Bradley William Earl Cross
November 9, 1950 – November 13, 2016
In the early hours of November 13, 2016, a bright light went out, when Bradley William Earl Cross succumbed to a long and tiring battle with cerebral amyloid angiopathy. Anybody who knew Brad knew that backing down from a challenge was truly not in his nature, and never did he back down or feel sorry for himself when presented with this debilitating threat. Headstrong and blessed with an indomitable sense of humor, Brad was always known for his upbeat attitude, positive outlook, and the ability to create entertainment out of even the sorriest subjects. Any room he walked into got instantly brighter, and the charge a little stronger, just by his presence. If life wasn’t moving at 100 mph, he was going to do his stubborn best to make sure it was – and take you along for the ride! Ask him how he was doing, and you were bound to get a “5 foot 9 and bulletproof!” That was a bold statement for a man whose shadow may not have exceeded 5’8”, but you had to believe he was telling you the truth, and he believed it too!
Fast-talking, fast-thinking and with an uncanny ability to read people and situations, sales was Brad’s calling from an early age. Opportunity and a fearless self-assurance led to Brad proudly starting Cross Canada Equipment in 1979. Brad loved the art of the sale – especially “sellin’ iron”. Trucks, dozers, loaders, anything. If it could be sold, he was going to sell it, and he loved it. Anything that moved, operated, flew or drove instantly had Brad’s attention, and also his desire to try his hand at it. This love of all things mechanical caused him to chase his dreams into the skies, getting his pilot’s licence in 1987. Few things put Brad more at ease than being in the air, all the while letting him exercise his perfectionist’s attention to detail. Brad’s nirvana indeed.
To those that could sincerely call him one, none could name a better friend than Brad. Compassionate, loving, blessed with integrity and loyal to the end, Brad was always available for support, help, or certainly a candid conversation over a “few” beers. Brad wore his heart on his sleeve for all to see, and if he loved you, you were loved with everything he had. There was no half-way with Brad.
Gone but never forgotten, Brad is off to buy the first round when he joins his parents Bill and Joan Cross, his sister Nancy and her husband Robert “Newt” Howden and Janet and Peter Heywood. Brad leaves behind his great friend and loving wife of 13 years Pam Cross; his great pride, his children with Maureen Cross, Bradey (Brad) Lund and B.J. (Shaanen) Cross; his beloved grandchildren Seth, Caleb, Jacob and Benjamin Lund; siblings Cheryl (Jay) Handberg, Lynne, Wendy (Don) Potter, Tom (Sandi) Cross, Karen (Mark) Hagen, Mike (Kayleen) Cross, and Pat (Dana) Cross; numerous nieces, nephews and extended family, all of whom he valued greatly.
A warm and heartfelt Thank You is owed to the staff at Pinecrest Home, where Brad not only resided but entertained his helpers daily from 2013 on. The effort they put in and the dignity they allowed Brad never went unnoticed. As well, to his truest and closest friends, who gave their time and energy to make Brad’s last days the best they could be and were willing to venture along on the journey, thank you.
A Memorial Service in Brad’s honour will be held on Saturday, November 19th at 2 pm, at the Brown Funeral Home & Cremation Centre, 429 2nd St. South, Kenora, Ont. A Celebration of Brad’s Life will follow the service, at Casey’s Grill Bar, 220 Lakeview Drive, Kenora, Ont.
In lieu of flowers, Brad’s family kindly requests that consideration of a donation in his name be made to the Pinecrest Auxiliary, or the Canadian Alzheimer Society.
Online condolences may be made at www.brownfuneralhomekenora.com
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