She was born to the late Ethel and Mary McElroy on November 2, 1959 in Louisville, Kentucky.
She is preceded in death by her husband of 32 years; David Ray "Whitie" Whitehouse, siblings; Billy McElroy, Carolin McBurney, and Charles McElroy, and grandson; Brandon Whitehouse.
Left to cherish the memory of Brenda are her children; Jeremy Louden (Virginia), Ashley Cheek (Anthony), and Vixen Brumback (Mike), step-daughter; Brandy Whitehouse, 9 grandchildren; Alyssa Cornwell (Dustin), Javin Whitehouse, Anthony Cheek Jr., Mick Bays (Mady), Gavin Bays, Holden Bays, Ella Bays, Weston Sliker, and Letty Bays, 3 great-grandchildren; Cooper, Robert, and Raegan, brother; Arlus McElroy, extended family and friends.
A memorial gathering will be held for Brenda at Heady-Radcliffe Funeral Home & Cremation Services, 706 W Jefferson St, LaGrange on Friday, December 8, 2023 from 4-8pm.