William Alston Cheek, Sr. entered into Eternal Life on October 22,
2019. She was born February 22, 1921 in Clarksburg, WV, the daughter
of Mary Cook and Lee Silas Switzer, the second of six children.
Mrs. Cheek was educated in catholic schools in Weston, WV
and during the Depression years, would spend many an afterschool
hour trudging home through knee-high snow to help her
mother (“Mamie”) make popcorn to sell for needed income.
Cardboard was the go-to reinforcement for frail shoes’ soles, and
luxuries included homemade soap, gravy sandwiches, and the
Henderson Heater around which shivering siblings would hover.
After attending Dominican College for a year in Columbus,
OH, she continued on to the Miss Washington School for Secretaries
in Washington D.C., where she was voted “top overall” by the
student body. Upon graduation, she was employed as a legal
secretary by three attorneys in the law firm of “Covington,
Burling, Rublee, Acheson, and Shorb” until 1945. Her free time was
often spent caring for wounded WWII soldiers in makeshift
infirmary - praying all the day that her three brothers on active
duty wouldn’t become her next patients.
After the War, she married Lt. Cmdr. William Alston Cheek of
Pelican, LA, on November 22, 1945 in the Walter Reed Chapel in
Washington D.C.. A devout catholic, Mrs. Cheek and her husband
were active members of Holy Souls Church from its inception until
becoming parishoners at St. Andrew’s Cathedral in downtown
Little Rock.
Full and fulfilling were her child-raising years with Bill,
nurturing eight children through twelve years of catholic
education, piano lessons (for all eight) and recitals care of the
Mercy nuns at Mount St. Mary’s Academy. Too there was ballet,
scouting, backyard croquet and summers vacationing at the “Beach
Box”. Days would be busy with cloth diapers, baby formula and
sterile bottles, non-microwaved meals, and tv-less evenings, even
with homework done. Bedtimes would be preceded often by
kneeling for the family rosary in front of a picture of the Sacred
Heart. All eight children completed college, with several obtaining
their Doctorates in music performance, teaching, and medicine.
While serving in her later years as president on the board of
the family apartment estate business, she otherwise enjoyed her days
pursuing that love of music and watercolors - talents she polished
by attending the University of Arkansas at Little Rock in her 60’s.
Into her 90’s she was a true believer in the value of crossword
puzzles, the daily Democrat, and a 5 o’clock glass of chardonnay
and Dorito’s. She enjoyed gardening and was an active member of
Little Rock Horticulture and Holy Souls Scripture study groups. She
and Bill often entertained Community Concert artists in their
home and never forgot to include parish priests and the St. Mary’s
nuns on holidays with feasts of char-broiled rib roast, some “hot
stuff”, and some Heaven Hill. Mary Jo’s life of 98 years was
purposeful from start to finish, with devotion to the
fundamentals of faith and family. Hers was a gentle yet firm hold
directing that self-sacrificing spirit to ensure that all “T’s” were
crossed, “i’s” were dotted, and cursive was at the right slant
(you’ll recall, she was a professional legal secretary).
While always celebrating with gratitude her abundance of
God’s blessings, her focus remained til the end never to leave one of
“her eight” unattended - regardless their question or quest.
“What I longed for, I now see;
What I hoped for, I now possess;
In Heaven I am exposed to Him
Whom on Earth I loved with all my heart.”
- Liturgy of the Hour
Mrs. Cheek is survived by seven of her eight children, Constance
Cheek Hays (Mike — Kingwood, TX), Mary “Jo” Cheek who was her
caregiver the past decade, Robert T. M.D. (Robin — Little Rock),
Elizabeth Cheek Whaley (Skip — IN), John A. Cheek (NC), Richard A.
Cheek (Lange — Little Rock), Julia Ellen Cheek (Little Rock), and is
preceded in Life by her husband William A. Cheek Sr., her son William
A. Cheek Jr. (CA) and infant grandson Christopher Henry Cheek, her 25
grandchildren who live all over the world and 18 greatgrandchildren.
Visitation will be held Friday October 25, 2019 at 6pm with a
rosary to follow at Griffin Leggett Funeral Home 5800 W. 12th St.
Little Rock, AR. Mass of Christian burial will be Saturday October
26th, 2019 at Cathedral of St. Andrew’s Catholic Church 617 Louisiana
St. Little Rock, AR. With burial at Calvary Cemetery on S. Woodrow
in Little rock. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be
submitted to MaryLake Monastery 5151 Marylake Drive Little Rock,
AR 72206.
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