in Memphis, Tennessee and died November 6, 2019 at Jackson Madison County
General Hospital. She was preceded in death by her husband Thomas Nathan
McCarter,Sr., her parents, Thomas Vaughn Barber, Jr. and Robbie O’Hearn Barber.
She is survived by her brother Thomas Vaughn Barber, III of Olive Branch, MS,
children; Thomas Nathan McCarter, Jr. (Susan) of Fort Mill, SC, Kevin Vaughn
McCarter (Shannon) of Alamo, TN, Kendall Webb McCarter (Sherri) of Jackson, Todd
Robinson McCarter (Jennifer) of Jackson, and nine grandchildren (Cole, Ben, Nolan,
Julia, Lauren, Kade, Miles, Kathleen, Todd) whom she adored.
Gloria was raised in Memphis and often talked about how wonderful it was to grow up
there while it was still a relatively small city. She loved her years at Messick High School
and made lifelong friends during that time. When she was a senior she ran for student
council and as a part of her campaign she organized a concert in the gymnasium with a
young Elvis Presley. It landed her in a lot of hot water because Elvis was not very
popular with the school administration but she did get elected. After graduating from
Messick in 1955, she attended the then Memphis State College where she was a voice
major. After college she began working at the Memphis Press-Scimitar newspaper in
the advertising department. It was there that a handsome young Arkansas farm boy
came in to place an ad to sell some calves. While he didn’t meet Gloria that day, he did
see her from across the room and he went home to Marion and told his dad he saw the
girl he was going to marry. It took a while to get her attention but he finally managed to
convince her to go on their first date and from there they began a relationship that would
stand the test of time. They were married at St. Matthews Methodist Church in Memphis
on June 15, 1957 and had a love affair that lasted 58 years until Tom’s passing in 2015.
Soon after they were married, Gloria gave birth to her first of four sons. They lived in
Marion and Tyronza, Arkansas before moving to Jackson in 1967. Gloria focused most
of her time raising her four children but did have a professional career as well. She
worked as the administrative assistant for the ministry Young Life of Jackson. Later, she
helped open the Merrill Lynch branch office in downtown Jackson. As office manager,
Gloria worked with customers and made sure their stock transactions on Wall Street
were executed correctly. She worked at Merrill for nearly 20 years until her retirement in
2000.
Gloria couldn’t sit still for long and loved to be around people. Her friends meant the
world to her and she looked forward to Friday lunches with the girls.
As a lifelong Methodist, Gloria was faithful in her spiritual walk and was an example to
those around her. She was a member of Northside Methodist and for many years
volunteered in the church office on Fridays.
Gloria was a wonderful hostess and enjoyed having friends and family gather for meals
and fellowship. She loved to cook and was known for many of her delicious recipes.
She, along with two dear friends, even formed a catering company called Creative
Caterers. They catered hundreds of weddings and events large and small in Jackson for
many years.
Gardening and having a beautiful yard were Gloria’s favorite pastimes. She loved to
spend her days working in the yard and making her home lovely. She had house plants
that were over 45 years old and could nurse even the sickest plant back to health.
After losing her beloved Tom, she moved to Elmcroft Assisted Living and quickly found
a new home there and became a vibrant part of the community. She was even selected
as Ambassador and helped give tours.
Gloria lived her life to the fullest, always seeking meaningful relationships with those
around her. She died in peace knowing that she was surrounded by her friends and
family who loved her dearly.
The family would like to thank the staff and caregivers at Elmcroft for the love and care
Gloria received while there. Also a special thanks to Lula Phillips, who cared for her in
such a meaningful way when the needed it the most.
Services for Gloria will take place at Northside Methodist Church in Jackson. Visitation
will begin at 10am. The funeral service will follow at noon. Family and friends are invited
to a reception beginning at 2pm at the McCarter homeplace.
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