From the west coast - I am offering our thoughts and condolences to Robert’s family and friends. Robert was my Mom’s cousin (Anne Beatty)), and when we would  come to New Jersey from out of state to visit the  Bailey family at their home or at the Shore.  It was a happy time to reconnect. My memories of Robert will remain…Robert was a few years older than me - and I admired him. He was always kind! He had  a vibrancy and strength that drew others to him. He was proud of his family and was a father,  brother,  son, uncle, and friend who made such a positive impression on all he met. 

My deepest sincere condolence to Bobby's family.  I worked in the courthouse with Bobby "Bailey" and his partner Ricky. He was one of the first S.O.s I met there. His smile was constant and he was always in the best mood. He made it a good day to work with and one of the guys you always remember.  Even when rotation moved him to another court it was always that same friendship that you had when you worked together.  Retired now, it still hurts to know he no longer here. I'm sorry for his family's loss. I know it's huge. He's one work guy I'll never forget.

On behalf of the Martin family we offer our sincerest condolences on the passing of Robert. Although not related by blood our families ties were deep and we always considered Robert and family  as our cousins. God bless him and his family 


Larry Martin
Wayne NJ 

My condolences to Bobs family he was a great guy.  Many memories of our early years on Joseph st down the shore.  He was very kind and will never be forgotten.   Bails as I called him RIP my friend.   
Respectfully,
Jimmy Gabriello

Dearest Carol. I don’t think I ever called you that. You were always “Bailey” and I was always Nelson. I’m so sorry for your loss. I know peace will be a long time coming. Please know you are in my prayers.  Love, Susan. 

My thoughts and prayers are with Laura, Pati, Emily, and Robert  Jr. And Carol. 
I will cherish the memories I have being on the job as Bobby’s partner. The laughs and great times.  One always stands out when we drove down to see one of his daughters in grammar school recital from Newark then we stop by his house to see the dog then we got a call and we had to race back to Newark. It was worth the trip. 
Ar dheis Dé go raibh a anam 🙏🏻☘️

Donna, Marni  & Robert somewhere in the Alls on our European vacation!❤️

My condolences to the Bailey's family may my brother Bob rest in peace. What a great person and friend to be around always joyful.  Your friend Michael knight Ret. NPD

I only knew Bob from having coffee with him at the Halsey deli and Newark each month. He had such a love for his children and would tell  me each morning with excitement about his family and children. May he rest in peace.



To Laura and family my heart breaks for you all, this is a tough one I became very close again with Bobby this past year believe me he Loved you guys SOoooooo much and frequently reminded Lois and I, he was also so proud of all you kids May he rest easy. Love Philip and Lois

God will know who you are when you arrive at the Pearly Gates 

Dearest Laura, Pati, Emily, and Robert,
What can one say when grief is so unimaginable that it becomes your grief also because the person who left this world? Is also like a family member to you. That’s how we always felt about Bob and your family. Overwhelming sadness and grief. We always felt like part of an extended family, and we shared all that goes with that, good Times, bad Times, and some times unbearable times, but we always got through it together like family always does. Now it feels like a piece of our puzzle is missing and we will never feel whole again, but somehow God will give us the strength to carry on and we will get through this together as a family. 
Bob, I guess God saw you getting tired and he knew better and he took you home to give you the rest., You so needed. He lifted you up on angels, wings, and you will rest in the arms of the Lord forever. We will miss you, Bob, the builder we loved you so much, but God needed you more so until we meet again, rest in peace, God‘s faithful servant. We love you, Captain Jack, Mare , Deanna & Oreo, Keith and Lil, Ryan, and Taylor🙏🏻💔🥲❤️

So very sorry to hear of Bobby's passing.  We grew up together as children and worked in Essex many years later.  Such a nice man.  My sympathy to his family.   Doreen

Carol and family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy on the passing of your brother Bob. I looked up the memory photographs that you put on this site. They are   a beautiful tribute to your brother Bob. It brought back a lot of memories for me as well since I’ve known Bob since he was 15 we were so lucky to have you and your family as our neighbors.
RIP Bob

Dear Laura and family, 
I was deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Bob. I have many fond memories of Bob , you and your family. We were next-door neighbors for over 30 years on Joseph Street.
Laura, you and your children are in my prayers. RIP Bob💔

Easter 1995: Uncle Robert, Kortney and Casey 

Aunt Laura and Uncle Robert, God parents 

I met Bob back in 1987 when we both started with the Sheriff’s Office. We quickly became friends and traveled numerous places, such as California, Bahamas, Mexico and we had such fun. Bob always had a great sense of humor and was a great travel companion. After moving to Arizona in the mid 90’s I lost touch with Bob. This past summer my father passed away and lo and behold Bob showed up at his funeral. He came to the repast and we shared some laughs about the past. It was so great to see him. My sincerest condolences to Bob’s wife and kids and all his family. RIP my friend.

John Sharkey
Arizona 

Laura , Pati, Emily and Robert. I love you guys and I loved your father like an Uncle. I will miss him so much.  Just know we are always here for you guys. Love always Deanna

OBITUARY

Robert Joseph Bailey Sr.

October 15, 1962 – December 20, 2022

Krowicki McCracken Funeral Home

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