Engineer Kayode Fashokun had a life of fulfillment. He was always in high spirit whatever life brought him. He was a good natured fellow, who could not be easily offended and was able to get along with all.
He had an optimistic disposition to life. He was a lifelong friend of late Professor Olukunle Adegbola.
My family commiserated with his wife Bukola , children and grandchildren and sends our condolences on the transition of Engineer Kayode Fashokun to be with the Lord.
His death was at a good old age 
May his soul Rest In Peace.
Mrs.Bukun Adegbola and family.

Sir Engineer Emmanuel Olukayode Fashokun was a man of distinction and integrity but above all to me he was simply a favourite Uncle. Your presence in our lives was so special right from first meeting you in the early 70’s. I then had the pleasure of staying with you and the Fashokun family. I have fond memories of those days which include your crackling laugh and great sense of humour, love of pounded yam (with bush meat), your love of football, love of the Board game Ayo and your collection of video box sets such as the James Bond set of movies.  You had exceptional knowledge of world issues and cultures, gained from your love of travelling. However, it was always clear that no matter where in the world you had been your first love was Imesi-ile, Osun State, Nigeria. Whilst it is with great sadness that we bid you goodbye it is good to know that your final resting place is home at Imesi-ile. Sir rest in peace.

Some people’s presence feels unending—their unwavering love becoming a cornerstone. For the E.B. Lucas family, Sir Emmanuel Olukayode Fashokun was one such person—a constant and a true blessing.

During Uncle’s speech at my dad’s 70th birthday (2005), he quoted a proverb, "bí ewé bá pẹ́ lára ọṣẹ, á dọṣẹ", meaning, "If a leaf stays wrapped around soap for long enough, it becomes part of the soap". Uncle embodied this. His friendship with my dad became an inseparable bond, woven into the very fabric of our family. Their bond began long before Adebola and I were born. Uncle attended Ilesa Grammar School, where my granddad was a maths teacher. On completion, as he prepared to leave for Zaria to study engineering, my granddad sent him to my dad, who was already there, also studying engineering. That began a lifelong friendship, marked by loyalty, mutual respect and love.

I cannot think of anyone who has been like Papa Debola to us. Loving and devoted, he always made time to create cherished memories. As kids, we were thrilled by trips to the Lagos airport to watch planes take off, Apapa Amusement Park, excited by driving bumper cars. All we did was ask, and Uncle made it happen. 

Once he visited us in Ibadan. My parents were out, just my twin cousins and I. Uncle drove a VW K70 back then. I eagerly asked him to take us to the Ibadan Aerodrome. With a smile, he agreed. It was a quiet day at the aerodrome—no planes in sight, just an empty runway—but the joy was in the experience, and Uncle made it feel like an adventure—simple moments etched forever in my memory.

I will deeply miss Uncle’s phone calls: “Hello Afemo!”, which Nike now says. I’ll miss our conversations about the Premier League, politics, etc. Uncle’s passing made me cry like a child. Yet, I am profoundly grateful to GOD for the beautiful life he lived, the legacy he left, and the immeasurable blessing he was to me and the Lucas family.

2 Cor 5:8 “…to be absent from the body and to be present with the LORD

Sir Engineer Emmanuel Olukayode Fashokun was truly a gentleman’s gentleman. With a sharp mathematical mind and an unwavering dedication to engineering, he exemplified excellence in his chosen career at NEPA building electrical infrastructure all over Nigeria. 
 As a devoted family man, he raised three remarkable children in Nigeria, one of whom is my beloved wife. His passion for Manchester United was unparalleled, having supported the team since the 1950s. Beyond his professional and personal achievements, he was an extraordinary traveler and storyteller. And his story inspires one to travel and have great adventures.
Sir Emmanuel’s life was a testament to making the most of our time here. He believed that life is a precious gift, and it is our responsibility to cherish it and prepare for what lies beyond. His Christian faith is important to him, he goes to his church regularly and is a knight of John Wesley.  His journey was marked by resilience, compassion, and unwavering faith. He taught us to make a positive impact on those around us. His legacy reminds us to live with purpose, love deeply, and leave a lasting mark on the world. Adieu, Sir Engineer Emmanuel Olukayode Fashokun.

I came to know Sir Engr Fashokun in the mid 70s. Since then I have been having very warm and cordial relationship with the family. 
Sir Fashokun was an embodiment of courage, determination, resourcefulness, conviction, dedication to a purposeful course, generosity, compassion, commitment to making positive impact on the society and hardwork. He was a Christian of Methodist denomination. 
Time was when Imesi-Ile had pipe borne water from Esa Odo dam, before the system was defunct. When it was difficult getting  water to Imesi-Ile from the dam, Engr Fashokun was instrumental to connecting the booster station at Otan Ile to the national grid, thereby making it cheaper and easier to pump water to Imesi-Ile then.
As a senior staff of NEPA, he was always making sure  then that Imesi-Ile was supplied with electricity as much as it was practicable. 
He and his family supported all the development projects in Imesi-Ile  in cash and kind.
He loved dearly his country, town, his Imose extended family, and all those who came in contact with him. Anytime we communicated,  he would always ask about the progress in the town, schools especially The Polytechnic Imesi-Ile, and Methodist Churches in Imesi-Ile. 
Since relocating to USA, he made sure he visited home at least twice a year ; and most times l was at ,Imesi-Ile. On 13 August this year, he phoned from Imesi-Ile, but I was not privileged to travel home, and that was my last contact with him. There was no sign that the end was near. 
God is good, and God is great. I am particularly grateful to God for the purposeful life and times of  Sir Engr Fashokun. He came, he saw and conquered. 
God giveth,  and God taketh. To God be all glory. Death is a necessary end of  every human being. I pray that it comes to each and everyone of us without stress at the appointed time. 
I congratulate the children and grandchildren for the grace they have in surviving their father and grandfather.

My deepest condolences to the families of Fahokun , my in-laws. 
I am Akin Emmanuel Omotosho. Tola’’s father. Tola is the wife of Bola Fashokun.

Since we became in laws sver years ago, my name sake (Emmanuel) became close personal friends who speak with each other frequently. 
We both tell each when we are going to Nigeria and our purpose of the journeys and we talk frequently about the challenges facing our families at home  and America.. we pray on the phone for them and our grandchildren.
I particularly cherish the trip I made to Houston almost a year ago, October 7, 2023 for one of my friends birthday. I sized the opportunity to come to my name sake's home.
I met Mrs. Fashokun, Nike and her husband. 
Knowing our passion for ponded yam, he insisted that we eat before we leave even though Nike has to make emergency but delicious soup. My friend, Peter Fakolade who came with me from Chicago remarked later that because of our conversations, sitting closely while holding hands while we talk and laugh said that he was surprised we in-laws and not brothers.

Again we we spoke more frequently on  receent trip while in Nigeria. We talked while in Lagos and Imesi. We talked when arrived to Houton. And I supposed to call him on Sunday when I was notified that he was in the hospital. I mediately called Bola who confirmed the situation that I immediately dismissed as temporary inconvenience. 
However, God gives and takes when journey of life is accomplished!
I pray that name sake: Emmanuel Olukayode Fashokun rest in peace.

Some of the most enduring memories of my childhood were made in the time spent with grandpa over school breaks. Whether on rides back from church or in the living room after dinner, he would share an abundance of stories about his experiences and family history and reminisce about the old Nigeria. These conversations left an indelible mark on my person and worldview.

His independence, agency and mental acuity still inspire me. Watching him go up and down the stairs multiple times in a day or remembering exact dates of obscure events was always a marvel.

All in all, I’m very grateful to have had the privilege to have known and spent time with grandpa. He was an incredibly generous man who believed in the importance of family and ensured that we understood and were proud of our family history. His absence has left a void that only God can fill.

Sleep well, grandpa.

My grandpa never made me forget  I was a princess.
Princess Adewemimo- he would call me, always  making sure the “Ade” came first, reminding me I was a princess through and through.

I grew up with that knowledge in view. 

I can still hear the sound of His laughter and his steps on the stairs. He took us as His and not once did I doubt his love for me.

The trips to the mall, and small wads of cash he would squeeze into my hands when my parents weren’t looking.

I felt the love without him needing to say. 
Grandpa has left a void in my heart no one can fill.
I love you till the end of time. 
Sleep well Grandpa.

I have many memories of Grandpa making me feel like I walk on air. I had an obsession with cashews as a teenager and would look forward to his trips back to Nigeria. He would embrace me and say, “Princess, let me go upstairs to get your cashews.” 
It was wonderful to be surrounded with the warmth of his presence.

Grandpa loved to tell stories. He would tell them with animated detail and I was mesmerized by how much life he had lived. 
Through these stories, I began to understand how much he valued family and why he took on such a huge responsibility. 
I also got to see his selfless nature and his gravity defying sense of humor. 

I remember the football mornings, the ever-so-loving frustration with the political climate and the way he would talk about his plans. I thought, “why does he always think about everyone?” Now that I’m older and wiser, I can see that he has set the bar incredibly high. 

Grandpa was my link to Imesi-Ile history. There was always something fascinating he knew. So many facts to uncover, so many things to laugh about. I can still hear his laughter. His deep laughter, ever so slightly stuttered, filling up the room. 

Lately, I have begun to recall more memories. I remember all the times he began his sentences with “believe you me.” I remember him getting mad at my professor for being lazy about grading my essay even though I was in the wrong. 
Even now with the weather changing, I can hear him saying, “Princess make sure you dress well for the cold.” 

I love you forever Grandpa.

Daddy was a great man in all ways. An embodiment of love and compassion. I was introduced to him when I was engaged to my husband, since then I became his daughter. He loved me the way a father loves his children. I remember when I had my first child at the hospital, he was at the hospital around 7am the next day. He was always available.

Daddy was always on time. He was very detailed and always up to date with things going on around him. He believed in the truth and was incredibly loyal to his family and friends, always looking out for the best of all. He was highly independent, generous and intelligent. He always remembered precise dates when he told stories.

The times my family spent with him, whenever he visited Nigeria will forever be cherished. Those times brought me closer to him. Daddy was a man full of wisdom and always appreciated even the smallest things. There is no end to the beautiful experiences I had with him. I can go on and on.

To say I will miss him sorely will be putting it lightly. I pray that God will console all of us and grant us the fortitude to bear this great loss.

It certainly would be an understatement to call it a rude shock, the news of the passing of my beloved Brother did catch
me unawares! Not because he was too young to go, but for the manner of his departure. I saw him off, a very healthylooking
man, with a hug at the MMAirport just a few days earlier and, as usual, by His grace, he landed safely.
To have been told “he didn’t make it” a few days after his arrival to the US was something totally incomprehensible to
me. This lays bare to us the brevity of this life and the need to live well and live wisely. We thank God our brother, Sir
Engr. Emmanuel Fashokun lived well and lived wisely: He didn’t leave some of us in doubt that he was ready

If there’s one thing everyone will always remember about Grandad, it’s his smile and I will never think of him without it. I am so blessed to have such beautiful memories with him, and to know how deeply he is loved by so many. 
Rest in peace Grandad, love you forever.

I will always remember my grandad as someone who had a smile that lit up the room, a walking pace that must be breaking a record somewhere and a grapefruit to start his day. 

"My dear son" he would proclaim when my father called, "my princesses" he would call my sisters and I. 

But it's not just about how I will remember him, it's about how all of my siblings, his grandchildren, his children, my grandmother and the wide reaching group of people whose life he touched will remember him. They will remember a smart, warm and generous man. 

To celebrate his life will be easy, he gave us many a reason to rejoice in our name.

“Words are poor tools at the best of times “. Mario Puzzo

You effectively played the role of a father figure after the passing of my father (your senior brother).
You filled a void that could have been devastating. 
Good night, my dear uncle

Goodbye grandad, I will cherish all the memories we have together and love you always. 
Thank you for all your kindness and your warmth. 
Love, 
Steffi

Fehintola Fashokun
Family
09/17/2024
When God was making husbands, he made a special soulmate for me. He made a gentleman, compassionate, and kind with more love and affection than you could ever wish to find. He gave my darling husband a heart of solid gold. He was someone irreplaceable that I could always talk to.

Of all the special gifts in life, having you as my husband was the greatest gift of all. I wish I could see you one more time walking through the door and hear your voice. I know you can feel my tears and you don't want me to cry. Yet my heart is broken because I don't understand why I had to lose someone as precious as you. I pray that God will give me strength and get me through as I struggle with this heartache that came with losing you. I miss you.

When God was making husbands, he made a special soulmate for me.  He made a gentleman, compassionate, and kind with more love and affection than you could ever wish to find.  He gave my darling husband a heart of solid gold.  He was someone irreplaceable that I could always talk to.  

Of all  the special gifts in life, having you as my husband was the greatest gift of all.  I wish I could see you one more time walking through the door and hear your voice.   I know you can feel my tears and you don't want me to cry.  Yet my heart is broken because I don't understand why I had to lose someone as precious as you.  I pray that God will give me strength and get me through as I struggle with this heartache that came with losing you.  I miss you.

You modeled love for life, God, family, and friends.  You gave me a love for soccer.  An interest in current affairs, humanity, and justice.  A love for math and science.  I took after you and became a civil engineer with a passion for building infrastructure that improves lives.  You traveled the world and let me know the world was my oyster.  You loved your daily brisk walks.  Like those walks, you did not cut corners in life.  Your schedule was based on precision time.  You have completed your walk.  You decided your 84th September 11 birthday will be in heaven.  Unfortunately, no exit time would have been satisfactory to those you left behind.  All I can say is thank you daddy. Rest in Peace!

In Loving Memory of a Remarkable Man, Emmanuel Olukayode Fashokun "My Dear Dad"

I honor the life of a beloved Father, Grandfather, and a guiding light to many. My father-in-law was a man of grace, wisdom, and constant warmth. He greeted life with a radiant smile, a smile that always brightened the room, and one that I will forever hold in my heart.

He taught me the beauty of Yoruba greetings, ensuring that traditions lived on through our conversations. His love for punctuality was not just a habit, but a reflection of his respect for time and for others. Always on time, always present, he set an example for all of us in the way he lived his life.

Affectionately calling me "Dear Daughter" and my children his "Prince" and "Princess," he made us feel cherished and important every single day. His daily walks were a testament to his vibrant spirit—he could walk fast, as though he was always excited about what life had to offer, embracing every step with enthusiasm.

Though we will miss him deeply, we are comforted by the many memories we shared. He shared his name, Emmanuel, with my father and my son, binding us in a special way. His love and legacy will forever live on in our hearts, and we were truly blessed to have had the time we did with him.

Farewell, "Dear Dad" Father, Grandfather, and Friend. You are well-loved, and you will be greatly missed. But in the joy of your memory, we find peace that only God can can give.

Myself, Chief Moses Babalola Fashokun and the entire members of Fashokun’s family, we all weep for the exit of all illustrious Brother, Husband, Father, Grandfather, in-laws and friends, Sir Engineer Emmanuel Olukayode Fashokun, a great gift from God to humanity on the 4th September 2024 when he answered the home call almighty God.
Sir Engineer Emmanuel Fashokun was born into a great dynasty of the Fashokun family of Imesi-Ile. on the 11th September 1940.
He attends Methodist primary school Imesi-Ile Methodist primary school Otapete Ilesa and finished in 1954.
He attends Ilesa Grammar school 1955 and completed his secondary school Education successfully in 1959. He went to the Nigeria College of art and technology in 1960 which later became the prestigious Almadu Bello University Zaria and graduated with Bachelor of Science in Civil Engineering. After the completion of his education he worked briefly with a company before he move to ECN which later turned to NEPA he worked with NEPA and rose to the highest position before he retired meritoriously.
He was blessed with a God Fearing wife, and good children.
Sir Engr. Emmanuel Olukayode Fashokun is a commited Christian, a very good Methodist, humble respectful, a philanthropist, generous, sympathetic and lover of people’s children’s and clergy men. He had very good manners; he never failed in his duties and was a man of his words. He fought the Battle and kept faith. A great Imesilian has passed on, May his soul rest in perfect peace.
On behalf of the Fashokun Family, Imesi-Ile.

An icon has passed on to glory, another great star has fallen, it was sudden, shocking, painful and incredible but glory be to God, you came, you saw and you conquered (courtesy shakes pears)
Engineer, as I fondly call him, a bosom friend, a true confidant a dependable and reliable companion. Yours sudden departure shocked me to the marrow because a couple of weeks before then, we were still together in Nigeria.
I missed your beyond what I can described, God knows best.
Glory be to God, you lived well and lived a fulfilled and accomplished life. I remain very proud of you and ever grateful for all that we share and close friends. You were a role model.
You were a unique patriot, passionate about things concerning the church, your place of birth Imesi-Ile and the community at large.
You supported the Methodist Church Nigeria particularly your local Church Otapete Cathedral (MCN) Imesi-Ile. Your moral and financial contributions were enormous and noteworthy. You were duly appreciated and rewarded as follows:
i.	Otun Baba Ijo Methodist Cathedral Imesi-Ile (Deputy Leader of the Church)
ii.	Pillar of support award 		-	2024
iii.	Meritorious service award 	-	2024
The Methodist Church Conference, the highest organ of the Methodist Church Nigeria also awarded you the highest honorifics tittle of the Church. You become a title holder of the Knight of John Wesley kjw; a title/honour normally awarded to upright and distinguishes members of the Church.
You are true family man. You loved and cared for your nuclear and extended family and all people around you. I see you as a true child of God. You were simple, humble and lived a fulfilled and accomplished life. You had a passion for caring for people around you without discrimination. You were never self-centered. He shared his financial means with all and sundry.
Our friendship spanned over six decades.
Adieu a great patriot, a true confidant, a reliable friend. We all missed you.
May your great soul rest in peace

Tribute to my dear uncle & father;  Sir Engr Olukayode Fashokun.
He was much more than a beloved uncle, he was a pillar of strength , a beacon of generosity.
His life was defined by  love,kindness,generosity & commitment to his family, church & the community.
He had a unique bond with my mum , showing extraordinary care & devotion throughout her life; this deep affection extended to everyone he knew.
Growing up,l & my sister cherished family picnics at Tarkwa bay & holiday trips with Uncle to Imesi- ile.
His passion for his hometown &its people was apparent in every visit & his pride in its culture n tradition was unwavering.
My Uncle had a remarkable ability to spot suffering & extend a helping hand without hesitation.
His life was a model of compassion & integrity.
His legacy of love & dedication will continue to inspire us.
Rest in peace, dear Uncle.
You were a true example of a life well lived, and your memory will forever remain in our hearts.
BUKIE  AJIBOYE

Daddy, I was sad to hear the news of your passing on Thursday 5th September. We spoke on 17th August, when you told me that you were at Imesi Ile, and at the end of our conversation, you said “love you Dupe” and I said I love you daddy. That was golden for me, little did I know it was the last time we would speak. You loved your home town and the organic pounded yam and efo riro and I am grateful to God for given you the grace to visit there for the last time before He called you home. I have known you as a good father since I was little. You were known to my siblings (Tope, Ike & Yomi) and I as my mum’s best cousin. While my mum called you cousin, you called her princess. Out of all the cousins my mum had, we grew up to know that you were her best cousin. The best thing you did for my siblings and I was introducing us to your children (Debola, Nike and Sade) and you made us have a great relationship with them and they remain our favourite cousins. You took us to Imesi Ile to spend Christmas with you and your family and it was the best Christmas ever. You loved my parents and you loved us. I can’t forget many times you branched at our place on your way from Imesi to Lagos, and seeing your car made us dance because we knew that you would make us happy. I lived with you and your family in Lagos when I was in Yaba Tech, you treated me the same way you treated your children, you loved me the same way you loved your children and you celebrated my birthday like you did for your children. I never for one second missed my home when I was with you because you treated me well. God used you in so many ways for me to excel in life and I am forever grateful for that. You have played an important role in my life since my dad passed. I will miss you greatly dad, your love, support and smile. Good night daddy until we meet again at the bosom of God. Rest in peace. Dupe Olatidoye.

I was deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Uncle and my heart goes out to the entire Fashokun family during this incredibly difficult time. Words can't begin to express the sorrow I feel, but please know that I am thinking of you and keeping you all in my prayers.

Uncle was such a special person and his memory will forever be cherished. Grief is never easy but you are not alone and my prayers are with you all every step of the way.

Please don't hesitate to reach out if you need anything. Sending all my love and deepest condolences.

GOD BLESS ! AND MAY UNCLE'S SOUL REST IN PERFECT PEACE!! AMEN!!!

OBITUARY

Emmanuel Olukayode Fashokun

September 11, 1940 – September 4, 2024

Brookside Funeral Home-Cypress Creek

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