Brother,

I don’t even know where to start. The pain of losing you has been intense. All the memories... As time passes it somehow gets harder. It’s been too long now. Tom, I miss you so much. It was my birthday yesterday. I remember the video of you wishing me a happy birthday a few years ago before one of your big fights. You always made me feel special. You were the best big brother a girl could ask for. I miss your smile. I miss your constant humor. My God, you were always so funny! Thank you for being my friend. My family misses you. Kirra misses you lots! She wrote a song about you. It was so sweet. Matt misses you tons! All the lives you touched! You have no idea. You will never be forgotten. Your legacy lives on with your family. I love you so much. 

Cheers to you brother! 

Love, Dee Dee

Tom and I worked together at kennco along with his brother David we were on several projects , I always enjoyed working with both of them RIP my brother , see ya on the other side 

Flashes of memories, I thought I’d forgotten. Last I’d remembered.... I was a kid myself. Our families promised we’d stay in touch...but life got in the way. Had looked forward to interviewing you ahead of your last big fight. Guess it’ll have to wait till I see you and the rest of the Gloudeman(s)s’ up in Heaven with Father and Lord Jesus! God bless you, cousin...and may the Good Lord in heaven please bless and comfort Tom’s wife and child. In Jesus’ loving name  I pray....Amen!

Tom completed two really big projects in our home over the course of the last year. He was the most hardworking, trustworthy and knowledgeable guy. We spent much time talking about his MMA career, current construction projects and of course Misty and his kids. We had the pleasure of meeting Misty and his beautiful newborn son Harley. We also met his father and brother, who would regularly come to work with him. He was a devoted husband and proud father. We were devastated to learn of his untimely passing and send our sincerest condolences to his family. RIP Tom. 

I met Tom in June 2015 for a few hours. In those short hours, I saw a good person, a man that loved his mom & family,  and his future wife Misty.
He was upbeat, funny, and wise.  And had a sparkle in his eyes.  

I'm so sad  for his wife, children, parents, sisters & brother, all family & friends, to lose such a wonderful person.  I wish you all peace and strength.

He loves you all still.  

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Tom Paul Gloudeman Jr.

October 25, 1981 – May 6, 2018

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