Mom made with just love. ..nothing will ever compare to that.  I Prayer on this Holy Saturday that you Bob and Don are reunited and spending your first Easter in Heaven with Mom and Dad.
This is a time of new beginnings and God Bless a new journey for all of you.
I reflect on these memories and leave you with this beautiful Proverb:
"Just when the Caterpillar thought the world was over, It became a  Butterfly".....FLY HIGH
With all my love eternally to you all my beautiful Family, Mom, Dad, Don and Bob...God Bless God Speed
Love Always and Forever, 
Rosie

I think about you always, as I talk about you still, and hold you both with in my heart, for we are never far apart. 
Two months ago, for you Bob, and eight months for Don, and the heartache of losing you both remains. 
As the snow fell yesterday, memories come to mind as I remember the years gone by, with much love and laughter, and the crazy antics of our fun in the snow. Marshall Street was a playground for our neighborhood "family", sleigh riding down the street from top to bottom.  Sometimes to play it safe, we went down through all the backyards, starting with ours. We also did some sneaking to go down the big hill at Mountain High School...thinking mom would not know...but she did, waiting with hot chocolate when we got home. 
As I struggle to move on, it truly is so hard being with thoughts of all the precious memories and love we shared, but they remain within my heart, as I try and picture you full of life and love watching from above.
I love you both eternally, and I will hold you in my heart, reminding me even though we are apart, your spirit is always with me forever in my heart.
God Bless you and keep you...My love to Mom and Dad
Love always, your sister Rose


They say that memories are golden, and yesterday as we all came together in celebration of the lives of my brothers Bobby and Don to bid them a Blessed journey, I will forever hold so dearly the Love and beautiful Tribute for them.  You all have touched Bobby's life in one way or another, and I know he's surely smiling and feeling the love.
As the morning arose today, and thoughts of those who gathered at Mass, the grave site, and the repass, no words can express my heartfelt thanks.  The stories of our memories of Bobby, which brought us laughter as well as tears, shows the bond that can never be broken.
As I begin to heal from this incredible heartache, I will forever cherish the Love that filled the day. As we all go forward with our lives, please remember that Bobby's spirit will always live on in each of us, wherever we may go. 
You'll always be in my heart and your memory will live on forever and I know we live on forever with you.
May God Bless you and keep you. 
Loving you Bobby and Don
God Speed, Chief and Ahtoo
With my LOVE FORVER, your sister Rosie





Saying goodbye is never easy. We gathered today to do that for Bobby. There were hugs, tears, stories and laughter today as we spoke about him. Bobby will be missed,  but he lives on in all of us who were fortunate to be his family or friend. 
I love you, Bobby. Thank you for being my friend. ❤️

Bob lived at 9 Marshall Street (if I remember correctly) and I lived around the corner from him on Conforti Avenue. Bob was a school-mate of mine who kept me laughing constantly.  I can vividly recall him in Mrs. Gertrude Gawe's class with that mega personality of his and his ginormous smile of his as we drove the poor teacher crazy.

I will always remember Bobby fondly.  He was a good man and I feel sorrow because he was taken from his family (and friends) and this earth entirely too early. I suppose God had another plan for him as He does with all of us.

Bob's passing should be in part a celebration of like as we are taught that the body ceases to exist but the soul enters into a better place and "lives forever" in eternal peace.

May the memory of Bobby be eternal...



 I met Bobby when I was 12 playing Little League  baseball together (can that really be 50 years ago?!?). We had an immediate bond, which lasted a lifetime. In retrospect, I think Bobby was an aspiring artist trapped in the body of a handsome athlete, with a 1000 watt smile that could light up any room.
    I feel fortunate to have followed Bobby on all of his artistic adventures, as many of his interests and observations helped inform my own views. His musical taste was sublime – he appreciated words and phrasing as much as the music, which helped his career when he got to Columbia House. I think all of his friends have an album or two stuck in their heads forever thanks to Bobby’s passion in this area. 
    His interest in art was strong as well, but decreased somewhat after his time at Wentworth Galleries. I visited him at the store often, but he got increasingly jaded by the commercialism that drove that industry. His true love, I believe, was the written word. 
   He was a voracious reader and writer, and a great teacher. I was thrilled when Bobby started sending me his short stories and asking for feedback. His writing was truly wonderful – his humor and sensitivity was evident, as was his love for word play. But there was a darkness there that was a foreshadowing of what was to come. 
    We all really “lost” Bobby years ago, but the finality of his death was like a slap in the face. He was such a good friend, and meant so much to so many people, which was evident in how many of his childhood friends reached out to try to help him when he needed it.  In the end,  we weren’t able to, but there is some comfort that a real effort was made.   
    My entire family will miss him, and our heart goes out to his remaining family. May he RIP.  

Bobby will always be our precious friend, uncle to our twin girls Jenna & Jessie, and the life of all our gatherings.    He spent weeks with us on the farm over the years helping Pete with Christmas tree pruning and entertaining the girls. Many a Christmas morning was spent singing, talking, dancing doing the Bobby,Bobby Bobby shake your Booty dance.   Our hours of conversation were deep and never boring. 
I miss you my dear friend…until we meet again…. Last night you became a great uncle to Jessie’s baby girl Anderson Larkin…  I’m sorry I can’t be there to celebrate your precious life but a day doesn’t go by without thoughts of you… Forever in our hearts…

First, I offer Richard, Rose and family my heartfelt condolences. My history with Bobby began when I met him at our ten year high school reunion. We became a couple soon after and dated for five years. Through those years, I hold close many precious memories. After, we remained friends and in each other's lives. The Bobby I knew was caring and thoughtful - putting time, love and effort into the little things that mattered. He was adventurous, but protective. He had a quick sense of humor - corny jokes, doodles in cards he sent, made up characters. He was handsome - not vain - with  that killer smile. He had a big heart - those he loved knew it. Bobby was the best hugger. When he wrapped his arms around you, you felt cared for, loved, safe and happy all at once. No words required. A true gift.                                                                     Rest easy, Bobby. Make the Angels laugh. Give out your hugs. Be at peace. Know you are loved.

Dearest Rose and Donald,
I feel very fortunate to have grown up on the same street with Dear Bobby and your entire family! I am so sorry for your lose. He was a soul without a mean bone in his body, and very very handsome!
My brain can’t get a handle on the idea that he is gone! 
I was astonished by his ability to read aloud. 
My mother would say to me, “ you need to be able to read like Bobby.” I couldn’t! He was the best!
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
If I can be of any help, kindly let me know.
Bernie Cignavitch 

My friend Nancy myself Bob and a friend of his- having a great time!  Lynn Reilly 

I heard American Pie on the radio the other day, and my thoughts turned  to Bob.  The song prompted a fifty year old memory: one winter morning Bob invited me to go to Korvettes with two of his friends, Joey and Tommy.  Bob’s dad took us to the record department, where each of us bought the single.  I hadn’t heard of the song and had no clue what a phenomenon it was. 
A very excited Bob filled me in during the car ride.  That was one of the characteristics of our friendship: he usually educated me about the latest in sports, music, entertainment, and of course, jokes.  To stay on top of the culture, it helps to have older siblings.  Bob did and I didn’t.   
Bob loved to teach.  He quickly transferred his passion for the song's mysterious lyrics to me.  Hearing them again brought all that back.
Bob,  you were a great teacher. 

I SPELLED MY NAME WRONG!!!  He made me do that. 


Friends, real friends are a blessing. Knowing you can trust someone unconditionally is rare. Bobby was that kind of friend. People may forget what you’ve said, they may forget what you’ve done, but they will never forget how you made them feel. I am forever grateful that he was a significant part of my life. 

Yankee game possibly 2002. Bobby’s smile is engrained in my brain forever. Love you buddy

So sad to hear this horrible news , Bobby. Had a heart of gold , always in a good mood , free spirt always with a smile on his face . Met Bobby as a young boy down at Vincent pond where we played little league baseball  , he was good player I was not very good ….Then  we started school  at Lincoln  7th grade we  played football for Lincoln  in 9th grade  we had a blast . He was a very good player .. at the time in high school he had the greatest stero equipment in his room we would go and listen ,,Bobby loved his music . He was a great fisherman also .  Few years After high school , Bobby and me took off for lake George  upstate , We loaded up the car got pulled over for speeding at the bottom of woodland and pleasant Valley way .didn’t even make it outta town . We told the cop what  where we were going and he let us off ,and said slow down . Rained all the  way up 4 hrs  got to lake George about 7 pm stopped raining  sun came out and  we both watched  the most beautiful rainbow over the lake we ever saw . We fished camped  got loaded  around the fire  slept in a tent for 4 nights came home broke   Had a blast ,, one of my fondest fishing memories thanks to Bobby ,  I was lucky enough to be at his surprize 40th  birthday  party in nyc ..you couldn’t help but love Bobby he was a great guy, salt of the earth . He will live in my heart forever ,.. 

Bobby. I still can’t believe you’re gone.  So many happy, fun memories, the jersey shore, “the park”, high school games, and partners at the Laszlo wedding.  Fly high my friend, heaven has gained an angel.  Your smile will always be remembered 
Love, Patrice 

Dear Bobs family,
  My deepest sympathy and prayers on the loss of your beloved Bob! He was a sincere sweet humble kind handsome fun guy . I met Bob through my best friend from high school Nancy! I had the pleasure of going  to his surprise 40th Nancy orchestrated for Bob . I had a great time and met his wonderful family ! He was so thrilled to be so honored and totally deserved it! 
He also attended my surprise party with NAncy and he was always a fun engaging guy to spend time with!
I hadn’t seen Bob in years but I cherish the fond  memories of him.
May he Rest In Peace. He will forever been in your hearts and your Guardian Angel!
Lynn Reilly 


As memories of Christmas past flow within our hearts, we are holding on and cherishing the joy we had in our childhood. On Christmas morning, there would be the sound of music blasting of Elvis Presley's Christmas Hits. This was courtesy of our brother Don. 
Bobby and Don, whose bedrooms where upstairs, would come down dancing and swinging to the beat. This was such a joyous and fun filled moment as our Christmas Day began. Now this Christmas our hearts are broken with the loss of both our brothers and we are Praying that God's Love and Mercy, and our Faith will guide us through our time of sorrow. 
A poem that my brother Rich and I would like to share with you to give us hope of God's eternal love. 
My First Christmas in Heaven
We see the countless Christmas trees
Around the world below
With tiny lights like Heaven's stairs, reflecting on the snow
The sight is so spectacular, please wipe away the tear
For we are spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year
We hear the many Christmas songs, that people hold so dear,
But the sounds of music can't compare, 
With the Christmas choir up here
We have no words to tell you, the joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description to hear the angels sing
We know how much you miss us
We see the pain inside your heart, 
But we are not so far away,  We really aren't apart
So be happy for us, dear ones, you know we hold you dear,
And be glad we're spending Christmas with Jesus Christ  this year
We sent you each a special gift, from our heavenly home above,
We sent you each a memory of our undying love.
After all love is a gift more precious than pure gold,
It was always most important in the stories Jesus told,
Please love and keep each other, as my Father said to do,
For we can't count the blessing or love He has for each of you.
So have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear,
Remember, We are spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year

Loving you both, with my whole heart. God's light surround you and keep you 




Really sorry to hear about this.  I lived on Barry Drive and always was part of the group of kids from Holmes Street, Phyillis Road, and Marshall Street.  When I was about 12-years-old Bobby and I were good friends. We played games and while I couldn't match him athletically, he always included me in the games. Bobby was a year behind me in school but we remained friends. I'd see him when I went to The Bagel Box and after I left WO in 1981 my father would always see him and talk to him.  Bobby always wanted to know how I was doing and my father let me know how Bobby was doing.  I last talked to him in about 1982 but as we all know, he was a very kind and caring person always interested in others.  This is indeed sad news.       Jeff Passner

As Bobby's "little big sister" as he affectionately called me, I wish to express my sincere thanks for all who are sharing your beautiful and cherished memories of my brother. Bobby was a beautiful soul with such devotion to all who had the honor of being in his life.  Bobby had a warm heart as big and bright as his incredible smile. My memories of Bobby go beyond the pages set forth. Bobby's great personality and friendliness began as a toddler. Our family nicknamed Bobby as the mayor of Marshal Street, because he new every neighbor by name, and would call out to them and wave until they acknowledge him. This was the beginning of the man he became. Bobby and I also had this special habit of sharing our dreams we had each night, which eventually inspired him to write his short stories.  This of course this led Bobby to eventually become a Professor in English Literature. Bobby made a strong impact to all his students, as he guided them with such devotion and he always made time for anyone of them that needed help. 
Now as this Christmas season approaches us, and any Holiday you hold in your heart, I hope you may have an opportunity to watch  Bobby's favorite movie "It's a Wonderful Life". I know that Bobby will be beaming and his smile will shine brighter then the sun.
With all my heart and soul I am sending eternal Love, Bob.
May God embrace you and may you be Blessed and reunited with Mom, Dad and Don.
Goodbyes are not forever, Goodbyes are not the end, They simple mean I'll miss you until we meet again.
God saw you getting weaker
So He did what He thought best
He came and stood beside you and 
Whispered "Come to rest"
We could not understand it
No matter how we tried, and
If love could have has saved you
You never would have died
If tears could build a stairway and
Heartache make a lane
We'd walk the path to Heaven
To bring you back again

I met Bob at a gig of one of our close mutual friends, Ray Andersen.  We both grew up in West Orange, and wondered how we hadn’t met sooner! We hit it off immediately, and became very close friends for 30+ years. We shared a number of interests: music, books, movies, corny humor. We would have long philosophical conversations, the likes of which I’ve had with few people. Bob was a special person; sincere, caring, generous, thoughtful, talented. He had one of the brightest smiles of anyone I’ve ever known…a smile that showed the brightness of his spirit; of his soul. Over the years we created many wonderful memories; concerts, parties, deep & inspiring conversations. And now, these memories will help me get through these coming days and weeks, as I try to deal with this loss. He was a dear friend, and I will miss him dearly.

I was so sad to receive the news from Andy Katz that Bob had passed away. Bob & I started working at Columbia House the same week in 1988 and clicked instantly. We continued to work together for over 10 years. That special era was when a large, creative group of very comical people happened to come together and become a family of friends. We were actually paid to listen to music, go to concerts & movies. After work we either played on the company softball team, or hung out at Rudy's to shoot pool mixing with a cast of NYC characters. Those carefree days were pure fun. For someone that was so easy on the eyes, Bob was humble, caring and kind. He was a music buff, who spent hours creating thoughtful mixed tapes. The Jayhawks, Paul Weller, Neil Finn, Benfolds Five, Nick Drake, Bruce Cockburn, Tom Waitts and Richie Haven's, were just a few of his favorites. He was a writer, actor and a good cook with a great sense of humor. One night he called to say he made too many meatballs and sauce and wanted to share them. Bobby was always so generous. I put on some pasta and made a salad. He drove very slowly from NJ to NYC with that tall pot strapped into the passenger seat. That was a memorable meal, because we became a couple after that. There are so many good memories, but the most special of all was pulling off his surprise 40th birthday party. He was so touched to see his family and so many of his old friends come together to celebrate his milestone year. For all of us he touched, we now celebrate his life. I will always remember us singing & swaying to, "Don't Dream It's Over," when we saw Crowded House at Irving Plaza. Hard to believe his life is over and was cut short way too soon. May he Rest in Eternal Peace and Stay Forever in Our Hearts. Nancy❤️

As Bobby's brother, I would like to thank everyone sharing their memories of him, especially pertaining to events in his life that I had no way of knowing. At 15 years his senior, at times he would call me "Big Bro" and I would call him "Lil Bro". Among the countless memories of him, one would be going to all his football games along with our father and proudly watch number 44 perform on the field along with his teamates, who, by the way, remained close friends these past years. In this time of sorrow, I would like to end with one encouraging saying I heard years ago. . . . God saw him getting tired, a cure not meant to be, so He put His arms around him and whispered "Come with Me"

Bobby was always smiling and had a great sense of humor...
May he rest in heavenly peace...

Bobby was a natural comedian and a gifted mimic.  I met him in first grade, and from that time forward he made me and so many others smile and laugh.  Jonathan Winters, Fat Albert, Jimmy Walker -- who couldn't Bobby impersonate? 
He was a great athlete too, a strong and speedy football and baseball player.  On the fields of Pleasantdale no one could catch him when we played ringolevio.  He dodged and cut and sidestepped the whole fifth grade, laughing as he led us on a fruitless chase.  
But no one outruns Death.
Rest in peace, mi amigasso
Strength to strength
Alex

I talked to Bobby for hours at the second reunion - -he had so much to offer and share-we connected on so many levels-Bobby made the world laugh growing up- in elementary school he wore the clothes like the Steve Martin wild and crazy guy and brought smiles to all who knew him… always loved him - kind, caring, interesting and talented. Bobby you will be missed-

I hadn't seen Bobby since high school, but I remember him fondly as a great guy, with a good sense of humor and always a smile for you. My sincere sympathies to his family. He left us much too soon. I wish him eternal peace. 

I first met Bobby in junior high school, He was a great kid who  always had time to talk with me, He had a great knowledge of music and for bands I never heard of, as we became better freind's he would share  these bands with me and got me listening to music that wasn't mainstream , I'll always think of Bobby when I hear Procol Harum, Mott The Hoople or Grand Funk Railroad, RIP Bob and thanks for the music

So, I started High School.  I had a terrible time opening the lock on my locker each day.  My Next door neighbor asked to help.  He dialed in my combination and opened my locker.  Fast forward to week two, and my locker was opened with Bobby standing next to it.  This continued throughout the year.  We became friends and I actually met my husband through our friendship.  He was the Best Man at my wedding.  He stood for Nick, but he also stood for me!  He is so sadly missed!


OBITUARY

Robert Pante

May 19, 1959 – November 30, 2021

Quinn-Hopping Funeral Home

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