(nee Haynes)
Town of Tonawanda, NY, July 4, 1927 - April 25, 2020. Mary was the cherished wife of the late Robert H.
Hale and William J. McCarthy Jr.; she was a devoted and loving mother to William (Lynne) McCarthy III, Scott McCarthy and the late Linda (Fred) Becker; dedicated grandmother to Ryan (Viktoriya) McCarthy, Daniel (Meghan) McCarthy, Kevin (Theresa) Becker and eight great-grandchildren; Mary
was a caring step-mother to Barbara Hale (Andrew) Seubert, Brenda (David) Smith, Robert (Christine) Hale and eight step-grandchildren; beloved aunt, great aunt and lifelong friend to many. Mary worked in banking in the Village of Kenmore, NY for most of her career. Her outgoing personality and exceptional
customer service skills enabled her to progress up to the position of Assistant Manager before she retired at the young age of 62. Later, Mary worked part time at the Town of Tonawanda Water Department office before officially retiring to spend some time traveling. Mary donated her body to the University of Buffalo School of Medicine so no funeral is being planned. A memorial Mass will be offered Friday August 21, 9:30 am at St John the Baptist Church 1085 Englewood Ave. Tonawanda,NY
a later date. Donations may be made to honor her at Hospice Foundation of WNY or Roswell Park Cancer
Institute in C/O Roswell Park Alliance Foundation. Condolences online at
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