2016. She fell and broke her neck in January and died of complications from the fall.
Norma was born in Monongahela, PA, in 1923 to Fred O. Kogelman and Jean E. Rider
Kogelman. Norma graduated from Monongahela High School
in 1940. She married her high school sweetheart, Barclay
Coulter “Whitey” Swallow in 1942. They were together until his
death in 1970. She later married another high school
sweetheart, Robert Edward Johnson, in 1974 and was with
Robert until his death in 1992.
Norma and Barclay moved to Orlando in 1953 with their two
boys, Gary and Kim, where she lived until relocating to
Jacksonville in 2014 to be closer to her family. Norma was a
full-time housewife most of her life but when the need arose,
she went to work with Traveler's Insurance in Orlando as
records clerk and learned to drive again after a period of 40
years. She was a faithful wife and mother, caring for two
husbands, each of whom died in ill health.
For a woman who used to say she wasn't savvy in the more
technical things in life, she certainly fooled her family,
mastering the old memory typewriter with floppy disks, open reel tape decks, mastering her
own audio tapes, and more. Her love of music was contagious as she amassed thousands of
records and audio tapes. Not only did she listen to music, she also played by ear, composed her
own music, and sang and recorded for personal use. She always had a piano, keyboard, or organ
in the house.
She did not know what a half-empty glass was, for hers was always more than half-full. Just to
sit outside and see the sun set or a quick trip to the beach to see the ocean, her son's grilled
steaks and ribs, with a glass of wine or her favorite Pennsylvania Yuengling beer, the simple life
was truly her favorite. The perfect birthday gift was a handful of scratch-off lottery tickets
which her grandson often gave her; the perfect family visit, a trip to the local seafood restaurant
for fried oysters, or when the granddaughters visited, just driving around town at night looking
at the lights.
She was also a life long subscriber of the local Monongahela, PA, newspaper until its closing in
2015. Her church membership continued with her church where baptized in 1928, First United
Methodist of Monongahela.
She is survived by her sons: Gary L. Swallow, (Eleanor), Jacksonville, FL, and Kim D. Swallow,
(Pam), Douglasville, GA; grandchildren Brian Swallow (Shaara), Emily Swallow, and Kelly
Swallow; and great grandchildren Jones Gary Swallow, and Sawyer Christopher Swallow.
Interment will be in Monongahela Cemetery. Funeral services will be held grave side at 11:00
a.m., April 26. Rev. Alan J. Morrison, First United Methodist Church will officiate. Frye
Funeral Home Monongahela, PA, is handling the funeral arrangements with interment in the
family burial plot beside her mother, Jean Rider Punchur and grandparents Jessie and Rachel
Rider. Memorial donations in lieu of flowers to First United Methodist Church, 430 West Main
Street, Monongahela, PA 15063.
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